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fluffho
08-02-2004, 02:27 PM
girls: would u rather be beautiful, hot or cute?

and guys, which would u prefer ur woman to be?

at least to me the differences are beautiful is more like stunning, hot as like doable, and cute is bubbly. i think cuteness is more a personality trait than look, but there definitely is a cute look, you know, chubby cheeks type shit.

think beautiful:gown, hot:skimpy outfit, cute:dolly dress

for me, id rather be beautiful. i think that hotness (sexlexia) lowers with age however beauty, while it can lessen a bit, stays. also cute, just cuz perky and happy is fun...

jay o2 waster
08-02-2004, 02:33 PM
FLuff, When it comes to you, you are beatuiful
















































































and bootylicious

fluffho
08-02-2004, 02:35 PM
how did i nkow u would say that. damnit i forgot to put bootylicoius on the poll o well.

oh i might add... plenty of guys will find girls hot even though they have horse faces just cuz they have a good body

whereas a woman can be beautiful and even be a bit chubby persay, Marilyn monroe, kate winslet for ex..

Stingy Jack
08-02-2004, 02:56 PM
I'm gonna have to go with cute here.

Scarymovie411
08-02-2004, 03:31 PM
Combination for me....

Chainsaw Guy
08-02-2004, 03:43 PM
Hot i like me a woman with a good figure

nine9
08-02-2004, 05:07 PM
Just the kind of sweet answer YOU WOULD give MD2


I would rather be beautiful.........I like classic beauty!

Oh.........and classic beauty lasts a lifetime........even ugly people can be cute.

Living/Dead
08-02-2004, 05:21 PM
It seems like hot girls are a dime a dozen (I reckon lol), cute girls you seem to remember. That's the way I am anyway.

Arioch
08-02-2004, 05:25 PM
Beautiful....one girl called me beautiful on stage once....one of my more feminine days...

bloodrayne
08-02-2004, 05:53 PM
Personally...I would rather be intelligent

Plaguewind
08-02-2004, 06:07 PM
Well, well, well... What can I say... Not everyone minds the cute type... And the same applies for the hot one... Beautiful, on the other hand, is universal.

By the way... Rayne, the way in which you replied seemed almost spiteful...

meetthecreeper
08-02-2004, 06:44 PM
I agree with Bloodrayne, I have dated some of all 3 most Hot girls are stupid, cute gets old after a while, and I think all women are beautiful.

What attracted me to my lady besides the fact that she is all 3 is that she is pretty damn smart, After all the hottness, beauty, cuteness wears off you need something to talk about. I think that a woman that has brains is pretty damn sexy. Plus chicks with glasses drive me crazy.LOL

Plaguewind
08-02-2004, 06:48 PM
I don't think anyone here was implying that being hot or cute or anything like that is all that matters, or that it is enough, my friend.
Still... Well, it doesn't seem there's anything wrong with being cute, or hot, or beautiful, you know? Of course, if a lady can be one of those AND smart, AND nice, AND sensitive, AND caring etc. etc. etc... :0)... But there's still nothing wrong with being pretty...

fluffho
08-02-2004, 07:32 PM
ive just come to the conclusion that looks are a lot more important to me

maybe its cuz i have a buncha family all around me that ARENT married that are getting quite old (some gettin almost 50, another is only 24) that are pretty homely lookin and dont appear to ever get married which sucks. i throw in the 'hook it up with him and ill sing at ur wedding deal' and that doesnt even work

anyway for me i want to try and keep up my appearance, try and keep spice in the relatinoship and such. that and i dont want to be on of those women that when i have kids and settle down i let myself go.........

i guess image is important to me, bling bling luxury all that... but thats just me!!

but definitely the dude needs to be smart (street smart, i dont givashit about book smarts), funny, logical etc..

Wicked Lady
08-03-2004, 02:48 AM
Originally posted by fluffho
ive just come to the conclusion that looks are a lot more important to me

maybe its cuz i have a buncha family all around me that ARENT married that are getting quite old (some gettin almost 50, another is only 24) that are pretty homely lookin and dont appear to ever get married which sucks. i throw in the 'hook it up with him and ill sing at ur wedding deal' and that doesnt even work

anyway for me i want to try and keep up my appearance, try and keep spice in the relatinoship and such. that and i dont want to be on of those women that when i have kids and settle down i let myself go.........

i guess image is important to me, bling bling luxury all that... but thats just me!!

but definitely the dude needs to be smart (street smart, i dont givashit about book smarts), funny, logical etc..

I'm sorry, but that sounds a little shallow, don't you think?

