One more thing, wasn't this thread re-surfaced so ferret could come out and so we could all show him some support? Not for mud slinging?

COnstantly refering to the fact they were homosexual when it seems out of place in the context of the situation..

Doesn't bother me but i was just pointing out these ppl exist.

Oh no you dIDN't, girl!..






That was me being gay.

Thats who they are. They arent doing anybody harm so with all due respect and not meaning to sound rude some people need to really grow up about it. Theyre gay, who cares? This is individualism. Its what makes each person unique. If you dont like them, okay, salute, but dont bash them for it. Thats just being an asshole. So whats the point?

I think some men are too hung up on being macho and makes them look like silly douche bags. But I am not going to call them straightees or whatever for it. They like men and that is a way of expressing that side of them. Like animals with mating rituals its like that with some gays. To some it is a means to attracting other gay men and letting them know im gay and im okay with it. They dont have to hide who they are because you dont like it and/or are offended by it. Flashing your asshole in a public place in somebodys face is offensive, talking with a lisp and limp hand gestures is not.

Being a man comes down to how honorable he is. You dont have to be Al Pacino to be a man.

Did the voices tell you that?
I never once "bashed" anyone about it...You absolutely moronic SAP.

Choose my words carefully?
Why bother? You just read/see what you want to anyway you fucking mental case.


...This is what happens when you skip your meds, people...

That you think IM the mental case is humorous in itself.

Yeah, totally.
It's obvious enough to KNOW it.
My bad, nutjob.

You're right yknow.
Congrats to the fella on being who he is.

I wouldn't normally kick up a stir but yknow, I try to do my best to bring reality to those that can't find it.

Well okay but while I agree that its weird to say youre gay every five minutes in a conversation cheeba was talking about flamboyant gays being in your face about it simply because theyre flamboyant. Theres nothing in your face about being flamboyant. Thats just WHO they are. I have a little nephew hes 8 years old and I just know when he grows up that hes going to be gay because thats how flamboyant he is already. Im pretty sure he doesnt just choose to be that way either.

I mean really, saying you are offended by a flamboyant gay guy merely because hes flamboyant is like saying youre offended by a black guy that wears baggy jeans and talks with "yo yo yo" in every other sentence and uses a lazy english language. There is no difference between the two examples. Its a persons mannerisms that Cheebas "offended" by. Thats intolerance.

Will you guys shut the fuckidy fuck up!!

Your dicks are equally massive.

happy now?

:D:D

Yeah, posher, I assumed you had guessed. :p

To be honest, professor, I see absolutely nothing wrong with what cheeba feels.

He's not saud he goes out beating up flamboyant or camp gays, he has just expressed a dislike. Who the hell are you to tell him what he can and can't like? as a matter of fact, your argument is based on the fact that people can't help of change how they think. Wow...smells of irony in here.

Not to mention your blatant bigotry nulling any chance you may have had of being taken seriously. You're criticizing his distain for a stereotype then you make a sweeping statement about Muslims mistreating women!

The fact that you even seem to deny that such a stereotype of gays exists only shows your own ignorance.

Hi ferret.
Good to see some common sense and sanity has re-entered the thread.
I could continue about all the things that have been misconstrued about what I've said but, in all honesty as long as yourself along with the rest of the people that make sense have got it right, I'm good with that.

Hope any waves with the family have died down, and all is well.
Any friends you've yet to approach with the news?

Well we can't have sanity now can we.


This thread was started about me and it shall remain.



*Throws a huge tomato at ferret*

**All done**

To the guys - Sorry for my end of this argument derailing the thread some...I'm sure your perception of me isn't at huge risk over this and that you know that I've never held who you are, as any kind of thing at all...
Hope all is good in any event.
I think I've said all I need to on the other BS so any further involvement of mine in here will just be my standard occasional randomness.

Anyway........

I believe that there were huge mentions of ME in the thread initially too.

I think that we should bring it back to its origins.

