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Egekrusher

07-23-2004, 06:41 PM

My faith in true love is faltering. The more time goes on, the more I realize that the chances of my ever finding my one true love are slim to none. I know exactly what I want. I can picture her in my dreams. So far I have found nobody like her, even remotely so.

She would be kind, and understanding. Sympathy would be one of her best traits. She is into horror and sci-fi, and is forward thinking. She often thinks of the future and what might be. She is a dreamer, both metaphorically and literally. Stuck somewhere between the clouds and the ground. Very liberal, and very open minded. Very intelligent- someone that I could discuss metaphysics and computer theory with and not feel like I was talking down to them. Calm, collected and self assured.

She would be beautiful, especially in the face. I know beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so let me describe her:

She is brunette, her hair halfway down her back. She is very fair skinned. She has a clear complexion, and doesn't feel the need for a lot of makeup because she is confident enough in herself to not care what other people think. She has vibrant eyes, bright blue. She is fairly slim, though she is not modelesque at all, meaning she doesn't look anorexic. Decent sized bust, D cup at most, but I would be happy with a B cup. That doesn't really matter to me. Long, slender, cat-like hands that you just want to hold onto forever and never let go of. That's it for the physical aspects.

Maybe I'm just not being realistic. Maybe I'm asking for too much. But I don't think so. I believe everyone has their own true love. It's finding them that's the hard part.

Please, share your thoughts.

Egekrusher

07-23-2004, 06:45 PM

Also, for those of you who HAVE found your true love, how long did it take you? Were you looking when you found them, or did it just kind of "happen"?

I need to know as much as possible. As I stated previously, I may be too stringent in my requirements, but dammit, I KNOW what I want.

fluffho

07-23-2004, 06:47 PM

yup

my true love is simple.... im gona marry someone just like me! cept in male form, and white and taller. not much taller though

personality wise tohugh he should be a lot like me....

as for having already found him.. cant say just yet, but hoping for the best ;)

oh. and be picky as fuck ok? dont settle. not saying like 'OMG she likes a different color than me' but u know.

also, i like running into people than purposefully seeking them. its more fun that way

Shadowstar

07-23-2004, 06:50 PM

I believe in true love.

I think a true love isn't what you really want, it's what you need. So it's like, a yearning over posession, and what you kind of described was posession, I hope that made sense. I believe that you will only know that you have found your true love when that person either gives you a different perspective on life and sort of gives you a type of enlightenment that no one else can give you. I also believe it's about a building up a bond that can't be broken.

Now love at first site, that's a different story, of which I don't believe in.

:)

Egekrusher

07-23-2004, 06:53 PM

Originally posted by Shadowstar
I believe in true love.

I think a true love isn't what you really want, it's what you need. So it's like, a yearning over posession, and what you kind of described was posession, I hope that made sense. I believe that you will only know that you have found your true love when that person either gives you a different perspective on life and sort of gives you a type of enlightenment that no one else can give you. I also believe it's about a building up a bond that can't be broken.

Now love at first site, that's a different story, of which I don't believe in.

:)

I understand why you might say that, so let me clarify myself a little bit.

I don't want someone who is submissive. I want someone who, along with the attributes listed above, is independant and self sufficient. I want an individual. Someone who I can respect, completely and thoroughly. Also, they must respect me. I'm looking for something mutual here, which is why this may be completely unrealistic. To find someone like that, who also thinks of me the same way, is going to take a LONG, LONG time.

Stingy Jack

07-23-2004, 06:58 PM

Well, I never had the perfect mate in mind when I started dating women. I tended to meet them through friends or social gatherings, or class (when I was a student, not a teacher), or work. And it would always turn out that some girl would listen to me talk, and decide that they wanted to get to know me better. Never have I had to approach a girl first. I guess I was just lucky that way. Every girl I dated had flaws, just like every girl I dated saw the flaws in me. But, you have to look past the flaws if you expect to find happiness. Otherwise, you just sit around waiting for perfection to come along (which it never will.) I never believed that there was one girl that was "right" for me. I think there were many. And I just happened to get married to one of them. :D There are things about my wife that I used to wish she would change ... but I discovered that I am happy that she is different than I am in a lot of ways. It keeps me feeling like an individual. We agree on all the BIG compatibility issues (religion, how we raise our kid, politics) and differ on small things like entertainment, hobbies, decor, and food. It is enough to make us great friends and yet retain our individuality -- you know?

As far as looks go, I like all types. Blondes, brunettes, redheads; big, small; fair skinned, dark skinned; green eyes, brown eyes, blue eyes; whatever. As long as they had good teeth and a pretty smile. :)

I think you need to be more open to women if you're truly going to be happy. Give a few of them a chance. Get to know them. You may find that the "perfect woman" for you was someone you never expected.

