Broken Hearted

[mikeyjay88]

So recently i lost my girlfriend. I found out she cheated on me so i had no choice but to say bye bye. It was about a 2 year relationship and it sucks it had to go down this way. Anyone ever been totally broken hearted? It feels like a lost part of me. I thought id share it here because i pretty much have no one to talk to.

[Papillon Noir]

That sucks. :( That's happened to me before, but the good news is that you found out about it and can now move on and meet someone better. :) How did you find out about it?

[mikeyjay88]

Long story. Its almost like a damn soap opera i kept calling her and she wouldnt answer she always does but this time she didnt. So i went over to her place and i have a key (we gave eachother keys to our apartments) i opened the door low and behold she was with some dude. So i left. She came over explained she didnt love me anymore then she said she loved him and that she was sorry and we could be friends. Not gonna happen.. i feel pathetic spilling my guts on a forum but your all people and have feelings so i figured i could get some cheering up. Im pretty depressed..

[Papillon Noir]

Yeah, you can't be friends after something like that. I would tell you not to feel depressed, but it can't be helped. Only know that tomorrow you will feel a little better and a little better the day after that. Just take things one step at a time. :)

[mikeyjay88]

Thank you. Your a sweetheart. I keep it bottled up b.c my friends arent really helpful and i love far away from my family. It feels nice to get it out.

[neverending]

You joined a horror forum so you could get therapy?

[mikeyjay88]

No but it looks like that eh :) Nope i joined because i love horror movies. They do however have therapy forums. I just figured i could make a thread about anything in this section right? Theres a gay thread and a over 40s thread so why couldnt i make one about having a broken heart?

[missmacabre]

Aww that's bogus. Feel free to PM me if you still need t vent. I hear I'm a super good listener.

I was in a 1.5 year relationship where I was being treated like major shit. I didn't even realize that my ex was controlling and emotionally abusive. I was kinda brainwashed. Once enough people I trusted told me that he was bad news I broke up with him but it still hurts when I think about it. Less broken heart, more How could I be so dumb?"

BUT I find that after you go through so much shit, the universe is obligated to give you something great in return. Or maybe you just realize and appreciate the good things more.

[mikeyjay88]

The men that emotionally and physically abuse girls piss me off. I loved my girlfriend im not going to say i treated her like a princess but i definatly cared for her in everyway. She even told i was the best boyfriend she ever had she just wasnt totally ready to commit and she found someone else. I treat a girl the way she should be treated with love and respect. My dad was physically abusive to my mom up until i was about 15 then she finally left him. Now she married a good man who loves her to death. I hope your next relationship or current one is way better!

Id love to talk to you. I think your really sweet.

[mikeyjay88]

Im gay? I had no idea wow :p

[missmacabre]

Im gay? I had no idea wow :p

What?! You just told me you weren't!




Maybe I am?:p

[mikeyjay88]

Haha lets be gay together <3 lol

[mikeyjay88]

Now you know. Save it for Oprah.com sissy boy.

Haha okay do you have oprahs number? Maybe i could even call her and go on the show

[missmacabre]

Haha okay do you have oprahs number? Maybe i could even call her and go on the show

I'm sure she'd love having the first straight gay couple on her show. Or are we the first gay straight couple?

[mikeyjay88]

I'm sure she'd love having the first straight gay couple on her show. Or are we the first gay straight couple?

I think the first gay straight couple to be honest :)

[The Mothman]

not to be a dick, but you have 20 posts, explain to us why we should sympathize with a complete stranger? this is a horror forum, not an emo forum.

[mikeyjay88]

woah my bad didnt expect to be hated for this one thread i guess i expected ya'll to be human and care but if you dont care dont worry about posting right?

[missmacabre]

If a frequent poster just broke up with someone they were with for 2 years we would care. People are People. Say Rayne and Dude broke up, would we call them emo for venting? So why is this any different?

[mikeyjay88]

If a frequent poster just broke up with someone they were with for 2 years we would care. People are People. Say Rayne and Dude broke up, would we call them emo for venting? So why is this any different?

This is why i like you! You have a heart

[Phalanx]

She came over explained she didnt love me anymore then she said she loved him and that she was sorry and we could be friends. Not gonna happen..
Yeah, be friends with the person who did this rather than tell you up front...fact is, obviously she was happy going behind your back and would most likely have strung you along that way for some time...not exactly friendship material, where there's so little respect.

[urgeok2]

here i sit
broken hearted.
paid a dime
and only farted

yesterday i took a chance
didnt pay and shit my pants.




thats the 1st thing that pops to my addled mind every time i see the subject line of this thread.

