First Impressions

[bloodrayne]

Okay...I tried to hijack a thread with this because I was curious...It didn't work, so I decided to make my own:p ...So...Anyway...

What did you think the very first time that you laid eyes on your significant other?

With my ex husband, the first time I saw him I thought that he was an arrogant, egotistical, shallow, asshole...Not sure why I married him after all of that...Anyway...He turned out to be an arrogant, egotistical, shallow, asshole...So...Sometimes first impressions can be intuitive

As for my current (and last) boyfriend...Well...I already posted that I thought he might be a girl:D...Anyway...I was wrong about that one, and really happy about it, too:)

So, what about you guys?...What went through your head the first time you got a look at your honey?

***I'm a little worried about Vodstock's reply here, because his girl is really hot:D :eek: ***

[Hate_Breeder]

i knew someone was going to make a thread of this. But dont have a significant other. But there has been a couple girls that just made my jaw drop...

[zwoti]

ditto.

http://img78.photobucket.com/albums/v292/zwoti/badges/B-HowComeGirls.gif

[Egekrusher]

Don't have one. Don't want one.

I really just don't understand women. Every woman that I've ever dated (all 19 of them) are completely obsessive and overly emotional. My fiance hit me in the leg with a steel bar. As you could guess, she is no longer my fiance.

Women are fucking psycho and unrational. Sorry ladies, I know that's not always the case, but GODDAMN.

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by zwoti
ditto.

http://img78.photobucket.com/albums/v292/zwoti/badges/B-HowComeGirls.gif Hey!...I'm cool and I'm not a lesbian...Of course, If you saw my guy you might wonder about me :D :eek:

Ege..."Psychos" can be fun...and I can be rational...Sometimes:D :p

[friday13thfan]

i thought my current girl friend was complete bitch when i first met her.. but time went by and now we are allways around each other

[Egekrusher]

Originally posted by friday13thfan
i thought my current girl friend was complete bitch when i first met her.. but time went by and now we are allways around each other

Wait.. aren't you 13? What do you do, hold hands?

[friday13thfan]

Originally posted by Egekrusher
Wait.. aren't you 13? What do you do, hold hands?

14 and yes we do that and we hug each other but never kissed....yet

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by friday13thfan
14 and yes we do that and we hug each other but never kissed....yet Aww...That is SO sweet :)

[Egekrusher]

Just giving ya shit man. I remember what 14 was like. So you haven't kissed her yet, huh? Just haven't had the chance, or are you too nervous?

[Je Suis Phnomne]

Originally posted by friday13thfan
we do that and we hug each other but never kissed....yet

sounds alot like my dates. :D

[Egekrusher]

Originally posted by Je Suis Phnomne
sounds alot like my dates. :D

I have the opposite problem. I always end up having sex on the first date, and it's usually not my idea.

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by Egekrusher
I have the opposite problem. I always end up having sex on the first date, and it's usually not my idea. Well...You just must be too irresistably sexy...I'm sure that ALL the guys wish they had your "problem":) :cool:

[Egekrusher]

Originally posted by bloodrayne
Well...You just must be too irresistably sexy...I'm sure that ALL the guys wish they had your "problem":) :cool:

As I said, I tend to attract the psychos. I think it's more of an entrapment thing.

[Je Suis Phnomne]

Originally posted by bloodrayne
Well...You just must be too irresistably sexy...I'm sure that ALL the guys wish they had your "problem":) :cool:

hell yeah, all these man to hand relationships are a bit out there. *grinz* damn I wish I wasnt a virgin.

[Egekrusher]

Originally posted by Je Suis Phnomne
hell yeah, all these man to hand relationships are a bit out there. *grinz* damn I wish I wasnt a virgin.

How old are you, Je Suis?

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by Je Suis Phnomne
hell yeah, all these man to hand relationships are a bit out there. *grinz* damn I wish I wasnt a virgin. LMAO @ Phnomne...You were never a virgin :D

[Je Suis Phnomne]

Originally posted by Egekrusher
How old are you, Je Suis?

30

[Je Suis Phnomne]

Originally posted by bloodrayne
LMAO @ Phnomne...You were never a virgin :D

SHHHHHHH! lol ......::whispers:: this might work dammit.... shhhhh *grinz*

[Hate_Breeder]

You dont like the Psycho women Ege?

[Egekrusher]

Are you serious?

[Egekrusher]

Originally posted by Je Suis Phnomne
SHHHHHHH! lol ......::whispers:: this might work dammit.... shhhhh *grinz*

Bastard. You had me going there for a second.

