View Full Version : i thought i would handle it better
evil_blonde
08-20-2004, 01:45 AM
but death is hard to handle
Wicked Lady
08-20-2004, 01:50 AM
Originally posted by evil_blonde
but death is hard to handle when did you die?
Hate_Breeder
08-20-2004, 02:06 AM
Wow you emo kid :)
ShankS
08-20-2004, 03:40 AM
Originally posted by evil_blonde
but death is hard to handle
you just gone through a family or friend loss??
if so, very sorry to hear of the bad news. :(
if not, then whats up, pull yourself together....think about some good stuff. :)
nine9
08-20-2004, 05:42 AM
What happened Tink ?:confused: :(
Arioch
08-20-2004, 05:59 AM
Wow you emo kid
Ugh....emo is the worst insult ever....
bwind22
08-20-2004, 08:36 AM
Originally posted by Arioch
Ugh....emo is the worst insult ever....
Agreed.
But what the heck is this post about? Maybe an explantion is in order...
evil_blonde
08-20-2004, 03:33 PM
sorry guys.
do you remember awhile ago when i talked about my frined that has "premonitions"?
well so far every single one of them has come true, last night he told me he was going to die today.
hes the love of my life, i know none of you will believe me coz of my age. thats not the point.
emo?
Hate_Breeder
08-20-2004, 03:36 PM
I dont mean it. But im emo........see look......
fluffho
08-20-2004, 03:39 PM
theres 2 things i cant stand
pubeys....
and emos :D
moonsorrow
08-20-2004, 03:44 PM
Originally posted by evil_blonde
sorry guys.
do you remember awhile ago when i talked about my frined that has "premonitions"?
well so far every single one of them has come true, last night he told me he was going to die today.
hes the love of my life, i know none of you will believe me coz of my age. thats not the point.
belife or not... if it happens you have my deepest condolances and the listening ears of a stranger, Sorg feels your pain.
emo?
evil_blonde
08-20-2004, 05:06 PM
thx moonsorrow
feral cat
08-20-2004, 05:08 PM
whats emo? ... sounds like a muppet!:confused:
emos make me want to punch the wall
Hate_Breeder
08-20-2004, 05:36 PM
Originally posted by Oats
emos make me want to punch the wall
Emos make me wanna slit my wrists, cry, and write a song about it
Sam The Egg
08-20-2004, 05:39 PM
emos make me want to stab emos to death with a mellon baller, then watch a couple of Koalas have sex in a tree while listening to Steely Dan
emos make me want to write 3 chord ballads about graduating high school and hittin' up some keggers
Sam The Egg
08-20-2004, 05:46 PM
just remember...Am, D, and C...and if you're feeling REALLY daring, Am7sus4
Dark..Raven
08-20-2004, 06:10 PM
We have not had the chance to even Know eachother, But I am Sorry for your loss.....
GorePhobia
08-20-2004, 06:27 PM
so blonde did he die
orangestar
08-20-2004, 06:34 PM
:( I like emo....
and blonde, I hope you friend is okay...:confused:
evil_blonde
08-20-2004, 06:59 PM
tonight.
uh its gonna happen tonight.
11.45-ish. in NZ time.
about 8 hours away.
too much alcohol and weed, its gonna slow his heart, and then its gonna stop.
its so hard to believe.
i dont want it to be true.
but he doesnt want to do anything to stop it, and i know he could.
oh and fluffho, i didnt really expect you to understand or believe me or anything.
Sam The Egg
08-20-2004, 07:07 PM
so basically it's a self-fulfilling prophecy. That's not a premonition, that's him commiting suicide, albeit in a bit of a roundabout way
evil_blonde
08-20-2004, 07:10 PM
Originally posted by Sam The Egg
so basically it's a self-fulfilling prophecy. That's not a premonition, that's him commiting suicide, albeit in a bit of a roundabout way
so it would seem.
but he has said before that "suicide is a cowards escape"
i dont know
now i feel...worse i guess.
Sam The Egg
08-20-2004, 07:13 PM
well then this is his way of weasiling around that. He said suicide is cowardly, but now he wants to do it so he comes up with a half-assed "premonition", and since they've all been "right" before, he says he shouldn't bother and just "lets himself die"
wufong
08-20-2004, 07:16 PM
blonde your friend is attention seeking nut case. and you're not much better for believing that shit
evil_blonde
08-20-2004, 07:19 PM
Originally posted by Sam The Egg
well then this is his way of weasiling around that. He said suicide is cowardly, but now he wants to do it so he comes up with a half-assed "premonition", and since they've all been "right" before, he says he shouldn't bother and just "lets himself die"
well.....
fuck.
i hope that youre not right.
he does want to die though.
he could prevent it.
but he wont.
all i can hope is that it doesnt work.
wether this is suicide or just plain death.
evil_blonde
08-20-2004, 07:21 PM
Originally posted by wufong
blonde your friend is attention seeking nut case. and you're not much better for believing that shit
what the fuck would you know?
you dont fucking know him.
fuck off.
i hate you so much.
you have no fuckin right to say that.
he is not a nut case.
he is a real person, with real qualities, which i am going to miss greatly.
fuck the fuck off.
wufong
08-20-2004, 07:45 PM
well iwas tired so iwent and had a little nap. and low and behold ihad a premonition, and in it i forsee, you coming in here sometime tomorrow and posting a post about your friends untimely death. i also dreamed that he will die in a way that can't be dimissed as suicide. and in my dream you got a lot of awwwwww and o im so sorry's and you must be so upset let me consul yous.
nine9
08-20-2004, 07:47 PM
OMG! Tink! I just read this thread! ........I really think you just need to be a friend and be there for this guy..............but it is not a premonition..........sounds more like a plan!
