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taylorsmommy
08-17-2005, 03:30 PM
The vet, Dr. Hoffman, got his blood test results back. He's in liver failure and there's no hope of recovery. He's being put to sleep tomorrow.
AUSTIN316426808
08-17-2005, 03:34 PM
Sorry about your loss TM:( R.I.P. Taylor.
filmmaker2
08-17-2005, 03:38 PM
Very very sorry to hear. We're all with you.
urgeok
08-17-2005, 03:41 PM
:(
i'm really sorry to hear it..
taylorsmommy
08-17-2005, 03:43 PM
I'm utterly and completely destroyed.
MoonLit Meadow
08-17-2005, 03:51 PM
We're all here to get you through this sweetheart...I'm very sorry to hear the news. :(
ItsAlive75
08-17-2005, 03:52 PM
I'm truly sorry for your loss. Just know we're all here for you.
nine9
08-17-2005, 04:08 PM
:( I always thought Taylor was a child.........but I guess he or she was in their own way.......I'm sorry, but I don't know......dog or cat? I have been through this and it broke my heart. Take care.
taylorsmommy
08-17-2005, 04:09 PM
nine9 - he's a cat. I never had any kids so he's my baby, hence my screen name. I'm better than I was the other day, but it still hurts like hell. I am taking comfort from the fact that I tried everything possible to save him.
sandy_x
08-17-2005, 04:09 PM
Im so sorry .x
Truly sorry to hear that TM. Been through it myself not too long ago, it is heartbreaking. As always we will be here for you if ya wanna talk or need a shoulder.
taylorsmommy
08-17-2005, 04:15 PM
Is your shirt drip dry? Actually, the tears come and go. I had my good hard cry on Sunday when it looked like it was going to be done then.
nine9
08-17-2005, 04:16 PM
Originally posted by taylorsmommy
nine9 - he's a cat. I never had any kids so he's my baby, hence my screen name. I'm better than I was the other day, but it still hurts like hell. I am taking comfort from the fact that I tried everything possible to save him.
My baby I lost was a cat too. A blue point Himalayan. I had him for 11 years. I have 3 cats now..........it is horrible to go throught that, I feel for you. It is just as bad as losing a human family member. :(
nine9
08-17-2005, 04:18 PM
Shit....I was just trying to correct something........ignore this post.
taylorsmommy
08-17-2005, 04:20 PM
The thing that really fucking sucks is this is the second cat in less than six months that we've had to have put to sleep.
nine9
08-17-2005, 04:22 PM
Originally posted by taylorsmommy
The thing that really fucking sucks is this is the second cat in less than six months that we've had to have put to sleep.
That is terrible :(
The_Return
08-17-2005, 05:19 PM
You are in our prayers
jenna26
08-17-2005, 06:13 PM
I'm so sorry, you have my sympathies. It is painful to lose a pet, I just had to have a dog put to sleep that I had had since I was a child about 7 months ago. Very sad.:(
RoLLiNLiGhTs
08-17-2005, 06:44 PM
That's terrible...I think we've all been through tramatic things of that nature, and it never gets easier...:(
Babygurl20
08-17-2005, 09:32 PM
I will keep you in my prayers, and I hope that as time goes by things get a little easier for you. I know there is nothing I can say to make you feel better, but just know I'm here if you need a friend to talk to, as are all the rest of us at HDC.
DraculaInDallas
08-17-2005, 11:30 PM
So sorry to hear this tragic news TM. A couple of years ago I had to put my Siberian Husky to sleep after having him 15 years so I know what you're feeling. We're all here for you :(
zwoti
08-17-2005, 11:36 PM
sorry to hear this
Marroe
08-18-2005, 12:47 AM
Sucky, I'm still weird about my cat that was killed 3 years ago.....Very sorry to hear that, TM.
You should post a photo of him.
ShankS
08-18-2005, 12:56 AM
Originally posted by taylorsmommy
The vet, Dr. Hoffman, got his blood test results back. He's in liver failure and there's no hope of recovery. He's being put to sleep tomorrow.
