*bows* lol
heh heh gotta love the drama! we keep this forum alive and kickin'!

you do realise you just killed furball right? ok that's it *jumps into ring,grabs vamp's head and slams it on floor of ring until he is dead* ok now i wonder if Stone COld found Hate_Breeder yet

hey, decapitated and mutilated furballs can still work, however dead penguins wouldn't work too well.

Re: How do you guys cope with stuff?
 

My biggest coping methods for troubling times is taking it head on, soaking in the misery, and just flat-out accepting it and understanding it. I have had way too many of these incidents within the last few years, the hardest being a divorce from my partner of 10 years.

The marriage itself only lasted about 2 years...but it was a tough time getting over that because we really didn't have too many problems compared to most married couples. But, everything happens for a reason and I just literally listened to every possible sad song, read old letters from her, looked at pictures...cried when I needed to, and then BAM...it is now all in the past.

So, anyway...I take the same approach with everything bad in my life. I take it on...and knock it the fuck out! I also have a thing I do called "Black Tuesday," partly because I hate Tuesdays. But, I sit in complete darkness in my room, turn on some mood-heavy music, and I draw whatever comes to mind...not being able to see exactly what I'm drawing until I have finished "coping" and turn the lights back on.

This accomplishes some much needed time alone, and some insight into my feelings. Then I assess my mood and try to change things in my life that may be causing some problems.

Damn...I didn't realize I was rambling so much, sorry.

But, good topic.

Not rambling. Very good way to deal with things.

I should take a leaf out of your book...

I am gonna try!! Tackle things head on instead of hiding from the world until it goes away.

LMFAO!!!!!! :D

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Holy shit! you sound like my ex! Sure wish he would just get over it all . You seem to know yourself pretty well. :)

still LMFAO!!!!!!! :D you young'ins are quite amusing at times. You would think you two have been married for 30 years!!!!!! :D

back to our regularly scheduled program ..

how do i cope ... i look at people more unfortunate then me with the understanding thet there are these people out there that would consider my worst day their best.

it puts a real perspective on things.

try it - it works...

no matter how bad it gets .. i'm not lying in a field somewhere coated in flies, dying because i havent eaten in a week.



and on that cheery note ..

i want you people to note that i actually brought a derailed thread back on track.

Thats a first !!

You must have completely lost your mind finally................ the only explanation...............:eek:

that m'lady, is a very real possibility !

To cheer myself up i go spit on the homeless.

WHAT THE FUCK ARE SOME OF YOU IDIOTS TALKING ABOUT!

Did you read the fucking thread topic?

*Walks in*

What the fuck?

*Hits joint and stumbles outward*

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Trust me...he WILL get over it.

No ONE person is that god damn important to waste your time/emotions on. (no offense).


Were you guys married?

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oops.

Didn't mean to double post. :mad:

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not after it's over - anyway.

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'zactly.

And when you're together...you have to act like they are the most important thing. (well, I had to, at least).

HAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

Well, at least you are trying to clean them up a bit.

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well, in all honesty if you are with the right person - that comes naturally ... until you have a kid .. then they become the focus :)

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Yes we were, and if I knew how much hassle it was to get out of a marriage would have never done it in the first place :rolleyes:

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Agreed.

Well, I don't have any kids...but, I can see how the focus would shift.

But, it is truly all about being with the right person. Then nothing is forced.

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But be glad that you did. There are so many people out there who remain unhappy just for the sake of not rocking the boat, or fear of uncertainty.

(or for the sake of kids, if they are involved).

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I am.
No kids involved just animals. That was hard enough. :(

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thats ok, you'll be getting a brand new animal soon !!!

:D

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lol.........:p ;)

Well I have never been dumped.. Only ever been with Cheeba.

I have only ever lost one person in my life and that was my dad, who died about 11 years ago. But I never really went through a sad stage with that, I just let it go. My brother helped me with it also, he took me ski-ing shortly after the funeral and because I was pretty young it didn't affect me that badly.

As for coping with things. Well music helps me heaps. I dont care what kinda music just anything. I also have a diary which I can let everything out. Just being on my own helps to. Having heaps of animals is a great thing too. They seem to know that something is up and wanna help ( I know that sounds stupid but I love my animals greatly).

^^^^^^^^^ That was funny!!

Sounds exactly like me. :)

Cool. :cool:

get back here and fight STE

...

what's wrong with his arms?

I have no clue.

that's a weird picture... we don't sound like we've been married for thirty years!

yes you do

ahhh bite me

see what we mean?

In which way does that make me sound like I've been married for thirty years?

the arguing part

I can't help that... I'm a pessimist.