Need help with a very serious problem

[DarkwingMantis]

Okay guys. I have a huge problem and have noone else i can turn to with it.

And just to guve a heads up this is a very sensitive matter

My roommate and I met when we were living in the homeless shelter last year. He loaned me his laptop from time to time to watch some of the movies he had downloaded. While I was perusing the files I came across a curious folder labled "Temp". Expecting some more of the same tye of movie I found something very distressing. I found bestiality and child porn. I gave him the benifit if the doubt (After all, I have downloaded some files that were mislabeled and it was some kiddie porn, wich I promptly deleted). Maybe he had forgotten about it I told myself and said nothing about it to him. He didnt act like a pedo or zooiphile, and often mocked someone we knew to be a pedo.

That was about a year ago. Now I got home tonight and I iwas searching through the history dropdown looking for a site I had puled up the other day and found a link to a bestiality forum where he had registered. I know his user name (he uses the same name everywhere much like myself).

Now I have a problem. Do I confront him. Ask him whats going on, try to get him help. If it comes out with the authorities for whatever reason, Im going to be associated with it by proxy. I love the man with all my heart and he has led a very screwed up and abused life, but this is almost inexcusable by any society standards.

I really need help and advice on this my friends...

Mike

[The_Return]

I'd mention something to him before going to the authorities...talk to him about it. If he left it in the history of a shared computer, it seems like he's pretty much asking for someone to find it - perhaps he wants/needs help, but just doesn't know how to ask?

Rough situation though...hope everything works out somehow.

[Freak]

I'd point it out for everybody to see and make fun of.But of course I'm an asshole.

[ferretchucker]

Well, it does sound like he's almost certainly involved in that kind of thing. He's your friend and it sounds like he does need friends, so don't go straight to the authorities. But you do have to think about yourself, as if they track it down, you'll be in deep shit too. Confront him about it, but make sure to be understanding. If the problem persists however, and you think it makes escalate from downloading this to something much worse, you have to do something serious.

Hope this helps.

[Posher778]

The Temp folder, if I remember correctly, has everything that was downloaded in it. So he may have actually deleted the files before and just didn't know they were still in the temp folder. (I could be wrong though) I would definitely talk to him first.

[newb]

Yikes......if he's a good friend I would confront him and try to get him help. If he got bellligerent then I would sever all ties. Not only is it illegal its pretty damn immoral.

[missmacabre]

Talk to him about it. Could be a misunderstanding.

[Noah]

The guy needs help, regardless of what you chose to do. I guess bottom line is, hopefully you can help him get it, in the end.

[Kemal]

Now I might believe that some pictures in the windows temp file were leftover from a previous owner and he wasn't aware of them.

But there's no way in hell that you "accidentally" register for a bestiality forum.

[Psycom5k]

Now I might believe that some pictures in the windows temp file were leftover from a previous owner and he wasn't aware of them.

But there's no way in hell that you "accidentally" register for a bestiality forum.

Well it could be a misleading forum... Like horse lovers, or dog lovers or something.... but then again he would probably have gone through the forum to actually check it out first...

Though, I'd put the fear of god into him for the child porn.... thats just me though

[Elvis_Christ]

Your friend sounds like the kinda guy who would jack off to Salo: 120 Days of Sodom :eek:

Didn't know they had message boards for fucked up shit like fucking animals. I guess the authorities can keep an eye on what there up to.

I don't really have any advice on the matter but hit him up and see what the fuck he's into and take things from there.

