What's Wrong With You People?!?!?!!!?

[Posher778]

No, this isn't a hate thread. I'm curious. What's wrong with you? We've talked about psychological disorders before, but there's always more. What odd characteristics/psychotic tendencies/diseases/deformations/etc etc etc do you suffer from? If you don't want to say, your privacy is naturally accepted, but i'm curious as to what's up with everyone.

[missmacabre]

I have a slight case of OCD that deteriorates daily from being at school.
I am anorexic.
I got an ulcer lately from midterms stress.
and I have a thing for you, that's probably the worst one :P

[Posher778]

I have a slight case of OCD that deteriorates daily from being at school.
I am anorexic.
I got an ulcer lately from midterms stress.
and I have a thing for you, that's probably the worst one :P

Hah. I like the last one though.

[missmacabre]

Hah. I like the last one though.

You need to
a) Get msn working
or
b) Have people convince me to get AIM.

[Posher778]

You aren't the boss of me!

[missmacabre]

You aren't the boss of me!

am too! now give me a few reasons to download AIM. Who else on HDC is on there?

[monalisa]

What about you Posher? You started this thread, how about you telling us what's wrong with you before we all spill our guts. :D

[Leprucky Cougar]

am too! now give me a few reasons to download AIM. Who else on HDC is on there?

Me Dante, Freak, some others.

[Posher778]

What about you Posher? You started this thread, how about you telling us what's wrong with you before we all spill our guts. :D

Most of you already know what's wrong with me. Plus there's so much, I don't even know where to begin.

[missmacabre]

Most of you already know what's wrong with me. Plus there's so much, I don't even know where to begin.

You're a hypochondriac. Other than that there's nothing wrong with you. Remember that time I convinced you you had an std? Good times.

edit: im installing aim right now and its already pissing me off. You have to do a custom install to not have the toolbar, search function, and set aol as your homepage.

edit 2: cant find server so I can make a screen name. AOL is making a horrible case for itself.

[Posher778]

You're a hypochondriac. Other than that there's nothing wrong with you. Remember that time I convinced you you had an std? Good times.

Haha, every day of my life? Yeah. Either way, maybe you should check The what song are you listening to thread. This one's for you >=)

[Leprucky Cougar]

You're a hypochondriac. Other than that there's nothing wrong with you. Remember that time I convinced you you had an std? Good times.

edit: im installing aim right now and its already pissing me off. You have to do a custom install to not have the toolbar, search function, and set aol as your homepage.

I wouldn't mind having that stuff..just don't add aim tunes and games. Aim's cool. I love it.

[missmacabre]

Haha, every day of my life? Yeah. Either way, maybe you should check The what song are you listening to thread. This one's for you >=)

That lyric mostly makes me think that I'm pregnant or something. Thaaanks

[Posher778]

That lyric mostly makes me think that I'm pregnant or something. Thaaanks

Heh Heh Heh.... You might be. It was great seeing you the other day...

[missmacabre]

Heh Heh Heh.... You might be. It was great seeing you the other day...

Don't I know it ;) Hey hunny, come over and fix stupid AIM.

[The Flayed One]

In America, we call my type a 'functioning alcoholic.' Basically, I pay my bills, never miss work, am good to my friends and family, but drink too much for the American standard.

Yes, I drink every day. I really don't pay much attention to what people say about it anymore.

As I've gotten older, I've grown out of most of my problems. I'm still a little OCD, but not as bad as I used to be. I was one of those people who had to check everything three or for times before I left the house for work. My morning used to go like this.

Did I put on deodorant?
Do I have my wallet?
Shit, what am I forgetting?
Do I have my work badge?
Did I eat breakfast?
Are the cats fed?
*checks clock* 12 minutes til bus comes...

Wait, do I have my wallet? Better open it and see if my debit card is there...
Keys! Fuck do I have the house keys? Oh wait, they're attached to my wallet chain
Shit, where's my work badge? Back pocket, cool. Better put it around my neck so I won't forget I have it.
Shit, did I put on deodorant?
Wait, I should probably check the bus schedule again to make ABSOLUTE sure I know exactly what time it's coming?
Do I have a few dollars for the vending machine? Fuck, that reminds me, I have my wallet, right?
Shit, there's the cat. Did I feed her?
*checks phone* 5 minutes til bus comes...maybe I should check the schedule again.