:( sorry for the sad news. I know my words wont mean that much, but I'd like to say my line of condolence, at times of cat loss....."for every strong & bold cat that is laid to rest, another cute kitten comes out to play."
bloodrayne
08-18-2005, 01:00 AM
I never really know what to say during times like these, because we all know that we can't really make it better (although, we all wish we could)...The passage of time is all that really seems to help...Try to take care of yourself, and try to keep your chin up...
taylorsmommy
08-18-2005, 01:59 AM
Originally posted by ShankS
:( sorry for the sad news. I know my words wont mean that much, but I'd like to say my line of condolence, at times of cat loss....."for every strong & bold cat that is laid to rest, another cute kitten comes out to play."
ShankS, I really like that. Thank you!
urgeok
08-18-2005, 02:02 AM
i lost a cat that was extremely close to me about 10 years ago and i never got over it ...
life goes on but i still miss that cat - it was in my life longer than any other relationship..
taylorsmommy
08-18-2005, 03:48 AM
Originally posted by Marroe
Sucky, I'm still weird about my cat that was killed 3 years ago.....Very sorry to hear that, TM.
You should post a photo of him.
Here he is
filmmaker2
08-18-2005, 04:36 AM
Thanks for the photo. Taylor is sure a cute creature and certainly a great friend.
I like people too but I am always concerned about the little animals, be they rat, mole, vole, squirrel, cat or dog.
taylorsmommy
08-18-2005, 04:41 AM
Me too, film. I've always liked animals more than I like people - animals have no ulterior motive.
nine9
08-18-2005, 04:41 AM
He is very very cute.........:(
Haunted
08-18-2005, 07:08 AM
I have prayed to the Lady Bastet for you. She will be the light for him, guiding him to Paradise. I also asked Her to comfort you.
When you're ready... Go to the animal shelter, and adopt a baby to love. I'm sure that Taylor will watch over him or her, like a guardian angel.
Blessed Be
taylorsmommy
08-18-2005, 07:19 AM
Thanks Haunted. That really means a lot to me. I don't know about adopting another one. This is just too hard.
novakru
08-18-2005, 08:11 AM
Your beautiful cat had a wonderful life with you,loved you and stood watch over you in the night.
Thank you for giving so much to a special kitty, tayor'smommy.
He was very lucky in getting you as a human.
I am So Sorry ,from one cat lover to another....
ShankS
08-18-2005, 08:12 AM
Originally posted by taylorsmommy
Thanks Haunted. That really means a lot to me. I don't know about adopting another one. This is just too hard.
one of my cats...Masy says "taylorsmommy you must get an ickle cat just like me....meeeeowww :) "
http://img251.imageshack.us/img251/2853/catrelaxing5nq.jpg
you'll love a new little bundle of fluff, in your own time ;)
novakru
08-18-2005, 08:36 AM
Originally posted by ShankS
one of my cats...Masy says "taylorsmommy you must get an ickle cat just like me....meeeeowww :) "
http://img251.imageshack.us/img251/2853/catrelaxing5nq.jpg
you'll love a new little bundle of fluff, in your own time ;)
You got a beautiful or Handsome cat there ShankS
taylorsmommy
08-18-2005, 08:37 AM
Wow, ShankS, Masy is absolutely gorgeous!!
urgeok
08-18-2005, 08:38 AM
Originally posted by taylorsmommy
Wow, ShankS, Masy is absolutely gorgeous!!
looks like a trouble maker to me ..
look at its face - you can practically see it thinking ..
'that's right camera boy - the minute you get that goddamn nikon out of my face, your curtains are spagetti'
taylorsmommy
08-18-2005, 08:39 AM
Originally posted by urgeok
looks like a trouble maker to me ..
look at its face - you can practically see it thinking ..
'that's right camera boy - the minute you get that goddamn nikon out of my face, your curtains are spagetti'
You know, urge, I can always count on you to make me laugh. Thank you from the bottom of my heart - I needed that!
ShankS
08-18-2005, 09:06 AM
Originally posted by novakru
You got a beautiful or Handsome cat there ShankS
Originally posted by taylorsmommy
Wow, ShankS, Masy is absolutely gorgeous!!
Thanks ladies, she knows she's a looker.... teasing all the tom cats :)
Originally posted by urgeok
looks like a trouble maker to me ..
look at its face - you can practically see it thinking ..
