what should i do???????

[scaryminda15]

what should i do??????? i need help ok ill tell u what happened on yesterday, i was up at the library having fun and i left with my friends courtney, frank, and alphonso ok so we all went to courtney's house and after an hour we had to go pick up frank's brother from daycare, me and courtney waited for frank and alphonso to go drop off the brother and they were taking to long so me and courtney walked back to her house her mom was home from work so we all started talking then and then it was like 630PM and past my curfew so i was gonna to go home but than frank and alphonso came over again so we all started talking than i realized it was past 700PM i starte flipping out and everyone told me to chill then my dad came to the door and was mad and made me come home i felt bad and mad then he asked who was there and i told him frank and alphonso he already knows courtney anyway he asked if alphonso was black and he was so i told him and he said i couldnt go over courtney's house again i think he was being racist what do u think? anyway he was calling me names that were all in the book then he said i was grounded which by that time we were home and my argument was that my brother can have all kind of color friends he wishes no offense please dont take it personally anyway i said to my dad that cody can get suspended all he wants for saying fu to a teacher on a piece of "paper" which my dad thinks its ok but yet my loving brother dont get grounded he can tell my dad to go kiss his but only use the other word and cuss all he wants but when i tell my brother to go to hell because he was bothering me i got in trouble i am not no smart person but do u think this is fair???? my horoscope said to take a risk yesterday and today it said to be daring and my horoscope hasnt let me down before and all my friends i told the story to said i should just walk out so should i walk out even though i am grounded or should i listen to my dad?

[bloodrayne]

This is why kids run away from home...



Have you NO other relatives to live with, or nowhere else to go AT ALL?




It's called child abuse...inflicting emotional pain and mental anguish...

[scaryminda15]

nope not really they dont have no room my uncle butch would love to but money is low.

[Angra]

Let me ask you this. If you walk out, is there a chance that your dad can be more of a prick to you than he already is? If so, i would say that it isn´t worth the risk.

[scaryminda15]

he would be mad as heck but thats why i need to leave, one day he asked me to take out a cup and i said no because my grandma and my dad's own gf told me to stop waiting on me and i did and he got so mad at me he has a bad temper he grabbed me by the arm and threw me in my room and started than a couple of minutes later he came in and apologized listen i am grateful for him being there for me and givign me food and a place to live but when he gets drunk or gets a temper i am afraid for my life and im afraid of my brother too i need help the cops have been here to help and social workers listen my life is messed up i get good grades, obey him most of the time hey i am a teenager got to repel a little, and my brother is the meanest and he gets alll the attention from my dad true it is bad attention but my dad treats him like a king compared to me my life is so complicated itried acting bad but then i feel to bad and i apologize all the times its true that i have more friends than my brother but were is my affection my brother get to play games with my dad whenever but when i would ask a couple minutes before my brother i get a no but then my brother askes and gets a yes why does this happen to me?

[Angra]

Where is your mother in all this?

[MichaelMyers]

STOP RIPPING THESE POOR PEOPLE APART

I can't take this kind of pressure

[VampiricClown]

My parents aren't like this, but two of my close ex gf's parents are like that. You could contact child services, but most likely you'd end up somewhere you didn't want to be. I'm sorry I can't be of much help here.

[cheebacheeba]

Just get a small hammer, and kneecap one of the cunts while they sleep, wait for the other to run in to see what the commotion is, and take out his hip.
It's time to get assertive.
You need to stop the cycle, permanently. Go crazy, hurt them.
Chances are wherever they throw you until you reach adulthood will be a better environment for you anyway.

[VampiricClown]

Originally posted by cheebacheeba
Just get a small hammer, and kneecap one of the cunts while they sleep, wait for the other to run in to see what the commotion is, and take out his hip.
It's time to get assertive.
You need to stop the cycle, permanently. Go crazy, hurt them.
Chances are wherever they throw you until you reach adulthood will be a better environment for you anyway.

??? I was gonna post that almost exactly, but I thought about it and it wouldn't be much help in my opinion. Although, I'm for Hire, lol. J/K:D

[newb]

I would suggest maybe talking to your guidance counsellor in school....but you don't seem to ever be in school....your always on here during the day.






wat up wit dat?

[VampiricClown]

Originally posted by newb
I would suggest maybe talking to your guidance counsellor in school....but you don't seem to ever be in school....your always on here during the day.






wat up wit dat?

