Thanks everybody. I went and hung out with a friend and i feel much better now. It really helps knowing that you all took the time to write something. It really makes me feel like you all care so thanks again.

It sounds impossible

You gotta look at all the good things in your life. Being single can be lonely and depressing but it's a great time for reflection and learning yourself. Change is a great thing.

I don't recommend self destruction, drinking, smoking, drugs, self pity. It does no good in life. You won't feel better in the end.

And remember, it's her loss. Not yours.

Sorry, Mr. Villain, that totally sucks.

I have to say that I agree with J here:

For me, the best thing was to hang out with friends - Try to avoid being alone (because my mind would unravel and ultimately torture me)...

Try finding something that will absolutely engage you... If reading can capture you, sit and read and jump into a book (maybe something that's completely fantasy or out there to remove you from this world)... Or have movie marathons... I recommend getting out of the house, even if it's to go over to someone else's to watch movies and etc.

I absolutely agree with Mr. K too:

I would try to drown my unhappiness with booze, which ultimately lead to me doing, uhm, things that I would regret (sexy-things) - Sometimes this helps people get over it, but for me it just made me feel empty.

Just find what works for you to get your mind off her and moving in a positive direction.

Forward movement is key. Try not to sit around and be still. Not as easy as it sounds, but that's the biggest key in my mind.

Working out might help too - Sometimes you can just exhaust yourself, but you feel good afterwards - Gives you a feeling of accomplishment.

Good luck moving on villain I hope you can find peace of mind-I always watch my fave horror movies when down-I find them uplifting-so whatever you can do to keep busy as everyone has said should help you. Keep your mind occupied so you don't dwell and stay well. Best of luck to you :)

That sucks man. I'm going through the same thing myself right now. All I do is try to keep myself busy and hope for the best. I'm not very good and giving advice right now.

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Daaayyyyyyuuuuuuuummmmm

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Thanks again everybody. It sucks but i'm moving on and i know its for the best.

i agree with kasper, drinking can just make things worse in the long run, we all loose things in life we love but time is a healer. just remember when you are going through bad times the good times are round the corner, just take this time to find yourself.

Just don't do what I do and sit around and listen to sad music and get even more depressed.

Yeah i've made mistakes like that before during break ups so im not gonna do that now. Went out and hung out with a friend and now im watching a movie. I'm just gonna focus on myself and every day things will get a little better.