Don't worry too much! I'm sure it will all turn out ok! These things are usually crys for attention..........been there myself! He knows you care, and if he wanted it to happen ....really........well he would not have told you!
Take care! Here for you bud!:)
wufong
08-20-2004, 07:58 PM
o i think someone is crying for some attention alright but......................nm.
i think you're a nice person nine. gulible but nice
nine9
08-20-2004, 08:12 PM
Originally posted by wufong
o i think someone is crying for some attention alright but......................nm.
i think you're a nice person nine. gulible but nice
WTF are you talking about wufong! Huh? gullible.....why because I am trying to give advice to a friend?
You know a lot of times these situations do work out badly.....
What exactly is it you are trying to say anyway?.......or dare I ask?
evil_blonde
08-20-2004, 08:34 PM
thnx nine
and wufong i get the fuckin message ok?
i see what you are saying, and i know none of you believe me, but hes not the type to just commit suicide.
he said he wasnt going to tell me, but for some reason he did. he has told nobody else. hes not depressed or troubled. hes just fine and fuckin dandy, yeah he wants to die, but not in an evil, bad, horrible way, he doesnt want to stop it from happening because of the consequences that may be inflicted. he has mentioned a couple of things which are like...heartbreaking and they kinda show that hes not doing it on purpose.
and im sorry, but you guys dont know what him and his brother are like when it comes to these "premonitions" and dreams etc
but now you guys have me worried sick, of course i was freaking out already, like fuck i wanted him to die, but for it to be suicidal is a hell of a lot more scary.
if it is i know who the cause of it is. shes awful...
:( :mad: :eek:
nine9
08-20-2004, 08:40 PM
Originally posted by evil_blonde
thnx nine
and wufong i get the fuckin message ok?
i see what you are saying, and i know none of you believe me, but hes not the type to just commit suicide.
he said he wasnt going to tell me, but for some reason he did. he has told nobody else. hes not depressed or troubled. hes just fine and fuckin dandy, yeah he wants to die, but not in an evil, bad, horrible way, he doesnt want to stop it from happening because of the consequences that may be inflicted. he has mentioned a couple of things which are like...heartbreaking and they kinda show that hes not doing it on purpose.
and im sorry, but you guys dont know what him and his brother are like when it comes to these "premonitions" and dreams etc
but now you guys have me worried sick, of course i was freaking out already, like fuck i wanted him to die, but for it to be suicidal is a hell of a lot more scary.
if it is i know who the cause of it is. shes awful...
:( :mad: :eek:
Well I believe you Tink........just recently I was really worried about someone here..........nearly made me insane till I knew everything was ok.......so I've been there ......though different circumstances.
Just try to calm down ........it is not going to help if you are freaking out.........your friend might need you! :)
evil_blonde
08-20-2004, 08:42 PM
thanks heaps nine.
but i have no way of contacting him, and hes going out in less than an hour, at which point he will start to drink..and smoke..and die...
:(
nine9
08-20-2004, 08:46 PM
Originally posted by evil_blonde
thanks heaps nine.
but i have no way of contacting him, and hes going out in less than an hour, at which point he will start to drink..and smoke..and die...
:(
Can't you go with him?
evil_blonde
08-20-2004, 08:48 PM
Originally posted by nine9
Can't you go with him?
thatd be a great plan.
if we forgot my age, my parents, and..a whole buncha other stuff.
cheebacheeba
08-20-2004, 08:51 PM
Yknow what Id do, if time and location allows, go to him.
Injure him a little...yknow, nothing too bad, just something that'd require medical attention and that's more than a little painful, it might wake him up some....then get him to hospital before he has any time to do himself in, tell them what he told you, and they'll either provide some counselling, some good drugs, or a nice bouncy room depending on how the PROFESSIONALS view his behaviour.
No point trying to decypher it yourself...obviously he has some kind of emotional problems, maybe stemming from his alleged psychic phenomena, or maybe he was making the whole thing up as a cry for help and/or attention.
It should not be for us to decide which, just to prevent bad things happening when we can.
So go smack him with a hammer or something...
nine9
08-20-2004, 08:54 PM
Deleted this one...posted twice:rolleyes:
evil_blonde
08-20-2004, 08:55 PM
id never be able to stab him, 1stly hes like double my size (in height) 2ndly, i wouldnt be able to find him 3rdly, i dont think id emotionally be able to do it.
other than that, its a perfect plan i guess.
nine, ive told him 100 times over that i love him and cant live without him. thats whats making me think its isnt suicide.
i guess i may not ever know...
nine9
08-20-2004, 08:55 PM
Originally posted by evil_blonde
thatd be a great plan.
if we forgot my age, my parents, and..a whole buncha other stuff.
