Yep, do that.

But make sure you also pursue the child support payments.

Even if you don't really need them.

Sounds like he deserves it. :)

My uncle's having similar trouble bu it's reversed. His psycho, money grabbing bitch of an ex-wife managed to get custody of the kids. While they were married she pretty much made out his other two kids didn't exist and got angry if they were mentioned, and she has done countless other things. I feel kind of sorry for her because it was her upbringing but still, she is insane. And yeh, she got custody over the kids. We haven't even be able to make contact with them for over two years now. She checks their phone calls, emails, everything. My uncle had to sell his truck driving business, his truck and move house and has nearly gone bankrupt because of it. That's what happens to and english man who marries a psycho in georgia and has an english hating judge in the custody battle.

Sorry, I just had to vent. But yeh, trust me, positive thinking is all it takes. I know it sounds weird but if you think postively, things will look up.