why do people make fun of me...?

[scaryminda15]

i don't mean u guys i mean people on my other forums and my school and my dad and brother are so mean to me and i would love to know why? any help ?:( go steelers i can't wait to we win the super bowl!

[ShankS]

tell 'em old uncle ShankS, will bust their asses if they don't behave better in your presence.

[scaryminda15]

lol thanks uncle shanks! ill try it.

[VampiricClown]

Because that is the world of people for ya. They find it fun to hurt others. Believe me, my families the same. Don't let it get to you. Start dishing it back to them in the same way. I do and I don't have any more problems. I personally have a very short fuse and won't take anything off anyone anymore.

[scaryminda15]

thanks for your wise words vampiricclown ur a good friend thank u

[zomb5150]

Originally posted by VampiricClown
Because that is the world of people for ya. They find it fun to hurt others. Believe me, my families the same. Don't let it get to you. Start dishing it back to them in the same way. I do and I don't have any more problems. I personally have a very short fuse and won't take anything off anyone anymore.

Personally, I don't think dishing it back in the same way is the best advice. If Her Dad and Brother are already mean to Her and give Her a hard time and She retaliates in the Way You suggest She could have more problems.:(

[The Mothman]

try not talking for a while. happened to me once, turned out whenever i opened my mouth, some stupid shit came out.

[cheebacheeba]

I know I'm a mean asshole to you sometimes...but whatever, bitch...I aint serious. You know it.;)
I think you come across as a little ditsy, and insecure...naive, if you will. But you're young...so, whatever, people don't often give the best impressions for their future selves whilst in high school. Just my take on things, people will zoom in on your weaknesses, no matter how inconsequential they actually are, and attempt to get into you about it, hurt your feelings...etc.
Whether or not you give a fuck enough about their personal opinion of you is entirely your choice...their only power/pleasure will derive from your reactions so ignore them...but every time they happen to give you shit, let it go, even laugh it up with them...then a little while later, do things like pour bleach on their shoes, tack their chairs, fish guts in the bags/books, eggs in the lockers, fart gas and/or itch powder on the clothes, hot chilli peppers smeared on hats and glasses...I'm sure you can think of a few more. Don't get caught, you will need to practise the art of near-invisibility. Plan all your attacks in advance, and plan them well. Soon, it will get to a point when mysterious, fucked up things keep happening to these people...if you remain careful about it, and don't go overboard...there will not be a link to you.
Although, their subconscious may put two and two together, which should help your situation.
If this DOESN'T help your situation, at least you have the satisfaction of doing some filthy, slightly painful fucked up things to them, every time they bring you down.
If you want to be a little more confrontational about it, do this - start crying, then they wont expect it when you shove some corn holders into their hands and arms. Corn holders never killed anybody, but if theyre getting superficial but painful stab wounds every time they fuck with you, it SHOULD stop.

I'm not the best person at giving advice, but usually my plans of this nature DO work.

[PR3SSUR3]

Hmmm.

Are vindictive acts really the best advice to give ostracised or browbeaten youngsters these days?

Next stop:-

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/americas/4370617.stm

:eek:

[hammerfan]

Minda, you can also try ignoring them. They do it because they've found they can get a rise out of you and now it's fun for them to do to see how mad or upset you'll get.

[AUSTIN316426808]

If somebody doesn't like me for who I am I just say fuck 'em.

I wear black all the time,rags on my head and I'm quite all the time so I get...''look at him,he's weird''...''he's one of those goth freaks''(which I'm not,not knocking anybody who is,just stating that I'm not. To put it in percentage,I'd say about 28%ish).

The list goes on and on of people who've made fun of me for one reason or another. I can tell the difference when someone's being mean or if someone's just messing with me and if they're purposely being mean,like I said,I just say fuck 'em because there's no need or room in the short life we have to worry about ignorance and stupidity from immature assholes and their petty bullshit.

[PR3SSUR3]

I wear black all the time,rags on my head and I'm quite all the time

OMG, it's a suicide bomber....

Duck!

:eek:

[MichaelMyers]

Originally posted by scaryminda15
i don't mean u guys i mean people on my other forums and my school and my dad and brother are so mean to me and i would love to know why? any help ?:( go steelers i can't wait to we win the super bowl!