Egekrusher

07-23-2004, 07:01 PM

As far as being "more open" goes, that's not even possible. I'm 20 years old, and I've had as many girlfriends. I am burnt out right now though.

Hate_Breeder

07-23-2004, 07:02 PM

I definetly believe in true love...just might never find it. Like Fluff said though i am hoping for the best and just trying to get my prioritys straight. Like finishing high school, getting a job, deciding on going to college. Hopefully along the way i will meet someone, but who knows maybe i already know that special someone.....

orangestar

07-23-2004, 07:07 PM

I believe in true love. I've pictured my wedding a hundred times. This sounds insane coming from a teenager, but I know what I want. Someone open minded, intelligent, funny, confident, dark haired with a nice smile.

I've always thought that there is one person that is absolutely right for you. When you find them, you know. Thats what I think love at first sight is. There are hundreds of other people that are close to perfect, and you can be completely happy with them, but they arent exactly who you are meant to be with.

Hate_Breeder

07-23-2004, 07:11 PM

Originally posted by orangestar
I believe in true love. I've pictured my wedding a hundred times. This sounds insane coming from a teenager, but I know what I want. Someone open minded, intelligent, funny, confident, dark haired with a nice smile.

I've always thought that there is one person that is absolutely right for you. When you find them, you know. Thats what I think love at first sight is. There are hundreds of other people that are close to perfect, and you can be completely happy with them, but they arent exactly who you are meant to be with.

Agreed...........except for the whole "man" part lol

Egekrusher

07-23-2004, 07:12 PM

Originally posted by orangestar
There are hundreds of other people that are close to perfect, and you can be completely happy with them, but they arent exactly who you are meant to be with.

Agreed. I have found plenty of women that I could be happy with, but I know there are better matches out there, and with my personality, I just can't settle for anything less than the best.

Stingy Jack

07-23-2004, 07:15 PM

Originally posted by Egekrusher
Agreed. I have found plenty of women that I could be happy with, but I know there are better matches out there, and with my personality, I just can't settle for anything less than the best.

Yeah, my best friend is like that. He's about to turn 37 and hasn't dated anyone in 4 years.

Egekrusher

07-23-2004, 07:17 PM

Originally posted by Stingy Jack
Yeah, my best friend is like that. He's about to turn 37 and hasn't dated anyone in 4 years.

If I haven't found her by the time I'm 30, I'm gonna set my sights a wee bit lower.

Of course, I may get in a particularly depressed mood and lower them 5 minutes from now, but I know what my ideal is. I may be happy for a while, but that nagging feeling that something just isn't right would start creeping up on me after a while.

Hate_Breeder

07-23-2004, 07:19 PM

Originally posted by Stingy Jack
Yeah, my best friend is like that. He's about to turn 37 and hasn't dated anyone in 4 years.

That sucks. Although i havent dated anyone in about 2 years. But its probably for the best, being that i always end up dating crazies lol

Stingy Jack

07-23-2004, 07:19 PM

All this talk about "the one true love" the person you are meant to be with ... meant by who? By fate? Come on. I think that's all a lot of over-romanticised hokey. Real love takes time. You can't just spot it, or feel it from a glance. It grows out of getting to know a person, out of spending time with them and learning to trust them and appreciate them. If you sit around waiting for some sort of soul mate to come along, you are setting yourself up to be a lonely Joe.

Hate_Breeder

07-23-2004, 07:25 PM

Egekrusher

07-23-2004, 07:26 PM

Originally posted by Stingy Jack
All this talk about "the one true love" the person you are meant to be with ... meant by who? By fate? Come on. I think that's all a lot of over-romanticised hokey. Real love takes time. You can't just spot it, or feel it from a glance. It grows out of getting to know a person, out of spending time with them and learning to trust them and appreciate them. If you sit around waiting for some sort of soul mate to come along, you are setting yourself up to be a lonely Joe.

I know. It's most likely a fanciful dream. But I'm a dreamer of the highest order. I have a hard time staying grounded in this reality, in this world. I spend most of my time thinking about the future and all the possibilities. I dream of meeting alien cultures, of humans evolving beyond our physical form to pure energy and world peace, no matter how unrealistic and cheesy it may sound. I see things as they could and SHOULD be. I see the best and worst of everything.