Maybe just knowing how you feel will make him re- think things. Love is very powerful........I would do anything for the person I love!......caring about yourself is the hardest....... on his part I am meaning.........but you have to have some faith that it might make a difference.
bwind22
08-20-2004, 08:57 PM
He predicted that he's going to smoke and drink himself to death in an hour, huh?
:rolleyes:
When's the last time someone's heart exploded from that? He might get the munchies and the spins... maybe some puking in the morning from a wicked hangover, but I kind of doubt his heart is gonna blow. That's just my opinion.
wufong
08-20-2004, 08:58 PM
Originally posted by evil_blonde
thatd be a great plan.
if we forgot my age, my parents, and..a whole buncha other stuff. buncha opther stuff like .......mmmmmmm.....lets say that he isn't even real??????
cheebacheeba
08-20-2004, 09:01 PM
wufong....you should probably just shut up man....
It's either an emotional problem her friend has, or if she made it all up as you say, an emotional problem SHE has.
My point is, your input is useless here. They're not gonna listen to you - they don't like you.
I'm personally pretty indifferent to you, and your opinion HAS crossed my mind...but expressing it here is just unproductive...
nine9
08-20-2004, 09:03 PM
Originally posted by bwind22
He predicted that he's going to smoke and drink himself to death in an hour, huh?
:rolleyes:
When's the last time someone's heart exploded from that? He might get the munchies and the spins... maybe some puking in the morning from a wicked hangover, but I kind of doubt his heart is gonna blow. That's just my opinion.
Wow the voice of sanity for sure! Yes I'm sure I would have been in the grave many times over!
And...........go away Wu............to be polite .......:rolleyes:
I think she is a litttle too upset here to be making this up..........also E B is not exactly a new member.........
wufong
08-20-2004, 09:12 PM
Originally posted by nine9
WTF are you talking about wufong! Huh? gullible.....why because I am trying to give advice to a friend?
You know a lot of times these situations do work out badly.....
What exactly is it you are trying to say anyway?.......or dare I ask?
what i guess i'm trying to say is. that either, he isn't going to off himself.......or..................... there is no "him"
evil_blonde
08-20-2004, 09:14 PM
hes not gonna smoke and drink in an hour, hes gonna START smoking and drinking in an hour. more like 15 minutes now.
and then in about SIX hours..well we will see what happens.
im sorry to hear that you think i couldve made this up, unfortunately i havent. its as close to the truth as it is possible to be. (aka, the absolute truth)
All i can hope for is what i want and need, but nobody ever gets exactly that.
nine9
08-20-2004, 09:20 PM
Originally posted by wufong
what i guess i'm trying to say is. that either, he isn't going to off himself.......or..................... there is no "him"
WTF in the world makes you think she is making it up anyway?
She has always been a good poster...........valid opinions.....never trying to pull shit on people.
Even if she was which I'm sure she isn't..........I would still have said all the same things because that is the kind of person I am!
So now go away before I stop being so polite......Im sure there are lots of other threads to post on!
wufong
08-20-2004, 09:33 PM
Originally posted by nine9
WTF in the world makes you think she is making it up anyway?
She has always been a good poster...........valid opinions.....never trying to pull shit on people.
Even if she was which I'm sure she isn't..........I would still have said all the same things because that is the kind of person I am!
So now go away before I stop being so polite......Im sure there are lots of other threads to post on! well she is and you just watch her little sob story tomorrow about how she was the one who found her "friend" dead. and chee. when some crazy nutter goes around pretending he is henry the 8th. doctors don't go building them castles man.
nine9
08-20-2004, 09:38 PM
Originally posted by wufong
well she is and you just watch her little sob story tomorrow about how she was the one who found her "friend" dead. and chee. when some crazy nutter goes around pretending he is henry the 8th. doctors don't go building them castles man.
Ok now........it must be said........JUST SHUT THE FUCK UP WU!
FUCKING HAVE A LITTLE COMPASSION! Is that not the CHRISTIAN thing to do here?
You asked for it...............could have got out while you were ahead! :eek:
Stingy Jack
08-20-2004, 09:46 PM
As much as I may get flamed, I have to agree with wu here. I don't believe an iota in "premonitions", and it sounds like someone is trying to make EB feel really bad just to satisfy his own emotional needs. He probably doesn't even realize how malicious what he's doing is. My honest thought: Some guy really needs the attention of a girl, and he makes up this curse he has that enables him to see the future whether he wants to or not. Sounds really sexy and mysterious and cool ... just the right combination for a young girl who's into horror and mysterious stuff. Lately, maybe, he's felt that he really needs a big dose of attention and says this stuff about his death. Now think about this: If I was really precognitive ... I mean REALLY, and I KNEW that I was precognitive ... and I foresaw my own death ... I would NOT TELL ANYONE I CARED ANYTHING FOR about it. What would it serve, other than to get them all upset and worried sick? The only purpose TO say something like this to someone, it seems, is to get a big dose of attention. It probably makes him feel good to know that someone is worried about him, and he's basking in it right now.
bwind22
08-20-2004, 09:46 PM
Originally posted by nine9
Ok now........it must be said........JUST SHUT THE FUCK UP WU!
