I need advice...

[Dante'sInferno]

Someone from my past has recently contacted me.We share a history together...i feel uneasy about this situation.What should i do?

[Angra]

U think you would be able to reveal a little more about this person and your cryptic past?

[monalisa]

Who is it? PM me or call me if ya want to.

[jenna26]

U think you would be able to reveal a little more about this person and your cryptic past?

Yeah, there isn't very much to go on is there? :p
Though the word uneasy is telling, usually when I feel uneasy about a person or situation there is a very good reason, and I tend to avoid people that make me feel that way....

Oh hell, I don't know.....I will just say good luck....;)

[Angra]

Who is it? PM me or call me if ya want to.



No way.

I don't know you that well. You could be a rapist... :rolleyes:

[monalisa]

No way.

I don't know you that well. You could be a rapist... :rolleyes:

You wish! ;) :D

[Angra]

Yeah, there isn't very much to go on is there? :p
Though the word uneasy is telling, usually when I feel uneasy about a person or situation there is a very good reason, and I tend to avoid people that make me feel that way....

Oh hell, I don't know.....I will just say good luck....;)




Yeah, the lack of info is a little insulting, isn't it?

I mean, for a person who wants our help you'd think he would be willing to give us a clue what the hell he's talking about, right? :p

[Angra]

You wish! ;) :D


Indeed... :(

[Dante'sInferno]

She's an ex girl firned.She broke my heart,shes one of the reasons ive been so detached lately and she imed out of the blue.Mona lisa knows her...I dont want to keep any grudges.

[monalisa]

She's an ex girl firned.She broke my heart,shes one of the reasons ive been so detached lately and she imed out of the blue.Mona lisa knows her...I dont want to keep any grudges.

No need to hold grudges, but DON'T forget what she did last time. And personally, I think in this case you should not get involved again. She's just going to suck you in and then hurt ya again as soon as something more interesting comes along. Don't do it buddy! You know better. Think with the head that's between your shoulders!

[Dante'sInferno]

No need to hold grudges, but DON'T forget what she did last time. And personally, I think in this case you should not get involved again. She's just going to suck you in and then hurt ya again as soon as something more interesting comes along. Don't do it buddy! You know better. Think with the head that's between your shoulders!I know.I don't like her anymore anyway.And if she tries the pity party stuff again,ill know this time.

[Mictlantechutli]

Monalisa's right. Life is too short to hold grudges.

If you like the girl, there's no reason why you can't have a friendship...it might be really cool, but don't get involved again. When things end badly, it's because it wasn't meant to be.

It's tricky territory you are entering and it will certainly require a level of emotional maturity. If you feel you aren't up for it, you might want to (very politely, yet firmly) decline her request to meet.

Good luck.

[Dante'sInferno]

Monalisa's right. Life is too short to hold grudges.

If you like the girl, there's no reason why you can't have a friendship...it might be really cool, but don't get involved again. When things end badly, it's because it wasn't meant to be.

It's tricky territory you are entering and it will certainly require a level of emotional maturity. If you feel you aren't up for it, you might want to (very politely, yet firmly) decline her request to meet.

Good luck.Thank you.I will do my best.:)

[VampiricClown]

There is nothing wrong with holding a grudge....

[Shazbut]

Yeah, there isn't very much to go on is there? :p
Though the word uneasy is telling, usually when I feel uneasy about a person or situation there is a very good reason, and I tend to avoid people that make me feel that way....

Oh hell, I don't know.....I will just say good luck....;)

FOLLOW *THIS* ADVICE - GUT INSTINCT IS ALMOST 100% CORRRECT!

Feeling uneasy is your *self* saying _ "keep away", "potentially harming situation*, *manipulative twit deciding they wanna play games with my mind and heart*.

Trust ya gut!

[Dante'sInferno]

FOLLOW *THIS* ADVICE - GUT INSTINCT IS ALMOST 100% CORRRECT!

