Why me?

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[pinkfloyd45769]

You should add the guy to your myspace and find out wtf is up. Sorry you have to go through this shit!!! PM me if you need to chat!!! :(

[Angra]

Originally posted by VampiricClown
Me and my girlfriend have been getting along really well..... But her site has this comment from this guy that says this:

"ill have myspace change when i get home from from scoool. i reallly love u and i was waiting for ur phone call. i really do love u. ur my baby girl and i really need to talk to u tonight. something hapen to one of my family members. well got to go love u lotz and lotz...
im really s about u!!!!!!

i love u babay
this would be me and u
im that ur my baby"

And she was supposed to call me last night and never did.:( If this is what I think it is, I'm giving up....


Why don´t you talk to her about it?

[Zero]

maybe its just a myspace hoax - people can write any shit they want on there.


on the other hand, if it is what you fear - trust me you are not the first (i had a 2 year relationship ruined when i found out she'd been with someone else during the last six months). it sucks and it hurts and its not fair and its not you. . .

i was so bummed out by it all i started not going to work and just staying in my room with the lights off (oh and drinking REALLY heavily) [we were actually talking 'marriage' so it was pretty heavy]

. . .eventually i broke out of it - friends helped, even some folks i didn't consider "friends" stepped up and pulled me out of my stupor and baseball (of all things) helped immensely (i will always be thankful for the yankees and mets and the way i could fall asleep watching the playoff games and somehow felt safer)

Anyway - icky self-disclosure aside - this too shall pass and you've got lots of friends - so don't let it hit you too hard

[VampiricClown]

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[SKOOFx]

Ive been there.
I gave a chick 2 years ..1 year was amazing..

then she went from a sporty..intellectual individual..

to a fucking wanna b gucci slut who played me and lied to me hundreds of times.

broke my heart..and it sucked.


but now im with my new gf for 3 years..

and id rather eat feces than be with anyone else.


so chin up my man.

It sucks BIG TIME..weve been there
and no matter what people tell u..u dont care..cause your like..they dont know....

and your right..we dont know in your case.but we know in ours...and basically things will click and youl b back up..wondering why u ever cared...

so yeah..no matter what people tell u..it wont change anthing..BUT..ur mind will change in time..

U ever wanna chat to someone who's been there? Im here for u bro.

PS- got his link..lemme see thi DOUCHEBAG

[noctuary]

LOL internet.

Sorry, I'm just messing around. It seems to me that what you need to do is get in touch with the girl first off. Don't dance around the issue, just come right out and ask her to explain it. If her explanation is reasonable and it's just a stupid internet hoax (which is quite possible) let it go. If she can't explain, kick her to the curb. I know it may sound harsh, but there's too many good women out there for you to waste your time with one who deceives you.

We've all been there. It sucks to find that the one you care so much for has lied to you and the relationship that you believed in was a sham, it truly does. But it isn't the end of the world, even though it may feel like it. Something better will come along.

[VampiricClown]

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[Angra]

Originally posted by VampiricClown
I'm talking to her now.



Well?


What´s she saying?

Tell us, tell us, tell uuuuuuuuus!!!!!

[VampiricClown]

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[Angra]

But you haven´t spoken to her today?

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[Angra]

Originally posted by VampiricClown
Yeah, I did. For about 10 minutes and she hung up. I haven't been back in touch with her since.


....... Screw her...

[VampiricClown]

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[stubbornforgey]

fuckit ..you are too precious to go through crap like this..
let her fucking go..don't try and ring her
anymore..
let the dumbass chase you..
she will soon realise what a good thing she has passed up on..
Lots n lots of hugs sweety..
theres enuff h.d.c girlies in here
who would give thier left arm to be your
mate...
hold your head high dude and send her to the recycle bin ..
hold alt/delete ..
BE GONE BIATCH!!!:D

[VampiricClown]

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[Angra]

I agree with Stubborn. Kick her out of your life as fast as possible.

The quicker you do it, the less you get hurt, dude.

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[InkMonster]

She's definitely fucking with you. I hate when they pull the old "I'm so angry and confused! I'm gonna kill myself!". It's bullshit. Sorry to hear about your troubles, man!

Yes...life does suck.

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[Posher778]

that really sucks, sorry to hear that.

i'm having issues too. the girl i like just broke up with her old bf and i was going to ask her out but before i did she told me about her new bf... so... i waited 6 months for nothing.

[noctuary]

Originally posted by VampiricClown
I just got an email from the guy she was cheating with.... She told him she was killing herself as-well.....

If she is dead..... The bloods on my hands.....:( I'm such a fuck up....
Dude, no! First of all, the chances of her actually going through it with are fairly slim. Most likely, it's just a way of trying to get attention. Even if it does happen... you can't blame yourself.