ShankS
08-03-2004, 02:56 AM
I'm not fussed.... if she grunts in bed then I'm happy

Vodstok
08-03-2004, 05:33 AM
I would have to say cute, but i like the others. My fiance is beautiful, but she has cute down to an artform.


I'll be honest though. I have had some real dogs hold my attention siimply because they had big hooters. My first real girlfriend in high school wa sby no means a looker (baerly qualified as cute. and a mean little bitch), but she had big boobs, and that was all it took.

Yes, I have an issue.:eek:

Egekrusher
08-03-2004, 06:08 AM
I prefer knock you off your feet beautiful. It's not really that important compared to intelligence and personality. However, if the chick is ugly as a toad, then it's just not happenning.

Haunted
08-03-2004, 08:57 AM
I actually answered this with cute. However and therefore hypocritically, I'm not keen on this thread. Plaguewind, to say that Rayne is spiteful is sorta, I don't know, spiteful.

Focus on your looks, Fluff, and live a truly meaningful life...yeah and there's that good ol' beachfront property in the Sahara that's for sale. :rolleyes:

fluffho
08-03-2004, 10:08 AM
Originally posted by Wicked Lady
I'm sorry, but that sounds a little shallow, don't you think?

yah.. of course.

not to say there arent other things that i look for.. like i said he needs to be funny and all that. i definitely place personailty above all

but i guess... i dunno, hmmmm. trying to be careful what i say here. basically, want the personailty AND the looks just cuz that keeps you.. interested???? ya ya ill stop there lol

also i have a buncha family like i mentioned earlier that are getting older and will probably never get married. yes looks arent everything but it is pretty noticeable that none of the girls are.. pretty? and the men are a bit fat and such and i really feel bad for them cuz i dont think they will get married. we been tryin to hook em up too but it isnt working.

i think at least in their cases it would be different if they had little groups in HS or college but they didnt. the same is with me, i was always a floater. wel i guess if i were all homely like them then maybei would be alone the rest of my life which would SUCK but i try and keep looks somewhat decent...

and i DONT QUITE understand the hostility im receiving. as if none of you have ever oggled someone or stood in front of the mirror.... ive seen pics of you chicks and several of you take the time to wear make up andi dont...

ShankS
08-03-2004, 10:08 AM
if she's got big air bags then I'm turned on.

Egekrusher
08-03-2004, 10:25 AM
Fluff, I understand what you mean. While looks aren't everything, you're lying to yourself if you say they don't matter. You have to be physically attracted to your mate or it's just NOT going to work, end of story. For the men and women who think otherwise, well, I feel sorry for you. I really do.

Physical attraction is one of the most primal instincts that we have left. To devote yourself to someone that you are not attracted to puts both you and that person in danger of heartbreak. When you do find someone that you are extremely attracted to, the chances are ASTRONOMICALLY higher that you will cheat with them compared to what the chances would be if you were attracted to your mate. Emotional and mental devotion is sometimes NOT enough. Every person alive knows this, whether they want to admit to it or not.

Vodstok
08-03-2004, 10:33 AM
"beauty is in the eye of the beholder"

it all depends. i have known girls that i thought were plain to ugly, but once i knew them, thought they were very attractive. Personality goes a long way. Plus, opinions change.

Back to my hooter statement earlier... There are women that i do not think are pretty at all, ugly even. many of them have shitty personalities to boot, but they have big ones, and that tends to blind me to quite a bit.

I know that this goes for a lot of people who have a fixation on a particular body part. What if a guy is an asshole and ugly, but you are a butt girl and he has a sweet ass?

Shanks and i see eye to ey on this one ;)

I will not make any claims that breast size is the measure of a woman. I have had a couple fo girlfriends with next to nothing, and they were all good for their own reasons, but at the end of the day, if i had a choice of all the women in the world, and had to make a decision based solely on physical attributes, i would pick one with a big chest. And i have, so i win :) (actually, she picked me :D)

ShankS
08-03-2004, 10:49 AM
yeah agree, a nice big pair of knockers is cool, I must admit, if she was a complete munter, then It may be a turn off even with big boobs,

but then I quite like average to nice looking girls and some average girls can outshine pretty girls with a more outgoing personality, which I like, because I like being around people who are spontanious because i can be rather unspontanious at times.