Feeling uneasy is your *self* saying _ "keep away", "potentially harming situation*, *manipulative twit deciding they wanna play games with my mind and heart*.

Trust ya gut!Alright,i will do that then.Thank you all.

[Dante'sInferno]

HAHAHAHAHA! I can't believe this,she said i missed you soooooooo much,blah blah blah.Hah and as soon as she started to find out i wasnt inerested,she said well i have to go,seeya sweetie.and i said okay.




I just wanted to push her away,so she wont come back,and keep annoying the shit out of me.

[Despare]

HAHAHAHAHA! I can't believe this,she said i missed you soooooooo much,blah blah blah.Hah and as soon as she started to find out i wasnt inerested,she said well i have to go,seeya sweetie.and i said okay.




I just wanted to push her away,so she wont come back,and keep annoying the shit out of me.

She'll stop eventually, I had a girl stalk me for two years. My girlfriend at the time (my wife now) didn't like the roses and notes on my windshield and her showing up at my house in the middle of the night but even she got the hint after constant pushing.

[Dante'sInferno]

I know,once it really becomes clear that i dont want anything to do with her,shell make up some sob story like the one she said.Where she got in a car wreck and had to stay at the hospital for 5 days....hah.

[Despare]

I know,once it really becomes clesr that i dont want anything to do with her,shell make up some sob story like the one she said.Where she got an car wreck for 5 days and nearly died.....hah.

With some people, it's all a game, you just can't get sucked into playing it with them.

[Dante'sInferno]

With some people, it's all a game, you just can't get sucked into playing it with them. I know,the only reason i believe her was because i thought i was in love,but...i wasnt.Just a game she plays.

[Despare]

I know,the only reason i believe her was because i thought i was in love,but...i wasnt.Just a game she plays.

It's so damn hard to tell sometimes, they say that you'll feel it when you're in love but what if you think you feel it? You have no way of knowing if what you feel is love until it lasts.

[Dante'sInferno]

It's so damn hard to tell sometimes, they say that you'll feel it when you're in love but what if you think you feel it? You have no way of knowing if what you feel is love until it lasts.Then this wasnt love.Just an annoyance.

[monalisa]

I know,once it really becomes clear that i dont want anything to do with her,shell make up some sob story like the one she said.Where she got in a car wreck and had to stay at the hospital for 5 days....hah.

Yah right. If I remember correctly, she said she didn't call you back because she was in the "car wreck" and was in a coma for five days. The she woke up and she could go home the next day. Now I've never been in a coma, but I don't believe that if you're in a coma for five days, that as soon as you wake up they send you home the next day. I've had some pretty elaborate lies told to me before, but that one takes the cake.

[Dante'sInferno]

Yah right. If I remember correctly, she said she didn't call you back because she was in the "car wreck" and was in a coma for five days. The she woke up and she could go home the next day. Now I've never been in a coma, but I don't believe that if you're in a coma for five days, that as soon as you wake up they send you home the next day. I've had some pretty elaborate lies told to me before, but that one takes the cake.I didn't know about the whole coma thing,like how long it takes to get out of one.But i know,i believed anything she said.And i paid for it.But it will not happen again.Hell i'll probly never have another girl firiend.

[monalisa]

I didn't know about the whole coma thing,like how long it takes to get out of one.But i know,i believed anything she said.And i paid for it.But it will not happen again.Hell i'll probly never have another girl firiend.

Haha, oh hon, if you only knew how many times most people have said "I'm never falling in love again, or going out with anyone ever again...". It's part of life. Just try to learn from past mistakes and try not to make them again. No one ever said it was gonna be easy. :) Just keep talking to your friends, we love ya!

[Dante'sInferno]

Haha, oh hon, if you only knew how many times most people have said "I'm never falling in love again, or going out with anyone ever again...". It's part of life. Just try to learn from past mistakes and try not to make them again. No one ever said it was gonna be easy. :) Just keep talking to your friends, we love ya!Thank you.I just hope i pick the right person.If i get a girl friend again.