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[The_Return]

Man, never say life sucks. PART of your life sucks, sure. But overall, I gaurntee that you can find tons of good in your life. Be it horror movies, music, friends, even us...I bet you can find more good than bad:)

[VampiricClown]

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[VampiricClown]

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[Angra]

Originally posted by VampiricClown
I've done that one a time or two as-well.

I've been through 9 no wait..... make that 10 freaking relationships between May of last year and now. I've seen most all of it sadly. This was a new one though. :(


Hmm..... Sounds to me like you wont be having too much of a tough time finding a new gf.;)


Good for you, sir.


HAIL!

:cool:

[VampiricClown]

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[Angra]

Originally posted by VampiricClown
It's harder than it sounds. Most girls don't like the fact that I'm shy. That's most of the problem right there.


Still, you´ve been in 10 relationships in under a year.


You dog, you.:p

[VampiricClown]

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[Angra]

Originally posted by VampiricClown
But isn't that a bad thing? None of them worked out.



Yes, THAT´s a bad thing.

But what i´m saying is, that you apparently don´t have much trouble finding new girlfriends. And THAT´s a good thing. ;)


It depends how you look at it, i guess.:)

[Angra]

Originally posted by Angra
Yes, THAT´s a bad thing.

But what i´m saying is, that you apparently don´t have much trouble finding new girlfriends. And THAT´s a good thing. ;)


It depends how you look at it, i guess.:)

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[stubbornforgey]

Originally posted by VampiricClown
It's harder than it sounds. Most girls don't like the fact that I'm shy. That's most of the problem right there.

are you kidding ??
then obviously you need to change the type of females you chase after.
Honestly my freind..
my husband is one of the most shyest ppl
on earth...
thats what attracted me to him in the first place.
Even after 18 yrs of marriage and with him meeting new ppl ..etc..he finds it very hard
to converse becos he is afraid of saying
the wrong thing when all that really comes
out of his mouth is nothing less than
intelligence.
Don't be so hard on yourself..
your shyness is not a downfall..
your choice of female is ...
:D

[RavageRitual]

now i remember why i didnt get a myspace.....

[sabersword]

Not a thing anyone can say at a time like this to make it better. One small piece of advice, do not give up! Took me twenty three years to find the right girl. Give yourself a brake.

[RavageRitual]

all i can say for you Vamp is.....your around the same age as me, and you can agree were both pretty young and have alot to look forward too. Ive been with this amazing girl for a little over 4 months and if she pulled something like what your gf did to you, I would probobly be feeling the same exact thing you are...

Extreme Deppression, because you think you arnt good enough to make her happy and to please her.

But thats not true. At All.

In my opinion if this girl is doing this crap to you, you need to confront her about it ASAP. and be bruttaly honest w/ her. Tell her you know whats going on. And tell her you think its stupid she kept her feelings for someone else behind your back. Tell her you dont want to be with her anymore because shes lost your trust.

This will be probobly one of the hardest things youve ever done. But after a tuff week you will feel better because you dont ever have to worry about it.

Also, I really dont think youll have a problem finding another girl. From what ive noticed you are extremely good hearted and care alot about her feelings. If you find a girl that gets to know you well enough to recognise how amazing of a guy you are. Youll never get her away from you.

I hope I Helped.

You Know Im always here for you man.

Your Friend,
Sam

[VampiricClown]

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[scaryminda15]

wow sorry to hear that. but maybe it is just some guy who is like "stalking" her. like she gave her url out to him thinking he was ok and sometimes my friends do it to me, but i know we are just friends, but try and see if she sent him something back, but remember to look if it is just horse play or something serious well i would like to think i helped and u know im here for u even thought u dont really know me, but im an angel. :D


stay strong!

[LegallyInsane]

I guess that I'm pretty late to this thread, but I'll state my opinion anyways.

At first, I assumed that this guy probably sent her a Friend Request and she accepted to it. I thought about it, and thought that since he knew that she was 'in a relationship', he'd probably want to try and screw things up, or make one of you jealous.

But . . .
You also said that your girlfriend hasn't called you and that you haven't seen her. That's a bit odd. If you two were actually as great as you thought, she wouldn't do that. If she has a cell phone, I advise you to call, and if she doesn't answer, you should definately leave a voicemail for her to listen to later.
If she never calls back, or never contacts you in any way, I'd just leave it be. It'd probably mean that the relationship was over.

I know it may be hard to handle, if that's the case, but you have to stay strong. Don't do anything stupid. =]

How long have you two been together anyways?

