What's scarier than LOVE?

[bloodrayne]

Is love not terrifying? What about the thrills,chills, shakes, anxiety, fear, suspense...In the beginning, does it not feel the same way as when you are watching a horror movie? When you don't know what's going to happen next...Your nerves are on edge and you're waiting for something, looking over your shoulder, tense, excited, shaking, wondering, waiting....

[mudsliptones]

love blows especially when your mind is all fucked up by your "good friends" when they are actually just useing you
the trust you put in people is gone, afraid of trusting the one you love, it bites
luckely I got past all that and 2.5 years later I still love the one I did 2.5 years ago without any problems

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by mudsliptones
love blows especially when your mind is all fucked up by your "good friends" when they are actually just useing you
the trust you put in people is gone, afraid of trusting the one you love, it bites
luckely I got past all that and 2.5 years later I still love the one I did 2.5 years ago without any problems

Consider yourself very lucky...Don't EVER take it for granted...

[VampRocker]

Yeah, love sucks. But I'm positive that I'd rather be in love than be stalked by a bloodthirsty, homicidal maniac...

[devilsbackbone]

what is this "love" you so fondly speak of? lol i wouldnt kno what love is because i have never been in love. is it the love for the new puppy you got or the love for a family member?........no..........
this "love" is stronger, a force that tells you that this is the person that you are going to spend the rest of your life with! nowadats ppl throw that word around w/ little care wehn i say it i want to mean it, and when i hear, it i want to feel it. but i have never been in love so i dont kno how it feels!

[Arioch]

Love can be great and love can be harsh. Simultanious giver and taker of life. Nurturer and Ruiner. Its very balanced in that it can and does go both ways. Unfortunatly it seems most of us dont find "the one" with our first love and are forced to under the harsher aspects of break ups and terminal relationships. Just dont loose faith that "the one" is out there, i almost have.

[juanhacko]

Love is a BITCH.
We need love, we need sex.
Why do the two have to be with the same person?:confused:

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by Arioch
Love can be great and love can be harsh. Simultanious giver and taker of life. Nurturer and Ruiner. Its very balanced in that it can and does go both ways. Unfortunatly it seems most of us dont find "the one" with our first love and are forced to under the harsher aspects of break ups and terminal relationships. Just dont loose faith that "the one" is out there, i almost have.

Maybe someone will change your mind...Someday, Someway, Somewhere, Somehow...:)

[VampRocker]

Originally posted by bloodrayne
Maybe someone will change your mind...Someday, Someway, Somewhere, Somehow...:)

A hypnotist...?

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by VampRocker
A hypnotist...?



Or Mesmorizer...

[hash23]

hmm love, when you feel it, it feels gr8 and you do stuff , you never thought you will do... i have been in love b4 but it ended... now how can i say that i have been in love as it ended..... i personally believe that you are gonna love somebody and go out with them and then dump or get dumped..... then you will find someone else.. fall in love again and then again dump or get dumped.. See this helps cause one day someone comes, and you dont see any reason to dump them.. and vice versa. so you know that she/he is the one... See people be practical if you want a relationship to work out... remember treat the person the way you would want them to treat you.. ...

hope my advice works and people understand..

Hash23

[MichaelMyers]

To fear love is to fear life, and those who fear life are already three parts dead.

[teenagezombie]

sorry my laptop fucked up while i was writitng my message and just posted while i was in the middle of writting it:mad:



sorry about that guys

[teenagezombie]

love is weird, i have been in love WITH THE SAME GUY for the past two years. its weird because i use to change b/fs like i change my underwear (which is very often), i never wanted to be with the same person for too long, now with my current b/f i dont want to break up wit him. love changes you.

[abbycomix]

It's scary that's for sure. i take a lot of time and care before I'm willing to be serious. I like being single and dating casually, but having a life companion is great too if it's right. Too bad time changes everything and there is no such thing as forever. Enjoy life while you can and don't be afraid to love when you feel ready.
As for love and sex with the same person in my opinion that's the only way to go. The best sex is when you have intense feelings for eachother. Also, with all those diseases and psychos out there it really pays to know someone well first. No sense in making a fatal mistake just for some cheap booty.
Of course just making out casually is another thing. :p

[Ritualistic]

love is one damn thing that fucking scares me..being inlove is what freaks me out....
i knew I was inlove when I was acting like a duffus and very nervous around her.. that freaked me out so it scared me... dont ask why... well that is my love story

[meetthecreeper]

Was in love once, I mean like sick in love, about 10 yrs ago, lived w/ her for about 3 yrs. Something happened between us that was truly tragic, and it was mutually our fault. We couldnt get past it. We both new we were each others soul mate. I made her move out and we both were very torn up about it. For about 2 years after that we saw each other on occasion, couldnt keep our hands off each other. We both wanted it all but we couldnt have it all. Havent seen her in a bout 5 or 6 years now but I think about her alot. I know she thinks about me I can feel it. It took me several years to get over it but I did and have moved on. I dont think that I would change the way things went I guess. If the tragic event hadnt happened between us we would still be together today. Of course I wouldnt be where I am at today, back then loving her meant everything to me, more than work, family, friends, anything. No one has ever made me feel that way since and I hope they never do. It fucks with your head and you dont think straight. I hate even talking about it but why not rub salt in old wounds, pain is good sometimes. You know that knot in your stomach.