Maybe she's homeschooled like me?

[newb]

Originally posted by VampiricClown
Maybe she's homeschooled like me?

From what shes said on here, it don't sound like the best environment for schooling.

[VampiricClown]

Originally posted by newb
From what shes said on here, it don't sound like the best environment for schooling.

Very true..... I just got through talking to my gf which is now homeschooled, and her mom is basically the same way scaryminda's dad is. She had to get offline because her mom was yelling at her. I feel bad now.....:(

[Haunted]

Scary, you need to go to a guidance counselor or a favorite teacher and tell them what is going on. You're living in an extremely unhealthy environment that you are too young to extricate yourself from without help.

Let me stress again, you need to get help from a trusted adult, i.e., a guidance counselor, a favorite teacher, Courtney's mom, your principal, somebody. You've got to do this for yourself.

[newb]

Originally posted by VampiricClown
Very true..... I just got through talking to my gf which is now homeschooled, and her mom is basically the same way scaryminda's dad is. She had to get offline because her mom was yelling at her. I feel bad now.....:(

Not to get in a debate about "home-schooled vs school-schooled?!?!......but i would think there would be too many distractions at home....such as the internet and this fine site.

[VampiricClown]

Originally posted by newb
Not to get in a debate about "home-schooled vs school-schooled?!?!......but i would think there would be too many distractions at home....such as the internet and this fine site.

lol. The school system around here has gone to hell. They want you to concentrate on about five things at once, not to mention putting up with all the people just running around not paying attention. And besides, with homeschool, you can do like me and graduate at sixteen. I finished all of my schooling last year.

And yes, if the parents aren't there, this site is an open invatation. :D

It also depends on how many people you're around. If you always have alot of company over, distraction endures, lol. But I don't have any siblings or anything. I'm only really around my parents. Unfortunatly with homeschool, you don't have many friends. Especially if you're goth.:(

[newb]

Well....you have some friends on here....even if your "goth";)



just don't ask me to do your math homework.......never was good at math.

[scouse mac]

Originally posted by Haunted
Scary, you need to go to a guidance counselor or a favorite teacher and tell them what is going on. You're living in an extremely unhealthy environment that you are too young to extricate yourself from without help.

Let me stress again, you need to get help from a trusted adult, i.e., a guidance counselor, a favorite teacher, Courtney's mom, your principal, somebody. You've got to do this for yourself.

Very well said.

I think you need to exhaust all other possible avenues to resolve this before running away or moving out become options. There are people out there to help you.

[newb]

Originally posted by newb
I would suggest maybe talking to your guidance counsellor in school....but you don't seem to ever be in school....your always on here during the day.


Now wait just a darn second....i , like the rest of you, love and respect Haunted....but i suggested it first....damn-it......newb gets no props.

[scouse mac]

Originally posted by newb
Now wait just a darn second....i , like the rest of you, love and respect Haunted....but i suggested it first....damn-it......newb gets no props.

Sorry Newb, I was aware of your comment its just that Haunted was a bit more inclusive on the who to speak to side of things. Im certain that had you not sowed the seeds no-one would've thought to ask a guidance counsellor or anyone like that!

[newb]

Originally posted by scouse mac
Sorry Newb, I was aware of your comment its just that Haunted was a bit more inclusive on the who to speak to side of things. Im certain that had you not sowed the seeds no-one would've thought to ask a guidance counsellor or anyone like that!

DAMN STRAIGHT..........AND DON'T FORGET IT.

[VampiricClown]

Originally posted by newb
Well....you have some friends on here....even if your "goth";)



just don't ask me to do your math homework.......never was good at math.

Thanks

And as far as math......Math isn't my strong point either.....as a matter of fact.....I've never met anyone who said they were good at it.....:confused:

[Haunted]

I suck at math as well.

Newb, I'm sorry.:( It's just that I had a really great guidance counselor my first two years of middle school. She saved my life. 'Course, it was then that I learned of my impending battle with mental illness.

I would assume that reading this girl's plight hits you in the solar plexis, being a father and all. I'm sure most of the parents on board don't like to know that a young person is in danger of their parents. I only have dogs and cats, but it bothers me something dreadful.

Scary, you need to find someone you trust and talk to them about what's going on at home.

