View Full Version : Life Just Isn't Fair Sometimes...
GorePhobia
10-11-2008, 01:22 PM
This morning my Aunt passed away suddenly and she was only 48. My mother isn't taking this very well and it is extremely hard watching my mother cry over loosing her baby sister because they were extremely close and my mom has heart problems.
Life is just so fucked in so many ways....
Leprucky Cougar
10-11-2008, 01:42 PM
I'm sorry for your and your mother's loss. I offer my condolences. Although I can not recall loosing an Aunt by death, I have due to lost of contact. My grandad on my dad's side was a big time player. And before he died in the spring of 2003 he had his fun being a "rolling stone." He was a biracial man but he had affairs with several races so it's very possible that I have aunts and uncles all across the states. I know for a fact he mentioned a few in NY and North Carolina, but who knows.
But I've lossed a few uncles by actual deaths. On of my uncles died in the 80s(his father as well so my grandad) before I was born and it wasn't because of health issues--he was in fantastic shape; he was returning home from military training during holiday vacation; he didn't drive, he caught busses frequently. But the day he was on, some "trouble makers", I assume gangsters were on. The driver begged for them to stop, they ignored him and kept going. Some even came to the front and were fighting on him. When their stop came, they hurried off because they sensed him approaching, he parked the bus, grabbed his own gun and hurried to the back. They were all wearing the same kind and color jacket as my uncle, and he was the last one off the bus. The driver didn't know who to shoot at and he assumed they were altogether. But he shot my uncle. The driver drove off, as he fell to the ground so did a buch of bafs full of presents in front of the pathway to my grandmother's house. What was rather inappropriate I thought was instead of calling 911 immediately looters came by and took the gifts and loose money in his pockets.
My other uncle died from complications of HIV
So again, I can relate, but just in a different way. Encouragement is key. You both are experiencing grief--probably in different ways so if you motivate each other that you'll get through this that is key. Whatever religious faith you're into I'm sure would ease the level of pain as well.
novakru
10-11-2008, 02:33 PM
I am so sorry sweetheart.
I send you great big hugs and kisses.
my sympathy to you and your family.
ChronoGrl
10-11-2008, 03:38 PM
Hey, John, that totally and completely sucks. I'm really sorry.
My thoughts are with you and your family. That's really tough.
Let me know if there's anything at all I can do.
Take care.
Psycom5k
10-11-2008, 04:42 PM
Dude that sucks... I wish I would have seen this thread before I sent that pm to you...
i'm really sorry to hear that man. You know you got my sympathy bro.
Posher778
10-11-2008, 05:00 PM
I know how you feel with the life sucking thing. I actually attempted suicide a few days ago. It was kinda... fun, I guess.
fortunato
10-11-2008, 09:13 PM
gore, i'm really really incredibly sorry to hear that.
but know that simply being there for her is absolutely the best thing you can do.
you and your family will most certainly be in my thoughts.
pinkfloyd45769
10-12-2008, 07:08 AM
Gore,i know what you are going through and there is nothing i can say to make you feel any better.I'm so sorry and i send my thoughts and prayers to you and your family.I love ya and if you need to chat im me!:)
pinkfloyd45769
10-12-2008, 07:09 AM
Poshie,you hang in there and everything will be ok.Love ya!!:)
crabapple
10-12-2008, 08:15 AM
Very sorry to hear this, Gore. Keep doing your best to help your folks get through it. Sending my best thoughts.
amc420vt
10-12-2008, 08:22 AM
im very sorry to hear that. i know how it is, i've lost 3 aunts in the past 4 1/2 years. its hard. but they are in a better place.
ChronoGrl
10-12-2008, 08:23 AM
*hugs Gore The Red*
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ferretchucker
10-12-2008, 08:51 AM
Wow. All I can say is may she rest in peace and I hope your mother starts feeling better.
Can I ask, what did she die of?
X¤MurderDoll¤X
10-12-2008, 12:46 PM
Can I ask, what did she die of?
I want to know aswell.
GorePhobia
10-12-2008, 04:41 PM
She was a drinker due to lots of depression and had serosis (sp?) of the liver but she was getting the treatment and was better but then the last few days she felt sick like she had the flu or something and she just went.
I want to thank you all for the kind words.
Elvis_Christ
10-12-2008, 04:52 PM
She was a drinker due to lots of depression and had serosis (sp?) of the liver but she was getting the treatment and was better but then the last few days she felt sick like she had the flu or something and she just went.
Damn thats really horrible. I wish you and your family the best during this hard time.
ChronoGrl
10-12-2008, 04:52 PM
She was a drinker due to lots of depression and had serosis (sp?) of the liver but she was getting the treatment and was better but then the last few days she felt sick like she had the flu or something and she just went.
I want to thank you all for the kind words.
That's really fucking tough. My thoughts are with you, John.
Posher778
10-12-2008, 06:46 PM
She was a drinker due to lots of depression and had serosis (sp?) of the liver but she was getting the treatment and was better but then the last few days she felt sick like she had the flu or something and she just went.
I want to thank you all for the kind words.
I think it's Cirrhosis. Not to sound rude, just responding cause you put the (sp?), and i've also had a relative die because of the same condition. Sorry Gore :(
GorePhobia
10-12-2008, 07:26 PM
Thanks everyone for being here for me.
It means a lot.
Psycom5k
10-12-2008, 07:40 PM
Dude it sounds like she was going through a pretty rough time man. I know this may sound kind of cold but dude you should take comfort in the fact that she's not hurting anymore. I know it may not help now, because it didn't when my aunt passed away, but afterwards I got to thinking about how bad she had it and I took some comfort in knowing that she wasn't in anymore pain.
Once again dude I'm sorry to hear that. And you got my number incase you need to talk.
Damn dude....real bummer. Be strong for your mom.
jenna26
10-13-2008, 08:20 AM
I'm so sorry....my condolences to you and your family.
hammerfan
10-13-2008, 09:41 AM
Jon, I'm really sorry to hear this. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your Mom.