cryptkeeper666
05-31-2016, 03:02 PM
I don't know the precise time. But it's possible between 1 or 2. and It was Sunday morning about 1 or 2. but she past away at the nursing home. me and my brother visit our mom this past Friday may 27th and Saturday the 28th. We took cabs but we were lucky that hospice paid for the rides. But let's go to the point how my mom got sick. It start it back in last year of 2015 on June 5th. Me and my mom was downtown. She was paying my rent through the court but it's a long crazy story about that but just let's stick with my mom's story for right now and what lead to my mom's death. After the courthouse me and my mom took a metro bus and head on the way up to Delhi. we got off at burger king. We went into there. My mom ordering up the food for both of us. I had a fish sandwich I'm pretty sure of. I can't remember what my mom had maybe a whopper or something. We had soft drinks of course and fries. I ate my whole fish sandwich. Than I start it chowing down a burger she got me too. I got through half of it. My mom went up to get a refill on her soft drink. She walked back to the table then sat down on the seat at the other side of the table. She fell towards the window on her side. She thought the table was moving away from her. But that was not possible I checked underneath the table it was attached to the floor. So I knew there was something wrong. I was asking my mom what's wrong or what's going on. She was yelling at me a little I don't know what's going on stop asking me that. An old lady came to the table and ask my mom what's wrong dear ? I think my mom said I don't know or something. The old lady said I'm going to get help or something. So she went up to the counter where you place your orders at to get help. another lady came to the table. She could of been the manager of the restaurant. She told my mom that she called the emergency that their on their way. They arrived fast too. They were checking my mom out to see what was going on with her. Checked the blood pressure or things like that. They wanted to take my mom to the hospital but at first she didn't want to go but I assist her too. She wanted to go to Kroger to get her rent but She couldn't and the paramedics couldn't leave her like that. They would of been responsible if they did. So they got the stretcher and took my mom to the hospital. I stayed a night there. There was no cab provided to me. My brother came and picked me up the next day. But my mom she had tests done on her and what turn out that cause what was going on in burger king. It was a stroke that caused it. A mini stroke. Then eventually she was transported to the nursing home. She had been there sense last year of June up to this year of 2016. She eventually start it having random strokes out from nowhere. I went with my brother to visit her on mother's day. She couldn't hardly talk good. Mostly mumbling and couldn't understand some words. Just some short words. I think she still remembered me some. But we visit her than. And then we visit her again like I said from the beginning of this post. But it was the 2 and final days we get to see our mom still kicking spent the final moments with her. Friday may 27 and Saturday the 28th. Than Sunday may the 29th about 2 something in the morning my brother got a call on his cell which woke me up. I ran from out of my bedroom and into the living room. I knew though that it was bad news. I woke my brother up and told him that his phone was ringing. He missed the call so he returned the call to hear the sad and tragic news. Our mom had past away. She's gone and noway of bringing her back. I hope she knew I loved her very and very much that I will do about anything for her. I just wish I could of been a better son then I was. I guess I'm just beating my self up too much about it. Or over my mom's death. I knew the day will come I just didn't want to see it. I guess sometimes you have to face the facts of reality that sooner or later your number's up. My mom didn't have no life insurance for the funeral expenses. She didn't left for me and my brother to pay for it all. Now where trying to get this funeral home to set it up with the city government for the cheapest way they to go and that's cremation. Can't have her buried and she told me before that she doesn't want to get eating up by bugs. So she said cremation because some choose and or get scattered over an ocean but there's no ocean where I'm from. But that or maybe a mausoleum. But I checked with a cemetery place and a mausoleum man is expensive. Funeral not cheap ether. But don't laugh people being poor not too cool or fun. But it sucks when there are not enough high amount of money to do anything with. Low income is what some have. And when you have that. The government should step in and help. So if everything goes as plain. Where home free. But when or if my mom gets cremated. She'll be placed in a cemetery near by where we can visit her at anytime we want. And from what we found out so far that my mom will be cremated by her self and her ashes will not be mixed with others and she'll be in a plot by her self. I'm still broken up about all of this. it's real hard. I never yet in my life lost someone that I'm so close to. She done lots of things for me up until the point of her first stroke. It's a very sad and tragic time for me. So that's all about so far of what happen. I have nothing much else to say about this. Please leave any comments if you like while I'm going through the grieving process. I'll be grateful that you do. and please no rude comments. Respect is needed. Thank you! so much.