Tell them, "Why do you pick on me? DO YOU HATE BLACK PEOPLE? DID YOUR FATHER AND YOUR CHURCH TEACH YOU TO HATE BLACK PEOPLE???

GET OUT OF MY FACE YOU RACIST LITTLE BITCHES."

[Zombee]

Whatever you do.. Dont take it personally, I know this is an easy thing to say but if you do it will drive you nutz remember these people are shallow, narrow minded numbskulls and some day in the near future (after high school) this will all stop.

[Zero]

people are evil

[Haunted]

Cheeba was making a lot of sense... up until explaining tactical warfare on the offenders. I'm still not sure I agree with that, although it would be really funny to watch them squirm.

Scary, I was picked on my whole life, mainly because I'm weird as hell (not torturing small animals and strange sex fetishes, rather I was totally into the occult). After a while I started to threaten physical harm to the offending parties. I'm not sure that's right, either.

I know you can't ignore it. That's harder than anything. You've either got to let it roll off of you or take some sort of stand against it. A good middle finger to someone that's talking shit not only empowers you a little, but it also says to that other person, "You're fucking retarded and should shut the fuck up." Don't look at them. Make it the most casual of motions.

Now what I really want to know is in the hell is your father making fun of you, and why is he allowing your sister to follow suit. That's terrible parenting. What kind of asshole fuck-tard knowinging hurts their child's feelings (besides my own dad)? What kinda shit does he say?

[meetthecreeper]

Originally posted by scaryminda15
i don't mean u guys i mean people on my other forums and my school and my dad and brother are so mean to me and i would love to know why?

Because you let them.

You shouldnt give a shit what anyone thinks of you.

[novakru]

Originally posted by Zero
people are evil

Too true

[VampiricClown]

Originally posted by zomb5150
Personally, I don't think dishing it back in the same way is the best advice. If Her Dad and Brother are already mean to Her and give Her a hard time and She retaliates in the Way You suggest She could have more problems.:(

Maybe so. But, sometimes it's the only way. It kind of depends on how and what you've done about it before. If you're quiet most of the time like me, and then retaliate, it may work. If you're the scream back type person, it's not gonna bother them at all and like zomb5150 said, it could make it worse.

And you're a good friend too ScaryMinda15.:)

[Zero]

sometimes people don't realize that they are really hurting your feelings when they make fun of you - and if you quietly tell someone privately that they've hurt your feelings they will, sometimes, try to be better

[sabersword]

Scaryminda, What you are dealing with at home and at school, is no diffrent from what all of us have dealt with from the beggining of time. Any time you get a group of people together, someone becomes the butt of jokes or the verbel, punching bag, or worse! The point of this is, most of us have lived through this, and, most of us grow up to be ok. In this world, you have to be tough, body and mind or this world will chew you up and spit you out. Find ways to deal, get your mind right, and grow up to be a good person despite it all!

[AUSTIN316426808]

Originally posted by Zombee
some day in the near future (after high school) this will all stop.


Don't be so sure of that,there are morons at every level of life.

[filmmaker2]

Here's something I've found to be true in my experiences...

1. Life appears to have difficulties. Heck, most of it seems to be the difficulties. The easy stuff is a small part of it.

2. Because being a person is such a bother, many people feel that reality has victimized them, they feel shortchanged by life, they feel they deserve "more" or should be treated better by the universe. It's not necessarily true, but many people BELIEVE it to be true, and act accordingly.

3. A lot of people have a tendency to want to make other people suffer, because it helps them feel that they have some influence on things around them; i.e., it is a demonstration of power they find comforting because they worry that they are power-less.

4. A lot of people also want to make others suffer (through verbal/psychological abuse, etc.) because it helps them believe that THEY are the attackers and not the victims, in other words, they seek to reverse roles between themselves and a troublesome universe.

5. People can manifest a desire to hurt other people without being completely aware of it. Many people are not aware of the desire at all and simply act unconsciously. They know not what they do.

6. Some people are completely aware of the bad things they are doing to other people, and really don't care. There is a special word for these people, but we cannot print it here.

