dilemma

[Gren the cake]

WHen you meet someone, not only do you look at them, but yuo hafto look at the company they keep. Both friends, acquaintances, and family

IT sucks to judge people on family, since theyre not like friends where u can just get rid of em if their asses. unless of course your me, i didnt talk to my dad for 2 years cuz he was an asshole. the thing is, my standing up to him is what caused him to realiez 'ok... my wife, and 2 kids all get along. maybe its not THEM, its ME' and things are fine now

having issues with my bf's sister. and i know its not me personally shes got a problem with, she just wants to point. it oculd be any one of his girlfriends.

shes got mad money issues, so much that she needs to borrow money to buy food. shes 33 or so, with a 10 year old daughter. she and her husband are divorce, he's been happily married for years with another kid i think, whereas shes just been dickin around with a bunch of losers.

anyway, i coudl go on and on but ill try to get to the gist of it. just the other night she got pissed and threw out all my food in the refrigerator/freezer. as in, there now is NO food in the refrigerator. thinking about it it was cumulatively about 20-30 in food

being a cook, and being ASIAN. fuckin a, i was born there man and ive gone back twice. its just part of the culture that you do nOT waste food. iknow its diff here in the US, but come on now

so heres the dilemma. I'm going to piss on her clothes tomorrow. but im worried that she will smell it. its not the fact that she'll get mad that bothers me, its the fact that she will wash them and i wont have the glory of seeing her wearing them

So im thinking, maybe ill just put toilet water all over her clothes. Also, i will take a video with my camera of me doing it, then after he moves out in august and gets the deposit $$, i'll Screenshot my evil deeds and mail the pics to her

So how do i go about this? She went to the zoo a couple weeks ago with her daughter and came back with a spray bottle. i thuoght about putting the water in there but that wil just mist up and it might back fire onto me. I'm thinking of just using a cup but does anyone hav any better ideas? a squirt gune maybe? i can aim the spray a bit better and make it so its not a mist, but it may malfunction or something :/

i as thinking of taking a shit in her clothes, but thing is she will get angry and keep the $700 deposit. that is my boyfriends money. see.... there are so many complications :/

[Gren the cake]

ah fuck i just realized. im gonna be there tonight and probably tomorrow night and she'll be in here room. i used to go over every morning but cant now cuz of work.

her ex husband has custody of the duaghter thurs-saturday morning. usually she stays at a friends house thurs and fri night and parties. so i wont be able to do it till then

no matter, thats just more time to fine tune my misdeeds!!

[urgeok]

you really shouldnt do it -
sounds like she's fucked up already - it's like picking on the 'slow kid'

it could lead to problems with you and your bf too ..

just avoid her .. or confront her - verbally ..

but dont do something that low rent trailer trash would do ..

[Gren the cake]

but for once. I want to be the trailer trash

that and i wont be doing it till we out ofthe aprtment :). and hes fed up with her. hes been dealin with her BS for years and this was the culmination

just the fact she would pull some shit like that on ME, when she doesnt even nkow me, and he said 'and you never did a thing to her'

[urgeok]

Originally posted by Gren the cake
but for once. I want to be the trailer trash

that and i wont be doing it till we out ofthe aprtment :). and hes fed up with her. hes been dealin with her BS for years and this was the culmination

just the fact she would pull some shit like that on ME, when she doesnt even nkow me, and he said 'and you never did a thing to her'

well, if the bf is 100% behind you - then who am i to judge ...

[bloodrayne]

I just wouldn't have anything to do with her...I distance myself from people like that...

Problem removed=Problem solved

[Haunted]

I know where you are, Gren. In the short story, "The Cask of Amantilliado, E.A. Poe makes the comment that if you're going to attempt revenge, your target should be well aware of what you're doing, they should know that YOU'RE the one carrying out the deed.

However, I have to go with Urgeok. This could cramp your relationship with your BF, even if he seems gung-ho about it now. Familiar pressure to be angry at you might break him down.

Vengence is a bitter sweet conception. I know, because I'm extremely vendictive. When someone crosses me, I pull out all the stops. I'm not proud of this. In fact, I'd really like to suppress my devastating "mean streak."


Like Urgeok said, the best way to get her is to point blank tell her:
"Look, my BF and I do not appreciate your constantly trying to
bum money from us. You need to get a job you'll think you like
and go for it. Both he and I are in school to follow our chosen
path. We cannot support you and your child. His parents have
already raised the two of you, and it isn't fair for you to place
Your burdens upon them. Find a job, even if you have to start
out small."

Pranks make a point, but they WILL come back on you in the end.

I wish you the best of luck. Try the up front, honorable negotiation before you launch an attack that you can't take back.

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by Haunted
Pranks make a point, but they WILL come back on you in the end. This is too true...I wouldn't demean myself to 'punish' someone else...It just ends up making YOU look bad, too...

[urgeok]

the other angle is - consider her poor kid.

not sure if you mentioned the age of the kid but he probably is already doomed witha psycho unstable unresponsible parent ..
anytime she suffers - i bet the kid suffers even more as a result.

[Haunted]

Urge, Rayne,

I love how you both concern yourselves with the child. I think that is beyond admirable.

I don't usually say this about mothers, but: Fuck the mom; save the kid.

[urgeok]

i feel so much for the kids it hurts ... they dont ask for this shit ..