[stubbornforgey]

what i find ironic...
guys always seem to fall for the pretty
girls..
the pretty hair..the pretty face ..the pretty eyes..etc..but what thats all they have going for them..
the personality is nothing but plastic.
Eam not saying go after the fugly's..em saying ..before committing yourself to a relationship ..find out more about them first.
Hang with them for awhile and watch how they react to certain things that you do..have a mirror handy too so you can see the facials when they think you aint looking.
There is such a thing as freindship/companionship 1st..the others will fall into place later on.
There is somebody out there with your name tatooed on thier heart..
you just havent found her yet..!!

[MichaelMyers]

Girlfriends are hostages to fortune.

[VampiricClown]

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[Posher778]

just forget them.

[VampiricClown]

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[The_Return]

Originally posted by Posher778
just forget them.

^^

Short, sweet, and oh-so-true.

The worst thing you can do is waste your life over a girl. I got dumped by this amazing girl last year, and it took me until very recently to realize I was wasting my life and energy trying to get back with her. I sent her this heartfelt email [cause she wouldnt talk to me in person], and she sent it back, basically with a big "Fuck you". That's when I realized I was wasting my time and energy on a total bitch, and moved on. Sure, it's a completly different situation, but the message is the same: Dont waste your time!

[VampiricClown]

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[novakru]

Originally posted by VampiricClown
[B Especially since I'm...... uhhhh..... nvm..... :D [/B]

You're pregnant!:D

[VampiricClown]

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[Posher778]

amazing?



heh, i'm attempting to be motivational... hah

[Elvis_Christ]

You're always having woman problems, maybe you should switch teams and try being gay :)

[Posher778]

hmmm... women problems vs men all around.


women problems...



we need more GOOD women in the world. Like the ones here on HDC!.. brownie points? maybe?

[Elvis_Christ]

Originally posted by Posher778
we need more GOOD women in the world. Like the ones here on HDC!.. brownie points? maybe?

Need some toilet paper for your nose dude?

[Posher778]

lmao.


being on hdc pissed off always cheers me up. unless there's spammers.

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[Posher778]

hmm.. interesting

[Elvis_Christ]

Originally posted by Posher778
hmm.. interesting

Thinkin' about asking him out? :D

[VampiricClown]

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[Elvis_Christ]

Originally posted by VampiricClown
I can't bring myself to do it though. I don't have any attaction towards males.

What about if i put in some effort? Brought a new outfit, get my hair done? Huh? :cool:

[Posher778]

wow, vampiric, you might not liek the males... but males like you!

[VampiricClown]

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[Posher778]

i dont hate gay people or anything, but i'm against it. but whatever people do or fight for is there business not mine.. just as long as no male hits on me or something.

[VampiricClown]

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[Posher778]

i don't no. i don't really care about all this American nonsense of today. if you like guys your gay, girls your straight, both your bi. its sexually by the way.

[novakru]

Originally posted by VampiricClown
lol. I don't really care if they do or not. :confused: Does that mean I'm BI?

No,it means you're young.(and that ain't a bad thing sweetie)
You would Know if you were-trust me:)

[stubbornforgey]

I don't care if ppl are gay..faggots..it doesnt bother me..
but why..oh lord why..do they treat it as a HUGE newsbreaker when they come out of the closet..
to me ..the visual of what they do behind thier bedroom doors is enough to make me want to give up sex for life.
They demand that we accept them for what they are..fair enuff..
well ...before you came out of the fucking closet 'so to speak'..you were just another
joe blogg from next door...
now when i see you ..all that comes to mind is your dick up another mans ass..

[VampiricClown]

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[scaryminda15]

so how is everyone doing? :) ok vampireclown, here is my opinion if a girl hurt u when u were going out she cant be trusted, trust me i know from experience. lol so were experiencing the world of being gay. hmmm.... interesting since u dont like guys, ur not gay. funnny how it is because you feel like girls are so mean to u and u cant find the right one so its obvisous to think of going gay. well thats my opinions. u dont have to listen to me its ok.

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[scaryminda15]

thanks for the compliment and ur welcome. lol true but i think it would be easier to be like a pimp lol jk. well at least u got a gf i dont have noone i am all alone. :( , but ill find mr.right sometime i guess. so anything new happen to u?

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[Zero]

Originally posted by VampiricClown
:confused: I don't remember saying I having a gf.....

Anyways, Not much really. Just being bored as anything. ugh.... I turn to the forums in my time of boredom. lol

How about you?

oh - so we're just here to amuse you --- IS THAT IT!?!? LIKE SOME KIND OF CLOWN??!!

(i'm on a goodfellas kick lately :D )

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[Zero]

this mornign i spent about half an hour watching a dust bunny slowly blowing across my bedroom floor - - - just for fun

(of course i'm hungover and sick - so that's my excuse)

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[Zero]

Originally posted by VampiricClown
Wow, very enventful indeed. All I did was get some random girls phone number.

i asked the dust bunny for its number - but it blew me off

[VampiricClown]

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[Zero]

Originally posted by VampiricClown
LMAO!