I probably AM setting myself up to be lonely for the rest of my life. I won't deny that, it's a very realistic possiblity. But I can't get the thought out of my head, no matter how hard I try. It's always there in the back of my mind. I've become interested in more than one married woman because of this, and I've gotten myself into some very bad situations. I just can't help myself.

orangestar

07-23-2004, 07:29 PM

Originally posted by Egekrusher
I know. It's most likely a fanciful dream. But I'm a dreamer of the highest order. I have a hard time staying grounded in this reality, in this world. I spend most of my time thinking about the future and all the possibilities. I dream of meeting alien cultures, of humans evolving beyond our physical form to pure energy and world peace, no matter how unrealistic and cheesy it may sound. I see things as they could and SHOULD be. I see the best and worst of everything.

Im the same way. I constantly daydream about the perfect future and how it all should be.

I know that love takes work, but cant I still dream?

Egekrusher

07-23-2004, 07:30 PM

Originally posted by orangestar
Im the same way. I constantly daydream about the perfect future and how it all should be.

I know that love takes work, but cant I still dream?

Exactly. I often let my dreams get in the way of reality though. It's my biggest fault.

Hate_Breeder

07-23-2004, 07:30 PM

Originally posted by Egekrusher
[B] But I'm a dreamer of the highest order. [B]

See we are alike Ege! :D

bloodrayne

07-23-2004, 07:34 PM

Originally posted by Hate_Breeder
That sucks. Although i havent dated anyone in about 2 years. But its probably for the best, being that i always end up dating crazies lol LOL...That's because you LIKE crazies :p...Who wants to be with a boring, sane person, anyway?..lol

KRUGERKID13

07-23-2004, 07:37 PM

love is a word used for two people to get financial help

Shadowstar

07-23-2004, 07:38 PM

Here you go Ege. (http://www.alena-marriage-agency.com/)

Pretty and cheap.:p

Stingy Jack

07-23-2004, 07:39 PM

Originally posted by Hate_Breeder
Wow good point. But you would never get to know a person if you never had the urge to meet them right?

Yeah, but what drives you to want to meet them may be a number of things, probably lust or the hope for love. But, let's just say that I decide to leave my wife tomorrow. I look at her and think: You know, there may be someone out there who is just like her, only she loves to read great literature like I do, and she isn't so pale. So I leave. Turns out, I may date several more women who have aspects that I found missing in my wife, and have all the aspects my wife had. Then, I start picking out little things about each of them that I want to look for in someone. I would could do this until the day I die. NOBODY is perfect. And anybody who is married (married folks, come vouce for me here) will tell you that NO marriage is ideal. They all take work, and compromise, and understanding, and quite a lot of sacrifice. I think the divorce rate is so high because people try to find a romance like they see in the movies, and when it doesn't work like they thought it would, they think they made a mistake. I, for one, am comfortable in my marriage. It took a lot of work, and I had to eat a lot of humble pie too (which is my most hated food), but I have grown to develop an unbreakable bond with my wife as a result. Sure, she isn't perfect, but she makes me happy.

Stingy Jack

07-23-2004, 07:42 PM

Originally posted by Egekrusher
Exactly. I often let my dreams get in the way of reality though. It's my biggest fault.

Ege! Be a writer! Write some of these dreams out in stories. Live them on paper as if they were reality. You don't have to let go of your dreams to live in the real world. You just have to learn to separate the two.

Egekrusher

07-23-2004, 07:43 PM

Originally posted by Shadowstar
Here you go Ege. (http://www.alena-marriage-agency.com/)

Pretty and cheap.:p

Ha.

:(

Shadowstar

07-23-2004, 07:44 PM

Originally posted by Egekrusher
Ha.

:(

Ooohh cheer up, I was only jokin with you.

Egekrusher

07-23-2004, 07:45 PM

Originally posted by Stingy Jack
Ege! Be a writer! Write some of these dreams out in stories. Live them on paper as if they were reality. You don't have to let go of your dreams to live in the real world. You just have to learn to separate the two.

Honestly, what if I don't want to?

Sometimes I think I actually enjoy wallowing in self pity.

Jesus christ, what is this, I'm having a pity party for myself over here. I'm sorry guys, you don't need to hear this bullshit.

Egekrusher

07-23-2004, 07:46 PM

Originally posted by Shadowstar
Ooohh cheer up, I was only jokin with you.

I know, but I'm in more of a "cry myself to sleep" mood.

To the board members: you're seeing a side of me that I never show on here. I'm sorry about all of this.

Stingy Jack

07-23-2004, 07:51 PM

Originally posted by Egekrusher
Honestly, what if I don't want to?

Sometimes I think I actually enjoy wallowing in self pity.