To the people that are happily married,you have no idea how lucky you are.

[stubbornforgey]

My dearest friend..
Take heed of how badly you were hurt the last time and do you really want to go down that path again.?
Its hard to shut the door on someone who affected you that much..but you are no bodies fool..
once bitten..2wice shy .. :o

[Dante'sInferno]

My dearest friend..
Take heed of how badly you were hurt the last time and do you really want to go down that path again.?
Its hard to shut the door on someone who affected you that much..but you are no bodies fool..
once bitten..2wice shy .. :oI know...i should do that,but she'll only come back.So im just going respond being not interested,so shell hopefully be bored and leave me alone.

[monalisa]

I know...i should do that,but she'll only come back.So im just going respond being not interested,so shell hopefully be bored and leave me alone.

Block her, from IM, MySpace, email... if she doesn't get the hint then, just say "LEAVE ME ALONE YOU STUPID SKANK", or something to that effect. :eek: :D

[Dante'sInferno]

Block her, from IM, MySpace, email... if she doesn't get the hint then, just say "LEAVE ME ALONE YOU STUPID SKANK", or something to that effect. :eek: :DGood idea.I shall do that.I hope to god she doesnt make another account and harass me somemore.

[monalisa]

Good idea.I shall do that.I hope to god she doesnt make another account and harass me somemore.

If she does, block her again. "Manipulative bitch" could also work if you don't want to call her a stupid skank, although, that's what I'd call her. ;) :D

[Dante'sInferno]

If she does, block her again. "Manipulative bitch" could also work if you don't want to call her a stupid skank, although, that's what I'd call her. ;) :DI did it.Hopefully she'll never contact me again.

[monalisa]

I did it.Hopefully she'll never contact me again.

Well if she does, don't fall for it. I don't wanna see you get hurt like she hurt you before. You know who your friends are, don't be afraid to lean on us if ya need. OK?

[Dante'sInferno]

Well if she does, don't fall for it. I don't wanna see you get hurt like she hurt you before. You know who your friends are, don't be afraid to lean on us if ya need. OK?I know,if she contacts me again,ill reply to this thread.But i hope shes smart enough to get the hint.Thanks for all your help everyone.

[stubbornforgey]

I know...i should do that,but she'll only come back.So im just going respond being not interested,so shell hopefully be bored and leave me alone.


don't respond at all ..
just by replying ..gives her the satisfaction of thinking
that she may still have a chance.
There is somebody out there for you Dante..
untill i met my soul mate..i too believed i was going to go through
life alone..:p

[Dante'sInferno]

I don't think anyones insane enough for me thats my age.:)







But,i hope your right.

[monalisa]

don't respond at all ..
just by replying ..gives her the satisfaction of thinking
that she may still have a chance.
There is somebody out there for you Dante..
untill i met my soul mate..i too believed i was going to go through
life alone..:p

Good advice.

[stubbornforgey]

I don't think anyones insane enough for me thats my age.:)







But,i hope your right.


I know em right..
your an amazing guy,,
the insanity is just an added bonus.. :D

[Dante'sInferno]

I know em right..
your an amazing guy,,
the insanity is just an added bonus.. :DThank you for the compliment.:)

[Angra]

I know,if she contacts me again,ill reply to this thread.But i hope shes smart enough to get the hint.Thanks for all your help everyone.



You're welcome. :cool:

[crabapple]

Sounds like you're doing okay on this one. Yeah, there's plenty of things you would be better off doing, I think, based on the stuff you've said. Go spend some time with some NICE people! :eek: :rolleyes: ;)

[Dante'sInferno]

Sounds like you're doing okay on this one. Yeah, there's plenty of things you would be better off doing, I think, based on the stuff you've said. Go spend some time with some NICE people! :eek: :rolleyes: ;)I'll stay here then.



Seriously,you people are the nicest people ive ever met.:)