View Full Version : What a crappy day.
Freak
10-10-2007, 10:12 AM
I had the worst day to day.First I get my hours cut back at work to almost nothing.So I don't know how I'm gonna make my car payments.Then to top it off I find out later that my dad is cheating on my mom.She doesn't know it yet but I'm gonna tell her after I get some more facts.My Mom doesn't deserve this.She's the most kind and caring person in the world.She would do anything for any one and she waits on my dad hand and foot and does whatever he say's.
So I found out where this skank whore bag lives and went and confronted her about it and she acted like she didn't know what I was talking about.But I let her know that I know and she better stay away from my sperm donor piece of shit father.I'm sure after I left she called my dad and told him what happend.Now I waiting to see if he call's me and ask's me about it.I got a feeling the shit's gonna hit the fan tonight and I might go to jail for beating my dad to a pulp.
Sorry to vent on you guy's like this but I just had to get it out.
Disease
10-10-2007, 10:23 AM
don't do anything stupid dude, try and let them sort it!
Psycom5k
10-10-2007, 10:34 AM
Well dude, that sucks. But if I know anything about life, it has its ups and it has its downs. But the downs have a purpose, to make the ups that much better. I know it sucks now, but it will all work itself out. You may not like the outcome but that happens. The most that you can do is be there for your mother. If you do beat the shit outa your father, he definatly deserves it. But, what you need to do is sit down, and think about what the best action to take for your problems are. Because if you just go at it without thinking, then more than likely its going to end up worse. In the end, its all up to how you react to your problems thats gonna determin wether the outcome will be good or bad.
All in all, I'm sorry to hear about all this, and I hope that everything works out in the good for you and your mother.
Sorry to hear about your troubles, hope everything works out ok in the end.
I think some of us are pretty fortunate in that we have pretty easy lives with no major upsets. I can't say I know how you feel, coz I don't, just guessing.
About 5 years back my brother and I had a major fight. He had a bit of a drink problem which resulted him in becoming very abusive and agressive to the rest of the family. It all came to a head when one New Years' Eve, he and I went for each other - I did't drink that much back then, even less now. Anyway it resulted in me grabbing a kitchen knife and holding it up to my brother's throat. The words I used then are still pretty clear after 5 years, " If I should twitch, you'll be dead, let's hope I don't twitch".
My mother and father where there at the time and had to calm me down. They later told me that they had to forceably remove the knife from my fingers, as my hands where tight shut, with white knuckles showing.
My brother has not touched a drop of alcohol in over 4 years now, and surprisingly or not we actually have sorted out all our differences - I'm even his kids godfather, but it's something that I'm very aware of. To get angry at a stranger is one thing, but to want to kill one of your "own" is not worth thinking about.
You and your mum are the most important one's here, and you'll need every inch of each others' strength to come out of this. Your mum will need you now more than ever as the "man" of the house.
Everyone's here for you.
all the best
ferretchucker
10-10-2007, 10:53 AM
Make your own judgements, let things run their course of give your dad what's coming to him. But think of all possible consequences. Your mum doesn't deserve you being in prison either.
Wow...crappy is an understatement.
Gotta agree with Disease. Your mom is going to need you.
Vodstok
10-10-2007, 11:27 AM
I have become more than a little familiar with that empty, hopeless feeling you get in your situation, freak. I found out that my entire family could give or take me, my wife AND my daughter for all they cared. They wouldnt drive 20 minutes out of there way to stop by and say hi, they wanted us to stop by there place so they wouldnt be put out.
This was after we were treated like we werent there and our problems were no big deal a couple of months before. There was rampant flooding all around New Hampshire, and we had to evacuate our house, and I was unemployed. We got no sympathy, no consideration, and we even got shit when we asked if they would help us out and buy us a pack-and-play for the baby since she had nowhere to sleep. I guess holing up your kid and his family for a couple of days should be enough, but damnit if we couldnt fit the baby's crib in the back of a fucking car.
so we found other accomodations right away and left. Turns out that hurt their feelings. Boo fucking hoo.