Jesus christ, what is this, I'm having a pity party for myself over here. I'm sorry guys, you don't need to hear this bullshit.

Well, whatever makes you happy. You can't a help a guy that likes being miserable. He doesn't NEED help!

Hate_Breeder

07-23-2004, 08:01 PM

Originally posted by Egekrusher
Sometimes I think I actually enjoy wallowing in self pity.

Same here dude. Dont even worry about it. I feel that way all the time. And as for Stingy, i know im never gonna meet the perfect person, and i dont want too, i just want somebody who i can talk to and we can just hold each other in arms, and think of the love that we have found. As long as we both know that we love each other, thats all that matters in my book

Hate_Breeder

07-23-2004, 08:03 PM

Originally posted by bloodrayne
LOL...That's because you LIKE crazies :p...Who wants to be with a boring, sane person, anyway?..lol

No dont get me i love crazies lol. Theres this one girl that actually wants to have sex with me on a grave. If thats not love....tell me what is lol :D

Stingy Jack

07-23-2004, 08:12 PM

Originally posted by Hate_Breeder
Same here dude. Dont even worry about it. I feel that way all the time. And as for Stingy, i know im never gonna meet the perfect person, and i dont want too, i just want somebody who i can talk to and we can just hold each other in arms, and think of the love that we have found. As long as we both know that we love each other, thats all that matters in my book

Hey man, that's the only way you'll find love. Really. But don't listen to me. I may not know what the hell I'm talking about when it comes to this subject. I speak of my experiences as if they were fact, applicable in all cases. And I shouldn't do that. I could be completely wrong.

Hate_Breeder

07-23-2004, 08:15 PM

Originally posted by Stingy Jack
Hey man, that's the only way you'll find love. Really. But don't listen to me. I may not know what the hell I'm talking about when it comes to this subject. I speak of my experiences as if they were fact, applicable in all cases. And I shouldn't do that. I could be completely wrong. Well everyone has their opinion. Maybe you can find a person like that. BAM! And you know you love her. But most of the time its not that case. So maybe your right and im wrong, maybe im wrong, and your right. Either way no ones ever gonna determine if there is "true" love.

wufong

07-23-2004, 08:33 PM

i think one of the most important thing in a relationship is give and take. and if you can find someone who can be understanding enough to know how important something is to their partener and is prepared to make a small scarifice for the sake of their happiness. ( like moving to a small town with them so they can have their dream job or something like that) is a very special trait in my opinion. not to mention sticking by them no matter what. i think is another good thing. well that and many other things of course. i dunno. i guess there really isn't a perfect partener. just be happy when ya find someone whos bad habits or what ever are over shadowed by her good ones

Stingy Jack

07-23-2004, 08:34 PM

Originally posted by wufong
i think one of the most important thing in a relationship is give and take. and if you can find someone who can be understanding enough to know how important something is to their partener and is prepared to make a small scarifice for the sake of their happiness. ( like moving to a small town with them so they can have their dream job or something like that) is a very special trait in my opinion. not to mention sticking by them no matter what. i think is another good thing. well that and many other things of course. i dunno. i guess there really isn't a perfect partener. just be happy when ya find someone whos bad habits or what ever are over shadowed by her good ones

I hear you.

orangestar

07-23-2004, 08:36 PM

Originally posted by Egekrusher
I know, but I'm in more of a "cry myself to sleep" mood.

Me too. This whole true love thing is getting me thinking. So now Im listening to sad songs.

Hate_Breeder

07-23-2004, 08:38 PM

Originally posted by orangestar
Me too. This whole true love thing is getting me thinking. So now Im listening to sad songs.

I love sad love songs. What are you listening to?

Stingy Jack

07-23-2004, 08:45 PM

Originally posted by orangestar
Me too. This whole true love thing is getting me thinking. So now Im listening to sad songs.

dammit! I hope I didn't go and bum everyone out. I just don't want to see Ege throw his life away because he pulls a Jerry Seinfeld on every girl he dates. I think everyone who has been participating in this discussion will find someone they love. No doubts. You all have too much going for you to worry about that.

Egekrusher

07-23-2004, 08:46 PM

Not so much love songs for me, but songs that are depressing, such as pretty much any Neurosis song, the acoustic Opeth album, and quite a few Smashing Pumpkins songs.

Egekrusher

07-23-2004, 08:47 PM

Originally posted by Stingy Jack
dammit! I hope I didn't go and bum everyone out. I just don't want to see Ege throw his life away because he pulls a Jerry Seinfeld on every girl he dates. I think everyone who has been participating in this discussion will find someone they love. No doubts. You all have too much going for you to worry about that.