FUCKING HAVE A LITTLE COMPASSION! Is that not the CHRISTIAN thing to do here?
You asked for it...............could have got out while you were ahead! :eek:
Originally posted by wufong
well she is and you just watch her little sob story tomorrow about how she was the one who found her "friend" dead. and chee. when some crazy nutter goes around pretending he is henry the 8th. doctors don't go building them castles man.
http://www.ebaumsworld.com/forumfun/misc16.jpg
wufong
08-20-2004, 09:48 PM
yes compassion is a souly christian trait. but really when it comes to mental illness playing along with someone isn't copassion....... its like giving a thristy man a drink of salty water.
i still think you're a nice person nine..:D
Tubalcain
08-20-2004, 09:49 PM
i can feel for them though. wed 8/18/04 my best friend shot himself in the head and died, and thursday 8/19/04 one of my favorite aunts died of lung cancer. and the bad thing is my friend lived out of town, and i couldn't go to his funeral because i had to help set up my aunts funeral. just please be careful judging people, because you never know. and what really sucks is i was about 30 miles away from where my friend lived just a few weeks ago and i didnt go see him, even though i told my wife that i should. and as far as premonitions go, hows this for one. on the day he killed himself, before i knew he was dead, i was drinking a beer outside with my wife, and i poured the last sip out and my wife said,"you pouring that out for your homies?", and i said, "no, i'm pouring it out for my dead homies." then a few hours later i got the call. it freaked me out.
bwind22
08-20-2004, 09:51 PM
Originally posted by Stingy Jack
As much as I may get flamed, I have to agree with wu here. I don't believe an iota in "premonitions", and it sounds like someone is trying to make EB feel really bad just to satisfy his own emotional needs. He probably doesn't even realize how malicious what he's doing is. My honest thought: Some guy really needs the attention of a girl, and he makes up this curse he has that enables him to see the future whether he wants to or not. Sounds really sexy and mysterious and cool ... just the right combination for a young girl who's into horror and mysterious stuff. Lately, maybe, he's felt that he really needs a big dose of attention and says this stuff about his death. Now think about this: If I was really precognitive ... I mean REALLY, and I KNEW that I was precognitive ... and I foresaw my own death ... I would NOT TELL ANYONE I CARED ANYTHING FOR about it. What would it serve, other than to get them all upset and worried sick? The only purpose TO say something like this to someone, it seems, is to get a big dose of attention. It probably makes him feel good to know that someone is worried about him, and he's basking in it right now.
This is about 1000 times more likely the scenario then the dude being able to see the future.
Here, hows this.... Watch me predict the future right now...
Ummm.... He starts smoking and drinking right about now....
Let's see...... I'm getting something here.... Ah, he will pass out in about three hours and then wake up about eight hours later with a bad hangover.
nine9
08-20-2004, 10:00 PM
Originally posted by bwind22
http://www.ebaumsworld.com/forumfun/misc16.jpg
Who is that for..........me or wu?
bwind22
08-20-2004, 10:24 PM
It was for him I guess, not that you owned him that good or anything, I just wanted to use that picture because it makes me laugh.
:p
nine9
08-20-2004, 10:28 PM
Originally posted by bwind22
It was for him I guess, not that you owned him that good or anything, I just wanted to use that picture because it makes me laugh.
:p
LOL!
evil_blonde
08-20-2004, 11:01 PM
Originally posted by Stingy Jack
As much as I may get flamed, I have to agree with wu here. I don't believe an iota in "premonitions", and it sounds like someone is trying to make EB feel really bad just to satisfy his own emotional needs. He probably doesn't even realize how malicious what he's doing is. My honest thought: Some guy really needs the attention of a girl, and he makes up this curse he has that enables him to see the future whether he wants to or not. Sounds really sexy and mysterious and cool ... just the right combination for a young girl who's into horror and mysterious stuff. Lately, maybe, he's felt that he really needs a big dose of attention and says this stuff about his death. Now think about this: If I was really precognitive ... I mean REALLY, and I KNEW that I was precognitive ... and I foresaw my own death ... I would NOT TELL ANYONE I CARED ANYTHING FOR about it. What would it serve, other than to get them all upset and worried sick? The only purpose TO say something like this to someone, it seems, is to get a big dose of attention. It probably makes him feel good to know that someone is worried about him, and he's basking in it right now.
i am utterly sick of having to argue about this.
i think you'll find i know him a little better than the whole fuckin lot of you.
its better for me to know than not, because how would i find out? i wouldnt. i would be worried until someone told me, and i dont know if anyone would. that would hurt me more than anything, not knowing anything. not knowing what happened. where he went.
plus, if he wanted attention of a girl...thatd be rather lame of him. if he seriously wanted attention..well...come on, he could go out and get laid within a couple of hours if he was really that desperate.
evil_blonde
08-20-2004, 11:07 PM
Originally posted by wufong
well she is and you just watch her little sob story tomorrow about how she was the one who found her "friend" dead. and chee. when some crazy nutter goes around pretending he is henry the 8th. doctors don't go building them castles man.
i swear to fucking god i am not making it up
i wont find him, coz im not going to his house.
wether or not any of you believe me doesnt actually matter a great deal, because i know what im talking about, and how im feeling, i think thats kinda most important.
wufong
08-20-2004, 11:45 PM
Originally posted by evil_blonde
i swear to fucking god i am not making it up
i wont find him, coz im not going to his house.
wether or not any of you believe me doesnt actually matter a great deal, because i know what im talking about, and how im feeling, i think thats kinda most important.
i own a cat
evil_blonde
08-20-2004, 11:48 PM
Originally posted by wufong
i own a cat
im so happy for you.
i hope you treat it well.
aka, better than you treat the people on our forum.