7. You gotta be strong! They're misguided weirdos. Try not to let them get you down.

[Elvis_Christ]

Walk it off ya sissy :p

[Marroe]

don't ask why...just punch 'em in the face.

[Spallalala]

All throughout primary school and the majority of highschool I was picked on. I was always much bigger ( as in fat ) then most of the kids and also perspirated a lil more. I had people saying things about my family which wasn't cool. I have learnt to deal with it and laugh at these people now. Because I know there fucking idiots.
I have learnt to become stronger and now I usually turn around to people and tell em to fuck off for being so stupid. Because thats just what it is, stupidity.

Dont worry about people being mean because most of us go through it at some point in our lives. It will eventually make you a stronger person .

Cheer up scary. And remember. If someone is a ass to you it will be returned to them. Theres a special word you must also remember.. KARMA.

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by AUSTIN316426808
If somebody doesn't like me for who I am I just say fuck 'em.
Originally posted by meetthecreeper
Because you let them.
You shouldnt give a shit what anyone thinks of you.

Yup...That's the best I've got, too...




We know who and what we are, far better than anyone else does...Our perception of ourselves is much more important than what others think of us (That means...Who gives a damn what other people think?)...

[filmmaker2]

Also it is good to say, "Oh, POO-NUTS...poo-nuts on you," or something like that. Or how about:

"I call poo-nuts on that!"

[scaryminda15]

man you guys are all very nice, thanks for all the advice you guys, but it is hard to ignore them it is true. but i will try as hard as i can to improve my self esteem for u guys. Cheeba i know ur just messing with me, can i ask u what an agua-faggot is? lol anyway my dad and brother would just make fun of me. my dad would tell me to clean my face, quit eating so much, which i wasnt, and start walking more to lose that weight and then my brother would chime in too thinking its a big joke although my brother isnt that skinny either and my dad got that plumber belly well a little anyway. and every time i eat even if it is a salad my brother would make animal noises everytime i eat and i start hating myself. well thanks for listening to me and giving my advice.

[Angra]

Originally posted by scaryminda15
man you guys are all very nice, thanks for all the advice you guys, but it is hard to ignore them it is true. but i will try as hard as i can to improve my self esteem for u guys. Cheeba i know ur just messing with me, can i ask u what an agua-faggot is? lol anyway my dad and brother would just make fun of me. my dad would tell me to clean my face, quit eating so much, which i wasnt, and start walking more to lose that weight and then my brother would chime in too thinking its a big joke although my brother isnt that skinny either and my dad got that plumber belly well a little anyway. and every time i eat even if it is a salad my brother would make animal noises everytime i eat and i start hating myself. well thanks for listening to me and giving my advice.


Your dad sounds like he has a serious mental problem. In other words, he sound like a real jerk.... No offence, sweetie.:mad:

[scaryminda15]

its ok everyone tell me the exactly the same thing, but i would like to be good and listen to him but he is so racist too :(

[stubbornforgey]

Ppl can be cruel..especially other kids.
Its not easy to ignore when your the target .The funny thing is..when you ask
most of the kids why..??most of them would answer..umm..we don't know..just following the crowd.
You will note that all of this wouldve
been started ..probably by somebody
you know very well.


On another note..
Somebody mentioned..'stand up to them'
'its because your an easy target' or something along them lines..
I say the same thing too..
stand up to the bitch..bitches..or whomever is doing it.
You'll find that he/she/they are nothing but a bunch of coward at the end of the day.

[cheebacheeba]

and since you're still young, and doubtless you're also smaller...weapons are ok ;) , they ensure maximum reach, and increase of attack effectiveness and damage inflicted, while keeping you a little further from reach. They provide for you what your body lacks. Just, yknow...don't go for the head.

Seriously though, your father sounds like a prick, your brother...probably not as much so to blame, probably just an idiot teenager without a better example to live up to...although some responsibility DOES lie with him too. Don't EVER adopt the racist views..no matter how much you hear that bullshit, just remember what your own views on the matter are, and stick to them with conviction. If you've no way out, remember...your education could well be the only way you're gonna get the fuck out of there and rise above it. There's my "good" advice.