Nah, if it was anyone, it was me.

I just got high though, and hung out with my sister for a bit, and I'm in a much better mood now.

Hate_Breeder

07-23-2004, 08:49 PM

I like being sad. It makes you feel alive. You can feel pain. And your not just some lifless zombie wondering the streets, looking for flesh. Wow i just made a sexual enuendo and i didnt even know it :)

Stingy Jack

07-23-2004, 08:49 PM

Good. Glad to hear it. I'm about to bake a pizza! The Frank Langella version of Dracula is coming on AMC in about 30 minutes.

fluffho

07-23-2004, 08:53 PM

one of my best friends....

well her parents met one day

then went out the next day and her dad said to her mom 'yuo want to go get married'

so shes like 'yeh sure ok'

and they got married

happily in love to this day my friend is the same age as me so im assuming 20 some odd years?

not that this is for everyone but just lettin ya know its possible

orangestar

07-23-2004, 08:53 PM

Originally posted by fluffho
one of my best friends....

well her parents met one day

then went out the next day and her dad said to her mom 'yuo want to go get married'

so shes like 'yeh sure ok'

and they got married

happily in love to this day my friend is the same age as me so im assuming 20 some odd years?

not that this is for everyone but just lettin ya know its possible

Like Dharma and Greg. horribel show, but that premise is what I want. :)

fluffho

07-23-2004, 08:57 PM

Originally posted by orangestar
Like Dharma and Greg. horribel show, but that premise is what I want. :)

i do believe a lot in fate i mean think abou everything in our lives is in links.

your entire day can change simply by getting a flat tire, for example

anyway for me especially with love from now on i really really want to go with my gut instinct. that and take things slow and just see what happens really! dont want to hunt anyone down just want to see what comes along my way as im going through life

Stingy Jack

07-23-2004, 09:00 PM

Originally posted by fluffho
i do believe a lot in fate i mean think abou everything in our lives is in links.

your entire day can change simply by getting a flat tire, for example

anyway for me especially with love from now on i really really want to go with my gut instinct. that and take things slow and just see what happens really! dont want to hunt anyone down just want to see what comes along my way as im going through life

You just stated that every action has a reaction. Not necessarily fate. But, some people will argue that the very first thing that happened set the whole deal in motion. Everything that followed was simply a reaction, and it could not have turned out any different. Pretty weird. But, if that's the case, then if you're meant to be with someone, then you'll meet that person. Nothing you can do to screw it up.

Hate_Breeder

07-23-2004, 09:05 PM

This thread makes me think to much :confused:

fluffho

07-23-2004, 09:07 PM

Originally posted by Stingy Jack
You just stated that every action has a reaction. Not necessarily fate. But, some people will argue that the very first thing that happened set the whole deal in motion. Everything that followed was simply a reaction, and it could not have turned out any different. Pretty weird. But, if that's the case, then if you're meant to be with someone, then you'll meet that person. Nothing you can do to screw it up.

well yeh that too. murphys law or something... LOL i dunno

but yeh i do believe in fate, more so in the fact that i DONT believe in this 'i control whatever happens in my life' that some people believe

its not like im sad though either. just u can make plans all u want and something is weird is always gonna be thrown in to upset everything

i guess with love and everything, what i want is to be happy WHENever i am. they say'college/Hs are the best times of ur life.' for me, i want NOW to be the best time of my life. thats to say when im with my beautiful husband and family, the best time of my life is over??

so i just want to have a broad view of what i want, take it easy gettin there and be happy, let things fall into place and blah blah.. yeh now im blabbering lol but YEH im definitely just sittin here prety much lettin shit happen

Stingy Jack

07-23-2004, 09:10 PM

Originally posted by fluffho
well yeh that too. murphys law or something... LOL i dunno

but yeh i do believe in fate, more so in the fact that i DONT believe in this 'i control whatever happens in my life' that some people believe

its not like im sad though either. just u can make plans all u want and something is weird is always gonna be thrown in to upset everything

i guess with love and everything, what i want is to be happy WHENever i am. they say'college/Hs are the best times of ur life.' for me, i want NOW to be the best time of my life. thats to say when im with my beautiful husband and family, the best time of my life is over??

so i just want to have a broad view of what i want, take it easy gettin there and be happy, let things fall into place and blah blah.. yeh now im blabbering lol but YEH im definitely just sittin here prety much lettin shit happen

You crack me up. :D

fluffho

07-23-2004, 09:13 PM

Originally posted by Stingy Jack
You crack me up. :D

cuz im so funny? maybe im so funny cuz im so relaxed all the time??

i fuckin signed up for classes... 1 history class. 2 online classes. 2 of them! FUCKIN HELL i have it too easy

as with love.... i dunno. i will say i can be difficult to get along with as i know what i want (especially now) and can be very picky but hey at least that narrows down the search right?