*Leaves House*
I should probably check to see if I locked the door...
Fuck, I really need to get to the bus stop

*runs to stop*
Did I leave the coffee pot on?
Shit, I hope I didn't throw my cigarette on some dry leaves.
Did I remember to check a second time to make SURE I locked the door?

I've really calmed down a lot. Most of the shit developed from trying to be perfect in every way. I developed the obsession myself, and time took care of it. Since I've realized I'm allowed to fuck up just like everyone else, I have a lot more peace of mind.

I'm still probably a little too hard on myself when I do fuck up, but the crazy ass panic OCD syndrome has gone away almost completely.

[Posher778]

Don't I know it ;) Hey hunny, come over and fix stupid AIM.

Hah. I would if I could kiddo :(

[missmacabre]

Hah. I would if I could kiddo :(

Got it working! turns out firefox hate aim. lol how do i keep dashboard from popping up?

Flayed: I totally get what you mean. I almost miss my bus every morning checking to make sure I have everything I need for school. I don't get to sleep every night making sure I have all my work done for the next day. I was in the habit of making a list at night of what I need to do in the morning and giving myself a schedule of how much time I get for each thing. That didn't work well because I would stay up so late every night double and triple checking that everything was on the list, then revising my time limits for each. Problem is, I can't take anything off that list, like not blow drying my hair, just cause I am in the habit of doing it all in that certain order.

I also do weird shit like eat things in specific orders. When I eat a meal I eat vegetables, the potatoes etc. which is so time consuming that I force myself to mix up my plate before I eat. I also eat chips and stuff from smallest to largest, and popcorn is tricky to explain.

I get in these strange moods where I have to do things in multiples of three, or cant stop doing something until I've done it a multiple of 3 times after I catch myself repeating an action.

[Leprucky Cougar]

Got it working! turns out firefox hate aim. lol how do i keep dashboard from popping up?

.

I think custom settings or just close that window.

[ferretchucker]

I don't have much wrong.

I'm incredibly short
I have violent tendencies
I have a fear of losing things.

[bloodrayne]

You're a hypochondriac. Other than that there's nothing wrong with you. Remember that time I convinced you you had an std? Good times.

edit: im installing aim right now and its already pissing me off. You have to do a custom install to not have the toolbar, search function, and set aol as your homepage.

edit 2: cant find server so I can make a screen name. AOL is making a horrible case for itself.

AIM sux...AOL is like a virus

Everyone I know uses Yahoo

Just sayin'

[Posher778]

AIM sux...AOL is like a virus

Everyone I know uses Yahoo

Just sayin'

Speaking of which.

GET ONLINE

[bloodrayne]

Speaking of which.

GET ONLINE

Can't Babe...Gotta get back to Reaper...I'm still on season one...I've got 4 more episodes, then on to season 2...I'll catch you when I get caught up :)

[Vodstok]

I don't have much wrong.

I'm incredibly short
I have violent tendencies
I have a fear of losing things.
You're 14, dont worry, you have plenty of time to develope all kids of issues. :)



Personally, I have an addictive personality. i have purposely avoided certain things in my life knowing i would probably do them to excess and kill myself. I used to go through a 6 pack every other day, more on weekends. God help me if i had a bottle of liquor in the house. New Years eve 2000 I drank 2/3 a 1.75 Liter bottle of stoli in less than an hour...


When I smoked, i would help ,y roommate pay for ciggarettes and bum them off of him because the occaisions I bough tmy own pack, I went from a 2-3 smoke a day person to a pack plus. (A BIG part of the reason I quit)


I have had video game days where i would spend 20+ hours playing. Fast food is a horrible addiciton for me.


Aside from that, I am a complete asshole if i dont get enough sleep. I have some late-life abandonment issues because of the bullshit my family pulled; I have a hard time letting people in as a aresult and dont have any friends, and have a habit of pushing those close to me away (caused some issues in the marriage)

[ferretchucker]

You're 14, dont worry, you have plenty of time to develope all kids of issues. :)



Personally, I have an addictive personality. i have purposely avoided certain things in my life knowing i would probably do them to excess and kill myself. I used to go through a 6 pack every other day, more on weekends. God help me if i had a bottle of liquor in the house. New Years eve 2000 I drank 2/3 a 1.75 Liter bottle of stoli in less than an hour...


