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bloodygurl02
06-09-2004, 10:38 PM
LONDON (Reuters) - Women are likely to have more sex on the days when they are most fertile, even if they are not trying to get pregnant, scientists say.


That means that taking a chance and having sex without using contraception could be more likely to result in unwanted pregnancies than previously thought.


"There apparently are biological factors promoting intercourse during a woman's six fertile days, whether she wants a baby or not," said Professor Allen Wilcox, of the National Institute of Environmental Health Sciences in Durham, North Carolina.


But he and his colleagues do not understand the reasons and doubt that women are even aware of them.


In a study of 68 women who recorded when they had sex over a three-month period, Wilcox and his colleagues discovered that during ovulation, when a woman is most likely to become pregnant, the overall frequency of sex increased by 24 percent.


"There are some biological mechanisms at work here that curiously we know very little about," he said in an interview.


"It suggests that couples who 'take a chance' with unprotected intercourse have the deck stacked against them. Intercourse does not happen randomly," Wilcox, who reported the findings in the journal Human Reproduction on Thursday, added.


He and his colleagues are not sure why sex is more frequent during a woman's most fertile time of the month, but they suspect there are a few factors at work.


Most women have about six fertile days a month -- the five days preceding ovulation and the day of ovulation.


A woman's libido may be heightened when she is ovulating so she has an increased interest in sex, or she may produce more pheromones, chemicals that send messages to other individuals, that increase her sexual attractiveness.


Animal studies have also shown that having sex accelerates ovulation.


"For couples who want a baby these biological mechanisms are a silent partner, helping to optimise the timing of intercourse," Wilcox said.


But he said women who do not want to conceive should be aware that unprotected sex may be riskier than the odds suggest.


"For couples who don't want to conceive the message would be that when you take a chance that chance is even bigger than you might think."

Arioch
06-11-2004, 09:25 AM
Awww:( i thought you would have THE answer to the threads title for me.....:(

Vodstok
06-11-2004, 09:35 AM
In my experience with my fiance:

women want the following (in no particular order)
Chocolate
Being rubbed
compliments (not just about the boobs and the butt, but they like that sometimes :))
Attention
More chocolate
Strawberries
Fuzzy animals (that can include you, if you happen to be one)
movies that incite them to cry
Movies that incite YOU to cry.
Ice Cream
Flowers (learn their favorite, dont just go with roses, unless they like them)
Head scratches
Brushing their hair
Out of the blue acknowledgements of changes in A) hair, b) clothing c) make-up

By no means a complete list, but i think it is a good start. What do you think, ladies?

Arioch
06-11-2004, 09:41 AM
women want the following (in no particular order)
Chocolate
Being rubbed
compliments (not just about the boobs and the butt, but they like that sometimes )
Attention
More chocolate
Strawberries
Fuzzy animals (that can include you, if you happen to be one)
movies that incite them to cry
Movies that incite YOU to cry.
Ice Cream
Flowers (learn their favorite, dont just go with roses, unless they like them)
Head scratches
Brushing their hair
Out of the blue acknowledgements of changes in A) hair, b) clothing c) make-up

By no means a complete list, but i think it is a good start. What do you think, ladies?

LOL i can vouche for some of those....women do tend to like chocolate.....ALOT...

Vodstok
06-11-2004, 09:57 AM
Ever see a woman go into DT over chocolate? it aint pretty.

Arioch
06-13-2004, 04:05 PM
DT? I've seen a woman get chocolate withdrawl, thats not pretty either....

Vodstok
06-14-2004, 03:29 AM
De-tox. Withdrawls. Callit what you will, it is dangerous :)

hellfire1
06-14-2004, 04:48 PM
hmmmm..... head scratches..... chocolate.... heaven....

Lucky
07-13-2004, 01:16 AM
Women just want to be loved,respected and treated like a person.
read men are from venus and women are from mars I think that is the name of the book.
LOL

Hate_Breeder
07-13-2004, 01:20 AM
Originally posted by Lucky
Women just want to be loved,respected and treated like a person.

agreed. Although i know very little about women. I would like to think i do.....but i dont. But what can i say im an old fashioned romantic.

Arioch
07-13-2004, 01:49 AM
Women just want to be loved,respected and treated like a person.
read men are from venus and women are from mars I think that is the name of the book.
LOL

"Shut your mouth....you know nothing of women!"
"Of course i dont!....i'm a man!"

Not my quote but relavant i thought....

Hate_Breeder
07-13-2004, 03:04 AM
Originally posted by Arioch
"Shut your mouth....you know nothing of women!"
"Of course i dont!....i'm a man!"

Not my quote but relavant i thought....

ARIOCH! So close to 3000. If i miss it then CONGRADULATIONS. And keep kicking ass ;)

Vodstok
07-23-2004, 12:04 PM
Originally posted by hellfire1
hmmmm..... head scratches..... chocolate.... heaven.... '

This is why i am so loved by my fiance....:)

hellfire1
07-23-2004, 02:35 PM
Originally posted by Vodstok
'

This is why i am so loved by my fiance....:)


lucky, lucky woman...


finally a man who's got it right ;)

bloodrayne
07-28-2004, 10:11 PM
Originally posted by Lucky
Women just want to be loved,respected and treated like a person.I would say that in my case that's true...