Stingy Jack

07-23-2004, 09:21 PM

Originally posted by fluffho
cuz im so funny? maybe im so funny cuz im so relaxed all the time??

i fuckin signed up for classes... 1 history class. 2 online classes. 2 of them! FUCKIN HELL i have it too easy

as with love.... i dunno. i will say i can be difficult to get along with as i know what i want (especially now) and can be very picky but hey at least that narrows down the search right?

Yeah, you crack me up because you're so funny. And I think you're so funny because you're so relaxed all the time. You'll just let your words flow straight from your mind into your fingers out onto the screen. And it's hilarious. Total stream-of-consciousness. And I'm sure you'll find what you're looking for when it comes to love. No worries.

fluffho

07-23-2004, 09:24 PM

Originally posted by Stingy Jack
Yeah, you crack me up because you're so funny. And I think you're so funny because you're so relaxed all the time. You'll just let your words flow straight from your mind into your fingers out onto the screen. And it's hilarious. Total stream-of-consciousness. And I'm sure you'll find what you're looking for when it comes to love. No worries.

i definitely type the way i talk. maybe thats why i dont make sense some of the time.. maybe thats why people look at me funny most the time. oh well

as for love. have a very special guy right now definitely taking slow with. i have high hopes with this one though but,.. we'll see!!!!! :D

Egekrusher

07-23-2004, 10:13 PM

I keep getting these damned walnuts stuck in meh arse.

Hate_Breeder

07-23-2004, 10:18 PM

Originally posted by Egekrusher
I keep getting these damned walnuts stuck in meh arse.

What is that supposec to mean?

fluffho

07-23-2004, 10:18 PM

eat a lot of peanut butter. itll help u poo

and eat oatmeal itll help move everything

not that i know from experience or anything

Hate_Breeder

07-23-2004, 10:23 PM

Originally posted by fluffho
eat a lot of peanut butter. itll help u poo

and eat oatmeal itll help move everything

not that i know from experience or anything

HAHAHHA i was listening to this song and you were smacking your booty to the beat of the music lol. That was awesome

fluffho

07-23-2004, 10:24 PM

Originally posted by Hate_Breeder
HAHAHHA i was listening to this song and you were smacking your booty to the beat of the music lol. That was awesome

MAN! i havent had speakers on this puter for forever so i cant even enjoy that.

i mean now i have speakers i just dont have the damn things set up right!! BAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Hate_Breeder

07-23-2004, 10:26 PM

Originally posted by fluffho
MAN! i havent had speakers on this puter for forever so i cant even enjoy that.

i mean now i have speakers i just dont have the damn things set up right!! BAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Damn its great. It works on every song hahahah :D

fluffho

07-23-2004, 10:28 PM

Originally posted by Hate_Breeder
Damn its great. It works on every song hahahah :D

maybe itll be a new craze, like how popular the dancing baby was. cept this one is tres sexier

Hate_Breeder

07-23-2004, 10:30 PM

Originally posted by fluffho
maybe itll be a new craze, like how popular the dancing baby was. cept this one is tres sexier

HAHAHA The dancing fluffs booty

Egekrusher

07-23-2004, 10:34 PM

Not really supposed to mean anything. I'm just YOUR SHOES ARE UNTIED

*runs away*

Hate_Breeder

07-23-2004, 10:41 PM

Originally posted by Egekrusher
Not really supposed to mean anything. I'm just YOUR SHOES ARE UNTIED

*runs away*

HAHAHAHHA whered he go? *looks at ceiling*

fluffho

07-23-2004, 10:43 PM

im sorry

i ate him

ive been reallyreally hungry lately. its a sick thing

Hate_Breeder

07-23-2004, 10:47 PM

Originally posted by fluffho
im sorry

i ate him

ive been reallyreally hungry lately. its a sick thing

:(

fluffho

07-23-2004, 10:50 PM

Originally posted by Hate_Breeder
:(

ok ok ok ok

*sticks finger down throat*

OK u have ur buddy back............ whiner

Hate_Breeder

07-23-2004, 10:53 PM

Originally posted by fluffho
ok ok ok ok

*sticks finger down throat*

OK u have ur buddy back............ whiner

Ahem! THank you fluff. Your too kind :)

fluffho

07-23-2004, 10:56 PM

Originally posted by Hate_Breeder
Ahem! THank you fluff. Your too kind :)

well thats the 2nd :( id gotten from u and i prefer only smiles!!!!!

anyway it woulda taken ETERNITY to dance him off... and as much as i love dancing i think my ass wuold fall off from overshaking.