Stingy Jack
08-20-2004, 11:51 PM
Originally posted by evil_blonde
i am utterly sick of having to argue about this.
i think you'll find i know him a little better than the whole fuckin lot of you.
its better for me to know than not, because how would i find out? i wouldnt. i would be worried until someone told me, and i dont know if anyone would. that would hurt me more than anything, not knowing anything. not knowing what happened. where he went.
plus, if he wanted attention of a girl...thatd be rather lame of him. if he seriously wanted attention..well...come on, he could go out and get laid within a couple of hours if he was really that desperate.
EB, I wasn't really trying to start an argument. I understand how upset you are, and I was actually hoping that I might be able to show you that you may not need to be so upset.
As far as the attention thing goes ... getting laid by someone who cares not a thing for you is not as emotionally satisfying as having someone who cares a lot about you be thinking about you. And it would be pretty lame of him if he is doing this for attention ... I know. I used to do the same thing. When I was fresh out of high school and had to compete for the attention of the ladies with men that were more mature and experienced and I, I made up a whole fake persona that I thought would make me appear more attractive ... and my persona was built entirely around the idea of being mysterious and maybe a little dangerous. I was able to pull it off because it was during my first year in college, in a town where absolutely nobody knew me. It is even easier to pull such a maneuver over the internet.
And I'm not really trying to judge this guy, because you're right when you say you know him better than the rest of us. But, some of the things he's doing ... I've done very similar things. So, I'm just speaking from experience. I recognize the behavior.
Besides ... if he's REALLY so adept at his ability to predict the future, why isn't famous now? Why isn't he showing scientists that precognition is a true and functioning ability in some people? There is no valid scientific evidence to support the truth to claims of precognitive abilities. And I have yet to actually hear someone predict something before it happens (they always say, after the fact, that they had some dream or something that predicted this event. Never before). Do you REALLY beleive that he's precognitive, and are the reasons you have for believing it valid (you personally witnessed an event that he predicted come true, for example)?
If I were you, I would really start asking questions about this guy before you end up in a situation where you're hurt even more than you're hurting now. Again, just speaking from experience.
evil_blonde
08-21-2004, 12:04 AM
well...wow....
i want to say thanks, youre obviously a very caring person, sorry for getting mad.
he knows im thinking about him all the time, wether he be dying or alive and kicking, hes like a continuous thought that never goes away. so to do this to me..well it'd be rather questionable.
and yes it makes sense for you to question him, and what hes doing, and why he isnt famous etc.
but, some things are better kept to yourself.
as far as i know, he has only told a very small amount of people (of which i am one) about these "premonitions" or "dreams" so its not as if he making something up and flaunting it everywhere to gain the attention of someone.
i believe him because i trust him, and because i love him.
i havent experienced anything like that specifically but minor things, like me being about to ask a question and him answering me before i ask. or when im talking to him or his brother online and i have to go and they say "bye, i know youre going" before i get a chance to say anything.
and in the case of me never talking to him again, i cannot ask any more questions.
im trying so hard not to believe him, im trying so hard not to believe that he may die tonight.
but what if he does? then thats gotta mean something.
i dont know if it is possible for me to hurt more.
but you never know i suppose.
Stingy Jack
08-21-2004, 12:15 AM
Well, I hope he doesn't die tonight either. That way, you can say: "What the hell? I thought you could predict the future!" ;)
Even so, don't be surprised if you don't hear from him right away. If this is an act (and I just say "if"), he'll probably disappear for a little while just to heighten your worry. But, he'll be back with some story about he was in the hospital and the doctors managed to bring him back after being clincally dead for a minute or so (at least, that's what I would have done back in the day when I did this sort of thing to girls.)
Seriously, the internet gives you the chance to reinvent yourself entirely, and I would not be at all surprised if this guy is actually very little like the guy he wants you to believe he is. And I don't want to say this to upset you ... just to sort of give you a warning to keep your guard up, and maybe to lessen the blow if it turns out I'm right.
But, I really hope everything is all as it appears (and he survives). You obviously care about this guy a lot, and I think that's great. I love seeing people get close on a deep, emotional level. It's refreshing. :)
evil_blonde
08-21-2004, 12:20 AM
thnx alot stingy, ur a pretty good mate eh?
and i didnt meet him online or anything ive known him for 3 years, in person. and although i dont see him alot in person hes very much the same as he always was. (and i saw him almost every single say for a year)
im trying to convince myself that he will be just fine, coz i cant imagine my life without him.
but theres still the chance of him being gone..forever..