[X¤MurderDoll¤X]

Here's something to think about
Where would we be without nasty habits, nasty habits
Makes me want to scream and shout
Life would be so dull without nasty habits, nasty habits
All those naughty little things that we don't discuss publicly
Nasty habits, nasty habits
Tell me your secrets, tell me your name, tell me your secrets

Does it please you to employ little girls or little boys
Nasty habits, nasty habits
Do you like to romp and play by yourself when they're away
Nasty affair what do I care
Do you peek at magazines filled with doggies and leather queens
Nasty habits, nasty habits
Tell me your secrets that no one should hear
Whisper them softly into my ear I won't tell, I won't tell

People act so proper when they're going 'bout their business
Cup of coffee, friendly conversation
'Til they get home,
'Til they get home

Turn the phone off, lock the door and shut the curtains
Make sure that the neighbors are without suspicion
No one will know
No one will know
Nasty habits I must condone
No one knows what I do when I'm all alone
Nasty habits I'm so ashamed

Nasty habits here to stay now they'll never go away
Try and stop you'll have to pay
Nasty habits are here to stay

(Repeat chorus)

Nasty habits I must condone
No one knows what I do when I'm all alone
Nasty habits I'm so ashamed
But we must not let that stop our little game
Nasty habits are so much fun

Nasty habits here to stay now they'll never go away
Try and stop you'll have to pay
Nasty habits are here to stay

[X¤MurderDoll¤X]

k I hope you read all those lyrics.

- - - - - - - - - - - - -

I love the feeling that everyone is insane except me.

You have two SANE choices

option 1: run away! you're no longer friends with this person. ignore his phone calls and forget about him.

option 2: accept him

[Vodstok]

I would say, delete the files, clear his cache and his history, wipe everything. See if he says anything, and check back to see if they mysteriously return (BTW, depending on the OS of the computer, "temp" doesnt hold the internet cache, it is where install files dump things to use "temporarily" during set up, and programs like winzip stick things for short term use, which makes it more suspect if that is where they are).

If they return, have a chat with him.

For the record, while beastiality is immoral as hell and illegal an act, i dont know the legalities around the porn, i would imagine that changes state to state. Child porn however, can get you a meeting with the FBI, and that gets hard time where people into that dont last long, so i would give this a try sooner rather than later.

If he gets caught with it, nothing short of physically destroying his hard drive will erase the evidence, so its time for an intervention.

[The_Assassin]

I'll eliminate him...For a price.

- The Assassin

[ferretchucker]

I'll eliminate him...For a price.

- The Assassin

That one was in incredibly bad taste considering the matter at hand.

[The_Return]

I'll eliminate him...For a price.

- The Assassin

Too far dude.

Your shtick is amusing, but keep it out of the serious threads.

[The_Assassin]

Too far dude.

Your shtick is amusing, but keep it out of the serious threads.

What about my shtick?

- The Assassin

[X¤MurderDoll¤X]

I'll eliminate him...For a price.

- The Assassin

I laughed

....

[The_Assassin]

I laughed

....

This forum needs a darker sense of humor, no?

- The Assassin

[X¤MurderDoll¤X]

everyone is just way too serious.





why make problems for yourself?

What do you think is going to happen if you confront him? He'll just lie to you and get angry that you were looking through his stuff. Why everyone is saying "confront him" I just don't understand it....

you still have two options, #1 stop caring about it and #2 stop associating yourself with the person

[DarkwingMantis]

Assasin - That doesnt help me at all.... poor taste and even poorer timing...


Everyone else.... Thanks for the advise and the differing points of views, all were taken to heart.... I know what I have to do now.... Ill let you know how it comes out

[Phalanx]

Have the balls to at least mention it to them.
You should be able to have a basic idea if they're lying or not.
I mean hell, the "temp" folder? Sounds more like a contingency plan to have an excuse at the ready to me...
From that point onwards, what you do is up to you - I mean it IS an illegal act, and may in fact be the first steps towards even worse things/actions towards young people/animals, knowing that, it's not really someone I'd personally want to associate with any longer - further action is at your discression.
I'd assume that if reported, the authorities could keep an eye on him without him knowing it.

Personally, I think it's more than coincidental that BOTH of these types of things were on the one guys pc...seems like a weirdo...not everyone can be helped - some are just fucked in the head, as cool as you are with them, some people are just disgusting individuals - although you should know that my perception (most likely among others) is that, so are the friends that let their loyalty lead them down the garden path.