When I smoked, i would help ,y roommate pay for ciggarettes and bum them off of him because the occaisions I bough tmy own pack, I went from a 2-3 smoke a day person to a pack plus. (A BIG part of the reason I quit)


I have had video game days where i would spend 20+ hours playing. Fast food is a horrible addiciton for me.


Aside from that, I am a complete asshole if i dont get enough sleep. I have some late-life abandonment issues because of the bullshit my family pulled; I have a hard time letting people in as a aresult and dont have any friends, and have a habit of pushing those close to me away (caused some issues in the marriage)


Yeh! Maybe I'll have one of those fun addictions, like women!



I know a few people with addictive personalities.

Sounds like you've got it under control, which is great.

[Nella]

I thought about taking a break so I decided to come and edit options to have email sent to me when or if I get any PM's. I saw this thread and couldn't help myself...

I have several things wrong with me:

Low self-esteem
Social anxiety
I'm impatient and full of anger.
Major Depressive Disorder
Some OCD traits
Fear of the unknown
Dysfunctional family
Not too good at making friends
Alcoholism (I've been sober since March 15th.)
Fear of abandonment
Taking my frustrations out on other people and not realizing until it's too late that I've hurt others who also have problems.
Having high expectations of others when I can't live up to those expectations myself
Being too judgmental
I'm not able to accept my looks, age, and many other things.
Losing my ability to think clearly, i.e. memory loss, confusion, and not sleeping and eating enough to be healthy
Living in the past and beating myself up for things I can't change
I'm too sensitive
Trouble making decisions
I'm not a perfectionist like everyone else in my family so I've never been able to please anyone and sometimes I blame them for my failures and pain.

I'm sure there are plenty more things that I have wrong but I can't think of them at this time.

The only redeeming qualities I have are my compassion for others and animals. I love my son.

Sometimes I forget that I can't possibly be a terrible person entirely.

[Doc Faustus]

I have rapid cycling bipolar, mild OCD and Sensory Integration Disorder.

[Dante'sInferno]

I have rapid cycling bipolar, mild OCD and Sensory Integration Disorder.Yeah,I remember I pmed you awhile ago about that.




I hope everyone gets through their problems..Also try and relax,try and supress your racing thoughts,if possible.

[Leprucky Cougar]

I'm um......a bit vertically challenged. I'm coping day by day

[novakru]

I have issues with humanity
as in I actually expect them to act human

It's been a serious handicap from the moment I discovered life was unsafe at age 2.
I'm learning to cope one day at a time

[massacre man]

Pearl Jam pisses me off...

[Leprucky Cougar]

I'm learning to cope one day at a time

I agree. Same thing with ignorant people.

[monster123]

I cant keep in a stable relationship :D

[ferretchucker]

By the looks of it, most people here suffer from multiple personalities.

[Nella]

By the looks of it, most people here suffer from multiple personalities.

Not at all.

[monster123]

By the looks of it, most people here suffer from multiple personalities.

Who me? :(

[massacre man]

By the looks of it, most people here suffer from multiple personalities.

Who? Us???

[Leprucky Cougar]

I cant keep in a stable relationship :D

You think maybe you love too fast or too hard? And perhaps the guy isn't ready or d/n wasnt a serious relationship.

[monster123]

You think maybe you love too fast or too hard? And perhaps the guy isn't ready or d/n wasnt a serious relationship.

Mainly just im 21 ive been a mom for 5 years and most men see a child and run haha

[swiftdeath]

Bi-polar
Depression

And some unknown disease that causes me to burst into song at random moments...

On a side note, that last one was a joke, I only wish I suffered from that disease

[Leprucky Cougar]

Mainly just im 21 ive been a mom for 5 years and most men see a child and run haha

that is true for most guys...Typically the ones who don't mind the woman has a child are the ones who were also hurt by women and have the child. At least so it was for my parents. Maybe you should try to find some single fathers out to date.

