Aww...You poor thing...I guess it takes practice...




But...That made me giggle...I couldn't help it...lol:)

Its all good... tonight seems to be the night I self-depricate and get picked on, so have at it.:(

I dont think Id ever shave myself, I shave the south pole but thats about it. I would never do my legs and chest.

I've got some chains, a riding crop, and a cat 'o nine tails hanging in my closet (the latter two were in the children's section of an off-highway, christian-family-owned seuvinier shop), on the off chance I ever get to use them


I'll pretty much do whatever

*walks in, reads thread and sneaks out the back door

Oh, I'll bet you know how to keep a girl happy...The intelligent guys are usually pretty creative ;)

well um....er....shucks :o

I'm just fruity....

No. I wouldn't wear a dress or cross dress. You can call me insecure if you want, but it's fruity.

On a related note, this metrosexual thing is getting outta hand. If I see another dude with waxed eyebrows I think I'm gonna puke!

i dont equate being 'secure in my masculenity' with wearing womens clothing ...

thats like saying i'm 'secure in my 'lawlesness' bus i'm still comfortable robbing the odd bank ..


its just something i'm not into ...

by the same token i wouldnt expect the girl i'm with to do something she's not comfortable with ..
the one thing that turns me on more than anything else - is when the other person is turned on .. so it becomes this thing that feeds off itself...

so if one person is doing something that makes them feel uncomfortable or foolish - thats gonna get in the way of the
overall feeling ..

I'm man enough to be sensitive to other people - i'm man enough not to have a single trace of homophobia (to the point where i constantly remind the people here that using the turm 'gay' as a negative adjective is potentially hurtful to other members)
I'm comfortable enough in my masculenity to refuse to perpetuate the gender roll bullshit most parents enforce on their kids. I work for a woman, and i think she's the greatest boss in the world. I believe in and encourage 100% equality.

and i also think that if a guy does have fun doing any of these things ..then good on him .. do what turns you on as long as it doesnt hurt anyone.


thats about it for me and my masculenity.....and i'm very comfortable with it ..


oh - and i have a tought time shaving my face - i'm not going to put any other part of me through that torture ..
I'm extremely 'clean concious' and havent gotten any complaints in a long and illustrious career in the bedroom :)