[AUSTIN316426808]

I don't blame you for wanting to retaliate it's human nature to want to get someone back for severly fucking with you but I don't think you should go to her level.

Confront her about it and try to talk it out and if that doesn't work then fuck her, she's your boyfriend's sister not yours, you don't have to deal with her if you don't want to. I think Rayne said it best you remove the problem you solve the problem.

I actually think your boyfriend should confront her with you. I'm not saying he should alienate his family members but if they do something like this or really anything to offend you then he should take up for you.

[Vodstok]

Here is my #1 concern:

If you do anything like pissing on or administering toilet water on her, you open the possibility of her exposing people in no way involved (her kid, innocent people, maybe even yourself) to someone with contaminated clothing. The thought of someone carrying around all that bacteria (e coli is just one of many possible pathogens) makes me sick, and imagine that is the day she turns over a new leaf and wants to shake your hand, or worse, gives her kid a hug.

Adults can get violently ill off of that, and kids can die from it.


Just some food for thought.


And if you really must do something, egg her car.

[barbra]

I would say cut the crotches out of her pants ( I did that to my sister when we were in high school) or just start hiding her things. Start it slowly one thing at a time. In a week she'll see all this stuff is missing and she'll confront you. Fights are always better when the other person starts it.

[Gren the cake]

Originally posted by bloodrayne
I just wouldn't have anything to do with her...I distance myself from people like that...

Problem removed=Problem solved
stuck with her til august... (lease is up)

and from there, shes STILL his sister. i know hes tired of her, but again, theyre still brother/sister (although only half, ahem) and hes much more forgiving than i am.

[Gren the cake]

i would hardly consider pissing on her clothes/toilet watering her clothes revenge. again, im all for revenge but im not gonna do something like slash tires, break dishes, etc etc.. im gonna do something fuckin weird cuz thats how i am

and i have been thinkin about the kid. but its been months and it turns into there is NOTHING i can do. not my kid.

fact of the matter was, the reason WHY i let her eat my food was cuz i figured her daughter was eating it. she's 10. i think that fuckin sucks that shes 33 or so, with a 10 year old and no food. so i was like fine, that girl has no money, cant drive to the store or anything so ill let her eat. but then it got ridiculous, she'd eat it all the time and NEVER put anything back (buy stuff)

as far as the pissing, i talked with my bf about random things i can do and he was oK with the pissing, not ok with breaking dishes, not ok with pissing on her car. so yeh, he's behind me.

as far as bacteria, piss is pretty clean surprisingly. agian, if i DO do something, its not till this weekend.

but yeh, what im honestly hoping for is that she will try and come up to me and apologize. seriously, 2 weeks ago she wrote a note 'will you two come to ____'s 5th grade promotion on the 22nd?' and now all of a sudden shes throwing out my food? like i siad, it is little to do with me, she is just fuckin up in life and wants to find someone to yell/point at other than herself.

anywa, i would LOVE for her to try and apologize or even talk/level with me. from there, ohh she is gonna get the verbal annihilation of her LIFE.

id like to videotape or audio it.. but... eh.

anyway. my bf and i were tlaking about the daughter and yeh, he even says shes gonna turn out shitty. its very very sad. he and his sister grew up in shitty conditions and he doesnt get how diferently they turned out. his sister is doing to him and her daughter exactly what their mother did to them. not good stuff.

just boils down to.. its LITTLE of our business. as much as it sucks..........

:/ but yeh believe me i HAVE been thinkin about the kid. but in the end, just got to let mommy do as she pleases and lead my own life

but yeh. shes dead fuckin wrong fi shes just gona fuck with me like that. especially when she doesnt even nkow me.. fuckin psychopath.

[Gren the cake]

Originally posted by barbra
I would say cut the crotches out of her pants ( I did that to my sister when we were in high school) or just start hiding her things. Start it slowly one thing at a time. In a week she'll see all this stuff is missing and she'll confront you. Fights are always better when the other person starts it.
i thought abou taking her stuff too.

the least she coulda done with the food was write a note and say 'i want this out by __ or i will throw it out'

the VERY least she coulda done is to throw out the food and at least save the tupperwares. fuckin jackass. not only is that a waste of money but thats a waste of plastic, and im a BIT of an environmentalist

so i was thinkin of just starting to steal her stuff. but im not gonna throw it out, im gonna donate it to charity :)

[Haunted]

Pissing on something isn't weird. My ex college roommate (awesome person that she is) pissed on her old roommate's pocket buck because the bitch bit her.

[Gren the cake]

woahh. ICONS!

well maybe not weird. but ya know, usualyl when you want revenge you steal their stuff, break something, slash tires, or kill them

but im gonna piss. but i dunno, i feel gross. i never liked pissing in a cup.

id take a shit on her bed except that would be pretty obvious i did it. i hafto be careful with what i do cuz as moronic as she is she'll be likely to try and steal the security deposit. which is my Bfs money and $700.

she takes enough of his money as it is :(. it makes me sad how shitty people can be, especially to the ones they love.

but i told him, as long as im here im not gonan see some trash step all over you anymore. so if hes gonna allow her to step on him, then we will have a problem.

[Gren the cake]

i would bite her except my 2 top front teeth, especially the left, as well as the 4 bottom teeth (all the middle ones) are kinda weak. fractured, and im afriad they will break

i mean i can go get it fixed right away but still.. whether its 2 hours or 5 minutes im with a mangled tooth would be horrible.