HELP!!! I just found a suicide post from a girl on my forum!!!

[Wicked Lady]

What should I do about this? Is there any way to contact someone that can help? I don;t know what to do!

Here's the post....

http://s4.invisionfree.com/Forumnessity/index.php?showtopic=438

[AUSTIN316426808]

If you know where she's from you can call the police. But if she was serious it looks like there's nothing that can be done at this point, sorry.

[bwind22]

Do you know how old this person is? Because to me it seems a lot more like a cry for pity or a cry for help than an actual suicide note. You're right to be worried because you never know, but I have a feeling it's someone seeking attention. (Then again, I don't know a thing about this person except that one post so I could be totally wrong.) I've known several people that actually have committed suicide (Way to many for someone that's only 25. I've known 6 people personally that have killed themself.) and this was not the tone of the notes left by truely determined suicidal people, that's why it reads more like a cry for attention to me.

I'd say get ahold of the admin and have him/her look in to it. If you ARE the admin, the you have access to a lot more of that persons info and should probably take steps to notify someone on their end of the city/state/country/world/whatever the case may be.

[novakru]

It sounds like she has already pulled the trigger.
BUT:
If you can in any way find out where she is-do the above mentioned advice.
And if it IS a cry for help....then she needs that help-desperately.
The police can get her into a mental health program.

[Wicked Lady]

She is 15, I am doubtful to a certain extent that she went through with it,but I don't know for sure...

I have her IP address but I don't know how to use it....I also remembered that she posted her cell phone number on there btu i have no long distance...

maybe one of you can tell me where the phone number or IP is from...

IP: 205.188.116.203

Cell: 1-617-823-8657

[novakru]

Originally posted by Wicked Lady
She is 15, I am doubtful to a certain extent that she went through with it,but I don't know for sure...

I have her IP address but I don't know how to use it....I also remembered that she posted her cell phone number on there btu i have no long distance...

maybe one of you can tell me where the phone number or IP is from...

IP: 205.188.116.203

Cell: 1-617-823-8657

Call your local police (not 911)
Tell them the situation and give them the cell phone number.
They need to handle this from now on.

[AUSTIN316426808]

That's a Massachusetts area code.

The best thing you can do is what novakru said, call the police and give 'em the number. Did you tell your mom about it?

[Wicked Lady]

Originally posted by AUSTIN316426808
That's a Massachusetts area code.

The best thing you can do is what novakru said, call the police and give 'em the number. Did you tell your mom about it? mom is asleep, I will talk to her before I do anything, thank you!!

[kpropain]

I def. wouldn't wait around on it, I would call your local police, even if she wouldn't go through with it or not, it's the right thing to do...

[Haunted]

Why oh why is it that anyone says they're going to kill themselves or hurt themselves or have already hurt themselves is considered a plea for attention? Are we a society that is THAT jaded? It could be a cry of, "Hi I'm in pain, can you please help me BEFORE I DO SOMETHING STUPID!"

I know this, because I've been there, and I have the scars to prove it.

WL, get on the horn and call the cops. At this point that's all you can do, but you gotta be proactive. Your mom and I have a phone date, so let me know then.

[pinkfloyd45769]

I agree with Haunted on this. This girl needs help,it sounds like she is dealing with alot of shit. I just hope she is safe at this moment!

[cheebacheeba]

Call the police, call them ASAP.
You're not doing the wrong thing, hence you should not have to wait for your mothers say so.
If her intentions are legitimate, you're lack of hesitation could mean the difference between her being alive, or dead. If they are not legitimate, she will think twice about her actions in future, a police visit to a 15 year old will no doubt leave a lasting impression. From there on out, it's up to the family and those around her to take charge of the situation.

I am absolutely not going to touch any other aspect of this topic.
**Backs right the fuck away**

[stubbornforgey]

dont wait untill ure mom wakes up..by then it could be too late.
looks to me that this girl is desperately crying for help...but as someone mentioned..you never know.
I too have lost a few freinds to suicide..the thing is ..these guys never left notes ..they just went out and did the deed n were discovered hanging from a tree or cut to pieces in the bathroom.
Recently (2 months ago) my 13 yr old neice hung herself...she sed nothing..gave no indication she was troubled..just kissed her parents...came to my house ..we sat ..had a few laughs, coffee etc n she goes home....my brother found her hanging in their garage 2 hours after leaving my home.
The thing that fucked us up the most was ..her freinds n thier code of silence ...
they knew she had suicidal thoughts and told no one cos of the code of silence bullshit..they spoke about it constanly amongst themselves but told no adults.
If it turns out to be an attention seeker..then at least you can breathe a sigh of relief..if not , then at least u can say that u tried. good luck.