[DarkwingMantis]

Okay, that hit hard.... It stinks with scent of truth....

[Ferox13]

I would say, delete the files, clear his cache and his history, wipe everything.

Why would you help him get rid of the evidence.


Fucking hell - the guy is most likely a pedophile - confront him about it - ask him to leave the palce you share (there is no way I could live with some one like that) - if theres any resistance I would report him.

[X¤MurderDoll¤X]

there's no evidence that he's a pedofile.

take everyone elses advice and then post about it so that I can laugh.

[stubbornforgey]

The thing is here ..
he will get caught eventually cos of all the net security now...
so many ppl have been busted for this ..even here in NZ.
The problem with this situation is ..cos you have also seen those files
and i assume in ure own log on name which would automatically have you as an accomplice...you too could be pulled in for it.
DWM..if u havent confronted him already with it..my advice would be to do it now and if he gets pissed at u for being a good friend then fuck him.
Maybe he doesnt know what he has but i doubt that..em sure he does , seeing you have seen this file on more than one occasion.
As for how your going to handle it...really there is no other way to do it but by following your own instinct I suppose.
Good luck and let us know how you get on.

[The_Assassin]

Assasin - That doesnt help me at all.... poor taste and even poorer timing...

No. This just proves, that you are simply...Humorless...Like many of the other members on this forum.

If life has no humor, there is nothing to live for. Take that into consideration.

And from what I've seen so far, I don't think you're actually going to do what we suggest. Only you can decide that, for yourself. It's your choice.

- The Assassin

[Noah]

No. This just proves, that you are simply...Humorless...Like many of the other members on this forum.

If life has no humor, there is nothing to live for. Take that into consideration.

And from what I've seen so far, I don't think you're actually going to do what we suggest. Only you can decide that, for yourself. It's your choice.

- The Assassin


I disagree, the point isn't about whether he finds things funny or not. This isn't a "funny subject", which is why he said what he said. Your "humour" wasn't necessary, or wanted in a thread like this.

There's a time and place for humour, and this wasn't one of them.

[X¤MurderDoll¤X]

This isn't a "funny subject"

I beg to differ.

[Ferox13]

there's no evidence that he's a pedofile.

Well - there is evidence that he down loaded pedofile material.

[ferretchucker]

This isn't gonna help you in any way, just a pet peave of mine. It's a mistake everyone seems to make in that there is an "a" between the P and the E in Paedophile (And it's spelt with a ph).

[fortunato]

This isn't gonna help you in any way, just a pet peave of mine. It's a mistake everyone seems to make in that there is an "a" between the P and the E in Paedophile (And it's spelt with a ph).

it is spelled with a "ph," but, for whatever reason, americans spell it without the "a," just "pedophile." you know how we americans love to omit letters from words. (i.e. "color," "favorite," etc.)

[X¤MurderDoll¤X]

Well - there is evidence that he down loaded pedofile material.

doesn't mean he likes to go out on sundays and molest little kids.

[Ferox13]

doesn't mean he likes to go out on sundays and molest little kids.

Nope - it doesn't.

But it does lead you to believe that he does like looking at images of children being raped. personally not the type of person i'd like to share an appartment with.

[X¤MurderDoll¤X]

Nope - it doesn't.

But it does lead you to believe that he does like looking at images of children being raped. personally not the type of person i'd like to share an appartment with.

that's why it's such an easy choice.

I won't restate my two sane options.

[Ferox13]

I don't think number 2 would be an option..

Mayber molesting him might work as some sort of aversion therapy though.

[stubbornforgey]

No. This just proves, that you are simply...Humorless...Like many of the other members on this forum.

If life has no humor, there is nothing to live for. Take that into consideration.

And from what I've seen so far, I don't think you're actually going to do what we suggest. Only you can decide that, for yourself. It's your choice.

