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ferretchucker
03-27-2008, 01:35 PM
Alright, you lot all know I'm 14. I'm quite short (4ft 10") and quite smart. The trouble is, I've never had a girlfriend. There are a few girls at school who I think are okay and one I like quite a lot. I've never kissed a girl or anything and as far as I know, none of the girls I like like me. I thought maybe some of you might be able to help out. How do I get a girl to like me?
ChronoGrl
03-27-2008, 01:48 PM
I was always a sucker for nerdy guys. And fell for best friends (despite the stereotype of "the friend label).
At 14 that was what, 8th grade? I loved the goofy and smart guys. Be smart, be sweet, and sweep her off her feet.
Oh, and if you ask her to the movies, make sure you put your arm around her; I remember being irritated that my boyfriend did not do the same in the 6th grade.
Posher778
03-27-2008, 01:51 PM
Just take it easy... I remember being about 14 and thinking the girlfriend/dating thing was all there was. Just be yourself (cliche, I know) and the right one will come to you. Don't stress it.
Dante'sInferno
03-27-2008, 01:52 PM
Just take it easy... I remember being about 14 and thinking the girlfriend/dating thing was all there was. Just be yourself (cliche, I know) and the right one will come to you. Don't stress it.Couldn't say it any better myself.
ChronoGrl
03-27-2008, 01:54 PM
Just take it easy... I remember being about 14 and thinking the girlfriend/dating thing was all there was. Just be yourself (cliche, I know) and the right one will come to you. Don't stress it.
Oh, yeah, and no pressure, blah blah blah.
Dante'sInferno
03-27-2008, 01:56 PM
There will always be pressure.We all experience the butterflys......Yeah!Stay strong though!"raises devil horns"
neverending
03-27-2008, 01:56 PM
You don't get a girlfriend ust because you think it's time to have one. You get a girlfriend when you meet someone who seems "special" to you and you want to be part of her life. When the both of you feel the same way then that's a cool thing.
But you shouldn't try to get with someone just because the rest of the world says you're not normal just because you're not part of a couple.
Posher778
03-27-2008, 01:58 PM
Oh, yeah, and no pressure, blah blah blah.
Wanna go out sometime?:cool:
X¤MurderDoll¤X
03-27-2008, 02:01 PM
You don't get a girlfriend ust because you think it's time to have one. You get a girlfriend when you meet someone who seems "special" to you and you want to be part of her life. When the both of you feel the same way then that's a cool thing.
But you shouldn't try to get with someone just because the rest of the world says you're not normal just because you're not part of a couple.
I'll agree with this for the most part.
p.s posh, you're a whore. ;)
Posher778
03-27-2008, 02:03 PM
I'll agree with this for the most part.
p.s posh, you're a whore. ;)
Doll... I just have a lot of love to share (crowd boos)
Dante'sInferno
03-27-2008, 02:05 PM
Me too!I love you Trent!Oh and Summer Glau!
I hate trash cans.
X¤MurderDoll¤X
03-27-2008, 02:05 PM
Doll... I just have a lot of love to share (crowd boos)
how many times have you had chicken pox now?
ChronoGrl
03-27-2008, 02:14 PM
Wanna go out sometime?:cool:
See, Ferret? Be complacent and indifferent and they're all over you. :p
Posher778
03-27-2008, 02:31 PM
See, Ferret? Be complacent and indifferent and they're all over you. :p
Irony's a bitch. Give me my heart back!!:mad:
ChronoGrl
03-27-2008, 02:43 PM
Irony's a bitch. Give me my heart back!!:mad:
*chews and tackles Posher*
Posher778
03-27-2008, 03:24 PM
*chews and tackles Posher*
Someone seems to have some repressed fetishes that are about to explode...:rolleyes:
Alright, you lot all know I'm 14. I'm quite short (4ft 10") and quite smart. The trouble is, I've never had a girlfriend. There are a few girls at school who I think are okay and one I like quite a lot. I've never kissed a girl or anything and as far as I know, none of the girls I like like me. I thought maybe some of you might be able to help out. How do I get a girl to like me?
When I was your age all a guy had to do is hit them with your club.
http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y95/lunchbreak_pat/caveman.jpg
Doll... I just have a lot of love to share (crowd boos)
hey! a little love over here!
Despare
03-27-2008, 05:16 PM
They'll come to you eventually, I think every girlfriend I've ever had (save the last one which I married) asked me out. Relax, you have plenty of time, why so commital so young?
X¤MurderDoll¤X
03-27-2008, 05:18 PM
They'll come to you eventually, I think every girlfriend I've ever had (save the last one which I married) asked me out. Relax, you have plenty of time, why so commital so young?
edit:nvm just checked the profile.
I always thought you were younger.
Despare
03-27-2008, 05:20 PM
I always thought you were younger.
I'm just that damn cool. :cool:
Freak
03-27-2008, 05:37 PM
Wait til you hit high school then just be the biggest dick you can be.From my expericence in life and what I've seen women always go for the biggest asshole in the crowd.I know it sounds fucked up, but its true.Don't be a nice guy cause then women will just walk all over you.Trust me I learned that first hand.
Best advise I ever got was from William Sadler in an episode of Tales from the Crypt "Treat queens like whores and whores like queens and you'll never have any problems.
_____V_____
03-27-2008, 07:57 PM
When I was your age all a guy had to do is hit them with your club.
http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y95/lunchbreak_pat/caveman.jpg
Thats a big...uhh, club.:D
Take your time, kid...the right one will come to you.
They always do, trust me.
VampiricClown
03-28-2008, 03:08 PM
Dude, the first thing you need to do, is prod around a bit, and find out if the kitten fancies ya. You don't want to be marchin' into some other oafs territory. And if she does like ya, go up to her, tell her something sweet (complimenting her is always a good way to go), then see where it goes from there. At all costs, avoid the awkward silence, that will really make a heap'o trouble fer ya.
Seriously though man, if you really like her, start talking to her, and just let yourself kind of flow from within. All of the words should come straight to mind. Just don't stare down her shirt. :p
Dante'sInferno
03-28-2008, 05:28 PM
Eye contact is key.
bloody_ribcut
03-28-2008, 05:45 PM
i have to agree with freak about most women going for the big mouth bad boy...but i dont see that in you, so just keep cool and the right girl will find you.
ferretchucker
03-29-2008, 03:54 AM
well, I'm quite good friends with the girl I like. And that's what I think might be the trouble. In fact, I'm friends with a lot of the girls. I just hope I'm not always just seen as a friend.
bloody_ribcut
03-29-2008, 07:41 AM
what kind of girls are they?
Doc Faustus
03-29-2008, 07:58 AM
If she's a good friend, likes your company and likes you, just enjoy the friendship and wait and see if it expands. Relationships are organic things, not goal oriented but experiential. Enjoy the experience and make sure she does too and then, maybe she'll grow comfortable enough to understand your feelings. If she's a good enough friend, she's not going to be hideously cruel if you tell her you're attracted to her or never see you again. If she's like that, you probably don't want her as either a friend or a girlfriend. Also, totally take the advice about not being pressured. There is no pressure. You do not live in India, medieval times or the Wild West. 14 is not marriageable.
missmacabre
03-29-2008, 08:04 AM
I say wait a few years. In my opinion at your age having a boyfriend of girlfriend is just something to brag about and you may regret it later. Especially because you say you're friends with this girl. Stay her friend for another year or two and once the tension reallllly kicks in you'll both probably admit you've liked eachother for years.