I havent spoken to my family in over a year, and have been better off for it. You are much better off telling him to stay out of your life than beating him.
Make it good and official, say it in front of people, or in an email, or something traceable. That way, if he decides to try and kiss your ass or harass you, you can get even more satisfaction by suing him for harrasment, or getting a restraining order.
Same goes for your mom. The legal system hurts way more than fists. :)
alkytrio666
10-10-2007, 02:47 PM
Coincidentally, I know a kid who's in jail for beating the shit out of his dad. Don't go that route, really.
Freak
10-10-2007, 04:32 PM
Ok so me and my dad sat down and had a talk.He did just like I thought he would and denied everything.Said him and this girl where just freinds and tried to act like he was my best buddy.In a way I wanna believe him cause he's my dad, but in another way I dont just casue there's a lot of evidence against him.So for now I'm just going to sit back and wait and see what develops.
alkytrio666
10-10-2007, 05:34 PM
Good decision. Be cool, give him a chance, make sure you've got the facts.
And good luck, man, I hope everything works out alright.
illdojo
10-10-2007, 05:55 PM
Damn Freak, sounds like one of those days you wish life had a rewind button.
Keep your head up bro. :cool:
missmacabre
10-10-2007, 06:59 PM
i think even if you have all the evidence you whould tell him you have proof and tell him to fess up. It'll be better for your mom to hear it from him.
ferretchucker
10-11-2007, 08:41 AM
if you don't mind me asking, what is the evidence?
novakru
10-11-2007, 03:43 PM
I am so sorry Freak, I really am.
Please don't tell your mom though, I could try and explain it from a woman's point of view... but it's complicated.
Tell your dad to grow the fuck up and then leave it be- he probably knows by now how little you respect him and even though he will probably never admit it- it hurts him.
As far as the other woman is concerned, I have some some truly evil ways to get back at her and it's all legal:D
Freak
10-11-2007, 03:52 PM
I am so sorry Freak, I really am.
Please don't tell your mom though, I could try and explain it from a woman's point of view... but it's complicated.
Tell your dad to grow the fuck up and then leave it be- he probably knows by now how little you respect him and even though he will probably never admit it- it hurts him.
As far as the other woman is concerned, I have some some truly evil ways to get back at her and it's all legal:D
He tried to lie about it but I'm not sure if I'm buying it yet.
What are these evil pay back's you speak of?
Freak
10-11-2007, 03:56 PM
if you don't mind me asking, what is the evidence?
Nope I don't mind at all.
Basically it boils down to a massive list of phone records of calls back and forth between them for hours on end.He has been seen leaving that house at all hours of the night and was even chased away by the ladies ex husband.His sudden drop in extra money, and from what I hear it's to supply her drug habit.They haven't been seen actually doing anything yet.
Ever since this happend he has been acting like he's my best buddy in the world.
missmacabre
10-11-2007, 06:15 PM
Nope I don't mind at all.
Basically it boils down to a massive list of phone records of calls back and forth between them for hours on end.He has been seen leaving that house at all hours of the night and was even chased away by the ladies ex husband.His sudden drop in extra money, and from what I hear it's to supply her drug habit.They haven't been seen actually doing anything yet.
Ever since this happend he has been acting like he's my best buddy in the world.
I say, you should buddy up with him so he think's everything is cool and then catch him in the act. Plus you can probably milk it until you do.
Despare
10-11-2007, 07:36 PM
Sounds like a lot of speculation. Don't start shit until you can prove shit. Not that you shouldn't be on guard but we all know what happens when you assume.
Vodstok
10-12-2007, 03:41 AM
Sounds like a lot of speculation. Don't start shit until you can prove shit. Not that you shouldn't be on guard but we all know what happens when you assume.
The dead come back and feast on our flesh? Seems kinda harsh...
ferretchucker
10-12-2007, 06:54 AM
hmmmm. Are you sure they arent just friends and her ex thought the same as you. Probably not, but he's your dad. Give him the benefit of the doubt.
novakru
10-12-2007, 08:56 AM
What are these evil pay back's you speak of?
