One Chance

[Aeacus]

If you had got one chance to change one thing in your life what would it be.... I'm not talking about i wish I was rich type of change... Just the one thing you would have done differently that would have put ur life down a different path maybe....



Mine would have to be letting my best friend drive drunk when I knew I should have stopped him... And him and passenger dying in a car crash... Theres actually hundreds I would love to change but that is one decision I wish I had back and think about at least once a day.

It certainly doesn't have to be as bad as mine... It could be the girl you shouldn't have dated.... The job you should have took... so on etc... just that one thing that would have put your life down another path

Anybody else?

[stubbornforgey]

If you had got one chance to change one thing in your life what would it be.... I'm not talking about i wish I was rich type of change... Just the one thing you would have done differently that would have put ur life down a different path maybe....



Mine would have to be letting my best friend drive drunk when I knew I should have stopped him... And him and passenger dying in a car crash... Theres actually hundreds I would love to change but that is one decision I wish I had back and think about at least once a day.

It certainly doesn't have to be as bad as mine... It could be the girl you shouldn't have dated.... The job you should have took... so on etc... just that one thing that would have put your life down another path

Anybody else?


Thats sad .
Unfortunately this is common outcome worlwide.
How do you reason with somebody who won't listen to sense..'hence a drunk getting behind a wheel'..
don't blame yourself for this..he would've driven regardless'.

As for mine.
well I can actually say that I regret nothing I had done.
Ironic..I believe that all the paths I had taken 'whether good or bad'..led me
directly to where I am right now..and right now..em in such a happy place..
(I don't mean lala land either smartasses).
:o

[Disease]

When I was banging these two chicks at once one time, a particular time I wish I had of given it to Inga harder!

[Phalanx]

No big changes really...I mean sure, I could've spent my inheritance a few years ago a little better, invested...blah blah blah..., started my studies a little earlier...but in terms of hugely life changing decisions...can't say I'd really want anything to happen.
I've got regrets, sure...but knowing that it's all good where I'm at now would stop me from really wanting to change anything.

[Disease]

No big changes really...I mean sure, I could've spent my inheritance a few years ago a little better, invested...blah blah blah..., started my studies a little earlier...but in terms of hugely life changing decisions...can't say I'd really want anything to happen.
I've got regrets, sure...but knowing that it's all good where I'm at now would stop me from really wanting to change anything.

Hey mate, where the bloody hell have you been?

[Horror_Writer]

Not a lot--most of my decisions have worked out quite well. One thing I do think of a bit is perhaps having gone for a dual bachelor's degree in college. I completed a BS in computer science and had a minor in English Creative Writing. Wish I would have continued on another semester or two to get the other bachelor's degree. Of course, I had already spent 6 years in college, so while it may be easy to look back and say this now, at the time it probably was the best decision. Especially as I already had a wife and child at that point.

[Phalanx]

Hey mate, where the bloody hell have you been?
Yknow...around...new job, and my pc was er, renewed. Turns out messing with the chip isn't something for the untrained to fuck with...was without one for a while.

[Aeacus]

stubbornforgey says (Thats sad .
Unfortunately this is common outcome worlwide.
How do you reason with somebody who won't listen to sense..'hence a drunk getting behind a wheel'..
don't blame yourself for this..he would've driven regardless'.

As for mine.
well I can actually say that I regret nothing I had done.
Ironic..I believe that all the paths I had taken 'whether good or bad'..led me
directly to where I am right now..and right now..em in such a happy place..
(I don't mean lala land either smartasses)

Oh i know thats very true darlling... But I could have knocked his little ass out if needs be... thanks though.... Just wanted to see what other people thoughts on this subject were... You are a very lucky person to be content with where you are but I bet theres at least one thing in your life you would have changed..:D

But I fully believe we have to live life with no regrets which i do for sure just always wonder what would have been different if?

[crabapple]

I wish I had changed......my socks

[Aeacus]

Smart ASS:D

Why dont you change ur drawers why ur at it too:eek:

[stubbornforgey]

I wish I had changed......my socks

trust me..so do we.. :D


as for me..i have pondered over my life since reading this thread..
mistakes were made on the way..but every mistake taught me a lesson..
teaching me that should i play with fire..i will get burnt.
ummm everytime i lost ..it taught me to work harder towards being a winner..etc.
So honestly ..i regret nothing...

[VampiricClown]

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[Aeacus]

To VampiricClown ditto on ur response

[Aeacus]

LOL... I agree with ur regrets totally whathappened

[missmacabre]

It sounds bad, but I probably would have cheated on my girlfriends when I was younger and would have banged all of the different chicks that I had a chance to and didn't. I've never cheated on anyone, but those high school and college ones never lasted and quite a few of them cheated on me, so I missed out on tons of tail.

So if they didn't last and you could be getting lots of sex, why not just stay single and live the bachelor life? Need the reassurance that someone had your back or something?

[missmacabre]

Nah... I'm very happy right now with my current relationship which has lasted a long time and I don't see anything changing. Between the age of 16 and 21, I had two long term relationships, each of a year and a half to two years and another off and on girlfriend that I always got together with for about 3-4 months at a time on average. It turns out that all of them cheated on me at one time or another, while I was nothing but faithful. Anyway, there were plenty of hoochies that I could have stuck it to but refrained from doing. Looking back, it didn't do me any good...:p

Gotcha but I was just saying, why not say you regretted not being single, rather than cheat on your girlfriends. You didn't like being cheated on I take it so why do that to them?

Anywayyy... I don't regret anything. The very most that I would change would be to try to make friendships work instead of just letting people go. I would only do that if I absolutely knew it wouldn't change the way my life is now though because I'm quite happy.