[monster123]

that is true for most guys...Typically the ones who don't mind the woman has a child are the ones who were also hurt by women and have the child. At least so it was for my parents. Maybe you should try to find some single fathers out to date.

I dated a single dad once my daughter april and his daughter hated eachother one day he just stopped calling me so i guess she can scare some guys off shes a moody one.

[Leprucky Cougar]

I dated a single dad once my daughter april and his daughter hated eachother one day he just stopped calling me so i guess she can scare some guys off shes a moody one.

Yeah but that's one....don't judge the rest off one. Keep trying

[monster123]

Yeah but that's one....don't judge the rest off one. Keep trying

Oh im far from done with trying to find my "perfect" man. Im sure he's out there.

[Leprucky Cougar]

Oh im far from done with trying to find my "perfect" man. Im sure he's out there.

Finally! Someone who doesn't wanna give up on love b/c of rocky experiences. Usually most ppl I encounter think no one's out there for them and are really pessimistic about things.

[monster123]

Finally! Someone who doesn't wanna give up on love b/c of rocky experiences. Usually most ppl I encounter think no one's out there for them and are really pessimistic about things.

I'm a optimistic person. Its probably what keeps me so happy.

[bloodrayne]

Here's MY laundry list of flaws:

1) I have very little patience...I want things done right, and I want them done right now.

2) I emotionally hurt people unintentionally, just by being honest...I consider it to be constructive criticism (people won't improve if you lie to them, stroke their egos or always agree with them, right?), others don't see it that way.

3) I have very little tolerance for emotionally or intellectually weak people

4) I can't stand waste in ANY form (food, money, garbage bags, toothpaste, time, ANYTHING...All waste ends up being a waste of money) And I really come down hard on people who do it at my house...Even sleeping is wasting time.

5) I'm a TERRIBLE friend...I rarely keep in touch with people...I almost never answer my phone...Of course, if one of them REALLY needed something, I'd be there, but I'm just not much for hanging out and chit chatting all the time.

6) I smoke...That's just nasty AND it's a waste...I hate it...And, I'm obviously too weak to quit...I hate THAT even more.

7) I'm sometimes bitchy BECAUSE of my aforementioned impatience and intolerance.

8) I have a really difficult time asking for or accepting help, because I figure I can do things faster, easier, and better by myself...and asking for or accepting help makes me feel weak.

9) When I ask for advice, I really never take it (except when it was suggested that I dye my hair black...I would have never considered that on my own...I didn't think it was a real option, because my skin is so pale (I'm a natural redhead)...That's the only time I can remember actually TAKING advice)...I seem to only be asking for other ideas to compare them to mine, and most likely to reaffirm what I am going to do anyway.

10) I am very quick to GIVE advice, whether it's wanted or not.

11) I'm a terrible "I told you so" person, when people DON'T take my advice.

12) I expect people to do things MY way, because I consider that to be the RIGHT way, otherwise I wouldn't do things the way I do them...And, when people DON'T do things my way (correctly), I often redo it myself and/or chastise the person for doing it 'wrong'.

13) It takes me a long time to really become angry, but when I actually DO become angry...I explode, taking out everything and everyone in my path...Fortunately, that isn't often.

14) I am completely unaware of others in public, they may as well not exist, I am an island unto myself...I'm not concerned with how strangers 'see' me, or what they think of my behavior...This embarasses my mother.

15) I cannot STAND going out in the daytime, not just because the sun kills me, but because in the daytime there are TOO many people out, which FORCES me to be aware of them, and this irritates me in ways you cannot imagine...They are a complete nuisance....Perhaps, I am antisocial.

16) I never forgive and I never forget...I will continue to turn my back on someone to this day, if they hurt me when I was ten years old...I do not give second chances, I see it as a second chance to fuck up and/or fuck me over...And I completely cut someone out of my life if they betray my trust, they simply cease to exist for me...If someone who has committed a past transgression against me continues to try to have contact with me, or even come near me, I will punish them relentlessly, usually with what I say.

17) I KNOW that I have these flaws, yet I refuse to change them...(except for smoking and hurting people unintentionally, those just seem to be beyond my power)...They are a part of who and what I am.


I suppose that when you sum it all up...I'm actually, somewhat of a bitch.