I'll PM you when I have the time to sit down for more than a few minutes;)
Freak
10-12-2007, 12:15 PM
More great news for me.
I've been having headaches for about a week now and I went to the doctor today.At first I thought it might be a sinus problem.But then my doctor notices my cadaracts(not sure about the spelling on that) and thinks that might have something to do with it.
So I call the eye doctor and the earliest they can get me in is Nov. 1st which really sucks.So now I have to wait almost a month to get looked at and have to joy of horrible headaches to look forward to til then.The doctor gave me loritab's to help with the pain but I don't know how much that will help.
I wonder what layer is going to be added to the big crap sandwich that is my life next?
Disease
10-12-2007, 12:20 PM
eyes and headaches seem to be linked a lot...
I get migraines, generally behind my eye.....
novakru
10-12-2007, 01:14 PM
Most physical pain is the body's way of screaming at you when mentally or spiritually you're in crisis.
eyes and headaches seem to be linked a lot...
I get migraines, generally behind my eye.....
me too. I thought it was just eye strain, went to the opticians; needed to wear glasses, ok fair enough, but I still get migraines. Usually on a weekend.
I've sometimes went to bed, eventually falling asleep only to wake up, still with a headache.
I had an MRI scan done twice, nothing out of the ordinary.
*though there seemed to be a big gaping hole were my brain should be*
novakru
10-12-2007, 01:26 PM
It's probably a tumor that can't be seen by normal scans and only when it grows to the point of being noticed, it's just too late and you have like 2 days to live:D
Disease
10-12-2007, 02:22 PM
me too. I thought it was just eye strain, went to the opticians; needed to wear glasses, ok fair enough, but I still get migraines. Usually on a weekend.
I've sometimes went to bed, eventually falling asleep only to wake up, still with a headache.
I had an MRI scan done twice, nothing out of the ordinary.
*though there seemed to be a big gaping hole were my brain should be*
I've had them since I was about ten, I got glasses but hardly where them, they are for distance and my eyes realy aren't that bad... but I have good methods for migraine relief... first of all depending on the weather, have a realy hot cup of tea or cold ice cream, then a realy hot shower. Mainly run the water over you're head, drop some pain killers and have a cigaret, then lay down completley still while you are still red from the shower and let a fan blow on you... very soothing, and put on some smog or Codine or some other music which just takes energy away... then you can always have a wank... that should do it!
I've had them since I was about ten, I got glasses but hardly where them, they are for distance and my eyes realy aren't that bad... but I have good methods for migraine relief... first of all depending on the weather, have a realy hot cup of tea or cold ice cream, then a realy hot shower. Mainly run the water over you're head, drop some pain killers and have a cigaret, then lay down completley still while you are still red from the shower and let a fan blow on you... very soothing, and put on some smog or Codine or some other music which just takes energy away... then you can always have a wank... that should do it!
:D
I once finished a box of paracetemol in one night because of the headache, probably explains the gap in the scan - it dissolved.
missmacabre
10-12-2007, 03:20 PM
I got headaches a lot before I got my glasses. So if you need glasses, look on the upside... I find guys with glasses VERY sexy. ;)
Disease
10-12-2007, 03:29 PM
I got headaches a lot before I got my glasses. So if you need glasses, look on the upside... I find guys with glasses VERY sexy. ;)
People do tend to find people who look like them more attractive...:p
missmacabre
10-12-2007, 03:32 PM
People do tend to find people who look like them more attractive...:p
makes total sense :rolleyes:
especially considering I just got my glasses this year but have had a thing for nerds since I stopped finding guys icky.
Disease
10-12-2007, 03:51 PM
makes total sense :rolleyes:
especially considering I just got my glasses this year but have had a thing for nerds since I stopped finding guys icky.
When was that, this year sometime?
Freak
10-12-2007, 04:20 PM
I've noticed that the headaches are worse when I'm around bright lights.Just a little bit ago I was outside for a little while talking to a friend and it was pitch black outside and the headaches seemed to stop for a little while.
missmacabre
10-12-2007, 04:32 PM
I've noticed that the headaches are worse when I'm around bright lights.Just a little bit ago I was outside for a little while talking to a friend and it was pitch black outside and the headaches seemed to stop for a little while.