Stingy Jack
08-21-2004, 07:22 AM
Originally posted by evil_blonde
thnx alot stingy, ur a pretty good mate eh?
and i didnt meet him online or anything ive known him for 3 years, in person. and although i dont see him alot in person hes very much the same as he always was. (and i saw him almost every single say for a year)
im trying to convince myself that he will be just fine, coz i cant imagine my life without him.
but theres still the chance of him being gone..forever..
Oh, well that changes things a bit. I didn't know you spent all that time with him in person. Could this thing he's doing possibly some sort of ploy to get you to come and visit him?
bwind22
08-21-2004, 09:41 AM
Originally posted by Stingy Jack
(at least, that's what I would have done back in the day when I did this sort of thing to girls.)
Lol! I know there's a serious tone in your discussion right now and pardon me for interupting, but I actually laughed out loud when I read that sentence. :)
Hey EB, how's your friend doing today? Hungover?
fluffho
08-21-2004, 10:06 AM
Originally posted by evil_blonde
oh and fluffho, i didnt really expect you to understand or believe me or anything.
ok where did that come from? i only said something about emos and pubic hairs
Originally posted by evil_blonde
i am utterly sick of having to argue about this.
i think you'll find i know him a little better than the whole fuckin lot of you.
so basically you wanted everyone to come here and pat you on the back and say how sorry they feel for you becuase you friend is clarevoyant?? you come here to tell us this story as much as you can, and we're all giving our seprate opinions..
Originally posted by evil_blonde
plus, if he wanted attention of a girl...thatd be rather lame of him.
he does sound pretty lame. do i feel bad for him? nope. and im saying this whether hes a stranger or one of my friends. i think hes an idiot and odds are he's gonna come out of this just fine. that is, aside from the fact that he made a complete fool of himself. BUt if he doesnt come out of this fine, whats that spell? suicide. some friend.
as yuo can see, it doesnt take me long to not give a damn about people. especialy when they try pulling BS like this "i can see the future, and im gona die" . pussy... as much of an ass wu sounds like, too bad a lot of it he was right.
bloodrayne
08-21-2004, 12:32 PM
For some reason, I just want to know if this guy actually died (which I SERIOUSLY doubt:rolleyes: )...And if not, then what he is saying about WHY not...
massacre man
08-21-2004, 01:10 PM
Originally posted by bloodrayne
For some reason, I just want to know if this guy actually died (which I SERIOUSLY doubt:rolleyes: )...And if not, then what he is saying about WHY not... i doubt it to
cheebacheeba
08-21-2004, 07:23 PM
You're welcome to give us an update anytime now, blonde...
Read ALL possibilities before hitting the bitch-mode switch, ok?
1: If you made it up yourself, as certain theories seem to be indicating, I might suggest you don't post in here for a while, and look at what's making you unhappy and/or attention hungry enough to make something like this up.
2: If it turns out he made it up, or just that he had an overactive imagination, well, it's not your fault you were bulshitted to - just know that in future not to place that much validity in his alleged clairvoyance from now on, that way, he'll only make an ass out of himself, and not bring YOU along for the ride.
I'm not saying that you should be totally unconcerned when a friend has issues like these, but it would probably be more productive to try and look at the situation a little more logically rather than freak out as much as he allegedly was, and if you beleive somebody is actually a danger to themselves, instead of posting in here about it first thing, just contact the authorities who (TRUST ME) can track him down. If a bunch of police and ambulances rock up at his place and he's NOT actually in trouble, they'd probably grill him hard enough for wasting their time, enough so to make him think twice about the things he is saying in the future...
3: If it's true, then he'd be dead by now. If he admitted that the cause of death was drinking and smoking,
(and unless he was drinking a draino shake and smoking asbestos, he SHOULD be fine)
and he DID die, don't let your personal feelings towards this person rule out the very obvious fact that in this case, it would have been suicide, a very inconsiderate act towards friends and family which I've got nothing more to say about.
- B.
evil_blonde
08-21-2004, 07:53 PM
im sorry that you bothered to listen to me, i guess youre right, maybe i shouldnt post here, its obvious that im not welcome.
ill try not to mention how im feeling ever again.
nine9
08-21-2004, 08:02 PM
Originally posted by evil_blonde
im sorry that you bothered to listen to me, i guess youre right, maybe i shouldnt post here, its obvious that im not welcome.
ill try not to mention how im feeling ever again.
:( Don't say that Tink!
I can't believe I'm even responding to this thread but c'mon people, 5 fucking pages of this shit. evil_blonde is only thirteen years old. Chances are her little friend isn't much older. I've got a son who is gonna be the same age in a month. And while we do have a couple of young posters whom can act and converse in an adult manner, evil_blonde has never really been one of those.Nothing personal eb, I'm sure your a sweet kid, but keep the kiddie stupidity and your little friend Nostrodamus JR. for the playground.
allmykids
08-21-2004, 08:21 PM
Evil-Blonde, I think your a great person and very much liked by me and alot of others. If it were my friend I would get help for him now!!! He sounds suicidal to me. I could never live with myself if my friend died and i did nothing to help!! Just a thought!! Either way I wish you and your friend are safe!!!
cheebacheeba
08-21-2004, 08:35 PM
"im sorry that you bothered to listen to me, i guess youre right, maybe i shouldnt post here, its obvious that im not welcome.
ill try not to mention how im feeling ever again."