[VenomX]

Love is the spice of life folks! Stop being so negative about everything! Sheesh, have we got some mopers on this forum. I think the next thread should be called something like "I don't like food anymore", or "Goddamn oxygen, all filling my lungs and stuff".

[Colm O' Toole]

Yeah I totally agree Love and Horror make you feel the same way but could that just be cause you Love Horror.

[meetthecreeper]

Originally posted by VenomX
Love is the spice of life folks! Stop being so negative about everything! Sheesh, have we got some mopers on this forum. I think the next thread should be called something like "I don't like food anymore", or "Goddamn oxygen, all filling my lungs and stuff".

I dont think we are being negative about everything, seems everything is perfect in your life, or you have never expirienced the pain. Hopefully you wont more likely you will.

[Colm O' Toole]

Sorry for interupting this conversation but ain't it weird that so much people are logged on at the same time. Never bein here when there is more than a handful of people around. Definitaly a good sign that this site is growing and growing fast.

Neway Love yeah it can be scary but when you find it it's great!!!

[avenger00soul]

Originally posted by VenomX
Love is the spice of life folks! Stop being so negative about everything! Sheesh, have we got some mopers on this forum. I think the next thread should be called something like "I don't like food anymore", or "Goddamn oxygen, all filling my lungs and stuff".

Pretty funny Venom. I can relate to you. I find being alone more scary than being in love.

[SoUl SuRvIvOrS]

Love...shit its a hard one.Yeah I can see the resemblence with Horror. On a person note I have been seeing this guy off and on for the last 7 years...He was deployed to the Middle East and has been gone for 10 mnths Now..We have had our hard times and our good ones. But we both feel it is easier not to be an "ITEM"But I cant help to wonder "whats he going through?" What kinda of REAL Horror is he seeing?" I miss him so much it hurts deep like an appendage was severed. I felt a comfort with him I never knew was possible. He is my best friend...my lover... my link to the "norm" of society... and sometimes when all I can do is think about him I truely believe he is my soulmate...
But we are not together in that sence...Im not a stalker or anything like that he feels the same just we got to a point in our lives when complications out numbered us and this the best way we see for right now. I date casually and still carry on with my life and trying to Live it the best I can...But I always catch myself comparing everyone I date with him...Love is a painful route we all eventually endour... Everyones path is different but still in search for the same thing... Who wants to live alone?
Oh and the sex and love issue I agree with Abby ... too much to catch now adays.... If your going in COVER UP GUYS:D :p

[coldwhisper]

Hmmm. i have to think on this one. hmm.

I know its scary to be in love. You don't know if the one you love loves you back.

But if I was asked to pick between loving and be just indifferent, I'll take the plunge on love.

It sure beats the feeling of being ALONE!!!

[Arioch]

It sure beats the feeling of being ALONE!!!

I dont know, ive gotten used to the fealing, it doesnt bother me anymore. Maybe im just used to it after all it has been 2and a half years, lol. THATS WRITE I JUST ADMITED A 2.5 YEAR ABSTINANCE!!!:D

[coldwhisper]

Originally posted by Arioch
THATS WRITE I JUST ADMITED A 2.5 YEAR ABSTINANCE!!!:D

What??? LOL wow! Now, i'm definitely impressed. I never went for that long..... How do you do it?:D

[SadisticAngel]

Originally posted by VampRocker
Yeah, love sucks. But I'm positive that I'd rather be in love than be stalked by a bloodthirsty, homicidal maniac...

Yeah, that's right :-)
But it's nice to hear that most of you also think, that love is a really scary thing...
I've made some very bad experiences in the last time and I found out, that the feeling of being unhappy in love is very, very painful... especially when your best friend falls in love with the girl you want... that sucks!!

[Arioch]

What??? LOL wow! Now, i'm definitely impressed. I never went for that long..... How do you do it?

LMAO i knew some of you women would think i was crazy. you guys can get it any time you want, anywhere just because your female. Its different for guys, you have to really get out there and meet girls, build relationships etc.

I got hurt really bad when i left for college by a girl i THOUGHT was my soulmate. I kinda lost a lot of faith in women after that and have gotten used to being alone i guess. Alot of my friends think im crazy and feal bad for me because i dont persue any relationships anymore. I just feal that ill probably live out the rest of my life alone.

Not a sob story or anything, just explaining my situation. Im not really even sad about it anymore, its just what im used to. I live for my music and thats it.....but its enough for me. I guess my point is dont take the person your with for granted, because theres nothing that says you wont be alone too. Appreciate them everyday because like Coldwisper said its alot better than being alone.

[Malicious_Mirth]

i completely agree...i know i am a guy and i am supposed to like sex with everything but i thik it is much better when you are witht he person you love.......love is a scary word and it cuses people to do things that they would not do, under normal circumstances.......i think love is great but on the same token SHE is a harsh mistress..........Love can best be described through one word ...TIME...time heals and time shatters but in the end It is better to have loved........