AND THEN WHERE WOULD I BE???

Hate_Breeder

07-23-2004, 10:58 PM

Originally posted by fluffho
well thats the 2nd :( id gotten from u and i prefer only smiles!!!!!

anyway it woulda taken ETERNITY to dance him off... and as much as i love dancing i think my ass wuold fall off from overshaking.

AND THEN WHERE WOULD I BE???

um..........i dont know what your avatar would look like

bloodrayne

07-24-2004, 12:45 AM

Okay...Back to the topic...

I do believe...Now

And for those who may not believe in true love, perhaps someday, somewhere, somehow... Someone will come along and MAKE you believe...When you aren't even looking...and have even given up;) :)

Hate_Breeder

07-24-2004, 12:51 AM

I would love to meet someone like that. Maybe i already did. But she needs to clean out her damned PM box lol. *cough* Gravegirl *cough*

Gothic-chick

07-24-2004, 05:49 AM

Originally posted by Stingy Jack
All this talk about "the one true love" the person you are meant to be with ... meant by who? By fate? Come on. I think that's all a lot of over-romanticised hokey. Real love takes time. You can't just spot it, or feel it from a glance. It grows out of getting to know a person, out of spending time with them and learning to trust them and appreciate them. If you sit around waiting for some sort of soul mate to come along, you are setting yourself up to be a lonely Joe.

now here is something we agree on... love isn't something someone gives you, you already have it. They just make it get stronger and stronger. That takes time...

I've been married for 15 years. I love him more today than I did 15 years ago. To me, there is nothing better in this whole world than being in his arms.. Everyone should be able to find that kind of love. All this reading and talking about love is going to my head. Now I have to go crawl back into that warm bed with him.

evil_blonde

08-18-2004, 10:52 PM

i definitely believe in true love, although i am young, i still think that if you play your cards right you will eventually get what you want in love, and it will be perfect for you. that doesnt mean to say it will last forever, but thats a completely different story.

Lucid Dreams

08-18-2004, 11:30 PM

def....and don't ya love the feelin when you know you've found it:) :D :) :D :) :D

Hate_Breeder

08-18-2004, 11:32 PM

Originally posted by Lucid Dreams
def....and don't ya love the feelin when you know you've found it:) :D :) :D :) :D

Never had that feeling :(

Lucid Dreams

08-18-2004, 11:33 PM

Originally posted by Hate_Breeder
Never had that feeling :(

u will...and when u do....ur gonna lovvvvvvvve it!:)

Hate_Breeder

08-18-2004, 11:39 PM

Originally posted by Lucid Dreams
u will...and when u do....ur gonna lovvvvvvvve it!:)

Post #420 lol. Anyways i hope i do, doesnt look good at the rate im going :rolleyes:

Lucid Dreams

08-18-2004, 11:40 PM

Originally posted by Hate_Breeder
Post #420 lol. Anyways i hope i do, doesnt look good at the rate im going :rolleyes:

naa, know worries, believe me..ur gonna find somebody...thats how i was b4 i met brit...now i'm in love(all poofy eyed)...but believe me...ur gonna find som1;)

Hate_Breeder

08-18-2004, 11:47 PM

Originally posted by Lucid Dreams
naa, know worries, believe me..ur gonna find somebody...thats how i was b4 i met brit...now i'm in love(all poofy eyed)...but believe me...ur gonna find som1;)

Thanks Lucid. You guys seem like an awesome couple. I hope i can find someone like that

Lucid Dreams

08-18-2004, 11:51 PM

Originally posted by Hate_Breeder
Thanks Lucid. You guys seem like an awesome couple. I hope i can find someone like that

no problem....and why thank you HB

Hate_Breeder

08-18-2004, 11:52 PM

Originally posted by Lucid Dreams
no problem....and why thank you HB

anytime bra :)

VisionOfBlood

08-19-2004, 12:01 AM

Originally posted by Hate_Breeder
Thanks Lucid. You guys seem like an awesome couple. I hope i can find someone like that

aww ty jared....and you will. believe me. this is the second time ive been in love.(btw: anthony knows so this isnt a shocker:)). this is so completely different than the 1st time. this time i can actually tell how much i really love him. and i know i will marry him. if he'll take me as his wife. im 16 yrs old. andhave been through 6 girlfriend's and 8 boyfriend's not including anthony. it may seem like alot but iam content with my ex-ratio number.