[Phalanx]

here i sit
broken hearted.
paid a dime
and only farted

I heard an updated one of that
"tried to shit" as the third line...yknow, on account of not paying anymore.

Although, might come back in...in the city here, there's some ridiculously modern self cleaning toilet booths...they cost 50c

[urgeok2]

i clearly remember dime toilets when i was a kid ... how insane is that ?


when we were young - but old enough to hang out - a big gang of us would go down to the woolworths in my hometown and sit at the soda fountain.
ice tea was all you could drink for 25 cents so this bunch of idiot friends and i would go there every saturday and sit there drinking ice tea until we drained the big container. the lady at the counter hated our guts.

we didnt do anything - we werent bad - we just drank her dry every single saturday.


fuck i'm laughing at the thought - i find that so damn funny now.


anyway - 1 of us had to make sure we brought a dime..... we'd all head to the can - the guy with the dime would pay to get us into the stall, then each guy would hold the door open for the next guy.

live in a small town kids.

[Phalanx]

If you added "and we all pissed allover the floor", that would be so me...

[bloodrayne]

thats the 1st thing that pops to my addled mind every time i see the subject line of this thread.

For me, it's a song...Every time I see the title of this thread...I end up humming it

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hi0xAKNkbeo

[newb]

Looks like this thread went to shit

[bloodrayne]

Looks like this thread went to shit

Very punny :)

[DraculaInDallas]

Long story. Its almost like a damn soap opera i kept calling her and she wouldnt answer she always does but this time she didnt. So i went over to her place and i have a key (we gave eachother keys to our apartments) i opened the door low and behold she was with some dude. So i left. She came over explained she didnt love me anymore then she said she loved him and that she was sorry and we could be friends. Not gonna happen.. i feel pathetic spilling my guts on a forum but your all people and have feelings so i figured i could get some cheering up. Im pretty depressed..

Snap out of it n00b.....obviously that hobag wasn't worth getting a stiff cock over. Time to move on, there's so many fine ladies out there....you live in California, get to the nearest beach and hook up with one of those California girls. You only live once, chalk that tramp up to experience and get out there and grab a nice piece of ass......you'll feel better in no time. Trust 'ol Drac....I know what I'm talking about. :cool:

[mikeyjay88]

Hahaha drac best advice i have ever gotten lol

[DraculaInDallas]

Hahaha drac best advice i have ever gotten lol


no problem.....Dr. Drac is here to help....











my bill is in the mail :D

[mikeyjay88]

Better not be to expensive of a bill but ill pay you definatly helped haha

[skyblue342]

Woman can suck! I hope you feel better:)

[Despare]

Woman can suck!

Only if you're lucky...

[The Mothman]

If a frequent poster just broke up with someone they were with for 2 years we would care.

honestly, no, i wouldn't. i don't know any of you personally, Im here to discuss horror films, not relationships, and frankly theres been too many of these types of threads to ignore. if somethings bothering you, i suggest you seek out a friend, family member, or therapist, not a distant internet stranger. im not tryng to be an asshole, im telling it like it is.

So, thats me venting.

[mikeyjay88]

Your entitled to your own opinion. Since you feel that way leave this threads alone..everyones different.

[The Mothman]

Your entitled to your own opinion. Since you feel that way leave this threads alone..everyones different.

frankly theres been too many of these types of threads to ignore.


..............

[mikeyjay88]

Im sorry man if you cant ignore it thats your problem..

[missmacabre]

Wowww

Everyone on HDC is so grouchy lately. It's hard enough to keep positive, now we can't post anything about venting and a lot of members are snapping over the smallest things. If you wanted to go after someone who starts a whole new thread to post about their personal life you could at least choose someone who has done it more than once.

Besides, I think it's proper forum etiquette to check a forum out and see what kinds of things are being posted. Can you blame the guy for posting a personal situation when that's what he sees other people doing?

Done venting.

[Bub the Zombie]

Okay let me get this straight.
You sign up as a lover of horror movies, post a couple of pics in the Pics thread, no posts in Modern Horror or anything remotely related to horror yet, and proceed to make a thread such as this in a place which is still very new and full of strangers, at least for you? Such a sensitive topic is actually hidden from strangers, and leaked only to the best and closest of friends.
And even after that, I find your story hard to believe.

What's next? Picking out the most sympathetic person in this thread and start hitting on her to be your online gf of sorts?
People need to stop treating forums as any sort of dating service.:rolleyes:

My suggestion - get a life, and a new gf, if all what you posted is actually true.

