Too add on this- Yes you have to be yourself, that is the first half. But you also have to find someone who likes you for who you are. If you get with someone who thinks your someone you are not, than the relationship will not work. You got to find that one special girl, do not just settle for whats avaliable.
Regarding " if being yourself doesnt work .. you might want to have a good long look at your personality and figure out whats missing.", this is some bad advice urgeok. If you figure out what is missing, what do you do? Change your personality? It being yourself does not work with one girl, find another one. If she doesnt like you like you are that is her problem, not your's.

we're assuming he's an ok guy with bad luck or shyness issues.
I've seen a lot of people who are too unpleasant to have someone care for them.

if you are generally unlikable .. then i suggest taking a good look at yourself and seeing if positive changes could be made..


thats where i was coming from ..(not that i'm assuming this guy is that way either ... but it's a viable possibility)

I suggest that you get a good paying job and buy a fast fancy car. Then you'll get a girl that likes you.

more like she'll love the car......

You are so wise..

I hate guys with cars

i've got a van baby !

the shaggin wagon,


ohhhh yeahhhhhh

So guys crap standing up with their pants on? That explains alot.

you say you live in california???

whip out my shlong