Vodstok
08-03-2004, 10:51 AM
Exactly. I got REAL lucy in findign everything i like in a woman in a woman who found everythign she likes in me.

jay o2 waster
08-03-2004, 11:17 AM
Originally posted by fluffho
how did i nkow u would say that. damnit i forgot to put bootylicoius on the poll o well.

oh i might add... plenty of guys will find girls hot even though they have horse faces just cuz they have a good body

whereas a woman can be beautiful and even be a bit chubby persay, Marilyn monroe, kate winslet for ex.. Call me wierd, but I actually perfer it when they are a lil chubby like me

Egekrusher
08-03-2004, 11:20 AM
Originally posted by jay o2 waster
Call me wierd, but I actually perfer it when they are a lil chubby like me

That's not weird at all. We need to find people that we feel comfortable with, and are roughly as attractive as we are. In all honesty, I wouldn't exactly be comfortable dating, for example, Christina Ricci because I would be too intimidated. We need the security that goes along with finding someone who is a good match for ourselves in every way, including physically.

Vodstok
08-03-2004, 11:39 AM
Originally posted by jay o2 waster
Call me wierd, but I actually perfer it when they are a lil chubby like me

Right there with ya, brother. Although i have never really been overwieght (just really out of shape..), bigger girls have what i tend to like, smooth curves. that is not to say there arent skinny women out there i find attractive, they are just rare. I dont necesarrily like fat, just more plus-size.

kpropain
08-03-2004, 12:00 PM
I really like natural beauty in a woman along with a great personality and being smart and sweet at the same time..And I have found someone who fits all those traits, I guess I am lucky.

And as far as looks goes I love a woman with a nice set of legs and a great ass. If she has legs up to her neck, I want them wrapped around mine...:D

ShankS
08-03-2004, 12:43 PM
Originally posted by Vodstok
Right there with ya, brother. Although i have never really been overwieght (just really out of shape..), bigger girls have what i tend to like, smooth curves. that is not to say there arent skinny women out there i find attractive, they are just rare. I dont necesarrily like fat, just more plus-size.

yeah I like this type too, rather like the girl in the pic you posted a while back..

kpropain
08-03-2004, 12:45 PM
OMFG I bet that chick would knock herself out if she tried to run...LMFAO:D

ShankS
08-03-2004, 12:45 PM
Originally posted by kpropain
OMFG I bet that chick would knock herself out if she tried to run...LMFAO:D

lol

she can knock me out with her airbags anytime

:D

kpropain
08-03-2004, 12:47 PM
Originally posted by ShankS
lol

she can knock me out with her airbags anytime

:D

LMAO those aren't airbags those are funbags:D

ShankS
08-03-2004, 12:48 PM
Hell yeah!, I could play with them all day and night :D

moonsorrow
08-03-2004, 12:57 PM
hmmm...with a big risk of being the party pooper (i love this job) why is it always you who put up these piece of shit posts?

Vodstok
08-03-2004, 12:59 PM
all i am going to say:

Her name is Nadine Jansen (nadine-jansen.de i think), and Shanks lives a hop skip and a jump across the channel from her.

Do as you will :)

ShankS
08-03-2004, 01:03 PM
she could float over the sea to the Uk with that chest.

:D

Haunted
08-03-2004, 01:40 PM
Fluffho, I wanted to address your concerns of hostility. I think that women are concerned when their sisters are only concerned with looks. If I'm going to like you, I want to like you for what's on the inside. It's more important to me if you're a kind and considerate person rather than a total hotty. I know it's not important what I think, but you may find that it becomes increasingly important what other women think if you start finding yourself friendless and alone.

I know I'm not a man, but for all women (and guys as well) it's important to have friends that back you up, especially sisters. We're the ones that will hold you and relate to your sorrow, laugh (okay, it's horrible, but even at other people) with you while relating in a gender way. Guy friends are cool, but girl friends can be closer. So what if one of the coolest chicks you meet isn't attractive?

True beauty comes from the heart, and if you'll look then your heart. If you don't find a life mate, don't worry. You can be a strong independant woman standing on your own two feet with a flock of friends, knowing in your own heart that you love and are loved.

Yes, I've oggled what I have thought were attractive men, but my idea of attractive changes with each lover that I've known. "The ocean is full of possibilities."

Look inside, deep inside and find the woman that you truly are. If you don't like her, change her for the better.

nine9
08-03-2004, 02:46 PM
Originally posted by kpropain
I really like natural beauty in a woman along with a great personality and being smart and sweet at the same time..And I have found someone who fits all those traits, I guess I am lucky.

And as far as looks goes I love a woman with a nice set of legs and a great ass. If she has legs up to her neck, I want them wrapped around mine...:D

You sound like a very lucky guy Kpro....................:D

I just have to say that this thread doesn't bother me.....it is just all in fun...we all know that looks can't sustain any relationship because they are impermanent.........the thrill wears off soon enough and you are left with whatever other connections you have with a person. This has been proven time after time........