[sabersword]

Scaryminda, Belive it or not, you will survive. A lot of kids have less than good parents, and butthead brothers.Try not to do anything rash like runaway from home or anything. If you think things are bad at home, the streets are a heck of a lot more dangerous.Also, consider this, If your father did not care about you at least at some level, he would not have come loking for you when it was geting late. Its hard to be a teen I know this, but, try to think before you do anything you will regret.

[Haunted]

Survival... That's what stands out in my mind. I learned this the hard way: You absolutely positively and totally and completely CANNOT, I reapeat, CANNOT allow yourself to be a victim. You've GOT TO BE, repeat, GOT TO BE a SURVIVOR! Like I said, I learned that the hard way. You gotta fight. Once again, go to trusted teachers, guidance counsellors, and other adults that can help you. Pull your little self up by the boot straps and SURVIVE!

I've quoted these lyrics to somebody else:

"One day girl,
You're gonna be bigger than a flea
Gonna be bigger than that old
Poison ivy tree...

One day girl,
You're gonna learn to make them crawl
Make 'em grow tall
But have the grace
To be a lady with disgrace."

frog on my toe- tori amos

[Angra]

Scary, i´m not suggesting that you should run away or anything like that. BUT you mentioned that you were doing pretty well in school, right? Well, my best advice to you would be to move to college as soon as possible.

[scaryminda15]

please please call me Minda, and i am grateful for your opinions and advice, but i am in a good school and im in Parkway and it is really fun and exciting. I am puting school first because i am proving to myself and to others that i can go to college. My dad really isnt that bad once u get to know him sometimes he can be a pain but he does it for my protection and he isnt racist he just didnt want me near boys at my friends house which mean he is a caring father. thank u for your concerns and cheeba i cant kill or really hurt someone i am to much of a softy ok so thanks for everything but i will be alright, good poem haunted !:) k see ya.

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by scaryminda15
please please call me Minda, and i am grateful for your opinions and advice, but i am in a good school and im in Parkway and it is really fun and exciting. I am puting school first because i am proving to myself and to others that i can go to college. My dad really isnt that bad once u get to know him sometimes he can be a pain but he does it for my protection and he isnt racist he just didnt want me near boys at my friends house which mean he is a caring father. thank u for your concerns and cheeba i cant kill or really hurt someone i am to much of a softy ok so thanks for everything but i will be alright, good poem haunted !:) k see ya. Wow...Daddy can do some FAST Brainwashing...

[Spallalala]

Originally posted by scaryminda15
please please call me Minda, and i am grateful for your opinions and advice, but i am in a good school and im in Parkway and it is really fun and exciting. I am puting school first because i am proving to myself and to others that i can go to college. My dad really isnt that bad once u get to know him sometimes he can be a pain but he does it for my protection and he isnt racist he just didnt want me near boys at my friends house which mean he is a caring father. thank u for your concerns and cheeba i cant kill or really hurt someone i am to much of a softy ok so thanks for everything but i will be alright, good poem haunted !:) k see ya.

Do you want me to kill cheeba for ya ?? hahahahah

[scaryminda15]

no its ok i can kill him myself lol jk im just messing cheeba. :D thanks for asking though spallala!

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by newb
Not to get in a debate about "home-schooled vs school-schooled Ahem *clears throat...raises finger in the air...opens mouth*....Oh wait...You said 'NOT to...'....Okay, nevermind...heh

[scaryminda15]

ok i think i am making the right decision lets take a vote

[Angra]

Originally posted by scaryminda15
please please call me Minda, and i am grateful for your opinions and advice, but i am in a good school and im in Parkway and it is really fun and exciting. I am puting school first because i am proving to myself and to others that i can go to college. My dad really isnt that bad once u get to know him sometimes he can be a pain but he does it for my protection and he isnt racist he just didnt want me near boys at my friends house which mean he is a caring father. thank u for your concerns and cheeba i cant kill or really hurt someone i am to much of a softy ok so thanks for everything but i will be alright, good poem haunted !:) k see ya.

[scaryminda15]

what in the world did u mean by that mister?

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by scaryminda15
what in the world did u mean by that mister?

Originally posted by bloodrayne
Wow...Daddy can do some FAST Brainwashing...


I do believe...THAT'S^^^^ what he meant by that...

[scaryminda15]

k thanks bloodrayne.

[Angra]

Originally posted by bloodrayne
I do believe...THAT'S^^^^ what he meant by that...


;)

[scaryminda15]

;)