Unfortunately, there are SO many women who do not want or need love (as they have quite enough of it for THEMSELVES), and they are incapable of giving love to anyone else...They need constant ATTENTION, not love...

As for "respect"...These women believe that it comes from looks, money, possessions, power and an impressive name...They have no clue what real respect is, and they have no respect for anyone else...

Also...They do NOT want to be treated like "people"...They want to be treated much better than mere people...They want to be treated like queens...Goddesses...Yet, they treat everyone like shit

I'm afraid that these types of women are responsible for making many men the assholes that they are...I have seen quite a few decent men, give up and figure "why bother?" because of their encounters with women like these...

Sorry for the rant...I am just so INCREDIBLY sick of shallow people:mad:

Hate_Breeder
07-29-2004, 03:06 AM
Originally posted by bloodrayne
I would say that in my case that's true...

Unfortunately, there are SO many women who do not want or need love (as they have quite enough of it for THEMSELVES), and they are incapable of giving love to anyone else...They need constant ATTENTION, not love...

As for "respect"...These women believe that it comes from looks, money, possessions, power and an impressive name...They have no clue what real respect is, and they have no respect for anyone else...

Also...They do NOT want to be treated like "people"...They want to be treated much better than mere people...They want to be treated like queens...Goddesses...

I'm afraid that these types of women are responsible for making many men the assholes that they are...I have seen quite a few decent men, give up and figure "why bother?" because of their encounters with women like these...

Sorry for the rant...I am just so INCREDIBLY sick of shallow people:mad:

Agreed. But Men do this sometimes too. They rely souly on looks, and not whats on the inside, that makes that person themselves.

bloodrayne
07-29-2004, 03:52 AM
Originally posted by Hate_Breeder
Agreed. But Men do this sometimes too. They rely souly on looks, and not whats on the inside, that makes that person themselves. That is definitely true, Hate Breeder...But, I think that there are a larger number of women who are the way that I described...and the thread was about women...So.....

Lucid Dreams
07-31-2004, 07:01 PM
i get this room....girls want certain things, guys want certain things, and all in all, neither knows what the other fully wants....thats why the working of "Loving the inside and not the outside" comes together....for instance...me and my girlfriend(VisionOfBlood) actually met 1 night when i was tripping madly off of DXM and my friend that was over didn't know how to come me down...so he talked to her...i talked to her....we became great friends and a few months later we fell for each other and havn't left each others side since....not to mention, we were only talking online for a few weeks before we actually did see each other, and by that point we already liked each other, soley on personality....and i'm sure once she see's this post she's gonna add something that i didn't...soo yaa...trying to prove the fact that not neccisarily all guys are assholes and want girls bc of soley their looks....guys(well most guys at least....except the assholes....damn those assholes) want to actually like the girl instead of just the body.:)

VisionOfBlood
07-31-2004, 08:46 PM
Originally posted by Lucid Dreams
i get this room....girls want certain things, guys want certain things, and all in all, neither knows what the other fully wants....thats why the working of "Loving the inside and not the outside" comes together....for instance...me and my girlfriend(VisionOfBlood) actually met 1 night when i was tripping madly off of DXM and my friend that was over didn't know how to come me down...so he talked to her...i talked to her....we became great friends and a few months later we fell for each other and havn't left each others side since....not to mention, we were only talking online for a few weeks before we actually did see each other, and by that point we already liked each other, soley on personality....and i'm sure once she see's this post she's gonna add something that i didn't...soo yaa...trying to prove the fact that not neccisarily all guys are assholes and want girls bc of soley their looks....guys(well most guys at least....except the assholes....damn those assholes) want to actually like the girl instead of just the body.:)

this, in fact, is all true. everything he has said, done, and lived is all true. anthony is the best, most amazing, caring partner ive ever had. ive been through over 5 girlfriends and over 6 boyfriends. and i think ive finally found a match in this guy. theres nothing he or anyone else could do to change my mind about how i feel about him. i can say for once that i AM in love with this guy. there's no denying it, nor turning around what has been done. there is nothing that he does, that he doesnt do for me. he treats me like the queen im not. he constantly helping me with my knee (long story but i need another surgery soon [going on the 4th one]), he's always worrying about me, he says i look beautiful even when i look like death-warmed-over,he talks to me and pretty much sees me everyday without fail, he satisfies me in EVERY way. he is the guy, man, whtver for me. ive said i refuse to get married and this guy has changed that idea completely around for me. i can see myself with him until the day i die, being completely and utterly faithful the whole way through.i love him so damn dearly, id kill for him and be killed for him. and knowing the way he is with me, he'd probably do the same. i love anthony zamparelli and i will be with him until i take my last breath on this wretched planet i live upon. i love you baby. always and forever.

bloodrayne
08-01-2004, 04:33 AM
Lucid Dreams & VisionOfBlood...All that I can say is.....Awwww:)


This is why it's so important NOT to be shallow...You can't value what REALLY matters, until you know what it is