Date much?

[Miss Olivia]

I've become separated from my husband, and lately I've been getting asked out a lot. The problem is every one of the guys who have asked me out are under 23. I'm 28, and the thought of going out with a nineteen year old is just creepy to me. I mean, he can't even get into bars yet.
You guys have any opinions?

[The Flayed One]

Yes. Save yourself for me;)

[crabapple]

I bet there's a lotta guys here that are closer to the age you want. Moo ha ha.

[Miss Olivia]

LOL you guys rock;)

It's just been a really long time since I had to consider stuff like this, and I'm pretty out of practice. I mean, I know we haven't been split very long, so I should proceed with things slowly and all that stuff. At the same time, sitting around moping isn't going to help me at ALL, and my ex is running around acting like HE'S 20.....why shouldn't I have some fun too? Of course, I don't want to push myself into anything just because I feel I have to compete....it's just one of those difficult situations. I know it's life, I just didn't miss this part of it that much lol.

[The Flayed One]

Ok, I'll give you a serious answer. I don't date people much younger than me. I prefer within a 2yr radius of myself either way, (although I do dig older women)

Oh, and congratulations! You're officially a MILF!:p

[Miss Olivia]

Oh, and congratulations! You're officially a MILF!:p

Awesome....do I get a t-shirt and a Baskin Robbins coupon?
I like ice cream.

[urgeok]

never dated.

i always got to know people informally first.

the idea of a formal date terrifies me - the thought of being trapped with someone for more than 30 minutes who will probably turn out to be a nightmare.

i'm extremely fussy - before i was married (and this includes my wife) i always got to know the person as a good friend before i was willing to spend 'alone time' with them.

i know some people look at it as an exciting way to get to know new people but i dont .. it's like going to a job interview where you know that in 99% of the case - you probablywouldnt even want to work for that company.

and yes, i was like this BEFORE i got old.

[The Flayed One]

and yes, i was like this BEFORE i got old.

I thought before you got old, parents still arranged marriages to help increase the family tracts of land.

[Miss Olivia]

I went on dates when I was younger, and it was usually just like you described it, uptight and like an interview. The thought of having to do it now kind of makes me queasy....but at the same time, it could be worse. I have a friend who works for the county, and the majority of guys she ends up dating she meets in the child support recovery office:rolleyes:

[urgeok]

I thought before you got old, parents still arranged marriages to help increase the family tracts of land.

she has HUGE ......... tracts of land..

http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y136/DevilzNite313/Movies/Monty%20Python/Holy%20Grail/generic2.gif

[stygianwitch]

never dated.

i always got to know people informally first.

the idea of a formal date terrifies me - the thought of being trapped with someone for more than 30 minutes who will probably turn out to be a nightmare.

i'm extremely fussy - before i was married (and this includes my wife) i always got to know the person as a good friend before i was willing to spend 'alone time' with them.

i know some people look at it as an exciting way to get to know new people but i dont .. it's like going to a job interview where you know that in 99% of the case - you probablywouldnt even want to work for that company.

and yes, i was like this BEFORE i got old.

i'm like this too, the thought of a blind date *shudders*

i have to know that i like someone and can get on with them first

[urgeok]

i'm like this too, the thought of a blind date *shudders*

i have to know that i like someone and can get on with them first

not just a blind date -
even if i sort of know the person i'm not interested.
I like to get to know someone by talking a lot - but informally... like hanging out in a group, etc ....i never wanted to feel trapped or forced.

by casual observation i was always able to eliminate a lot of people from the equation right off the bat.

this sounds absurd coming from someone who looks like a can of crushed dew worms but as odd as it is - i always had attractive girlfriends ..
no accounting for taste on their part..

[stygianwitch]

I like to get to know someone by talking a lot - but informally... like hanging out in a group, etc ....

i'm not good in large groups, i do prefer small gatherings, i tend to be a listener rather than a talker, until i get to know someone well enough to start chatting

[Miss Olivia]

LOL you mean a classic California marriage.:p

[crabapple]

That DOES sound like a pretty sound plan...a good plan...

[Roderick Usher]

Jump in and have fun. You've just come out of a relationship and you deserve to blow off some steam. Take a date or two, see how it feels.

If it sucks pull back, but at least give yourself a chance. The unknown is scary, sure, but it can also be a blast.

I'm sure you have plenty of admirers, you're a knockout. In addition to fielding a few invitations, you should ask someone out. A strong, confident, sexy woman asking a man out...that's hot.

Good luck! I'm rooting for you:D

[Nikkif8]

Personally I wouldn't date a 19 year old at my age and I am only 25. My spouse is 24 and that was pushing it lol JK. But when we met, we met out with a group and just started hanging out, basically everyday, but we would go out and do stuff in fun pubs and whatnot so it wasn't like all quiet at a fancy restaurant or anything. I dk we were just really comfortable from day one. I would only go out with someone you feel that way with instantly. Maybe I am pushing it a bit but you knwo what I mean? I definately agree that you shoudl get out and have some fun for sure, just from my experience younger guys=trouble and mostly just want sex.

[Miss Olivia]

Jump in and have fun. You've just come out of a relationship and you deserve to blow off some steam. Take a date or two, see how it feels.

If it sucks pull back, but at least give yourself a chance. The unknown is scary, sure, but it can also be a blast.

I'm sure you have plenty of admirers, you're a knockout. In addition to fielding a few invitations, you should ask someone out. A strong, confident, sexy woman asking a man out...that's hot.

Good luck! I'm rooting for you:D


You're a great ol Poe, Rod.:p
I'm going to try really hard to lighten up about this whole situation. I mean when you really think about it, there are much worse things to endure in life. Cancer.
Loss of limb.
Paris Hilton.
I should just put all the deeper questions on the back burner and have a good fucking time.
Bring on the Jello shots. I'm ready.:p

[novakru]

Go out with the babies-use them for practice!
And hot sex once in awhile with a young man can add benefits for you AND them-make sure you teach them well my friend...teach them WELL:)


Sorry to hear about your husband, that must be heartbreaking.
If you ever need someone to try a half-assed attempt to cheer you up-I'm around here sometimes:D
Take Care of your heart sweetie!

[Miss Olivia]

Go out with the babies-use them for practice!
And hot sex once in awhile with a young man can add benefits for you AND them-make sure you teach them well my friend...teach them WELL:)


Sorry to hear about your husband, that must be heartbreaking.
If you ever need someone to try a half-assed attempt to cheer you up-I'm around here sometimes:D
Take Care of your heart sweetie!


LMFAO so dating younger men could almost be a public service.....
You rock. Thanks.:cool:

[Spec7ral]

"The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else"

i dunno who said that but its worked for me in the past. of course it has also worked not so well. My GF is 6 years younger than me and we have alot of fun, gotta find the right person tho. I'd say if the young'uns are pining for you make em buy you some shit and use em for the pole if you're horny. Trial and error is usually the best, you don't wanna sit around and collect coochie cobwebs now do you?:eek:

[Roderick Usher]

You're a great ol Poe, Rod.:p
I'm going to try really hard to lighten up about this whole situation. I mean when you really think about it, there are much worse things to endure in life. Cancer.
Loss of limb.
Paris Hilton.
I should just put all the deeper questions on the back burner and have a good fucking time.
Bring on the Jello shots. I'm ready.:p

That's the spirit!

just read my signiture - Shatner sang it:eek:

[Haunted]

Some advice from Mrs. White, "Men should be like Kleenex: soft, strong, and desposable."

It'll never let you down.

[crabapple]

yeah go out and get yourself some of that........"hoochie poochie!" ......you know. ;) ;)

[Disease]

Maybe you could become a nun?

[crabapple]

A Hott nun.

[Miss Olivia]

So basically what I'm getting is, use the younger guys because that's what they want. Otherwise, I'll turn into a nun and get cootchie cobwebs. Well, that makes the decision much easier. I don't like nuns OR cobwebs.
Yay robbing the cradle!!!!!!!

[VampiricClown]

So basically what I'm getting is, use the younger guys because that's what they want. Otherwise, I'll turn into a nun and get cootchie cobwebs. Well, that makes the decision much easier. I don't like nuns OR cobwebs.
Yay robbing the cradle!!!!!!!

You could always start with me. :D

[VampiricClown]

you and vampclown should get together!...you could knock boots all nite long :D

Damn Dave, you offered me before I did.:p

[Miss Olivia]

LMAO
Are you over eighteen?:p

[VampiricClown]

LMAO
Are you over eighteen?:p

.....? I'm 22....

[Miss Olivia]

Oh, well that's okay then.;)

[Disease]

I don't like nuns OR cobwebs.
Yay robbing the cradle!!!!!!!

What's your problem with nuns?

[monalisa]

I'm sorry to hear of your separation, it's never easy no matter who left who or if it was mutual, it still sucks. However, it may also be the best thing that has ever happened to you, time will tell. Don't jump into anything serious right away, no matter how tempting it may be, you're only filling a void and that isn't fair to you or your new prospect.

Now, as far as younger guys go, they can do it more often and probably aren't looking for anything serious. So, go play for a while, just don't break anyone's heart and don't let your heart get broken.

But play, baby, play! And like Nova said, teach them well honey, teach them well. :)

The main thing is to have fun and do things that will help you to feel good (like maybe boinking young cute guys). It's a hard time but it will get better!

And I hope you know you can PM me anytime. :)

[crabapple]

Yeah...be friendly and nice, take it slow, go out there and see what's goin' on. And get yourself some of that there, um..."hoochie poochie!" ....yeah. "Hoochie poochie" means, warm snuggly companionship, in case anyone was wondering.:cool:

[bloodrayne]

Heh...I made a thread almost identical to this one a couple of years ago...ALL the guys who asked me out were between 20-25 (and one 19 year old who simply REFUSED to give up)...I kept saying "NO, I'm way too old for you"...I said it to Dustin, too...He was 20 then...He's 22 now...I guess that makes it a little better...lol

If I could dig up that old thread you could get a LOT of different opinions from it (pretty much all ending up saying, "If they're legal, go for it!")...Unfortunately, thanks to these FABULOUS upgrades, I don't think I could find it...

Anyway...I think you know what MY opinion on the subject is ;)

[Spec7ral]

Anyway...I think you know what MY opinion on the subject is ;)

Bang and get it over with?

[Miss Olivia]

What's your problem with nuns?

They never have sex. And they hit you with rulers. Haven't you ever seen The Blues Brothers?

And I guess it could be worse....I could be dodging geriatric lounge lizards with lots of gold chains and spray on hair. You guys are totally right, a little torture of the younger male population might be the best thing for me. What else are they good for besides delivering pizzas and getting DUI'S?
Sorry, I know that was insulting. Younger guys are good for all sorts of things....plugging leaks in the roof, being thrown at mountain lions when they attack, opening cans.:p

[The Flayed One]

I found you a new avatar, Irish:p

http://www.novelty-t-shirts.net/thumbs/milf-in-training.gif

[Vodstok]

My only advice? NEver, ever ever accept a blind date. i have been on 2, and got burned twice.

Although, I suppose it was my fault to accept an offer for a blind date when the guy who set it up says she is "cute", and he is the guy dating my sister....


Who I dont really believe is attractive by human standards.

[crabapple]

Oh what a sad thing to say about one's sister...

[VampiricClown]

Heh...I made a thread almost identical to this one a couple of years ago...ALL the guys who asked me out were between 20-25 (and one 19 year old who simply REFUSED to give up)...I kept saying "NO, I'm way too old for you"...I said it to Dustin, too...He was 20 then...He's 22 now...I guess that makes it a little better...lol

If I could dig up that old thread you could get a LOT of different opinions from it (pretty much all ending up saying, "If they're legal, go for it!")...Unfortunately, thanks to these FABULOUS upgrades, I don't think I could find it...

Anyway...I think you know what MY opinion on the subject is ;)

In my state....16 is legal....

[Vodstok]

Oh what a sad thing to say about one's sister...

You dont know my sister....

[urgeok]

My only advice? NEver, ever ever accept a blind date. i have been on 2, and got burned twice.

Although, I suppose it was my fault to accept an offer for a blind date when the guy who set it up says she is "cute", and he is the guy dating my sister....


Who I dont really believe is attractive by human standards.

i met my wife when we were set up unwittingly by mutual friends...
it wasnt really a blind date - more of an opportunity ..

that was over 8 years ago and we talked every day on the phone after we met, spent every weekend together and eventually moved in together and got married.

pretty intuitive friends...

[crabapple]

Vod, yur sister's gotta have some kinda redeeming qualities otherwise no one woulda not done nothing there!

Urge, whata cute story!

[Vodstok]

Vod, yur sister's gotta have some kinda redeeming qualities otherwise no one woulda not done nothing there!

Urge, whata cute story!

She actually had some redeeming qualities until she broke up with that particular boyfriend. After that, she turned into oneo f the most self-serving people i have ever met. i wont air family bullshit here (who knows, may be some legal crap that could come from it...) But you can ask Nchantress(my wife), my sister is a shitty human being. She has done shit in my life that damn near left me emotionally crippled.

but anyway.


Probably the last decent thing she did was introduce me to Bree. We were just goingto chat, and it grew legs REAL fast. we talked every day for the first week after our introduction, met face to face a week later, and were dating by the end of the weekend. 2 years later we were married and now we have a baby that just turned 1 :)

[urgeok]

She actually had some redeeming qualities until she broke up with that particular boyfriend. After that, she turned into oneo f the most self-serving people i have ever met. i wont air family bullshit here (who knows, may be some legal crap that could come from it...) But you can ask Nchantress(my wife), my sister is a shitty human being. She has done shit in my life that damn near left me emotionally crippled.




you're the only other guy here who knows what it's like to have retards for immediate family members..

[bloodrayne]

you're the only other guy here who knows what it's like to have retards for immediate family members..Yeah Vod...My sister sounds like yours...So does my mother...

[newb]

I feel so left out...my family is pretty normal.

Never big on the dating thing.Of course i've been married for over 25 years so I wouldn't even know where to begin.

[Vodstok]

I feel so left out...my family is pretty normal.

Never big on the dating thing.Of course i've been married for over 25 years so I wouldn't even know where to begin.

Pat yourself on the back and drink a toast. I hope we can last 25 years.

[newb]

Pat yourself on the back and drink a toast. I hope we can last 25 years.

Its friday....most def have a couple of beers tonight.

Believe me....with kids, 25 years flys by.Just keep your sense of humor.....works for me:D

[Phalanx]

you're the only other guy here who knows what it's like to have retards for immediate family members..
Please...
Between a sister that is the most unlikeable, materialistic snob under the sun, to the manic depressive mother who's tried to off herself numerous times (first taste of that I got was at about age 8) who throws herself at any nutjob that considers her attention-worthy, then blames her children for her inevitable relationship failures (to this day, it's my BROTHERS fault now), then we have the grandparents (now dead) who decided anyone under 20 was scum, the ones on the other side being an alcoholic business owner who lost everything he was ever worth, to his ex wife, the grandmother who sapped off him, while eating herself into a heart attack, and the aunt that's like a younger version of her...pretty much every one of them being a mortal enemy of one or the other at any given time...there's me, my half-brother (miles away), and my dad (who if my mother found out I was associating with at all, would stop me from seeing my brother ever again), wondering what the fuck is going on with all the crazy...
My family is a retard redefinition.
Not tryin' to rain on your parade folks, just sayin' I'm with ya.

Oh, and Olivia...just another thought...you could just spend some time yknow, getting to know yourself as an individual instead of launching back into it...learn how to be "ok" on your own, and perfectly at ease, so when you enter the dating scene again so to speak, you'll have a slightly better perspective about your wants and needs. You don't need anyone to complete you (I don't know how many chicks I've said that to...), so you can always cool out for a bit, think things through, and enjoy the time alone, 'cos if the next one turns out, could be a while before you get to be "just you" again. When something's "right", by the way...age won't be such a consideration, I don't think so anyways...you'll know it, it'll come along.

[Roderick Usher]

Its friday....most def have a couple of beers tonight.

Believe me....with kids, 25 years flys by.Just keep your sense of humor.....works for me:D

That's awesome, old man:) I'm gonna hit 10 years with the wife on April 1

yeah, that's right...got married on April Fool's Day! It's all just one big joke to us and it gets funnier every year.

[Spallalala]

Would love to give you some advice but never really dated so why don't you become a lesbian? :P

[crabapple]

I've been reading all the responses and they're all very interesting and useful. Many interesting points of view to consider.

[Spallalala]

if this happens can i watch ?:D
Yes me too. :P Make a vid and send it to me.

[Miss Olivia]

LOL if I end up with a girl, I'll make you guys a tape with a summary and everything.


Spending time alone hasn't ever been a huge problem for me....I went for a couple of YEARS being by myself because it was so nice to be alone in a new place.
I think it's always hard when you're used to something and it changes, like trying to stop smoking. You know it's bad for you, but sometimes it's just so damn GOOD. Rationality isn't always a factor. Of course I know the best thing would probably be to take things slow, but at the same time there's that feeling of "Fuck him, I can do WAY better. Watch me."
Hurt pride is a dangerous thing to deal with, it can make you bitter and cruel to other people just because you can.

[Zero]

LOL if I end up with a girl, I'll make you guys a tape with a summary and everything.


Spending time alone hasn't ever been a huge problem for me....I went for a couple of YEARS being by myself because it was so nice to be alone in a new place.
.

i'm in that phase at the moment as well - although i'm in the same old place - i've given the whole idea of pursuing 'dates' a rest. . . its been very liberating!

[The Flayed One]

You know, the amazing thing about being alone (in my experience, anyway) is that you really don't get that lonely. I've studied more in the last couple of years than I ever have, and I'm really proud of that. Don't get me wrong, being together with someone worthwhile is a wonderful thing. Being alone is really underated, though.

By all means, Irish, take some time off if you need. Get laid here and there, but just enjoy knowing and loving yourself. It's a great big world, and you seem like a special, level headed girl. I think after all the shit has blown over, you deserve a little me time. Hit a club, visit a museum and just be happy to be you. Life's a beautiful thing; most people who live just don't get the chance to experience it:)

[Miss Olivia]

You're awesome, Crunchy.:p

That which doesn't kill us makes us stronger.

[monalisa]

A good friend of mine says "what doesn't kill you, makes you bitter". I like that version, the friend that said it is very intelligant and sarcastic and can describe things in the most amusing matter. Just makes ya laugh.

Anyway, just relax and have some fun and stay safe!

I hate dating, I usually meet people through mutual friends. I met my present BF from mutual friends and we've been together 10 1/2 years. We still drive each other crazy, but at least we know what to expect from each other no matter how much it sucks.

You've had the strength to get beyond that. Observe and think about what you want. And if ya get some pleasant attention from someone, young or old, just as long as it legal and you're OK with whatever, then relax and have fun. Doesn't mean you have to go to bed with them, just relax and enjoy, and hopefully it'll be good weather, light breeze and all that.....um, I need a nap...later.

[stubbornforgey]

I've become separated from my husband, and lately I've been getting asked out a lot. The problem is every one of the guys who have asked me out are under 23. I'm 28, and the thought of going out with a nineteen year old is just creepy to me. I mean, he can't even get into bars yet.
You guys have any opinions?


take em when you can..!!LOL..
5 yr difference is not such a knock back..
age is just a number..experience and how he treats you is the key.. :p

[Miss Olivia]

That's also a REALLY good point. Maybe I'm being too judgemental. I'm sure not ALL younger guys are lame.....there are bound to be four or five somewhere in Utah that are good guys.:p

[VampiricClown]

Lame? LMAO!
I've met guys a lot older than me that are lame.
I mean, come on, when you have to sit through someone repeating the same Larry The Cable Guy joke 15 times in two minutes, it gets as you say, lame.
Not to mention the only way him and his brother thought girls were pretty was by the size of their ass.
They never looked at their personality, face, eyes, anything.
As long as they had a nice ass, they would date them.
They were in their 30's and were looking at girls younger than me....

[Miss Olivia]

Well then, I must amend my statements as there has been a protest.
There must be at least eight MEN in the whole WORLD who are worth the time and effort.
And the same amount of women, let's be fair. The bottom line is that most people SUCK in one way or another. I'll be the first to admit there are things about me that should be changed.....I have a nasty temper and I can be mean for no good reason.
I guess when you get right down to it, I'm pretty bummed on people in general right now. Of course, I'm not in the best state of mind right now. My PRINCE of a soon to be ex husband asked me if I'd keep the kids last night for a while during HIS weekend and I said sure.....I never saw or heard from him again. I am so far beyond pissed right now, I only got three hours of sleep.
MotherFUCKER in general.

[The Flayed One]

Bah. Fuck him. A special girl like you shouldn't have to try too hard to find a guy who would treat her exactly like she wants to be treated. Last I checked, you lived in CA, not some freak planet where men hate sexy horror geek girls:)?

Seriously, though. Last time I checked, the demand was pretty high for beautiful intelligent women who like stuff like video games, horror movies and the what. One would think that gals like you and Haunted could pick and choose. If your ex is enough of a fucktard to give something that good away, so be it. Don't let it get to you; you'll end up with the better end of the stick eventually.;)

[Miss Olivia]

You're awesome. I really hope you're right. This is getting a tad ridiculous.

[crabapple]

Yeah....horror geek girls are actually in high demand in California. If you're a little gothy looking and wear geeky glasses, even more so. I forget if you wear glasses, but even if you don't you're ahead of the game. Go to your local alternative music store or hip coffee hangout and give the doods a look-see.

[Miss Olivia]

Unfortunately, I have good eyesight.:p

You're right though, I should try to hang out with people who share my interests.....most of the aquaintances I've made during my relationship usually spend their time drinking beer and head butting each other.:rolleyes:

[Spec7ral]

most of the aquaintances I've made during my relationship usually spend their time drinking beer and head butting each other.:rolleyes:


headbutting is a bit much but drinking beer is fucking unreal.

Sidenote, i just bought my third 15 pack in the last 17 hours. No I did not drink all of the first two, it was a shitshow of a night, the kind of night where you wake up in the morning and leave NFL sunday ticket behind and tell one of your best friends to "Have a nice life". man those nights are unreal :rolleyes:

[Miss Olivia]

Wow.....that's a lot of beer.
I don't mind drinking beer provided it's not CONSTANT, and that's one of the problems. There is such a thing as too much.
Especially when you're still smoking all my pot.:p

[novakru]

Ok, Me and my family (hubby,2 daughters and baby boy)
went to the local coffee/scone/music/DVD/poetry corner place and oh, it was a bookstore I think too( :D )
Anyway, I noticed ALOT of young hotties there scanning more than the latest best seller.
So-get yourself dolled up and head out to Barnes and Noble on Friday-you'll get more than a latte buzz I'm sure! :)

[monalisa]

At least you don't have some asshole trying to control you day after day after day... God I'm so sick of that I could scream. Most of the time I try to pretend everything is all OK here, but it isn't. Far from it. And there are a few details that are preventing me from leaving my situation at this time. You are free now. Take care of yourself! Whatever that entails. Just take this time to heal and spend time with your kids and enjoy it. Keep remembering, you are free now, you don't have to put up with the crap anymore. Take care. :)

[Miss Olivia]

You know, I have some rope and a shovel;)

[Disease]

So, has there been any love in this thread yet?

[monalisa]

So, has there been any love in this thread yet?

I think so. Maybe not at a couple of our homes, but support between HDC members, yes most definately.

[Disease]

That's nice, I feel all warm, wait that's because it's 35 degrees!

[monalisa]

That's nice, I feel all warm, wait that's because it's 35 degrees!


Hey, don't feel bad, it's 23 degrees up here in Minnesota. At least I have a warm puppy to snuggle up to, cuz the man-human ain't getting anything even remotely resembleming cuddling tonight or anytime in the foreseeable future if he doesn't stop his crap. I've had it. Warm puppy warm puppy think good thoughts.....

[Phalanx]

He's talking 35 of OUR degrees, aka - Fuckin' HOT.

[The Flayed One]

I don't mind drinking beer provided it's not CONSTANT, and that's one of the problems. There is such a thing as too much.

!!!! (http://objection.mrdictionary.net/go.php?n=1600380) ;)

[novakru]

Hey, don't feel bad, it's 23 degrees up here in Minnesota. At least I have a warm puppy to snuggle up to, cuz the man-human ain't getting anything even remotely resembleming cuddling tonight or anytime in the foreseeable future if he doesn't stop his crap. I've had it. Warm puppy warm puppy think good thoughts.....

Here's some advice I WISH someone had given me 15 years back and would have saved me a hella lot'o time....
Don't say a word... don't bitch at him, don't ask even 1 question...just get ALL your ducks in a row and when you are able( aka :finiancally(sp?), emotionally and physically.)
Then you can leave the SOB and be alright-you know?
Be cool, be smart and take care of your precious heart.
We do not have to take any shit from men anymore, and there are some really good ones that ARE worth what we are WORTH.

[VampiricClown]

Her
We do not have to take any shit from men anymore, and there are some really good ones that ARE worth what we are WORTH.

Mhmm...Good thing you backed your statement up with that.

[urgeok]

We do not have to take any shit from men anymore,



nobody should have to take shit from anybody anymore - but most of us do from time to time.

especially if you happen to work for a living ..

[stubbornforgey]

I have to admit that all the men i have ever dated
were real gentlemanly like and lots of fun to be around..
some have been totally gorgeous...some not so, but they were
really again...awesome to be around..
As for the personal contact side..only allowed a small number
to ever get that close....
but if truth be known..if i had of known my mr right then..
he would've been my 1st and my last from then through to today.. :o

[Miss Olivia]

!!!! (http://objection.mrdictionary.net/go.php?n=1600380) ;)


Ha ha ha.:rolleyes:
And oh yes there IS.:p

[X¤MurderDoll¤X]

I wouldn't date anyone younger than me.

[Miss Olivia]

my wifes says i can date so what do you think ?;) :p


I'd say you were asking for trouble.:p

[The Flayed One]

my wifes says i can date so what do you think ?;) :p

http://home.swiftdsl.com.au/%7Eraza/asl.jpg

[Miss Olivia]

OW GOD MY EYES!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Here's a gal for him.

http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i218/DawnOlivia_2006/fat-woman.jpg

[Roderick Usher]

She's got enough creases to satisfy a football team

[urgeok]

that cant be a regular bed ..

probably steel reinforced concrete

[Elvis_Christ]

"she works hard at eating well that's why I love her"