Lets all be gay!

No problem. I can't stand it when people are so quick to argue a point which really wasn't meant in a nasty way. You're still cool in my books. ;)

And yeah, of the family I've told it was only my dad who had a problem, and that was only because of a lack of understanding. He was, and most likely still is, worried I'll head down a path of drugs and promiscuity. He'll be fine. I've told a fair amount of friends, but I'm gonna wait for Dad to fully come to terms with it before I go fully public.



And how dare you Posher?! :eek: WE HAVE TO STICK TOGETHER! The war is out there, you hear me, out there!

Alot can be said for drugs and promiscuity though.

Never done drugs and never desecrated my body in a way that I wouldn't do it again and again and again and again.




With one person.

all gay boys do drugs, this thread is full of poppycock.

Is it the drug, that is penis?
I think you got the wrong flower there too...did you mean pansycock?

Hey-o!

All gay boys do drugs and bitches never shutup
 

Honey, the thread isnt full of "poppycock." Pay attention to what people are saying. Your delightful use of stereotypes is getting very stale. Just like the air in your parents basement.

Why's it always assumed, that when negative comments are made about someone, they so often live in their parents basements?
Is it worse for someone to live in the parents basement than just...living with the parents themselves?
I don't think there's all that many basements to begin with.

She's just pissed because she isn't getting any attention. Maybe i'd do drugs if you hadn't kicked me pole dancing and stolen them all :X

Wow, seriously? He DOES know that you can get trashed without being gay, right? ;)

It's so interesting that drugs+gay community seem intertwined in some people's eyes... The fags I've known have been totally sober and monogamous... Well, maybe alcohol and pot now and again, but who's counting? ;)

Anyway - I'm glad that your family stuck by you. Dad'll take some time and then he'll come around - You're right, it's all about education and persuading him that the perception isn't always the truth... We're all here for you, you know... And if you ever need to run away, you're more than welcome here in MA. And, hey, gay marriage is LEGAL here too, so that's a bonus. :cool:


I remember when I came out in high school - I was a sophmore and I was dating Erin, who was a senior. I told my mom and she was like, "You know, Amanda, you can still get... pressure... from girls too..."

So my coming out resulted in my first "sex talk" (well, the first "It's OK to say No" sex talk - The birds and the bees had already been explained to me before then)... :rolleyes:

The funny thing is that I had dated this guy Pat most of Freshman year and The Talk never came up then... So there we go with the promiscuity assumption again...

My dad was essentially fine with it - He always liked Erin, so was more than happy that I was dating someone smart, older, mature, etc etc etc...

LOL - the few Dykes I know are way worse than the blokes I know...Its probably just them though :-)

poppers are not drugs for fuck sakes

*pokes deadklown with a fireplace poker*


Ewww squishy

this thread sucks. pun intended.

kinky...next time place the tip of the poker in the fire for a few seconds before poking me

You're taken D:


I have chivalry

Chrono you rock
 

I can see you know what you're talking about. I would have said youve got your head screwed on straight, but you know...

Ferret my man, listen to this chick.

True
 

Good point. I am a bad person (of course Im a little devil):eek:

You know, I've had to deal with homophobes a lot, and they grind on my nerves after about 3 seconds.
My older brother isn't gay, but close enough that he gets shit, and I get to hear all of it.
The great part is, with a homophobe for a father, all 3 of his children support gays.
I'm just trying to figure out why they care so much.
If they think it's disgusting, then don't think about it.
If they say God is against it, by their own beliefs they aren't supposed to be the judge.
And if they are afraid of being hit on (sorry angra and the rest of you) just politely tell them to stop. If that doesn't work, be rude. That person is just retarded and can't take a direct hint. (Just like if anyone hit on someone of the opposite sex)
So all in all, if you don't agree with them, don't. Just don't be an ass hole.

Oh! And one more thing:

Has anyone noticed how people think lesbians are hot, unless it's their own daughter?

:p

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