I didn't even have to ask for this girls number. I just signed into my site and theres a message that says:

"Your F*cking Sexy!
Call Me!- (gives number)"

:confused:

well - you are f*ing sexy, but i'm still not giving you my number (maybe you could ask the bunny)

[VampiricClown]

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[Zero]

Originally posted by VampiricClown
Is that a dust bunny or a playboy bunny you're talking about? :confused:


there's a difference:confused:

[VampiricClown]

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[ItsAlive75]

GAH.

Dude, I'm prefacing this with: I'M NOT TRYING TO BE A DICK SO DON'T TAKE THIS AS ME BEING A DICK.

Nobody here can help you with your problems. It's your life, and you can feel free to mention things that bug you and worry you and whatnot, but at the end of the day they're your problems and you're the only one who can solve em' or make em' worse. Seriously.

[Zero]

Originally posted by VampiricClown
Ahhhh man..... My ex.... The one that cheated on me..... She just contacted me and wants me to give her a second chance..... In a way I feel like I should because there's been times in the past that I was why the relationship failed and did alot to fix it but they didn't give me a second chance....But in another way I like this other girl a lot......I'm doomed.....Or maybe I will give her a second chance and just see how it goes and not really get as attached to her like last time.....

.....I told her I'd have a descision by 7 tonight.....:confused:
you should've made it HIGH NOON

(i'd just see how it goes . . . no decisions are binding in matters of the heart!)

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[newb]

I'm gonna have to agree with IA75 on this.
Except for the part where he says he is not a dick.:D




i kid, i kid.You da man IA75

[ItsAlive75]

Originally posted by newb
Except for the part where he says he is not a dick.:

What can I say, I take pride in my work.:D

[Zero]

for more advice for the lovelorn visit IAs Blog where there is a bleeding hearts advice page waiting for you. . . .


forget dear abby - now there's Dear IA75!

[ItsAlive75]

Originally posted by Zero

forget dear abby - now there's Dear IA75!

My next column: Dump the ZERO, go for a hero!

:eek:

[Zero]

Originally posted by ItsAlive75
My next column: Dump the ZERO, go for a hero!

:eek:

AHA so all my exes have been reading your blog. . . hmm, I always thought "all my exes lived in Texas" - apparently they must be in Iowa City!

[newb]

Dear IA75

My girlfriend told me she wanted 12 inches and to make it hurt....so i gave it to her three times and punched her in the face....now she won't talk to me. What should i do?


stubby

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[newb]

Originally posted by VampiricClown
Oh, How nice.

Yeah....tell me about it....woman:rolleyes:


Then she told me to "do her where it stinks", so i drove her to the city dump....again she won't talk to me.

[Zero]

Dear IA75,

Everytime I mention that I'm friends with Newb women run screaming from me --- what should I do?

Signed,
Confused and slightly frightened on HDC

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[ItsAlive75]

Originally posted by newb
Dear IA75

My girlfriend told me she wanted 12 inches and to make it hurt....so i gave it to her three times and punched her in the face....now she won't talk to me. What should i do?


stubby

Try punching her harder.

[ItsAlive75]

Originally posted by Zero
Dear IA75,

Everytime I mention that I'm friends with Newb women run screaming from me --- what should I do?

Signed,
Confused and slightly frightened on HDC

Mention you're friends with me.

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[Taom]

Dear IA75;


I woke up this morning hungover on my sister's bedroom floor. My dick was purple, throbbing, and spewing green shit all over my tighty whities. What should I do?


Confused in Utah

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[ItsAlive75]

Originally posted by Taom
Dear IA75;


I woke up this morning hungover on my sister's bedroom floor. My dick was purple, throbbing, and spewing green shit all over my tighty whities. What should I do?


Confused in Utah

Stop fucking dead people.

This shit should be its own thread...

[Zero]

There should definitely be an advice thread on HDC. . .

"Ask IA!"

I'd be on daily!

[stubbornforgey]

em juust thinking 'and yeah it does hurt'

why is it that there has to be an answer for everything..
wouldn't it be great to just leave mysterious stuff alone..

'blush'..em in the wrong thread aint i ??

'stubborn steps into the shadows'

[Taom]

Originally posted by Zero
There should definitely be an advice thread on HDC. . .

"Ask IA!"

I'd be on daily!


As would I, coming up with more stupid bullshit to keep him busy. :D

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[Taom]

Originally posted by VampiricClown
I would be too. Until my welcome wore out at least.

YOu sure it hasn't already bloodbag? :p

[scaryminda15]

i am just sitting here being completely bored and tired. nothing really to do. well tell me about urself?