I would say stress related migraines, but I'm not doctor.
@Disease: yeah, february this year. All the so called guys a I dated before then were pretty girly.
Right now, have a right stinker of a headache, seem to get one nearly every weekend.
Don't drink much, so its not a hangover. Don't eat the usual suspects ie cheese or chocolate. Been to the doctors about it in the past, probably a migraine, great well, what's the cure - painkillers, brilliant. Have used both over the counter and prescription only pills, still haven't found one that takes away the pain entirely.
On the box it says 1-2 every 4 hours. No, 2-3 every 2 hours more-like.
Sitting in the dark doesn't help.
Maybe Novakru was right - brain tumour. :(
novakru
10-13-2007, 11:44 AM
Maybe Novakru was right - brain tumour. :(
God, I hope not!!
I was just being facetious:(
God, I hope not!!
I was just being facetious:(
Its Ok, so was I, I think .... :(
I won't mention it again, tempting fate a little too much.
It's just strange it always seems to be on a weekend - maybe I'm allergic to Saturday and Sunday - though funnily enough that's when my neices come over, maybe I'm allergic to them. :D
ferretchucker
10-13-2007, 12:00 PM
My mum got a headache yesterday. We found out today it's a brain hemerage.
My mum got a headache yesterday. We found out today it's a brain hemerage.
Like I said, won't mention my headaches now; for obvious reasons.
Sorry Ferret.
ferretchucker
10-13-2007, 12:14 PM
I don't mind talking about it. It's good to let it out.
Blood Dragoness
10-13-2007, 04:17 PM
Freak I sure hope everything works out for you . That's alot to have to deal with , and I may be new here but I want you to know if you need to talk to someone, I'm here for you...anytime :) You'll be in my thoughts and in my heart sweet baby ! http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b44/styledragoness/29_2_5.gif.... take care.... Big Dragoness Hugs And Kisses!! Much Love ~Blood Dragoness~
http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b44/styledragoness/bleedingdripanimated.gifhttp://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b44/styledragoness/1-6.jpg
http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b44/styledragoness/bleedingbaranimated.gif
novakru
10-13-2007, 05:06 PM
Freak?
Did you get my pm?
You truly cannot get in trouble legally with ANY of my suggestions, I mean they are cruel -no doubt about it, but totally legit:D
I'm very sorry to hear about your mom ferret:(
@tic-you might BE allergic to something you are only exposed to during the weekend...think about it.
Doc Faustus
10-13-2007, 05:16 PM
This has been a horrendous couple of weeks. Every day seems to have a big veil of shit hanging over it.
novakru
10-13-2007, 05:19 PM
This has been a horrendous couple of weeks. Every day seems to have a big veil of shit hanging over it.
I'm sorry you're having a hard time:(
It must be some kind of planetary alignment or something in the air, I don't think I have said the word fuck more in the last month than my whole fucking life span.
Freak
10-13-2007, 05:51 PM
Freak?
Did you get my pm?
You truly cannot get in trouble legally with ANY of my suggestions, I mean they are cruel -no doubt about it, but totally legit:D
I'm very sorry to hear about your mom ferret:(
@tic-you might BE allergic to something you are only exposed to during the weekend...think about it.
Yeah I got them.They sound like some excellent idea's.Gonna have to try some for sure.
Thanks everybody for all the support.
And ferret, sorry to hear about your mom.Hope every thing comes out all right.
This has been a horrendous couple of weeks. Every day seems to have a big veil of shit hanging over it.
this sounds cliche....but it always gets better.
ferretchucker
10-14-2007, 02:15 AM
I'm pretty sure she'll be fine. And I hope everything goes up for you freak
Freak
10-15-2007, 01:09 PM
Great news everybody.My mom called the eye doctor today and they managed to fit me in tomorrow at 1.So now I don't have to wait til the first of November and might even have these headaches gone by the end of the week.The only down side will be if I have to have the surgery to get the cataract removed, then in that case I will have to go without being able to see for a couple of days, but it will be worth it to get rid of the damn headaches.