[stubbornforgey]

the thing is Haunted
its hard to tell on the internet.
If people cry for help they should say ..help me..i have suicidal thoughts.
It makes us/especially me ..angry to read
shit like that when all it really takes is for them to make a change in thier sorry situation..no one else can do that but themselves.
You will find that if advice is given ..its taken as an attack, always on the defence.
'things like' how the fuck would you know..or none of your fucking business'
'you havent been through what i have been through' n the list goes on'
Well lady ..guess what..some of us have been through worse n most of us have used it as a learning curfew.I hold fast on to my pain to make me a better person..it makes me strong ..it makes me aware..so if any of my children show the signs that i portrayed then i know how or when to act.

[PR3SSUR3]

Q: Why do so many people who use the 'net claim, to have or have had suicidal thoughts?

Could it be that the cliched "cry for help" is now so easily and anonymously prepared and distributed to such a widespread audience that computers are serving as a haven for such thoughts to fester?

It would be interesting to survey exactly how many people have gone through with the impending death announcements they have made in cyberspace.

[newb]

Originally posted by trippin_the_rif
Ok, just got off the phone with the Boston police. They're sending authorities out to the address that will come up from the cell phone number. I'll get a call back, maybe.

Ya just going to leave us in suspense?

[ItsAlive75]

You said it very well,Pressure (i'm not using the 3's) . Some folks want a lot of attention and they can make their cry for help sound a lot more air tight and heart-wrenching when they have spell check and endless amounts of time to prepare.

[wufong]

Maybe she is full of shit, maybe she isn't. But if she, is i bet rif sending the cops around there will scare the shit out of her, and i doubt she'll do it again.
Either way.. *giggle* O i'm so mean .......yet cute.

[Wicked Lady]

Originally posted by trippin_the_rif
Ok.............update.

There is a distinct possability that the person who posted that suicide note might not even be a real person. But someone made up by someone else on that site because they were hoping to gain more attention as someone else but didnt really get that far, so they decided to kill off the fictional member by staging a suicide.
Now quite frankly, I could care less what kind of critique I get for my actions but what if, and it might still be, this were an actual situation. And I'm sure that there will be members who will give me a rash of shit, and it's welcome, but the police have the link and know that my call to them was not a hoax, no matter how much the post might be.
I dont regret my actions and I'd do it again if the ocassion arises. As I said, better to be safe than sorry. Thank you for posting that...

And you're right, calling the police was the right thing to do...if they saved her life, good...if they found her and are investigating what happened, good and if she was lying and just saying things for attention, good...she's gotten a real wake up call and I doubt she'll do it again.

[wufong]

Originally posted by trippin_the_rif
Ok.............update.

There is a distinct possability that the person who posted that suicide note might not even be a real person. But someone made up by someone else on that site because they were hoping to gain more attention as someone else but didnt really get that far, so they decided to kill off the fictional member by staging a suicide.
Now quite frankly, I could care less what kind of critique I get for my actions but what if, and it might still be, this were an actual situation. And I'm sure that there will be members who will give me a rash of shit, and it's welcome, but the police have the link and know that my call to them was not a hoax, no matter how much the post might be.
I dont regret my actions and I'd do it again if the ocassion arises. As I said, better to be safe than sorry.
Don't get me wrong. i thought you did the right thing, i just thought it would have scared the shit out of her if/when the cops knocked on her door. which i think would have been very very funny

[stubbornforgey]

good on you tripin..
i think that those from the forum shouldve acted as soon as that was posted instead of standing thier scratching thier nuts..its is better to be safe than sorry...:D
And its dumbasses like that ..who make actual depressed people hard to be believed..xrist..some ppl just think with thier asses in the best of times in cyber space. :confused:

[Wicked Lady]

Originally posted by stubbornforgey
good on you tripin..
i think that those from the forum shouldve acted as soon as that was posted instead of standing thier scratching thier nuts..its is better to be safe than sorry...:D
And its dumbasses like that ..who make actual depressed people hard to be believed..xrist..some ppl just think with thier asses in the best of times in cyber space. :confused: Actualy, I was the first to find it and you see what i did...I think everyone was waiting to find out if it was a real situation or not!

*blush* Thanks again trippin_the_rif;)

[Rawhead Rex]

Let whatever happens, happen.

You're not responsible for every idiot that posts up they wanna or are going to end their life.

Please take a deep breath and realize the world...

Your world...

Will go on just fine regardless of whether this person actually blows their head off or not.

Look at it this way...

In a hundred years...who's gonna care?

[ShankS]

whatever next....?


I duno .....staging a death plot to gain a crowd :rolleyes:

[stubbornforgey]

Thats the attitude rex..!!
hopefully you never have to face that with
a family member of your own.:rolleyes:

[Rawhead Rex]

Well...