Now if the poll would have asked us: Intelligence or beauty........intelligence would have won out for me, as well as inner peace...... Which is the source of all true beauty!

IMO! :D

Hate_Breeder
08-03-2004, 02:55 PM
Beautiful

fluffho
08-03-2004, 07:24 PM
Ya ya of course intelligence would win... well, at least speaking from girls. hmmm, shows a lot about what kind of guys ive met

haunted, if you think all i care about is looks, your wrong. maybe thats how i came off on this thread, but thats what this thread was about. to bring in personality wouldve been a totally diff thread, moreso, my point being in this thread is simply the difference between a person being beautiful, hot, or cute. simple as that.

even a plain dude can turn into a hottie if hes a good guy with a good heart, sense of humor etc.. and ive met guys hot as hell who turned out to be boring and arrogant, who never got a second look from me...

and i do have sister friends. i have 2 best friends i am very close with and maybe 2 more im close with but they r away at school.

and ege. thanks man. glad to nkow im not crazy. now come over here let me give u a big ole kiss.... u know, cuz ur cute and thats all i care about i dont givafuck who i mack on so long as they r cute.........

Haunted
08-04-2004, 04:39 AM
Originally posted by fluffho
ive just come to the conclusion that looks are a lot more important to me

maybe its cuz i have a buncha family all around me that ARENT married that are getting quite old (some gettin almost 50, another is only 24) that are pretty homely lookin and dont appear to ever get married which sucks. i throw in the 'hook it up with him and ill sing at ur wedding deal' and that doesnt even work

anyway for me i want to try and keep up my appearance, try and keep spice in the relatinoship and such. that and i dont want to be on of those women that when i have kids and settle down i let myself go.........

i guess image is important to me, bling bling luxury all that... but thats just me!!



This quote gave me the idea that you felt that looks are more important. Did I miss something?

Anyway, I was just trying to be nice. Just trying to be supportive and not "hostile."

Egekrusher
08-04-2004, 04:47 AM
Funny.

I don't have any close friends.

I cry alone.

fluffho
08-04-2004, 09:10 AM
Originally posted by Haunted
This quote gave me the idea that you felt that looks are more important. Did I miss something?

Anyway, I was just trying to be nice. Just trying to be supportive and not "hostile."

yes, becuase i said 'looks are important to me' or something along those lines.

anyway, you assume thats all i care about, with all your sahara talk and such, and stuff abou my sisters not supporting me , is that all i care about are looks. also calling me shallow and such, of course i sound shallow about this. but bring up a 'what do u like best about ur hubby' thread and ill talk about something else. anyone who says looks dont matter is a liar. we're all a little shallow, a little racist, etc. what do i need support for? its not like i have some sick obsession with beauty where i cant function normally. i do a lot of things that dont require a mirror

like i said, this was a thread on looks. if i were to bring intelligence into it it wouldve been boring cuz everyone wouldve picked intelligence (at last i think).

Haunted
08-04-2004, 02:22 PM
We're apparently missing eachother's points by a mile. Let's just drop it.

Rebel Yell
08-04-2004, 03:37 PM
I would rather be called awesome, trippendicular, badical, ripper, or something along those lines.

nine9
08-04-2004, 03:46 PM
Originally posted by MD2
I'm 33 years old and not ashamed to say that the one woman who held all of these and anything good that makes a woman attractive was (and still is at 80) Lauren Bacall!

Chalk one up for classic beauty! I agree!
:cool:

fluffho
08-04-2004, 04:40 PM
Originally posted by Haunted
We're apparently missing eachother's points by a mile. Let's just drop it.

thats fine. i just dont see why everyone else could pick one whereas a few of you had to bring in this 'oh your superficial you need to find yuorself' type shit

although.. i did buy some cute shirts today.. W000000000000T. wel i guess they could come off as beautiful too. definitely not hot though

nine9
08-04-2004, 04:42 PM
Originally posted by fluffho
thats fine. i just dont see why everyone else could pick one whereas a few of you had to bring in this 'oh your superficial you need to find yuorself' type shit

although.. i did buy some cute shirts today.. W000000000000T. wel i guess they could come off as beautiful too. definitely not hot though

LOL! Wel you know i love ya Fluff! :D :p

fluffho
08-04-2004, 10:23 PM
i love u too miss nine! fa sho!!!!!!:D

now excuse me while i go buy a mirror and a map and find myself!

KRUGERKID13
08-04-2004, 10:33 PM
beauty to me is being sophisticated and well manered which is what i look for in a girl

Haunted
08-05-2004, 03:00 AM
Fluff, I asked if we could drop it, and you're not dropping it. So, I'm going to drop the subject, and without any nasty comments either.

fluffho
08-05-2004, 01:51 PM
Originally posted by Haunted
Fluff, I asked if we could drop it, and you're not dropping it. So, I'm going to drop the subject, and without any nasty comments either.