Marya Zaleska
10-15-2007, 04:31 PM
You can tell from the expression on my face how the day went!
Bah! Humbug!
http://i238.photobucket.com/albums/ff213/buckybeau/GrannyAfterARoughDay-2.jpg
Countess Marya
Blood Dragoness
10-15-2007, 05:03 PM
Great news everybody.My mom called the eye doctor today and they managed to fit me in tomorrow at 1.So now I don't have to wait til the first of November and might even have these headaches gone by the end of the week.The only down side will be if I have to have the surgery to get the cataract removed, then in that case I will have to go without being able to see for a couple of days, but it will be worth it to get rid of the damn headaches.
Evening Sweet Freak! :) This is such great news, you're going into the doctors tomorrow! My love and prayers are with you honey, and hope they will help you quickly to get rid of those headaches! You're to cute to be sick! :) Please come and give an update when you get time, am worried about you. Hope your night goes well . http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b44/styledragoness/8_8_19.gif Many hugs and much love~Blood D~
http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b44/styledragoness/blooddragonesstm2.gif
X¤MurderDoll¤X
10-15-2007, 05:49 PM
my day was crappy too, when I turned on my computer today it said "disk boot error or something, insert windows disc" so I put the windows disc in and it basically told me that my hard drive was fucked and I had to reinstall windows blah blah lost everything on my computer. :(
I called my friend when it happened to guide me through reinstalling windows and stuff and he told me that he didn't understand how it could happen... weird and ahh I lost all my files. :(
Disease
10-15-2007, 05:51 PM
my day was crappy too, when I turned on my computer today it said "disk boot error or something, insert windows disc" so I put the windows disc in and it basically told me that my hard drive was fucked and I had to reinstall windows blah blah lost everything on my computer. :(
I called my friend when it happened to guide me through and he said he didn't understand how it oculd happen.
Damn, that sure does SUCK! :D
_____V_____
10-15-2007, 07:52 PM
my day was crappy too, when I turned on my computer today it said "disk boot error or something, insert windows disc" so I put the windows disc in and it basically told me that my hard drive was fucked and I had to reinstall windows blah blah lost everything on my computer. :(
I called my friend when it happened to guide me through reinstalling windows and stuff and he told me that he didn't understand how it could happen... weird and ahh I lost all my files. :(
Next time, be gentle.;)
Freak
10-16-2007, 02:49 PM
Ok so I went to the eye doctor today and it turns out it's not the cataract causing my headaches it's just poor vision.So I now have to get glasses.I'll have them in about 10 days or so.
Disease
10-16-2007, 03:28 PM
glasses aren't so bad, do you have to wear them all the time?
missmacabre
10-16-2007, 03:56 PM
Ok so I went to the eye doctor today and it turns out it's not the cataract causing my headaches it's just poor vision.So I now have to get glasses.I'll have them in about 10 days or so.
whooo glasses ;)
Disease
10-16-2007, 04:01 PM
whooo glasses ;)
She likes guys with glasses....:confused:
missmacabre
10-16-2007, 04:06 PM
She likes guys with glasses....:confused:
Like 'em a lot. Note my newest myspace picture.
Freak
10-16-2007, 04:10 PM
glasses aren't so bad, do you have to wear them all the time?
Yep they are to be worn at all times.The brand is Guess and I even paid a little extra to have this solution put on them that removes all glare and is supposed to make them scratch proof for up to 2 years.I'll post of pic of my self with them on when I get them.
She likes guys with glasses....:confused:
And your point is?
I wear glasses, have done since I was 16 and nearing 40 now.
Disease
10-17-2007, 07:53 AM
And your point is?
I wear glasses, have done since I was 16 and nearing 40 now.
That she likes Guys with glasses, I wear them as well, but not very often...
People who wear glasses, tend to be more intelligent than people who don't wear glasses.