:)

That would really, really suck though.

[Je Suis Phnomne]

Originally posted by Egekrusher
Bastard. You had me going there for a second.

:)

That would really, really suck though.

lol.... I was wondering how long I could string it along...

but back on topic...

When I met my first actuall love, it was truly love at first sight. I was dating someone else at the time, went out with some friends and met this girl while I was there. I fell so hard, I immediately went back to the other girls house to break it off with her so that I could come back and not feel guilty about getting to know her better.

[Stingy Jack]

When I first met my wife, the one thing that struck me about her was her eyes. They are a brilliant green, and since she has pale skin and black hair they stand out all the more. As far as her personality goes, I was really intimidated by her. She was a philosophy major at the University at the time, and she had this confidence that was overpowering. Her conversation was deep and thoughtful, and I was so worried that I was going to say something stupid. She is also a very shrewd business woman. When we met, she was wearing a dress and a green blazer. I had on some stupid windbreaker. I felt like I was in an interview when I was talking with her! :)

[Egekrusher]

Sounds like the kind of woman I want. Someone who is strong willed, who knows what they want. Someone who actually wants to do something with their life instead of just rotting away.

I'm coming to steal your wife, Jack.

[Stingy Jack]

LoL! Take my wife, please!!

Just kidding!!!

I love her very very very much!

(She knows I post here, and knows my handle. So, I need to play it safe.)

[orangestar]

on topic:

He's not actually my significant other I guess, but he's my best friend and I have the hugest crush on him. I remember thinking how cool it was that he came up and talked to me, he was really outgoing. Of course the first thing we talked about was how much he liked my best friend, which was a tad dissapointing lol. He was (and still is) a little cocky, but I like to call that confidence. I also remember how pretty I thought his eyes were. He was just really charming and charismatic, it was love at first sight

*sigh*

[Stingy Jack]

Orange, he's crazy if he doesn't like you in that way.

[orangestar]

Originally posted by Stingy Jack
Orange, he's crazy if he doesn't like you in that way.

:D Thanks Stingy, you always knoew how to make a girl feel better :D

[Egekrusher]

Does this help Star?

http://technologicalwasteland.com/images/funny/fat.jpg

[orangestar]

LOL yep ege.

[fluffho]

gorgeous

:D

[hellfire1]

i think the song "can't take my eyes off of you" actually played in my head when we first met...

but first impressions rarely last.

[Rebel Yell]

The first time I met my ex husband I thought he was a dork from hell. Not the good kind though. Then I saw him a couple months later and I thought he was a pig, but he was so unbelievably hot. We made out a couple times in a 2 year time span. Then we lost touch. A few years later we started talking again, and he had changed. He was so amazing. He helped me figure my head out, and he knew me in every way. We were best friends, and then we got engaged. Turns out he is a physically and emotionally abusive, slutty, lying, self-loathing prick. I never thought I would regret our relationship, but I do. 5 years of my life wasted on a pile of turd.

[fluffho]

Originally posted by Rebel Yell
5 years of my life wasted on a pile of turd.

never wasted, learned!!

[Candy Man]

Hey fluffho what up girl? I sees lucky still up in here tripping and shit. Man I m just gonna ignore her ass. She cant have this. And I think she wants this.

[fluffho]

Originally posted by Candy Man
She cant have this. And I think she wants this.

LOL!!! u funny....

[Rebel Yell]

Originally posted by fluffho
never wasted, learned!!
No. I usually consider situations like that learning experiences, but this was just all wrong. I miss those 5 years. I could have been having fun instead of crying every single day. I probably should have cut it short in the first place. Damn me and my drive to work things out!

[fluffho]

Originally posted by Rebel Yell
No. I usually consider situations like that learning experiences, but this was just all wrong. I miss those 5 years. I could have been having fun instead of crying every single day. I probably should have cut it short in the first place. Damn me and my drive to work things out!

well then yuo DID learn something. yes it is good to want to work things out than just to give up, but some things just cant be helped! believe me... i can relate to u on this one. anyways u cried 5 years straight that means u dont hafto cry so much anymore!

if there anything i learned.... never regret anything. the good and the bad, all shape us somehow, and for the better if we let it.

[Rebel Yell]

Originally posted by fluffho
well then yuo DID learn something. yes it is good to want to work things out than just to give up, but some things just cant be helped! believe me... i can relate to u on this one. anyways u cried 5 years straight that means u dont hafto cry so much anymore!

if there anything i learned.... never regret anything. the good and the bad, all shape us somehow, and for the better if we let it.
Yeah yeah. Let me be a stubborn broad!!