'that's right camera boy - the minute you get that goddamn nikon out of my face, your curtains are spagetti'
lol she's got some damn sharp claws, and done some minor furniture damage, but she's forgiven all too easily.
filmmaker2
08-18-2005, 09:40 AM
I swear, I think that Masy is planning something--something that involves wrecking some stuff. Look at her! She has that pixie look. She looks possessed by pixies! Shanks, are you sure you're not under her spell or something?
urgeok
08-18-2005, 09:44 AM
Originally posted by taylorsmommy
You know, urge, I can always count on you to make me laugh. Thank you from the bottom of my heart - I needed that!
its what i was hoping for .. glad to help :)
taylorsmommy
08-18-2005, 11:44 AM
This is a poem that someone sent me. Makes me cry every time I read it.
If It Should Be.....
If it should be that I grow weak
And pain should keep me from my sleep,
Then you must do what must be done,
For this last battle can't be won.
You will be sad I understand,
Don't let your grief then stay your hand.
For this day more than all the rest,
Your love for me must stand the test.
We've had so many happy years,
What is to come can hold no fears.
You'd not want me to suffer so,
The time has come, please let me go.
Take me where my needs they'll tend,
But stay with me until the end.
Hold me firm and speak to me
until my eyes no longer see.
I know in time that you will see
the kindness that you did for me.
Although my tail its last has waved,
from pain and suffering I've been saved.
Please do not grieve - it must be you
Who has this painful thing to do.
We've been so close, we two, these years
Don't let your heart hold any tears.
MoonLit Meadow
08-18-2005, 11:48 AM
Originally posted by taylorsmommy
This is a poem that someone sent me. Makes me cry every time I read it.
If It Should Be.....
If it should be that I grow weak
And pain should keep me from my sleep,
Then you must do what must be done,
For this last battle can't be won.
You will be sad I understand,
Don't let your grief then stay your hand.
For this day more than all the rest,
Your love for me must stand the test.
We've had so many happy years,
What is to come can hold no fears.
You'd not want me to suffer so,
The time has come, please let me go.
Take me where my needs they'll tend,
But stay with me until the end.
Hold me firm and speak to me
until my eyes no longer see.
I know in time that you will see
the kindness that you did for me.
Although my tail its last has waved,
from pain and suffering I've been saved.
Please do not grieve - it must be you
Who has this painful thing to do.
We've been so close, we two, these years
Don't let your heart hold any tears.
Very beautiful TM...I hope you find some peace in those words.
filmmaker2
08-18-2005, 02:58 PM
I am on my way to go get Tweety, a little baby stray who just got fixed at the vet, he is a sweet little thing that lives in the alley behind me building.
Haphazard
08-18-2005, 03:21 PM
:(
Sorry mommy.
That sucks.
taylorsmommy
08-18-2005, 03:38 PM
Just got back. It was very peaceful. I held him in my arms, kissed him on the head, told him I love him, and told him he can go play with Sammy now. It was very quick and not traumatic at all. Strangely, I feel very peaceful right now. Haunted, I think your prayer worked.
kpropain
08-18-2005, 03:50 PM
Damn so sorry to hear about your loss TM, you have my utmost condolences.:(
taylorsmommy
08-18-2005, 03:59 PM
Thanks, kpro. I appreciate it. Like I said, I feel very peaceful right now. Yes, I cried like a baby while it was happening, but afterward we laid him on an exam table and I stood there petting him and telling the vet stories about him. He loved vegetables - his favorite was asparagus. He also loved watermelon. I will miss him, but he's not in pain anymore.
DraculaInDallas
08-18-2005, 09:25 PM
Originally posted by urgeok
looks like a trouble maker to me ..
look at its face - you can practically see it thinking ..
'that's right camera boy - the minute you get that goddamn nikon out of my face, your curtains are spagetti'
ROTFLMFAO!!!!! :D He does look like that :D
filmmaker2
08-18-2005, 10:28 PM
That cat also looks like it might turn into a bunch of tentacles like in THE THING. You know, someone'll go over to it and poke it with a stick, wondering why it is sitting there so stiff-like and thinking that it might be a dummy of some kind, and as soon as they turn their back, the cat will turn into a bunch of pink tentacles made out of painted rubber tubing.
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Glad to hear that you are feeling better, TM.
I went and picked Tweety the cat up around 4:45, got him released, and very carefully drove him back home to his alley/parking lot. He was half-sedated and seemed sleepy the whole way back, but as soon as he saw he was home, he started yowling "Wau? Mwau?" in his carrying case. His energy was definitely coming back! So I let him go, and he ran off into the shrubs and things.