i know anthony is the only one for me. if i loose him i will die. no if, ands, or buts-i will die. in my eyes he does no wrong. he could put on a barney costume and drink beer with me and eat tacos with me(meat free for anthony-he's a vegitarian). i still wouldnt care-id be a lil freaked out but thats besides the point.lol. i love him. iam in love with him. im his babydoll. his b-b and he's my na-na.(inside thing i shortened ant.and reversed the 2 letters n called him that one day well nite.).i love him.:rolleyes:

Hate_Breeder

08-19-2004, 12:07 AM

Originally posted by VisionOfBlood
aww ty jared....and you will. believe me. this is the second time ive been in love.(btw: anthony knows so this isnt a shocker:)). this is so completely different than the 1st time. this time i can actually tell how much i really love him. and i know i will marry him. if he'll take me as his wife. im 16 yrs old. andhave been through 6 girlfriend's and 8 boyfriend's not including anthony. it may seem like alot but iam content with my ex-ratio number.

i know anthony is the only one for me. if i loose him i will die. no if, ands, or buts-i will die. in my eyes he does no wrong. he could put on a barney costume and drink beer with me and eat tacos with me(meat free for anthony-he's a vegitarian). i still wouldnt care-id be a lil freaked out but thats besides the point.lol. i love him. iam in love with him. im his babydoll. his b-b and he's my na-na.(inside thing i shortened ant.and reversed the 2 letters n called him that one day well nite.).i love him.:rolleyes:

:( That makes me frown. But then it makes me happy how much you guys are in love. The picture goes perfect with the speach too :)

VisionOfBlood

08-19-2004, 12:19 AM

Originally posted by Hate_Breeder
:( That makes me frown. But then it makes me happy how much you guys are in love. The picture goes perfect with the speach too :)

jared no frowning allowed..not in mooby land!(dogma) [sorry i was just playin dress up jesus again] as satan as my witness you will find someone to love. and then freddy mercury will chime in 'can anybody find me somebody tooo loooooaaaavee'.

but in all seriousness...you will...i promiss you i thought after my heart was crushed last time..i wouldnt be in love ever again. hell right before anthony. i was swearing off both sexes for a long time. and then ant came along. and ive been with him for 7 and half months [dating for 4 and a half]. YOU WILL FIND YOUR CHICK.I GUARANTEE IT! [no i dont work at minekee (sp?)]:D

Hate_Breeder

08-19-2004, 12:29 AM

Originally posted by VisionOfBlood
jared no frowning allowed..not in mooby land!(dogma) [sorry i was just playin dress up jesus again] as satan as my witness you will find someone to love. and then freddy mercury will chime in 'can anybody find me somebody tooo loooooaaaavee'.

but in all seriousness...you will...i promiss you i thought after my heart was crushed last time..i wouldnt be in love ever again. hell right before anthony. i was swearing off both sexes for a long time. and then ant came along. and ive been with him for 7 and half months [dating for 4 and a half]. YOU WILL FIND YOUR CHICK.I GUARANTEE IT! [no i dont work at minekee (sp?)]:D

HAHAHAH Thanks. You know how to cheer me up ;) There is a girl that is DYING to see me up in Seattle. And she is a very awesome girl. Hell i was wanting to move up there anyhow

VisionOfBlood

08-19-2004, 12:30 AM

Originally posted by Hate_Breeder
HAHAHAH Thanks. You know how to cheer me up ;) There is a girl that is DYING to see me up in Seattle. And she is a very awesome girl. Hell i was wanting to move up there anyhow

SEEE! WHAT I TELL YAS!

Lucid Dreams

08-19-2004, 12:30 AM

Hate_Breeder

08-19-2004, 12:32 AM

Originally posted by Lucid Dreams
awesome...move next door!

She wants me to move in :eek:

KRUGERKID13

08-19-2004, 12:34 AM

no true loves not real

Lucid Dreams

08-19-2004, 12:40 AM

Originally posted by Hate_Breeder
She wants me to move in :eek:

nice

Stingy Jack

08-19-2004, 03:35 AM

Originally posted by VisionOfBlood
i know anthony is the only one for me. if i loose him i will die. no if, ands, or buts-i will die. in my eyes he does no wrong. he could put on a barney costume and drink beer with me and eat tacos with me(meat free for anthony-he's a vegitarian). i still wouldnt care-id be a lil freaked out but thats besides the point.lol. i love him. iam in love with him. im his babydoll. his b-b and he's my na-na.(inside thing i shortened ant.and reversed the 2 letters n called him that one day well nite.).i love him.:rolleyes:

Ugh!!!

Can she be banned for posting shit like this?