this is a vent on how unfair life can be

[stubbornforgey]

Yesterday morning ..a very good friend of mine comes over ..3 am .
Hes devastated..em talking bawling like a baby..broken hearted completely.
He falls into my arms and just breaks down.
A little background first..
he works night shift..recently married..2 month old son..living at parents house untill they earn enough to get thier own house..etc.
Lately hes been telling me that things dont seem right at the house ..just a funny feeling he had.
Well yesterday he knocked off work early ..went home ..looked in the room..his mum was fast asleep..no father ..no wife to be found ..sure enough..he calls n no reply.
He eventually finds wife and father in sleepout 'fucking thier brains out'
He's talking suicide n shit..em telling him to stay with me for while..go home ..get ure shit n come live with me..
4 hours it took me to settle him down..
He asks me to drive his car ..drop him off..pick him up when he calls..
I dropped him off alright...get a visit from the police late in the afternoon...
my mate was found ...in the sleep out..he had hung himself.
The slut wife comes down to my house ...bawling n wants to take the car..
well i got into a fist fight with her..tole her to fuck off..
the police came back and asked for the car..to which i gave..not that i had a choice...but they will keep it in lock up till after the funeral.
In the meantime the father and wife are happily sneaking glances at eachother at the hospital..n even sly touches..to which i saw..n jumped both of them in the hallway of the hospital..got kicked out of hospital n have been told i cant attend the funeral by his father..!!!!
i just got a restraining order served a few minutes ago.
His mother thinks em nuts for making such accusations ..
em fucked as to what to do ..

[sabersword]

Dude, this is truly fucked up! No need to tell you this is a hard world. I can understand wife and father getting some sort of physical atraction for each other but to be so damn uninterested when the son/ husband dies, these people need killing!

[filmmaker2]

Persevere and be strong like we know you can, stubbornforgey. Seek out your friends when you need to talk.

[Elvis_Christ]

Sorry to hear about your friend Stubs.

This is one crazy situation I don't have any answers for mate hope it works out for ya.

[VampiricClown]

:eek: :eek: :eek:

Holy Shit! Death to all who think something like this is right! That is wrong on all counts. This disturbs me.....

[noctuary]

That is truly fucked. Guess blood isn't thicker than water after all.

I hate humanity sometimes.

[bloodrayne]

At this point, there really is nothing you CAN do...You tried to help him, he refused...You already did all that you could....He's gone and can no longer be helped...Anything else (retribution) that you may try to do now, will only cause problems for YOU...Your friend DEFINITELY would not have wanted to be responsible for THAT...

These despicable people WILL get whats coming to them...It's called 'Karma'

We don't ever get away with ANYTHING in this life

As difficult as it is...You have to try to distance yourself from the situation now and let it go...As much as that sucks...


That's all I got...

[Posher778]

sorry about what happened...

normally i would try to cheer you up with a joke, or something, but i think this situation is a little too much for that...

so... if it makes you feel .0000001 percent better, i stepped barefoot on a cactus plant and then got hit by a hummer today.
go me.

[stubbornforgey]

Originally posted by bloodrayne
At this point, there really is nothing you CAN do...You tried to help him, he refused...You already did all that you could....He's gone and can no longer be helped...Anything else (retribution) that you may try to do now, will only cause problems for YOU...Your friend DEFINITELY would not have wanted to be responsible for THAT...

These despicable people WILL get whats coming to them...It's called 'Karma'

We don't ever get away with ANYTHING in this life

As difficult as it is...You have to try to distance yourself from the situation now and let it go...As much as that sucks...


That's all I got...

'stubborn weeps uncontrollably because she knows that your right'

[scaryminda15]

man i am so sorry u dont know me but just saying my condulences that is the worst story i ever heard and u deserve to go to your friend's funeral and good for u for taking care of that dad and that slut. try and feel better ok bye see ya.

[Haunted]

Stubborn... We love you, and we understand totally where you're coming from. His family is rotten at it's core apparently. He's free from them. Like Rayne said, anything you do will come back on you, but they will get their comeuppance. Stay strong, woman!

[PR3SSUR3]

I don't understand...

Is the father fucking your wife, or your friend's mum?

This is a crucial aspect before my advice.

[Posher778]

really not the best thing to ask him right now >=(

[Soloman Kane]

People are assholes & it sounds like you got involved with the king & queen. Pull out & call it a day. These people are living in a soap opera called Life & your the guest star. Seriously ditch these folks.. :(

[scouse mac]

Originally posted by Soloman Kane
People are assholes & it sounds like you got involved with the king & queen. Pull out & call it a day. These people are living in a soap opera called Life & your the guest star. Seriously ditch these folks.. :(

I agree, also BR is spot on. These fucks will get whats due them after what they've done. Just take your memories of your friend and carry them with you, leave these people to rot.