Just look how many Doctors, Scientists and Lawyers wear glasses compared to the number of construction workers, mechanics, garbage collectors who don't.
Disease
10-17-2007, 08:11 AM
People who wear glasses, tend to be more intelligent than people who don't wear glasses.
Just look how many Doctors, Scientists and Lawyers wear glasses compared to the number of construction workers, mechanics, garbage collectors who don't.
Those guys wear contacts...
X¤MurderDoll¤X
10-17-2007, 08:33 AM
When I was 12 I was told that I needed glasses. So I got these really bad cheap glasses and I hated them, they made me see worse aswell so I just took them off and never wore them again. My eyes are really bad at night when I'm driving, I basically just use car lights as guides to where I am on the road. :D
After constant badgering, I went to get another eye exam just before I was finished highschool and the prescription was the same so I didn't bother. Same thing when I got them checked last year.
I would have to wear these glasses all the time and I'm not down with that anyway. :cool:
Disease
10-17-2007, 08:34 AM
When I was 12 I was told that I needed glasses. So I got these really bad cheap glasses and I hated them, they made me see worse aswell so I just took them off and never wore them again. My eyes are really bad at night when I'm driving, I basically just use car lights as guides to where I am on the road. :D
After constant badgering, I went to get another eye exam just before I was finished highschool and the prescription was the same so I didn't bother. Same thing when I got them checked last year.
I would have to wear these glasses all the time and I'm not down with that anyway. :cool:
Contacts are pretty simple, and the disposable ones are cheap...
X¤MurderDoll¤X
10-17-2007, 08:37 AM
Contacts are pretty simple, and the disposable ones are cheap...
I can't put anything near my eyes and besides did you read the "makes me vision worse" part? that means I'm not going to bother unless my prescription is changed.
don't worry, I go to great lengths to ensure I die before I go blind.
Disease
10-17-2007, 08:43 AM
I can't put anything near my eyes and besides did you read the "makes me vision worse" part? that means I'm not going to bother unless my prescription is changed.
don't worry, I go to great lengths to ensure I die before I go blind.
I thought they just made it worse because they were cheap,crap glasses...
X¤MurderDoll¤X
10-17-2007, 08:57 AM
I thought they just made it worse because they were cheap,crap glasses...
nah, they just looked worse :D
illdojo
10-17-2007, 10:31 AM
I lost all my files. :(
That's shitty X¤Doll¤X....The same thing happened to me recently. I bought an External Hard Drive for music, pics, ext. So that shit doesn't happen again. ;)
ferretchucker
10-17-2007, 11:03 AM
had a crap day today. Too long to explain but basically, all of my friends have fallen out, two of my friends are breaking up with their girldfriends which are also my friends. Loads more including my half sisters nan died and her aunty is having a baby today, but the baby's dead.
There's not really any words of condolence for all that, so I'm not even going to try........but ..... no idea what to say
Simply sorry to hear about it.
ferretchucker
10-17-2007, 12:32 PM
yeh, a lot of things around me seem to be crumbling. I haven't even spoken to my brother for 3 months.
missmacabre
10-18-2007, 05:25 PM
My grandpa died today. Dunno if I'll be on for a bit.
Freak
10-18-2007, 06:05 PM
Sorry to hear that Miss.My thoughts are with you and your family.
ferretchucker
10-19-2007, 07:09 AM
Wow. A lot of shit happens to us.
Freak
10-23-2007, 06:15 PM
Well I finally got my glasses, and they really helped out.I can see so much better and the headaches have went away.I'll post of picture of my new self later.
Dude Guadalupe
10-23-2007, 09:49 PM
Wow this whole thread sounds like you guys are quoting random parts of my life, only out of order. That's fucked up.
Seriously, I got no advice for anyone and if I did it would be bad. All I can say is I really hope things get better for you guys.
Sorry I couldn't be of any help to anyone.
GorePhobia
10-24-2007, 05:00 AM
My grandpa died today. Dunno if I'll be on for a bit.
Sorry to hear for your loss. I hope all gets better for you.