[mikeyjay88]

Haha you guys are so nice here

[missmacabre]

Okay let me get this straight.
You sign up as a lover of horror movies, post a couple of pics in the Pics thread, no posts in Modern Horror or anything remotely related to horror yet, and proceed to make a thread such as this in a place which is still very new and full of strangers, at least for you? Such a sensitive topic is actually hidden from strangers, and leaked only to the best and closest of friends.
And even after that, I find your story hard to believe.

What's next? Picking out the most sympathetic person in this thread and start hitting on her to be your online gf of sorts?
People need to stop treating forums as any sort of dating service.:rolleyes:

My suggestion - get a life, and a new gf, if all what you posted is actually true.

I will actually give you that. Damn my natural wit and charm. :D
But seriously people need to cheer up.

Yes, Mike! Post about movies! (even though I'm a hypocrite and haven't been able to watch any new movies to talk about them)

[neverending]

Well, posting about my personal problems to people I don't know isn't a choice I'd make, but to each their own.

Nothing destructive is happening, so I wouldn't get too upset about it.

We're always beleagered by people who come here for ulterior motives so you've got to excuse regulars who are a little gun shy of n00bs who come in here and don't seem to have any interest in horror films.

We've also had a spate of whiners lately who kinda stunk up the place- I'm not saying that's you, but you've got to cut us some slack if you want the same in return.

[mikeyjay88]

Okay thats understandable. I hope i can be more liked here after i prove im definatly not a troll.

[Phalanx]

Hey, lets fight!

[bwind22]

this is a horror forum, not an emo forum.


Hahahaha. Classic!



As for the guy that started this thread, my words of advice are this...

Be glad you found out when you did instead of wasting more time with that skank.

Tell the next girl you meet this story and she'll probably throw you some pity sex.

Start making horror related posts now.

[Phalanx]

...and Tell Yo Homies That Slut Gave You Vd

[Keith Stryton III]

oh well Mickey remember there are fish in the sea.

Keith.
x

[X¤MurderDoll¤X]

You joined a horror forum so you could get therapy?

this
.................

[mikeyjay88]

Yea thats exacly what i did ;) :rolleyes:

[Papillon Noir]

I think MikeyJay joined this forum to talk about horror; it's not his fault that his girlfriend cheated on him at the same time and he didn't have time to establish himself in the other horror sections. :rolleyes: This is the general forum, you should be allowed to talk about whatever.

@Mikey
Drac is right, rebound sex is always the best! :D

[bloodrayne]

@Mikey
Drac is right, rebound sex is always the best! :D

Hmm...I want some of that

*Breaks up with Dustin...Goes to the kitchen...Comes back to the parlor...Looks at Dustin..."Hey, what's goin' on?...You come here often?...You're extremely sexy...So, uhhh...Me and my boyfriend just broke up...It was kinda rough, there in the kitchen, all by myself...I could really use a shoulder to cry on...HEY, that's not your shoulder!...oooh, Baby"*

:D

[X¤MurderDoll¤X]

This is the general forum, you should be allowed to talk about whatever.


you ARE allowed to talk about whatever in here, it doesn't mean you have a free pass to say anything you want without people making fun of you for it though.

[mikeyjay88]

I think MikeyJay joined this forum to talk about horror; it's not his fault that his girlfriend cheated on him at the same time and he didn't have time to establish himself in the other horror sections. :rolleyes: This is the general forum, you should be allowed to talk about whatever.

@Mikey
Drac is right, rebound sex is always the best! :D

Thank you your sweet. I definatly want to get more popular on this site and im sorry if i offended anyone because on my 2nd day i wrote about my ex. It is the general forum though so ill wait before i do that again.

Rebound sex i LOVE it! haha

[monalisa]

Hmm...I want some of that

*Breaks up with Dustin...Goes to the kitchen...Comes back to the parlor...Looks at Dustin..."Hey, what's goin' on?...You come here often?...You're extremely sexy...So, uhhh...Me and my boyfriend just broke up...It was kinda rough, there in the kitchen, all by myself...I could really use a shoulder to cry on...HEY, that's not your shoulder!...oooh, Baby"*

:D

Rayne, that's really damn funny.

[missmacabre]

I never get rebound or makeup sex On the up hand that's cause we never fight. yay!


Seriously, Derek and I have dated for almost 2 years and have had serious conversations about issues but never fights.

[mikeyjay88]

I never get rebound or makeup sex On the up hand that's cause we never fight. yay!