OH...But, please try not to forget, I also have some GOOD qualities;)...This is just a list of my BAD ones :)

Sometimes, I can actually be sweet (believe it or not)

[Leprucky Cougar]

I'm a optimistic person. Its probably what keeps me so happy.

Same here. I think every cloud has a silver lining. And if it doesn't perhaps believing that it does will create one

[monster123]

Same here. I think every cloud has a silver lining. And if it doesn't perhaps believing that it doesn't will create one

Amen to that! lol

[Leprucky Cougar]

Amen to that! lol

great minds think alike. :)

[jenna26]

15) I cannot STAND going out in the daytime, not just because the sun kills me, but because in the daytime there are TOO many people out, which FORCES me to be aware of them, and this irritates me in ways you cannot imagine...They are a complete nuisance....Perhaps, I am antisocial.


I'm exactly the same way. I realized this when Ron moved to dayshift for awhile, and we were shopping during the day. Drove me crazy, I couldn't stand it. I prefer to go at night, when no one is around.

Anyway, I have some social anxiety, I'm very shy, I worry about everything, and I mean everything, I have a couple of completely ridiculous phobias and I am an insomniac that stubbornly refuses to take sleeping medication. Oh and I apparently have this fear of accidentally setting the house on fire, I check the oven (when its working that is), the dryer, and the burners on the stove all the damn time. I'm better than I used to be about that now though, but still happens almost every night, I get to bed and I am just sure I left something on downstairs.

Other than that, I'm just fine. :)

[Leprucky Cougar]

I'm exactly the same way. I realized this when Ron moved to dayshift for awhile, and we were shopping during the day. Drove me crazy, I couldn't stand it. I prefer to go at night, when no one is around.

Anyway, I have some social anxiety, I'm very shy, I worry about everything, and I mean everything, I have a couple of completely ridiculous phobias and I am an insomniac that stubbornly refuses to take sleeping medication. Oh and I apparently have this fear of accidentally setting the house on fire, I check the oven (when its working that is), the dryer, and the burners on the stove all the damn time. I'm better than I used to be about that now though, but still happens almost every night, I get to bed and I am just sure I left something on downstairs.

Other than that, I'm just fine. :)

A friend who is just like u described

[monster123]

great minds think alike. :)

I totally agree!

[pinkfloyd45769]

I am always worried about something,i'm never sure what...i just worry.
I procrastinate way to much and that is probably why i worry.
I get mad easy and do and say things i don't mean.
I get hurt really easy and it sucks.
I chew on things..pen caps,straws,pencils..anything i can get in my mouth.
I never say no even if its something i really don't want to do.
I hate being alone
I try to please everyone.
I drink too much coffee
I forgive too easily
I'm an over achiever,i work 2 jobs and i'm getting ready to go back to school so i can keep moving up in my office.
I spend too much money.
I shop because i'm bored and buy things i never use.
I have almost 300 bottles of nail polish,its a weakness
I buy more shoes than i could ever wear.
I love Mike tooooooo much;)

[Nella]

I am always worried about something,i'm never sure what...i just worry.
I procrastinate way to much and that is probably why i worry.
I get mad easy and do and say things i don't mean.
I get hurt really easy and it sucks.
I chew on things..pen caps,straws,pencils..anything i can get in my mouth.
I never say no even if its something i really don't want to do.
I hate being alone
I try to please everyone.
I drink too much coffee
I forgive too easily
I'm an over achiever,i work 2 jobs and i'm getting ready to go back to school so i can keep moving up in my office.
I spend too much money.
I shop because i'm bored and buy things i never use.
I have almost 300 bottles of nail polish,its a weakness
I buy more shoes than i could ever wear.
I love Mike tooooooo much;)

I also get mad and say things I don't mean.
I think being able to forgive is a great quality. I hope I will be able to before too long.
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I also feel sad but I can't always tell what it was that saddened me in the first place.
I have a tendency to worry too much about what others think.
No one knows exactly what's going on in someone's mind or their life, so I find it hard for anyone to think I or someone else might be weak or unintelligent.
I used to think someone was unintelligent if he or she couldn't type using proper grammar and spelling, etc. but I realize how ignorant I was for that.
I often noticed people who were losing their hair and hoped it wouldn't happen to me and it has.
I believe we all get what's coming to us. I've gotten what I deserve for my transgressions.