- If you're referring to what I wrote, you know, I didn't tell you not to post here...just that IF you were having some kind of emotional crisis, perhaps you should prioritise your time management a little more, quit posting for a bit, and find out what it is thas bothering you.
If you read more into it than that, I hadn't intended for you to.
I DID offer three possibilities, all of which I believe had some kind of productive solutions, I WASN'T trying to have a go at you, if you read what I wrote carefully enough you'd see that.
If you posted on here to get input from others, you've got it.
I tried my best to provide insight and an honest, unbiased opinion on the matter.
Unlike some, I didn't just call you a fucking liar and leave it at that, you'll note that a little earlier, I actually mentioned how unproductive SOMEBODY else doing that was.
All I'm saying is that if you want to make a matter open for discussion, don't immediately dissmiss what other people are saying just because it happens to conflict with what you're already thinking.
Try and see things from one or two different perspectives, who knows, if you do, it might start making more sense than to go on the defensive warpath and lash out at anyone who is trying to offer assistance.
- B.
nine9
08-21-2004, 08:51 PM
Oh come on people! she is young ...was worried.......reached out to us........ her friends! Give her a break!
Hope everything is ok....prob is.....but you have to respect people's feelings....even if they seem a bit out there!
I know I have been in the same sit. where you are freaking just for not knowing. Come on guys........
:rolleyes:
orangestar
08-21-2004, 08:52 PM
I actually know how you feel EB, my best friend (and yes, love of my life) was talking about how he was going to die, and I kind of ignored it. Then it turned into suicide talk and I was the only one he talked to about it.
It turned out he was attention-whoring, but it freaked me out so bad for so long. If you really think this kid is going in the wrong direction somehow, please tell someone other than a horror forum who cant do anything about it.
fluffho
08-21-2004, 08:54 PM
Originally posted by evil_blonde
im sorry that you bothered to listen to me, i guess youre right, maybe i shouldnt post here, its obvious that im not welcome.
ill try not to mention how im feeling ever again.
*sigh*
your not so good with your people skills are you
cheebacheeba
08-21-2004, 09:00 PM
I'M CONFUSED...WHY IS IT THAT PEOPLE SEEM TO BE THINKING I'M ACTING THE ASSHOLE HERE?!?
fluffho
08-21-2004, 09:01 PM
Originally posted by cheebacheeba
I'M CONFUSED...WHY IS IT THAT PEOPLE SEEM TO BE THINKING I'M ACTING THE ASSHOLE HERE?!?
i dont think u r an asshole. u r a nice aussie boy
cheebacheeba
08-21-2004, 09:05 PM
Well thankyou...and you yourself seem to come across as a pretty nice chick from wherever you're from...?
I think some people just seem to take what I try to say the wrong way - seems like she thought I was ripping into her, and hey, I was just trying to be sensible about things...
fluffho
08-21-2004, 09:06 PM
Originally posted by cheebacheeba
Well thankyou...and you yourself seem to come across as a pretty nice chick from wherever you're from...?
I think some people just seem to take what I try to say the wrong way - seems like she thought I was ripping into her, and hey, I was just trying to be sensible about things...
since ur invisible im not sure how often you are around (sneaky omtherfucker arent u)
anyway, thats just the way she is. she is extremely emotional, likes to jump into all the 'fuck you you fuckin fuckity piece of fuck' and the 'ok ill never say anythign to anyone ever again ever' stuff... but i blame it on her being young....
still gets old though
reminds me of a slightly older version of lucky now that i think about it
bwind22
08-21-2004, 09:29 PM
Why haven't we received an update on the current state of rigor mortis that Nostradamus Jr. is in?
Could it be that he's fine? Merely hungover, perhaps? Is he dead and you are busy making the arrangements and therefore unable yo keep us informed?
:confused:
evil_blonde
08-21-2004, 10:39 PM
ok you guys, im accepting you all have different opinions about the matter.
i dont know exactly what has happened.
he may have died, at some point. but he is still here, although his memory is nothing on what it used to be, as in, he cant remember our past.
fluffho, im sorry thats what you think, hopefully i can act a little better in the future and at some point you may not dislike me so much.
che, i never said or thought you were acting as an asshole, sorry if i gave that kind of impression.
now if we can just get on with other stuff, there is no point in us discussing this furthur because all it seems to lead to is debate.
fluffho
08-21-2004, 10:51 PM
Originally posted by evil_blonde
fluffho, im sorry thats what you think, hopefully i can act a little better in the future and at some point you may not dislike me so much.
lol. u r a funny kid. i dont hate u. just do what u gotta do.
Stingy Jack
08-22-2004, 10:52 AM
Originally posted by evil_blonde
i dont know exactly what has happened.
he may have died, at some point. but he is still here, although his memory is nothing on what it used to be, as in, he cant remember our past.
Wait a minute ... let me get this straight. He's alive, right? Only, now when you talk to him he claims to not know who you are and the past you two shared? Is this right? EB, do yourself a favor. Run. Run as far and as fast as you can. This guy is a total nutcase, and the fact that he's stringing you along with his bullshit little kiddie game ought to make you feel a little used and stupid. Show a little self-respect and forget this guy.
bwind22
08-22-2004, 11:04 AM
Well said Stingy!