- The Assassin


for starters .you obviously do not know this nick very well.
When it comes to having a sense of humor, this guy out rates alot of members
so don't judge him by what your reading in here and yes..also we have had our run ins and i can tell you something..this son of a bitch don't hold nothing back so if he says he gonna do it..he is gonna do it.

[Ferox13]

So DarkwingMantis - what did u do??

[X¤MurderDoll¤X]

I don't think number 2 would be an option..

Mayber molesting him might work as some sort of aversion therapy though.

I say he gets a rottweiler to mollester his friend. I had two rottweilers, they were experts at mollestering friends.

that way you get beastiality + mollestering :cool:

[Psycom5k]

I say he gets a rottweiler to mollester his friend. I had two rottweilers, they were experts at mollestering friends.

that way you get beastiality + mollestering :cool:

You are one sick puppy do you know that? :)

[Ferox13]

You are one sick puppy do you know that?

No the Rottweiller is the sick puppy...

[DarkwingMantis]

I confronted him and he left..........

[Psycom5k]

I confronted him and he left..........

Yeash.... he didn't say anything about it? I think that would mean that it was him. And from here on out, its all your decision to decide if you want to be associated with a creep who gets off on animals and little kids. Sorry to say it so bluntly but thats all you can really do. I mean other than turning him in for it. Seriously, I mean he didn't deny it.

[DarkwingMantis]

Words were exchanged about snooping and spying etc, but Im pretty upset aboout it to go into great detail....Its been a rough few days

[Phalanx]

Now, you should fight him.

[DarkwingMantis]

No... No I shouldnt

[Phalanx]

Yeah, yeah you should.

[X¤MurderDoll¤X]

hey nobody listen to murderdoll, she doesn't know what shes talking about.


he probably in a very chaotic mental state right now, I would worry about him killing you in your sleep.

[DarkwingMantis]

Hey guys. Odd bumping of a two year old thread, but I heard from my friend and he is in therapy. I went with him to a session and weve been working things out. You have to understand that I love this guy as much as I have anyone, and it makes me proud he is getting the therapy that he needs.

[newb]

cool.....good to hear he's doing better. And nice to see that you are still around as well. ;)

[PlagueBearer]

Wow - That was an amuzing thread...

[Zero]

great to hear - thanks for a positive story

[Elvis_Christ]

LOL @ "mollestering"

:D

[Disease]

Okay guys. I have a huge problem and have noone else i can turn to with it.

And just to guve a heads up this is a very sensitive matter

My roommate and I met when we were living in the homeless shelter last year. He loaned me his laptop from time to time to watch some of the movies he had downloaded. While I was perusing the files I came across a curious folder labled "Temp". Expecting some more of the same tye of movie I found something very distressing. I found bestiality and child porn. I gave him the benifit if the doubt (After all, I have downloaded some files that were mislabeled and it was some kiddie porn, wich I promptly deleted). Maybe he had forgotten about it I told myself and said nothing about it to him. He didnt act like a pedo or zooiphile, and often mocked someone we knew to be a pedo.

That was about a year ago. Now I got home tonight and I iwas searching through the history dropdown looking for a site I had puled up the other day and found a link to a bestiality forum where he had registered. I know his user name (he uses the same name everywhere much like myself).

Now I have a problem. Do I confront him. Ask him whats going on, try to get him help. If it comes out with the authorities for whatever reason, Im going to be associated with it by proxy. I love the man with all my heart and he has led a very screwed up and abused life, but this is almost inexcusable by any society standards.

I really need help and advice on this my friends...

Mike

Get him a puppy.;)

[ferretchucker]

Wow, I remember this. Glad to see that it's leading to a happy ending, twas a bit of a shaky cliffhanger back there.

[wufongtan.]

I would have went to the cops. If he is into kiddie porn, he is a sick fuck and needs the full weight of the law thrust-ed down on him. Who gives a rats about his mental state. What about the mental state of those kids those vids?

[Angra]

Snooping around in other peoples computers, eh?

And your friend is the criminal??









J/k

[cheebacheeba]

I woulda kicked him in the penis.