Stubborn... We love you, and we understand totally where you're coming from. His family is rotten at it's core apparently. He's free from them. Like Rayne said, anything you do will come back on you, but they will get their comeuppance. Stay strong, woman!

I don't understand...

Is the father fucking your wife, or your friend's mum?

This is a crucial aspect before my advice.

really not the best thing to ask him right now >=(

Sorry
 

People are assholes & it sounds like you got involved with the king & queen. Pull out & call it a day. These people are living in a soap opera called Life & your the guest star. Seriously ditch these folks.. :(

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I agree, also BR is spot on. These fucks will get whats due them after what they've done. Just take your memories of your friend and carry them with you, leave these people to rot.