If I do, then I do...

I doubt I will though, my daughter's pretty well adjusted.

Not the weak type.

[ItsAlive75]

Originally posted by Rawhead Rex
Look at it this way...

In a hundred years...who's gonna care?

Fuckin ay! I mean, if the person's not famous enough, then why should I bother if they live or die! Yeah, anarchy, yeah!!!

[Rawhead Rex]

Famous has nothing to do with it...

It's about minding your own business.

[AmericanManiac]

Originally posted by Wicked Lady
What should I do about this? Is there any way to contact someone that can help? I don;t know what to do!

Here's the post....

http://s4.invisionfree.com/Forumnessity/index.php?showtopic=438

I think its all bullshit she wants some attention. I think you may be the same girl also. Trying to get people to feel sorry for you. Your both the same age, You come here posting the site from it. It's ALL BULLSHIT !:eek:

[Rawhead Rex]

You tell em, Otis!

[novakru]

Wicked Lady is a talented,beautiful,smart young woman and is Bloodrayne's (a MODERATOR) daughter.

She did the right thing by asking for help regardless of what really transpired and what Trip did... was downright Noble.

[ItsAlive75]

Originally posted by trippin_the_rif
It makes no difference if you raise your children to be well adjusted or not............this world is one FUCKED UP PLANET!!!!! And you can worship and cherish and be all you think your kids need.............outside your front door.....is a whole planet just waiting to exploit, degrade, molest, hurt and even kill your child. AND THERE'S NOT A THING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT WHEN THEY REACH THAT AGE OF KNOW IT ALL!!!!!!

That's one way of looking at it.

Originally posted by trippin_the_rif
IMO!!!!BloodRayne has raised a self-rightious, loving, caring and levelheaded child.

I think being self-righteous is a bad thing... but I agree, this was not about Wicked Lady vying for attention.

[ItsAlive75]

Originally posted by trippin_the_rif
IMO!!!!BloodRayne has raised a self-respective, loving, caring and levelheaded child.

haha, dude I'm gonna be an English major douchebag again... Self-respective aint a term, you mean self-respecting.

I mean no offense, its just a thing that goes off in my brain.

[ItsAlive75]

Originally posted by trippin_the_rif
LOL!!!!! PRICK!!!!! YOU MADE ME LAUGH WHEN I DIDNT WANT TOO!!!!!!!!!!:mad: :confused: :D Stop doing that!!!!:p

You should just run all your posts past me before you post em', so I can edit them.

Whatever I can do to help.:D

[pinkfloyd45769]

First, i dont think AmericanManiac meant to piss anyone off. I think he was just giving a theory that could have been true in other circumstances. I'm sure he didnt know she is BR's daughter, i didnt either. Anyway, have you heard anything DJ?

[AmericanManiac]

Originally posted by pinkfloyd45769
First, i dont think AmericanManiac meant to piss anyone off. I think he was just giving a theory that could have been true in other circumstances. I'm sure he didnt know she is BR's daughter, i didnt either. Anyway, have you heard anything DJ?

Thank you, sorry for putting in my own theroy when all of you put in yours. and trippin kiss my ass, an ass whippin threat over the net wow. How old are you??

[Rawhead Rex]

Originally posted by trippin_the_rif
And if you think for one second that Seri is behind this in any way other than trying to help someone she thought was in trouble, then you need a serious ass kicking!!!!! PM me and I'll meet you anywhere you want. My check book is open!!!!!:mad:

Another internet badass...

Wow.

[novakru]

Once you get an impression of someone here-it rarely changes.

But sometimes things are not as they seem,you have to remember what people are going thru and how they react.
I am not trying to dismiss anyone's behavior or even trying to defend it,just explaining a point.

If I am stressed out,I will react to things that normally wouldn't even register.

And again let me point out-you cannot see a persons facial reactions or hear the inflections of their voice..it's takes away ALOT of what is truly being said...I am not really commenting on this thread per se,just the way people post in general.

Anyway- I have seen enough posts from American and Trip to know that I like them both:)

[stubbornforgey]

Nicely sed novak ...
its quite weird how you get to fall in like with somebody by just reading thier postings ..it somehow portrays thier true
personalities..well tries to.
I was very lucky a few years back..cos em a poor son of a bitchess ..i couldnt afford to attend a wedding between 2 of the ops on mirc so they held thier honeymoon here in nz along with thier wedding entrage'.
I got to meet quite a few of the ppl i had been pissing off and yeah..it was like i was right in my assumption...they are fucking idiots!!!

[Rawhead Rex]

^^^ I assume most everything anyone tells me on the net...

Is a lie.

Cuz...you can be who the hell ever you want in cyberspace.

The 18 year old college hottie babe...

Is probably a 52 year old, living with his mother loser.

