Hate is pointless...only helps you crawl inside yourself and become a bitter person, gradually less and less receptive to what good there is in the world.
Just make sure you say what you gotta say to all parties involved, and move on. Whatever emotional "pain" you may be experiencing will become less significant with time, try not to let incidents in your past bias your opinions, or influence all your decisions towards your future, just let it guide you, and make you aware of others, yourself, and the knowledge that things don't always go as you'd hoped.
Learn to see potential, in both good and bad ways...become a more perceptive person. This may happen time and again, each time, a learning experience...whether or not you use it in a beneficial or detrimental way, is up to you.

I dunno if the place still exists, but instantvoodoo.com was excellent.

Edit: Yes it does still exist! http://instantvoodoo.com/default.asp?flash=true&
What to do there is pretty self explanatory. May be fun for ya & bring a smile to your face..... I know it is & does for me.

Bee Gees


I can think of younger days when living for my life
Was everything a man could want to do.
I could never see tomorrow, but I was never told about the sorrow.

And how can you mend a broken heart?
How can you stop the rain from falling down?
How can you stop the sun from shining?
What makes the world go round?
How can you mend a this broken man?
How can a loser ever win?
Please help me mend my broken heart and let me live again.

I can still feel the breeze that rustles through the trees
And misty memories of days gone by
We could never see tomorrow, noone said a word about the sorrow.

This holiday season, I also contributed to good cheer by writing the short story below. It is not a happy story, in fact it is rather grim, but there is much insightful philosophical content that may help those who are dealing with an emotional crisis like heartache. The story follows directly:


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"HOOTIE'S LITTLE RAT CHRISTMAS" by filmmaker2

Hootie is a lonely little rat on Christmas eve, so he goes into the kitchen and makes a gingerbread cake batter and then he calls Mr. Rat and Mrs. Frog and asks if they can come over and have supper with him but they say "NO" so he digs in the earth and invites a number of small bugs into his home to share the ginger cake but they get drunk and trash the place and take all his DVDs. That is my Christmas story, Thank You!!

filmmaker ROCKS.....can i get a HOOYAAHH

And I, also, feel the same way about Newb. He's okay!!!!!!!

Here's my advice, Nana.

Drink.

Talking is good, silence is bad. Time is the ultimate healer.

Now I feel like a schmuck.:p Personally, I do know that hating someone is a waste of my valuable time. So, how do you come to terms with a very powerful state of being, in this case hate, when it's such a part of your life?

~i look in the mirror
and scream in pain
i look at my mother
and scream in agony
now i look at you
and scream cuz ur all so happy~

I have hated my parents because of something that has happend to me and they were not there to help or save me.
Now i hate other people because i am bitter and my heart is broken and they only make it hurt worse.
I will hate people till my will is done or i die.