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stubbornforgey
07-20-2008, 06:40 PM
As many of you know I packed up and moved to Egypt to be with my baby
and it was probably one of the happiest experiences of my life
However on my 3rd month there his dad got sick and needed a transplant at the same time a relative of my own was going in for a heart valve replacement so my
silly egyptian sent me back to NZ.
All was good when I left!!!HOWEVER
Before I left to go over however I HAND DELIVERED his visa application to NZ immigration services then was informed that no this had to go through his own embassy 1st so was sent back, now they have lost the whole file and he has to start again and go through the whole process.
Thats one problem
second...i get home to find my mother is ill and her 16 year old ward kept running away n getting seriously drunk with her mates.
My mum is 71 and though she was living with me has decided she wants to move out cause I kicked her ward up the ass for playing up..mum was not impressed.
The sick relative was bought over to NZ for this op by myself and family members for this op, he too had a family and he wanted them with him.His fucked up wife decides to be a right bitch and started picking fights with him on arrival causing him to have massive heart attacks and making his condition worse.Before his op last Friday, he had been admitted 7 times within her arrival, 2 months prior.When i got back to NZ , most of my time was finding my mum a new home, training up to the hospital each morning and oh
leaving the best for last...My ex decided he was going for sole custody of our daughter 'rolls her eyes'...plus I got a massive flu from coming in from a hot country to a very wintry shit hole of a place.

As for the immigration thingy..it was me who advised my baby to allow me to hand deliver his application..now he tells me in no certain terms..LOL..i can shove my advice right up my fucken ass and he will do it his own way..!!!
Aint life just grand.?
But you know what..each morning i still get up with a huge grin on my face n tell myself tomorrow is going to be better. :)

thats my vent for the year :o

massacre man
07-20-2008, 06:52 PM
*puts hand on your shoulder*

It's okay.

missmacabre
07-20-2008, 07:12 PM
glad I'm not the only optimistic person around. Just keep on smiling and things will work out fine. :)

newb
07-21-2008, 03:24 AM
glad I'm not the only optimistic person around. Just keep on smiling and things will work out fine. :)

good advice

as Wet Willie says


Well you say you got the blues,
Got holes in both of your shoes,
Feelin alone and confused,
You got to keep on smilin, keep on smilin

Yeah, you're about to go insane,
Cause your mans playing games
And he says that you're to blame,
You got to keep on smilin, keep on smilin

Keep on smilin through the rain, laughin at the pain
Rollin with the changes til the sun comes out again
Keep on smilin through the rain, laughin at the pain
Rollin with the changes, singin this refrain

:) :D :) :D

Phalanx
07-21-2008, 04:20 AM
No matter how bad things are right now, as bad as it gets, the better it'll get in the end, no?

Don't like that one?

Ok...

Think now, and smile, about how much worse it would be, if you were on fire.

Vodstok
07-21-2008, 05:27 AM
Just remember this: no matter how bad things are for you, somewhere in the world, someone's life sucks way more than yours.

hammerfan
07-21-2008, 05:48 AM
And there's always: This too, shall pass.

Posher778
07-21-2008, 07:31 AM
Don't take life too seriously, no one gets out alive anyway.

massacre man
07-21-2008, 07:49 AM
Don't take life too seriously, no one gets out alive anyway.
What about celebrities?

http://37prime.com/futurama_cartman.jpg

ferretchucker
07-21-2008, 07:59 AM
I like your postive attitude, after all...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jHPOzQzk9Qo

stubbornforgey
07-21-2008, 10:21 AM
LOL
I can always depend on sound support from this forum 'rolls her eyes'
Have only been back less than 2 weeks TWO FUCKEN WEEKS'

'sits in the corner of the room..holds her head in her arms and rocks'
TAKE ME HOMEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE..
COUNTREEEEEEEEE ROADDDDDDDDDDDD
TO A PLACEEEEEEEEE
I BELONGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG
WEST VIRGINYAAAAAAAAAAAAA
RAH RAH RAH RAHHHHHHHHHHH
TAKE ME HOMEEEEEEEEEEEEE
COUNTREE ROAD !!!!!!!!!!
soz about the caps' :o

hammerfan
07-21-2008, 10:37 AM
You know we'll always make you laugh! :D

triciakitty
07-23-2008, 07:30 AM
You're exactly right- things get bad but they always get better eventually. Life has definitely proven that to me over and over again. Well...I wish you the very best of luck with everything!

Deep4est
07-24-2008, 06:52 PM
What?....think you got problems?

http://i255.photobucket.com/albums/hh157/deep4est1/Misc/wrong_turn2a.jpg

GorePhobia
07-25-2008, 01:15 PM
When life gives you lemons just say fuck the lemons and bail.

novakru
07-25-2008, 07:09 PM
When life gives you lemons just say fuck the lemons and bail.

Or cut them up to put into your Corona's.

crabapple
07-25-2008, 07:16 PM
Cheer up or give it your best shot anyway! Banana are happy :confused: :confused: :confused: