OMG!...OMG!...OMG!...The Freakiest Shit JUST Happened!!!

[bloodrayne]

You guys remember this story?
Originally posted by bloodrayne
Actually...Something similar to that happened to me when I was a teenager...

His mother had put him in a drug rehab...Because he SMOKED POT!...*GASP* :eek: .................:rolleyes:




Stupid Bitch

Originally posted by bloodrayne
No..They didn't say it was 'my fault'....BUT...They said that he shouldn't associate with 'people like me' because I hung out with him, even though he was a POT SMOKER.....So, basically, I was a bad person because I hung out with THEIR son...

Incidentally...I had ALWAYS tried to get him to quit (ironically, because I was afraid his psycho mother would try to pull some stupid shit like SENDING HIM AWAY)...And he NEVER smoked around me...

The way these places work apparently, is they seperate you from ALL of your friends, tell you they are bad influences, and basically break you down and brainwash you...He wasn't even the same person when he got out....Wouldn't talk to anyone, and the high school worked with the 'program' so that he would be let out of all his classes 5 minutes early so that he could walk through the halls to his next class without 'running into anyone'....I circumvented that one time...I left MY class 10 minutes early, watched where he went, caught up with him in a deserted hallway in front of the gym, blocked his path so that he HAD to talk to me, or push me out of his way...he stopped, stared at me, wouldn't say anything...Then he started to CRY, and said, "I'm sorry...I just can't....They are watching me...You have no idea how much trouble I will be in, or what they'll do to me..."...So, I told him..."I'll see you again...When they don't OWN you...and you remember who you are"...Then I turned around and walked off...

I didn't see him again, until about 2 years ago...I had found him through his 'Highrise Certification' record....It listed his job...I called, they gave him the message...Not only did he remember me...But, he told me on the phone "You destroyed my immortal soul"...I told him, "Your mother did that"...It was like no time had passed...He said, "I told my wife about the redhead that I could never get over"...It was so sad...Then he asked, "So, where are you living now?...He made me explain it in DETAIL....The next thing he said was, "I'll be right there"...Just like that...I said, "You gotta be kidding"..He didn't say anything, so I said, "You BETTER be kidding!!!!"...Then he said, "Watch out your window"...and he hung up...

So, I was kinda freaked...I told Seri about it...She had heard about him before, she had actually LOST the necklace that he had given me, she was wearing it at the drive-in...She felt so bad because she knew that I had kept it for 20 years........Anyway, after 20 years...He rang my doorbell 15 minutes after he hung up the phone...You can't imagine what it was like...Seri had to be standing right there...She said she thought I was gonna pass out when I opened the door...I felt like I was, too.....He came in and neither of us could say a word...I backed up and fell over a chair :rolleyes: ...That was what broke the silence...he said, "Are you okay?"...I said, "I'm not really sure"....he said..."You look the same as the last day I saw you...And all the times I've seen you in my head ever since"

We hugged...But, that was it....He was still married...

It was weird, but it gave us closure, because the last thing we had said to each other the night before his mother sent him away was, "I love you...I'll see you tomorrow"

Anyway, after he left...Seri said, "OMG Mom!...He still loves you!"....Whether she was right or wrong...It didn't matter...

OMG..I can't believe I poured out that WHOLE story...



A Scorpio never forgets...

Well...My doorbell just rang a little while ago...I usually don't answer my door...But, for some reason, this time without even asking who it was, I opened it...And THERE HE STOOD!!!!!!!!

He didn't recognize me right away because he has never seen me with black hair, so that was kinda funny.....ANYWAY...

He had obviously been by before, because when he was here 2 years ago, the truck wasn't in the driveway...Then tonight, the truck wasn't in the driveway because Dustin has it at work....Yet, when I told him that I had had a baby (which obviously shocked him half to death, because all he could say was "How did you get a baby?"...lmao), and that I was with someone, he said, "Is that who drives the truck?"....

We had a discussion...He left his wife a few months ago...

It ended with:

Me: I don't cheat
Him: *in a very calm voice, and with a smile on his face*...I don't want you to cheat...I want you to leave him

It really freaked me out...I'm still kinda shaky...I NEVER feel this way....I don't know how to react to it...



ADVICE PLEASE!!!!....



I think I'm gonna puke...

[Marroe]

If he keeps on call the cops, unless you DO want him now...thats some freaky fucking shit.

[Elvis_Christ]

You should definatley puke, its not good to hold that shit in.

[ItsAlive75]

I would be pissed as shit if someone just blatantly told me to leave the person I had children with...

[Posher778]

if you love your husband now.... then the answers sorta... in your face. by the way the story went, i'm a little freaked out for you. not to sound like an ass to your friend or anything, but he seems kind of like a stalker. but, do what you think is right.

[MoonLit Meadow]

OMG, BR. That IS freaky. My ex-boyfriend from 10 years ago(and my first love...I absolutely adored him) contacted me TODAY...so I know EXACTLY how you feel. All of the memories start coming back...I'm currently with somebody, but there are always going to be certain people in your life that you'll always love/have something special for. It's insanely confusing and I'm dealing with some crazy feelnigs myself.

Your story is obviously alot more involved than mine...but I can relate to an extent for sure. Take a deep breath and listen to your heart...definately take time to sort things out...life is so strange, isn't it?

[MoonLit Meadow]

HOWEVER...I forgot to add...I don't like the fact that he's asking you to leave the father of your children...he SHOULD know better...but again, I don't know what the two of you shared...it seems like it was pretty intense.

[Marroe]

it's all cos of the full moon:eek: Everyone stay in tonight, lock your doors, and stay in bed....hehe.

[MoonLit Meadow]

Originally posted by Marroe
it's all cos of the full moon:eek: Everyone stay in tonight, lock your doors, and stay in bed....hehe.

LOL...yeah, something is definately up. People from your past always have a funny way of showing up when you least expect it.

[Elvis_Christ]

Originally posted by Marroe
it's all cos of the full moon:eek: Everyone stay in tonight, lock your doors, and stay in bed....hehe.

especially with the Furies rockin about in the night :p there badass yo....

[MoonLit Meadow]

Originally posted by trippin_the_rif
I'll admit, leaving Ash's dad would be a bit extreme, but aside from being freaked out, are there feelings for this guy? Is it a creepy kinda freaked? I dont know. You do what you have to do. We're here for ya.

Agreed...obviously there's no need to rush into anything. You need time to sort out all of your feelings (but you know that) :)

Certain people just turn the world upside down...damn them:p

[Zero]

i'm the last person to give advice. . .

but . . .

it seems to me the relationship you have with your husband is REAL (day to day, kiss good morning, cuddle at night) love . . . feelings of passion and recollections of love with this other guy are, at best, potential (and therefore not yet real) and, at worst, illusions created by memory. as for me, i'd pick the real love and let the memories stay in the past. . . but good luck with a tough situation.

[Elvis_Christ]

Originally posted by trippin_the_rif
Dont I know it. There's this chick I'm talking to on MSN. She gives me goose bumps.;) :p

:rolleyes: you're probably givin her night terrors!
http://www.clubdesmonstres.com/leprechaun.jpg

[Marroe]

That thing freaks me out....make it stop:(

[DraculaInDallas]

Originally posted by Zero
i'm the last person to give advice. . .

but . . .

it seems to me the relationship you have with your husband is REAL (day to day, kiss good morning, cuddle at night) love . . . feelings of passion and recollections of love with this other guy are, at best, potential (and therefore not yet real) and, at worst, illusions created by memory. as for me, i'd pick the real love and let the memories stay in the past. . . but good luck with a tough situation.

I agree with Zero on this. The fact that you even have to think twice about this seems like a slap in Dustin's face. You two seem so happy......I'd be careful, very careful. I'm interested in knowing if you are even going to bring this up with Dustin or just let it continue to surface?????

[Elvis_Christ]

Originally posted by Marroe
That thing freaks me out....make it stop:(

http://magazine.uchicago.edu/0406/features/images/index-gun.jpg

POW!

[The STE]

The guy is a piece of shit. Think about this: He wasn't willing to make any sort of changes in HIS life to be with YOU, was he? Did he say he'd leave his wife? No. He waited until she left him for who knows what reason. And now he's expecting you to leave someone with whom you have a kid. With the information you've provided, I can't think of a way he's NOT a piece of shit. He's a spineless, gauche, pathetic little person who expects other people to make the huge changes that he wasn't willing to make for them. My advice: Tell him to go fuck himself

[Elvis_Christ]

So you're thinking with your big head instead of your lil' (and I do mean lil') head rif?

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by DraculaInDallas
The fact that you even have to think twice about this seems like a slap in Dustin's face. You're absolutely right...That's what freaked me out the most...The fact that this whole thing even got to me...It shouldn't have...It's so confusing...

It wasn't like I was trying to figure out whether I should leave Dustin or not (that's out of the question)..It was more like "I have this really fucked up, nervous, sick feeling right now...I never felt this way before...I don't know why it's there...I'm very confused...I'm used to being in complete control, and at this very moment I am DEFINITELY not, which scares me, and throws me off balance...I don't know what to do about it...It kinda freaks me out...I don't like it...Tell me what to do about it"....But...You guys fixed it, Thanks:)

Originally posted by DraculaInDallas
I'm interested in knowing if you are even going to bring this up with Dustin?Yeah...I'll tell him, AND I'm sure he'll eventually read this thread...I don't play games, I have to be honest with him...Besides, I'd be TERRIBLE at trying to hide things, I'm way too open...And, Seri would tell him if I didn't...She was here the whole time...She's worried, she even made a blog about it on her MySpace page...But...I told her she has nothing to worry about...


I REALLY appreciate all of your advice...Sincerely...It helped me to calm down and think about this rationally (cuz honestly, my brain was kinda scrambled...But, at least I didn't back over a chair this time...lol)

Try to understand...This situation has spanned over a 20 year period....I loved him like you couldn't imagine...The fact that neither of us ever 'ended' it was (I believe) what plagued us BOTH....If his mother hadn't butted in, we may have ended it ourselves at some point, and moved on...OR we may have married and still been together to this day (which was the plan, until she fucked it all up)....Maybe he's trying to fix what happened...Maybe I couldn't let it go because WE didn't have a say in how OUR lives turned out....Maybe he wanted to pick back up where we left off before it all went wrong, because at the time it was amazing....There was obviously SOMETHING there, to bring him to my door again (2 years ago) after 20 years...And then, again tonight...And maybe he doesn't think that Dustin is all that relevant because we have been together for less than 2 years, while this other guy and I were together (at the time) a lot longer than that....It's probably all just because of the 'not knowing what might have happened' and always wishing we could have had the chance to find out...I can definitely understand that...

But...No matter what this is all about....I'm with Dustin now



All of you are right...

Thank you Stephen, for pointing out a fact that I obviously was too stunned to consider, I love you...

*MUAH*

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by trippin_the_rif
Good luck BR. I hope this guy stays away from you and your family. And disregard my earlier posts. I have soooo much going on here, that I wasnt thinking straight. The thought of breaking up a happy family on an unsure feeling should have never been an issue. Under normal circumstances, I would have offered to kill the guy for ya. I apologize. It's okay...It pretty much fucked up MY head, too...

I really wouldn't want anything bad to happen to him...In fact, I wish that we could be friends....I'm just not so sure that's possible...WAY too much history...Too many feelings...

[Despare]

I had a girlfriend who from the minute we split up wouldn't stop trying to get me back (which is weird because she initiated the breakup). This girl showed up in nothing but a trenchcoat once, left flowers on my car, met me outside after I got off work one day... for 5 years this girl kept trying. In the beginning it was hard to say no but I knew I had to, as time went on and I got into a relationship it got progressivly easier. It's been about 6 years now and I only get a call every 5 months or so which is easy to ignore now. It's weird how memories tigger what you think are feelings but after a little time passes you realize that it's not feelings for the person but simply for the past.

Oh, and the friends thing never works... somebody always ends up getting screwed (one way or the other).

[newb]

Originally posted by The STE
The guy is a piece of shit. Think about this: He wasn't willing to make any sort of changes in HIS life to be with YOU, was he? Did he say he'd leave his wife? No. He waited until she left him for who knows what reason. And now he's expecting you to leave someone with whom you have a kid. With the information you've provided, I can't think of a way he's NOT a piece of shit. He's a spineless, gauche, pathetic little person who expects other people to make the huge changes that he wasn't willing to make for them. My advice: Tell him to go fuck himself


DITTO

[GorePhobia]

I agree with sam

fuck that dude

he seems like a piece of shit

[Elvis_Christ]

Originally posted by trippin_the_rif
Ya gettin me a lil worried here.:p

about width or length?

[Elvis_Christ]

Originally posted by trippin_the_rif
I'm quite content with the width and length I've got, thanks.:p

Thank god for magnifiying glasses and tweasers huh?

[Elvis_Christ]

Well ummm why do you wanna look for my penis? Hustler mags got boring huh?

[The STE]

hey, now, what's all this talk of penises?

[Despare]

Originally posted by The STE
hey, now, what's all this talk of penises?

I don't know but this thread got like double the posts once all the penis talk started. Maybe we need a penis thread?

[The STE]

Originally posted by Despare
I don't know but this thread got like double the posts once all the penis talk started. Maybe we need a penis thread?

could be. Then I could make more jokes about my penis.

[Despare]

Originally posted by The STE
could be. Then I could make more jokes about my penis.

Then we all could make more jokes about your penis!

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by Despare
I don't know but this thread got like double the posts once all the penis talk started. Maybe we need a penis thread? We already have one...lol


And it got pretty big, too




OH...That did NOT sound right:eek:



:D

[Despare]

What kind of non-porn forums have a penis thread? Seriously now. :P

[Elvis_Christ]

Originally posted by bloodrayne
We already have one...lol


And it got pretty big, too


Wait till I post on it baby.

[Elvis_Christ]

Originally posted by trippin_the_rif
:rolleyes: dont look on these threads for the jokes, my friend. The joke's in your hand.:p

Why is my mouse the joke :confused:

[Elvis_Christ]

Yes... thats what I call it :rolleyes:

[The STE]

http://www.vgcats.com/comics/images/060206.jpg

[Despare]

Read that Mon. STE.... goooooood shtuph.

Remember, the smaller the mustache the smaller your tesicles are. Hitler just had one tiny ball, it was like those little cats toys, you know the little tiny plastic balls? Yeah, his was like the bell inside.

[AUSTIN316426808]

The issue seems to be resolved but still...

I completely agree with Sam, tell him to get lost. Him and his apparently serious issues are in the past and that's where they should stay. Imo if he truely cared about you he would've left you alone after realizing you were happy.

[Babygurl20]

your answer is in the way you felt after he left. you said you were shaky, well maybe that is because you realised that you had finally gotten over him and moved on to someone so much better. Seems to me by all the posts you do about Dustin, that you have truly found your soul mate and have found the one who gives you and your child all the love you two deserve.

I wish you luck with the whole situation and hope that things don't get any weirder and any more confusing than they already seem to be for you. Good luck sweety.

[bloodrayne]

Thanks to everyone who helped me with this.....Dustin read this thread when he got home and we just finished discussing it.....His initial reaction was "You know I'm going to kill him, right?".....But, now we have decided it would be best to just let it go...I don't expect to see that guy again, and if he DOES show up again (as Seri still believes he will), I'll just tell him that he has to leave and can't come back around here again......I seriously wouldn't want anyone to get hurt because of something that happened so long ago....It's actually just stupid at this point....

I really appreciate you guys:)

[Elvis_Christ]

Originally posted by bloodrayne
"You know I'm going to kill him, right

I thought he'd say that ;)

[AUSTIN316426808]

Originally posted by bloodrayne
I seriously wouldn't want anyone to get hurt because of something that happened so long ago....It's actually just stupid at this point....



I get just telling him not to come around anymore and resolving things civilly(personally I'd crush his fucking head but everybody has their own way so..). But if he persist, then you have to let Dustin go Dirty Harry on the little punk.

[Angra]

Originally posted by bloodrayne

I really appreciate you guys:)




Anytime sweetie. ;) :D

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by AUSTIN316426808
I get just telling him not to come around anymore and resolving things civilly(personally I'd crush his fucking head but everybody has their own way so..). But if he persist, then you have to let Dustin go Dirty Harry on the little punk. Buuuut..The 'little punk' is a thin, muscular black belt whose father is a Sensai and has had a dojo in his basement for training since he was 8 years old...I have seen him fight (when we were teenagers he beat the shit outta some 20 year-old guy at the skating rink just for talking to me:rolleyes: )....I didn't like it then, I won't like it now...I DON'T wanna see it again...

Dustin's a lot bigger than he is...But...Still...

I just want this to die down and go away...

[Angra]

Originally posted by bloodrayne
Buuuut..The 'little punk' is a thin, muscular black belt whose father is a Sensai and has had a dojo in his basement for training since he was 8 years old...



Aint no sensei fast enough..... To catch a bullet.:cool:

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by Angra
Aint no sensei fast enough..... To catch a bullet.:cool: LOL...Dustin would say that, too...Trust me..It would get REALLY ugly


Catch you guys later :)

*muah*

[The STE]

blackbelt schmackbelt. Wanna REALLY ruin his shit? Buy him a big bag of pot

[Zero]

Originally posted by The STE
blackbelt schmackbelt. Wanna REALLY ruin his shit? Buy him a big bag of pot

sick & twisted



i love it

[The STE]

Originally posted by Zero
sick & twisted



i love it

:D

[Elvis_Christ]

A nice piece of Pot Cake or a muffin with his coffee huh? :p

[The STE]

or if you just want to be the biggest bitch ever (in a good, completely warranted way, of course), roll him a joint and say you'll get with him if he lights up. If he doesn't, then he'll probably be all uppity about it and leave you alone. If he does, tell him it was a test, and you could never be with someone of such weak moral fiber, who would just give up all the shit he went through with rehab just like that. Seriously, go for blood.

[stubbornforgey]

Your quite a lady rayne and I don't think that there is anybody in here who could out do you on your levelheadness.
It freaked me how he said 'i want you to leave him'...
or how he knew there was a truck parked on your driveway..
Thats some stalking shit going on there...
Just be careful is all I can add..