[X¤MurderDoll¤X]

I decided that it's the world that is crazy and my "craziness" is mostly comprised of perfectly normal human responses to it.

[DraculaInDallas]

all of my problems can be summed up in one sentence.....I'm fucking old...:(

[ferretchucker]

Who me? :(

Heh, No. It's a long story. ;)

[newb]

all of my problems can be summed up in one sentence.....I'm fucking old...:(

Well....then its time to start fucking young. :D

I must be in the minority here....I ain't got nothing wrong with me.....I'm perfect.:D

[hammerfan]

Well....then its time to start fucking young. :D

I must be in the minority here....I ain't got nothing wrong with me.....I'm perfect.:D


Same here :D

[novakru]

all of my problems can be summed up in one sentence.....I'm fucking old...:(


Drac, I'm asking you a serious question..I know, I know...shoot me later..

Doesn't it seem like we have 10 years of perfect youth (20-30)
I mean, we make the most important decisions that affect the rest of our lives (30-80+)
In that short, infinitesimal 10YEARS: nice smooth skin, toned healthy muscles, brain functioning at it's optimal level,energy abound....
and we have kids, get a career, buy house, find mate....
and then some weird countdown begins from some clock I was never aware of.

I can not make any sense of this.
It's too fucking short, it doesn't seem right anymore.
We live so much longer now, our golden hour needs to be extended to 30 yrs. at the very least.

Your thoughts? (you are 5 years older than me, right?:D )

[DraculaInDallas]

[QUOTE=newb;749792]Well....then its time to start fucking young. :D [QUOTE]


I do that quite often :D It's the knees, back, shoulders that are jacked up....:(

All the plumbing still works like a young stallion!!!!!!!!! ;)

[DraculaInDallas]

Same here :D


I know you're perfect HOT stuff!!!!!!!!:p ;) :D

[DraculaInDallas]

Drac, I'm asking you a serious question..I know, I know...shoot me later..

Doesn't it seem like we have 10 years of perfect youth (20-30)
I mean, we make the most important decisions that affect the rest of our lives (30-80+)
In that short, infinitesimal 10YEARS: nice smooth skin, toned healthy muscles, brain functioning at it's optimal level,energy abound....
and we have kids, get a career, buy house, find mate....
and then some weird countdown begins from some clock I was never aware of.

I can not make any sense of this.
It's too fucking short, it doesn't seem right anymore.
We live so much longer now, our golden hour needs to be extended to 30 yrs. at the very least.

Your thoughts? (you are 5 years older than me, right?:D )


Interesting my Dear.....it seems like I had 20+ good years. Maybe it's because I was a pretty good athlete. Drafted out of high school and college by MLB teams. Passed on that and took a free agent tryout with the San Francisco 49ers in the early 80's....I've always been in pretty good shape. I still play in a over 48 baseball league and play 2 nights a week in a adult ice hockey league chasing guys half my age around the ice. I own my own General Contracting Co and build commercial bldgs here in the Dallas area. I work ungodly hours as you can tell by the wide range of times I'm on the forum. I've never been married but I think I have found that Ingrid Pitt look alike and who knows, maybe we'll tie the knot this coming year :eek: . Just built my dream home last year, a 4100 sq ft brick home. Awful big for one guy but maybe I'll start filling it up soon ;) But I have noticed my body is slowing down. 4 knee surgeries on my right knee, countless other broken bones, and being on a non-stop 18-20 hour days the last 15 years or so I can feel it. I have definely slowed down this last year......I'm 3 months from being 50 and I am feeling it. You are right, time flys by, I'm going to wake up here and be a real senior citizen before I know it :( Enjoy it while you can because it does slowly go away......

[stubbornforgey]

I just found this thread

there is nothing wrong with me
apart from being love sick
i have no ailments...em always smiling..em always fart assing around..
i take one day at a time..

i get sick in winter..i get hot in summer :D

[Leprucky Cougar]

there is nothing wrong with me
apart from being love sick




Love sick? We were all there once before. How's it coming along?