Originally posted by Haunted
Focus on your looks, Fluff, and live a truly meaningful life...yeah and there's that good ol' beachfront property in the Sahara that's for sale. :rolleyes:

im all for dropping it. i just give back what is given to me is all...

GorePhobia
08-05-2004, 04:58 PM
i like all the above except poop lol but yeah beautiful is a good one.....hot is if im extremely horny and cute is just whenever

Wicked Lady
08-06-2004, 02:14 AM
Originally posted by nine9
LOL! Wel you know i love ya Fluff! :D :p

I don't:p :cool:

fluffho
08-06-2004, 07:03 AM
Originally posted by Wicked Lady
I don't:p :cool:

wah. likei giva shit? :p :cool:

darthvonpokemon
08-07-2004, 12:05 AM
Is everyone here retarded ? She asked what you would LIKE to be ? Not what you consider yourselves as. There are tons of good looking ladies on here (myself included-ok, I made that part up). Some people consider themselves 'hot' and would rather be 'cute', etc. How is that making anyone superficial ? I love all of you (except Nine cuz she cybered me them ditched me LOL). It was a preference question. Everyone here knows your beautiful in one wat or the other. I do. What do you prefer to be SEEN as ?
CK

Hate_Breeder
08-07-2004, 12:15 AM
Originally posted by darthvonpokemon
Is everyone here retarded ? She asked what you would LIKE to be ? Not what you consider yourselves as. There are tons of good looking ladies on here (myself included-ok, I made that part up). Some people consider themselves 'hot' and would rather be 'cute', etc. How is that making anyone superficial ? I love all of you (except Nine cuz she cybered me them ditched me LOL). It was a preference question. Everyone here knows your beautiful in one wat or the other. I do. What do you prefer to be SEEN as ?
CK

Wow that was confusing. So i would consider myself beautiful....or....shit

darthvonpokemon
08-07-2004, 12:22 AM
You know what you are, HB. The question was : what would you like to be ? Apparently too many of the sexy women of Horror seemed to take it the wrong way for whatever reason. They're all good looking in some way or the other. I guess they needed to be reminded .
CK

Hate_Breeder
08-07-2004, 12:27 AM
Originally posted by darthvonpokemon
You know what you are, HB. The question was : what would you like to be ? Apparently too many of the sexy women of Horror seemed to take it the wrong way for whatever reason. They're all good looking in some way or the other. I guess they needed to be reminded .
CK

I guess so. It just sounded confusing at first sorry :D

darthvonpokemon
08-07-2004, 12:35 AM
I hear ya. I really wanted this to turn out to be some kind of coming- out- of- the closet love fest for all the lovely ladies here as well. Damn ! That would be so hot ! So many beautiful women here, so many painfully unfulfilled male fantasies. Oh well. A catfight almost broke out. That's one for the ages :)
CK

Hate_Breeder
08-07-2004, 12:39 AM
Originally posted by darthvonpokemon
I hear ya. I really wanted this to turn out to be some kind of coming- out- of- the closet love fest for all the lovely ladies here as well. Damn ! That would be so hot ! So many beautiful women here, so many painfully unfulfilled male fantasies. Oh well. A catfight almost broke out. That's one for the ages :)
CK

HAHA i heart all the women here :)

fluffho
08-07-2004, 10:59 AM
spank u for the clarification darth

now lets make e love u hog. BISMARCK ME NOW

darthvonpokemon
08-07-2004, 11:14 AM
Hell, yeah, baby! Your avatar just screams "Donkey punch me now !" to me. If you'll excuse me for a moment, I'm going to sit on my hand until it falls asleep and do The Stranger to myself while thinking of you, you sexy little she-beast :D
CK

fluffho
08-07-2004, 11:23 AM
give urself a dirty sanchez while ur at it ;) as that would be most like ME

not that im a stranger... but u nkow
K.

Candy Man
08-07-2004, 04:16 PM
A girl needs to be banging and I mean off the hook!
I m gonna learns you people sumthin, it all bes bout the booty!
If she got back, no need for rack.

fluffho
08-07-2004, 04:17 PM
Originally posted by Candy Man
A girl needs to be banging and I mean off the hook!
I m gonna learns you people sumthin, it all bes bout the booty!
If she got back, no need for rack.

lol. thats funny. funny but true

Candy Man
08-07-2004, 04:22 PM
racks be sumthin y'all say. I just wants the bootay!!!!!!!