Wear a wedding ring. Don't get the concept, but women love guys who commit and they love a challenge. Of course, then you will have to fake your divorce to continue the relationship, but you can always use the imaginary wife as an excuse to hang out with your buddies.
Seriosly, you can try learning how to tend bar. It will help you get over being shy. Women have to talk you to get their drink. If they are ordering for themselves, there is a good chance they are alone, most of them flirt to try and get a free drink, if they are still flirting after you make them pay a few times it's just because they like you. Occasionally you even get to play hero and throw out some pushy guy who may be bothering them. Hey, it's your job.
It takes about a day to learn the basics and a few weeks to memorize the basic drinks. You should be able to find some pretty lucrative part time bar tending gigs in CA.
I haven't done it in years, but if I wouldn't want to be single without it.
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