Maybe my story will help you decide what you want. I couldn't make up my mind about online dating for a long time, but after my divorce, I just wanted to socialize with new people. Youth apps didn't suit me, so I was looking for something for adults. Eventually, I came across
silversex, a site where people my age socialize without the hassle and pressure. I met a girl who had also recently moved to a new city. Now we call each other, discuss books, and share life stories. Even if it doesn't lead to a relationship, I'm already happy to meet new people.