Seriously, Derek and I have dated for almost 2 years and have had serious conversations about issues but never fights.

Thats good though, fighting sucks i remember fighting with my ex and we wouldnt talk all day it felt like a waste of a day. Im happy your in a good relationship like that. I wish you the best in all the years to come :)

[monalisa]

Thats good though, fighting sucks i remember fighting with my ex and we wouldnt talk all day it felt like a waste of a day. Im happy your in a good relationship like that. I wish you the best in all the years to come :)

And if it gets boring and it's worth the effort, spice it up like Rayne. :p
Sorry, her post just really cracked me up.

[mikeyjay88]

I did chuckle a bit when i read what rayne wrote lol.

[monalisa]

I did chuckle a bit when i read what rayne wrote lol.

Buck up man, I know you're hurting now, but it will get better. I recently ended (well it was this last summer) a 12 year long relationship. I LOVE being on my own. It gets easier as you get older. When I was younger I always wanted someone around, now I love just having the unconditional love of my dog, and my friends and family. Do NOT let anyone make you feel bad about yourself. God knows I struggle with that all the time. But if at the end of the day, if you know you've done the best you can,fuck what other people think. You'll find someone again, and in the mean time, spend some time getting to know yourself better. And being by yourself ain't all that bad. No one to nag you. I know the stereotype is that women are the naggers, but my ex, and I still tease him about this, so does one of his other best friends, can out-nag ANY woman any day.

Time does heal, but it takes time.

[mikeyjay88]

Thank you and your right, 2 years seemed like 20 years so it makes it harder. The fact we talked about marrying one another even made it harder. I cant say ill never get over her because im know i will but it will always hurt me what she did. Ive never been cheated on nor have i cheated so that ontop of losing her kills me. Im hoping the healing process is quick because the hurt i feel really sucks!! Thank you though your words truelly helped a bit :)

[monalisa]

Thank you and your right, 2 years seemed like 20 years so it makes it harder. The fact we talked about marrying one another even made it harder. I cant say ill never get over her because im know i will but it will always hurt me what she did. Ive never been cheated on nor have i cheated so that ontop of losing her kills me. Im hoping the healing process is quick because the hurt i feel really sucks!! Thank you though your words truelly helped a bit :)

I was cheated on at a young age too. It happens. And I still sometimes have trust issues after all these years. She did it, you didn't. People are real assholes sometimes. All you can do is the best you can do, appreciate the people that care about you and keep a balance with it all. And it is OK to just get laid sometimes, as long neither of you is leading each other on. Have fun. You'll know when it someone worth trying with, and then it may or may not work out. If it doesn't, learn from it and move on.

[mikeyjay88]

Thanks doll! I dont know if ill ever be in a serious relationship anymore. It seems like all the good ones are taken so im gonna fly solo for a while. I think things will get better *fingers crossed* thanks for the pep talk :D

[monalisa]

Thanks doll! I dont know if ill ever be in a serious relationship anymore. It seems like all the good ones are taken so im gonna fly solo for a while. I think things will get better *fingers crossed* thanks for the pep talk :D

I think just about everyone that gets hurt thinks that. You'll be in a serious relationship again in your life. Just don't rush into anything. Spend some time just having fun for a while. :)

[Posher778]

So recently i lost my girlfriend. I found out she cheated on me so i had no choice but to say bye bye. It was about a 2 year relationship and it sucks it had to go down this way. Anyone ever been totally broken hearted? It feels like a lost part of me. I thought id share it here because i pretty much have no one to talk to.

Could be worse. Way worse. Your ex could have cheated on you by having orgies with more than 6 people on a weekly basis, with no condoms, lots of meth, and lots of alcohol, and skip your birthday party after a year of relationship to have yet another orgy, only to have you walk in on it. But... That could never happen, right?

[mikeyjay88]

Woah id hope that would never happent to me :eek:

[Posher778]

Woah id hope that would never happent to me :eek:

Yeah... Me either.

[mikeyjay88]

Yeah... Me either.

Im guessing it did..? if it did im sorry man women are assholes sometime BIG time!

[Posher778]

Im guessing it did..? if it did im sorry man women are assholes sometime BIG time!

Hah, yeah, that can be true. Men are worse.

[mikeyjay88]

Hah, yeah, that can be true. Men are worse.

Yea we can be pretty shitty aswell. I guess people are bad in general sometimes.

[Posher778]

Yea we can be pretty shitty aswell. I guess people are bad in general sometimes.

I think everyone is wicked deep down. There are just some people who are better at sugar coating.