EB - I know you're young, but please tell me that you aren't dumb enough to believe this dude !? He's totally toying with your head/emotions and it should be 100% obvious to anyone, but most of all YOU! You don't ever feel like he's feeding a line of bullshit? Come on! This guy's a dumbass... probably just trying to get some action from a young naive girl. Don't be that girl.
How old is this guy anyway?
Egekrusher
08-22-2004, 11:45 AM
Originally posted by Stingy Jack
Besides ... if he's REALLY so adept at his ability to predict the future, why isn't famous now? Why isn't he showing scientists that precognition is a true and functioning ability in some people? There is no valid scientific evidence to support the truth to claims of precognitive abilities. And I have yet to actually hear someone predict something before it happens (they always say, after the fact, that they had some dream or something that predicted this event. Never before). Do you REALLY beleive that he's precognitive, and are the reasons you have for believing it valid (you personally witnessed an event that he predicted come true, for example)?
I have had many psychic dreams, but they are so hard to interperet sometimes that it's nearly to impossible to know you've had one until AFTER the event takes place. I know it sounds shady, but I swear to Darwin, it's the truth.
The only event that I've predicted with any kind of real clarity was 9/11.
Egekrusher
08-22-2004, 12:09 PM
Evil_Blonde..
Your friend is full of shit. I know that sounds harsh, but I grew up and hung out with a group of emo and metal kids (we were one and the same at my school). He is trying to get your attention. Be wary of this kid. Even if he does have psychic abilities, which is a rare thing, he would not foresee his death in this manner. What he saw, he can change, therefore it would not be the future. If he foresaw himself dying in say, an unavoidable accident, that would be entirely different. Also, there is no way in HELL that he can know the exact time, or even the exact day that it will happen. Psychic dreams and visions don't work like that. They are vague. He might be able to tell from the surroundings WHERE it will happen, but not WHEN until it's too late to do anything about. If he claims otherwise, then I'm guessing that he's completely full of shit about being psychic in the first place.
It comes down to this:
If he was just trying to get your attention, be very wary of him. He will do anything to keep you.
If he really believes he foresaw his own death down to the exact minute, RUN LIKE FUCKING HELL. He is a complete nutcase.
darthvonpokemon
08-22-2004, 12:56 PM
I can't believe this is still dragging on. I'll try to break this down real simple-like. There are 2 kinds of suicidal people: those who talk the talk and those who walk the walk. Those who talk on and on about it constantly will never do a damn thing. They just want sympathy from anyone and everyone who will listen to them griping and moaning about how unfair life is. Ironically, these are the same whiny, self-absorbed people I would like to kill off myself if I could, but I digress. Yes, life can be very unfair at times. Get a helmet and deal with it. Trying to have everyone mollycoddling you doesn't make it easier. All that does is take their attention away from their very real problems to focus on you. How fucking stupid and selfish do you have to be to put someone else through that ? All you really do is try to test people to find out how 'important' you are to them. Pathetic bullshit. You don't need sympathy. You need a good ass-kicking.
On the other hand, there are those who really do off themselves. They don't moan and groan about it for weeks on end. You know why ? Because they WANT to do it and do NOT want to be stopped. If you're lucky, they'll leave a little note behind to tell you why AFTER it's done. No drama beforehand. Who needs it ? I had a good friend off himself 14 years ago. Everything was cool, no 'oh, DVP, I'm so miserable' sessions or bullshit. Just usual guy stuff, hanging out, drinking beers, checking out girls- shit you do when you're young, ya know ? One afternoon his grandmother calls me and says she has some very bad news. I'll skip this part because it is personal and I don't think I need to share it with any of you here. Bottom line is, he owned a single bullet and no gun. He went into a local gun store, browsed around for a bit then asked the salesman at the counter to see a particular caliber. Connect the dots at this point. No warning signs. He just did it. Like most other successful suicides. Tell your friend he's a selfish prick from me for putting you through such bullshit, Evil Blond. Then ignore his stupid ass. He's not going to do a thing but grow up a little.
CK
cheebacheeba
08-22-2004, 11:56 PM
ENOUGH.....MODS, WILL YOU FUCKING LOCK THIS THREAD ALREADY?
bloodrayne
08-23-2004, 12:09 AM
Originally posted by cheebacheeba
ENOUGH.....MODS, WILL YOU FUCKING LOCK THIS THREAD ALREADY? Don't worry, Cheeba...I think it's pretty much over, anyway...
Dude said he was gonna die...
Dude didn't die...
Apparently he just gave himself Alzheimers with weed and booze :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
E.B. got suckered...Lots of people here tried to tell her so...
I can't imagine what else could be said about it
cheebacheeba
08-23-2004, 12:22 AM
Yeah, it's all good rayne, I just thought this thread and people doing the whole " I told you so " thing ongoing might alienate (whether or not that's a good thing) one of our posters...
Haunted
08-23-2004, 03:11 AM
Well...I have a bad cold. *shrugs* That's the most traumatic thing in my life right now.
Take a little from everyone, put it in a blender, and there's your advice daquirie.