[stubbornforgey]

Originally posted by cheebacheeba
and since you're still young, and doubtless you're also smaller...weapons are ok ;) , they ensure maximum reach, and increase of attack effectiveness and damage inflicted, while keeping you a little further from reach. They provide for you what your body lacks. Just, yknow...don't go for the head.

Seriously though, your father sounds like a prick, your brother...probably not as much so to blame, probably just an idiot teenager without a better example to live up to...although some responsibility DOES lie with him too. Don't EVER adopt the racist views..no matter how much you hear that bullshit, just remember what your own views on the matter are, and stick to them with conviction. If you've no way out, remember...your education could well be the only way you're gonna get the fuck out of there and rise above it. There's my "good" advice.

this song is quite catchy..
to the tune of 'its amore'...from dean martin..
how we distinguish some of the different races over here..'giggles'
'stubborn counts the beat...1..2..3..


when your hit with a jug in a south auckland pub... its a maori..
when your slammed with club
while your sitting in your truck..
its a tongan.
when your name sounds like this..
one fell of a sofa usi usi la..
its samoan..
when your breath smells like crap
while your serving this and that..
your a hinduuuuu!!!:D

[Angra]

Originally posted by stubbornforgey
this song is quite catchy..
to the tune of 'its amore'...from dean martin..
how we distinguish some of the different races over here..'giggles'
'stubborn counts the beat...1..2..3..


when your hit with a jug in a south auckland pub... its a maori..
when your slammed with club
while your sitting in your truck..
its a tongan.
when your name sounds like this..
one fell of a sofa usi usi la..
its samoan..
when your breath smells like crap
while your serving this and that..
your a hinduuuuu!!!:D


And let me be the first one to add:


This s a special moment right now,
We'd like to take this time to tell all the kids at home,
Send your parents out of the room this is a kid's song.

Life's gonna suck when you grow up,
When you grow up, when you grow up
Life's gonna suck when you grow up,
It sucks pretty bad right now.

Hey! If you know the words, Sing along!

You're gonna hafta mow the lawn,
Do the dishes, make your bed.
You're gonna hafta go to school until you're seven-teen.

It's gonna seem about three times as long as that

You might have to go to war, shoot a gun, kill a nun.
You might have to go to war, when you get out of school.
Hey cheer up kids, it gets a lot worse.

You're gonna hafta deal with stress
Deal with stress, deal with stress.
You're gonna be a giant mess
When you get back from the war.

Santa Clause does not exist, and there's no Easter Bunny,
You'll find out when you grow up, that Big Bird isn't funny.
(funny, funny, hahahahaha!)

Life's gonna suck when you grow up,
When you grow up, when you grow up
Life's gonna suck when you grow up,
It sucks pretty bad right now.

You're gonna end up smoking crack, on your back, face the fact.
You're gonna end up hooked on smack, and then you're gonna die.

And then you're gonna die-ie-ie-ie-ie.

Something for the kids,
Well, I think I smell a lawsuit in that one, What do you think?




:cool:

[scaryminda15]

ok that was just sweet weird and unsual but sweet lol i like the songs stubborn and angra very good just stay away from the sharp objects lol jk ok well i plan to stick to my conviction. and my dad aint that bad he is just protective and he isnt to much racist he just thinks african americans are gansters and still cause problems and he didnt let me go near any boys at all.

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by scaryminda15
he isnt to much racist he just thinks african americans are gansters and still cause problems Umm, you just contradicted yourself there, Sweetie...

[scaryminda15]

i know i just mean he isnt that bad just because he pays more attention to my brother, but i am ok.

[Angra]

Originally posted by scaryminda15
i know i just mean he isnt that bad just because he pays more attention to my brother, but i am ok.

[scaryminda15]

Angra what in the world is that picture for?

[Angra]

Originally posted by scaryminda15
Angra what in the world is that picture for?

You´ll find out when you get older...

[scaryminda15]

no i am going to understand now mister

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by scaryminda15
Angra what in the world is that picture for? Watch the movie...Then read your thread...

[Angra]

Originally posted by scaryminda15
no i am going to understand now mister

Awsome, Ma'am.

[scaryminda15]

i got it from the other thread thanks for the info bloodrayne. ur a pal.