<3

[fluffho]

and let me be a heartless one! at least thats how i come off but hey why be sad/angry huh?

[Rebel Yell]

I am heartless too! I have been extremely happy since we broke up. People think I am emotionally retarded or something. I love it.

[fluffho]

hahahahaha... yeh i feel u. i could give the details and we could see whos more heartless but uhhh.. i better not on here... for obvious reasons.. wel mayeb not so obvious to u since ur new

[Rebel Yell]

My mom calls me a black widow. She is right.

There is no need to go into detail. I am sure you are more heartless than I. I try not to be heartless, but that 5 minute bitterness really kicked my ass.

[fluffho]

woahh black widow. thats a lot cooler than what i get!

i us ually get boring shit like heartbreaker. but yesterday though one of my friends said im kim catrall on sex and the city. cant say i knew what she was talking abou as ive never seen that show and dont plan on it.... but it doesnt sound good!

[Plaguewind]

Well, I promise I`ll tell you what I think of her as soon as I get one... *laughs*

[Plaguewind]

Originally posted by Rebel Yell
He helped me figure my head out, and he knew me in every way. We were best friends


Well, that`s all I could ever hope for... *sighs*

[natas]

The first time I met my ex-fiance I thought, Wow...he's hot, smart, funny, totally BF material. After a couple months he proposed. We were together for 4 years...til last April when I broke things off. He's still a great person...we're just not going in the same direction anymore.

[Freddy Krueger.]

Originally posted by friday13thfan
14 and yes we do that and we hug each other but never kissed....yet Aw. How sweet. Please excuse me while I VOMIT.


My first real friend seemed like a real mysterious, gothic kind of gal. Turns out shes not all that mysterious and goes "like, oh my God" when she talks and she goes crazy when she breaks a nail. Pathetic. Truely pathetic. So that next day when i woke up and looked over to her next to me in the bed, I smiled and said as she woke up, "why the fuck are you still here? Get the hell out of my house bitch!" So she went out crying. It was so funny. Ever see a Barbie doll cry? I laughed and laughed.

[Haunted]

I don't go for that "love at first sight" sort of thing. I though my ex-ex was fabulous the first time I saw him, sweet...yadda yadda yadda. He turned out to be a piece of shit.

Most guys fall for two things about me: knowledge and my eyes. The rest of me is sort of plain.

[Stingy Jack]

Originally posted by Haunted
I don't go for that "love at first sight" sort of thing. I though my ex-ex was fabulous the first time I saw him, sweet...yadda yadda yadda. He turned out to be a piece of shit.

Most guys fall for two things about me: knowledge and my eyes. The rest of me is sort of plain.

I agree. "Love at first sight" is a crock of shit. Anyone who tells you they fell in love at first sight is confused as to what love really is. You can't love someone without knowing them first. Without respecting, admiring, and trusting them. Those things come with time -- not a glance. "Love at first sight" really means: "I wanted to fuck this person right away!" Not love at all.

[orangestar]

Originally posted by Stingy Jack
I agree. "Love at first sight" is a crock of shit. Anyone who tells you they fell in love at first sight is confused as to what love really is. You can't love someone without knowing them first. Without respecting, admiring, and trusting them. Those things come with time -- not a glance. "Love at first sight" really means: "I wanted to fuck this person right away!" Not love at all.

Thats so cynical! I'd like to believe that there is one soul mate for everyone. There are lots of people close to being perfect for you, but there's only one thats really truly meant to be with you. If I were to meet my one and only I'd like to think that I would know at first sight.

[Miss Britt]

Originally posted by orangestar
Thats so cynical! I'd like to believe that there is one soul mate for everyone. There are lots of people close to being perfect for you, but there's only one thats really truly meant to be with you. If I were to meet my one and only I'd like to think that I would know at first sight.

Never beleived in love at first sight, Never thought about Soul mates or any of that, then I met tony and my world changed and was destroyed.... Too long a story.... But never think that theres only one met to be with you, Because it isn't true....

[Stingy Jack]

Originally posted by orangestar
Thats so cynical! I'd like to believe that there is one soul mate for everyone. There are lots of people close to being perfect for you, but there's only one thats really truly meant to be with you. If I were to meet my one and only I'd like to think that I would know at first sight.

This is a strange thing to say, seeing as you're an atheist. :D I mean, I agree that there is someone out there who is perfect for you (compatibility-wise), and you may find this person incredibly attractive when you first lay eyes on him. But, you have to get to know him before you can say you love him. Otherwise, that ain't love.