The bad motherfucker who says he'll come to your house and kick your teeth down your throat...

Is most likely a 12 year old, 110lb virgin man-boy who couldn't kick ass if you sedated the donkey first.

Why believe any of it...

Just chat...express your opinions...have a bit of fun...

But keep it nameless, faceless fun.

It's good advice, really.

[stubbornforgey]

I love you :D

[pinkfloyd45769]

Originally posted by trippin_the_rif
Yes, I was stressed out and probably over-reacted. My apologies to AmericanManiac. Besides, I checked my account balance. I'll save that for a trip to Europe.

It pissed me off that poor WL went as nuts as I did trying to help some stranger that probably doesnt exist. No excuse, I have a tendancy to speak before thinking when I'm stressed and pissed at the same time. I am usually better than that.

If you accept my apologies AM, I appreciate it, if ya dont, I understand. What can I say, it's getting harder to control my anger the older I get. And it frustrates me.

*Waves the white flag* I'm proud of you!!

[wu ghung]

Originally posted by trippin_the_rif
Yes, I was stressed out and probably over-reacted. My apologies to AmericanManiac. Besides, I checked my account balance. I'll save that for a trip to Europe.

It pissed me off that poor WL went as nuts as I did trying to help some stranger that probably doesnt exist. No excuse, I have a tendancy to speak before thinking when I'm stressed and pissed at the same time. I am usually better than that.

If you accept my apologies AM, I appreciate it, if ya dont, I understand. What can I say, it's getting harder to control my anger the older I get. And it frustrates me.

*Waves the white flag*

I don't think you should feel ashamed or foolish. Its a lot better to feel a little gulible than guilty over having done nothing. Man whats up with society today when a man gets shit on for trying to help someone.

[stubbornforgey]

i totally agree ..
what ever a man has done in the past should be forgotten..an apology used to be all it took before..now its 'u gotta kiss my ass............and kiss it good baby' before somebodies forgiven. :rolleyes:

[wu ghung]

Originally posted by stubbornforgey
i totally agree ..
what ever a man has done in the past should be forgotten..an apology used to be all it took before..now its 'u gotta kiss my ass............and kiss it good baby' before somebodies forgiven. :rolleyes:
O you don't have to kiss my arse all that well and i'll forgive you. A little tounge action would be good though.
But yeah if a man says sorry that should be it. you don't have to forgive him, but it's just childish and a little pathetic to bring up all the trime.
p.s unless its me then its just charming

[stubbornforgey]

soz ..pork ass aint my thing .

[wu ghung]

You say that now but you know you wont be able to resist it when it's staring you in the face.

[AmericanManiac]

Originally posted by trippin_the_rif
Yes, I was stressed out and probably over-reacted. My apologies to AmericanManiac. Besides, I checked my account balance. I'll save that for a trip to Europe.

It pissed me off that poor WL went as nuts as I did trying to help some stranger that probably doesnt exist. No excuse, I have a tendancy to speak before thinking when I'm stressed and pissed at the same time. I am usually better than that.

If you accept my apologies AM, I appreciate it, if ya dont, I understand. What can I say, it's getting harder to control my anger the older I get. And it frustrates me.

*Waves the white flag*

Yeah your damn lucky you waved the white flag because I was going to take you up on that offer.:D I accept your apology because when i'm pissed off ,I think when everyone is pissed off they act that way. So I didn't take it personally.

[wu ghung]

This is touching, see what happens when i make people see theerror oftheirways? they all become friends.
Wu the peace maker... thats me

[AmericanManiac]

Originally posted by wu ghung
This is touching, see what happens when i make people see theerror oftheirways? they all become friends.
Wu the peace maker... thats me
Now all you need is to speak english :D

[pinkfloyd45769]

I'm glad to see you guys are cool now!!!!!;)

[pinkfloyd45769]

Originally posted by trippin_the_rif
When I'm wrong, I'll be the first to admit it.:) We all go a little mad sometimes

[Elvis_Christ]

^^ Damn if that guy was 4ft shorter and had a goatee it'd be a dead ringer!

[Elvis_Christ]

Ladykiller even :p

[Elvis_Christ]

How's that big collection of photos of chicks butts comin along? :)

[Elvis_Christ]

Damn! She's actually very talented :) that doesn't look like the easiest thing in the world to do!

[AmericanManiac]

Originally posted by pinkfloyd45769
I'm glad to see you guys are cool now!!!!!;)

I've always liked trippin ever since he made little kids cry & piss their self at halloween :D

[MoonLit Meadow]

DAMN. Miss a week, miss a year around here:p

Glad to see everyone is cool though...that was some decent reading;)

HDC is so fun...it takes all of 5 minutes to go from worst enemies to kinda sorta friends:p