View Full Version : Do boys like it when girls call them
barbra
05-20-2005, 04:50 PM
I want to call this person and then again I would rather him call, but Im impatient and really bored, so whats a girl to do?
Iniquity
05-20-2005, 05:11 PM
sometimes there is something to be said for agressiveness. I'd say give him a call. If he doesnt want to talk, sure it might bum you out, but it will be his loss. ;)
filmmaker2
05-20-2005, 05:19 PM
Call him! If he likes you, it will make him
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IDrinkYourBlood
05-20-2005, 06:09 PM
Originally posted by Iniquity
sometimes there is something to be said for agressiveness. I'd say give him a call. If he doesnt want to talk, sure it might bum you out, but it will be his loss. ;) Or else he's really smart LOL! haha no but seriously call him. Guys like it. Shows you care.
Steve_Hutchison
05-20-2005, 06:40 PM
wait a little more.
barbra
05-20-2005, 07:03 PM
how come boys never call when they say they will, its always like a day or two later?
filmmaker2
05-20-2005, 07:07 PM
Because
a. Girls make 'em nervous, or
b. They want to appear "disinterested" and less desperate, or
c. A combination of a. and b.
You should call him immediately but try to sound as bored as possible. Keep his ass guessing.
filmmaker2
05-20-2005, 07:09 PM
Oh yeah: When you do get together with him finally, you should slap him around a little. They like that.
barbra
05-20-2005, 07:12 PM
Originally posted by filmmaker2
Because
a. Girls make 'em nervous, or
b. They want to appear "disinterested" and less desperate, or
c. A combination of a. and b.
You should call him immediately but try to sound as bored as possible. Keep his ass guessing. he went to tuscalousa for the weekend to visit his sister. That sounds like way more fun than hanging out with my depressed dog.
I feel like a teenager
IDrinkYourBlood
05-20-2005, 07:13 PM
Originally posted by filmmaker2
Oh yeah: When you do get together with him finally, you should slap him around a little. They like that. sac him by "accident" and he'll be yours forever.
barbra
05-20-2005, 07:17 PM
Originally posted by IDrinkYourBlood
sac him by "accident" and he'll be yours forever. he's the rough one
Gren the cake
05-20-2005, 07:22 PM
send him txt msg (compromise)
barbra
05-20-2005, 07:24 PM
Originally posted by Gren the cake
send him txt msg (compromise) good call..
hey guess what gren.... My friend Amy Zames ( you can see her on myspace) plucked my eyebrows. I feel like 1/10 of a woman now ;)
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Gren the cake
05-20-2005, 07:56 PM
so no more unibrau huh? we,ll its really of no use to me if theres no picks
how come ur yahoo wont do it? use aim then
barbra
05-20-2005, 08:10 PM
Originally posted by Gren the cake
so no more unibrau huh? we,ll its really of no use to me if theres no picks
how come ur yahoo wont do it? use aim then java aim text message phones?
yahoo will only do certain phone companys.
Oh yeah and I think a unibrow would be kinda cool. Ill see if someone will take my picture but all my gadget friends have left town, Im stuck with the hippies and they don't really do digital cameras
Gren the cake
05-20-2005, 08:11 PM
what does cofee hafto do with anything
anyway. in the IM box u put the phone number, with a + in front of it
as in. instead of screenname . put +180096GIRLS or whatever.
barbra
05-20-2005, 08:12 PM
Originally posted by Gren the cake
what does cofee hafto do with anything
anyway. in the IM box u put the phone number, with a + in front of it
as in. instead of screenname . put +180096GIRLS or whatever. if I use aim I use aim express, didn't work. Im not really worried about it anymore.
knife_fight
05-20-2005, 08:22 PM
Originally posted by barbra
I want to call this person and then again I would rather him call, but Im impatient and really bored, so whats a girl to do?
do NOT call. seeming even half interested is the worst mistake you can make.
barbra
05-20-2005, 08:31 PM
Originally posted by knife_fight
do NOT call. seeming even half interested is the worst mistake you can make. really
why is that, and why is it that your advice is the opposite from some of the other boys? Im really ignorant when it comes to these things. Im good at making out and thats about it. The rest is german.
knife_fight
05-20-2005, 08:34 PM
I don't know why. but as everyone says, "you always want what you can't have."
barbra
05-20-2005, 08:36 PM
Originally posted by knife_fight
I don't know why. but as everyone says, "you always want what you can't have." seems kinda like a mind game. Im no good at those.
HappyCamper
05-20-2005, 08:55 PM
I'd like it, if my girlfriend would call me. We're not really seeing each other or talking to each other right now. *sigh* I really miss her.
filmmaker2
05-20-2005, 09:31 PM
I know this is probably not a good time to post this, seeing as how so many people here are pining and all, but, aw, what the heck.
I just know the littler deer is totally sticking his tongue down the bigger deer's throat, like all the way.
ItsAlive75
05-20-2005, 09:53 PM
Hell, I like it when girls I HATE call me.
mothermold
05-20-2005, 10:48 PM
Originally posted by barbra
so whats a girl to do?
let fate decide,flip a coin.what's the worse that can happen?
diminisher
05-20-2005, 11:03 PM
Originally posted by mothermold
let fate decide,flip a coin.what's the worse that can happen?
now by saying that she will start thinking of the worst things that could happen then she will get even more confused on what to do cause she will be afraid of the out come. see if he really cares about you then he will love it if you call him cause he will now that you think about him and care. to be honest you know him, so you would be the one to know the answer to your question.
ShankS
05-20-2005, 11:15 PM
Originally posted by barbra
I want to call this person and then again I would rather him call, but Im impatient and really bored, so whats a girl to do?
babs if you persist in ringing me, the next time I'm just going to breath heavily down the line.
mothermold
05-20-2005, 11:20 PM
Originally posted by diminisher
now by saying that she will start thinking of the worst things that could happen then she will get even more confused on what to do cause she will be afraid of the out come. see if he really cares about you then he will love it if you call him cause he will now that you think about him and care. to be honest you know him, so you would be the one to know the answer to your question.
all i'm saying is take chance.if she's on the fence then go for it,it's not like everything hinges on one person.
zwoti
05-21-2005, 12:36 AM
Originally posted by barbra
I want to call this person and then again I would rather him call, but Im impatient and really bored, so whats a girl to do?
call them
rico suarve
05-21-2005, 02:21 AM
Si,call them,you must love your lady.She should be the most precious thing in your life.And so should the several other women your are seeing also! you need to be careful when being a giggalo no?
ahhhhhh Gerado.......its too mucho being so handsome sometimes.
GirlieGirl
05-21-2005, 10:24 AM
well thats a tricky question.. cuz you cant generalize all guys into one category... first off, did he give you his number and tell you to call him... second off, what are his motives.. do you think he's interested that way, or really just wants you to call to be friends...
some guys are really oblivious to these signals.. and although they just want to be friends, they can put you in a bad position. i'd say wait til you see him next... and if he's like, hey, u never called.. then u know he was thinking about it. but if he never says anythin... he wasnt that conerned!!
barbra
05-21-2005, 11:06 AM
Originally posted by mothermold
let fate decide,flip a coin.what's the worse that can happen? thats how I make a lot of desicions. You know,like what to wear, where to go, what to eat, get drunk or something
filmmaker2
05-21-2005, 11:17 AM
Is it just me, Barb, or has this guy affected you in some seriously profound way? Seems like your whole personality has changed since this fellow appeared.
You seemed a little...harder, darker, more cynical, etc., before, and now you seem like you're positively floating on a cloud.
barbra
05-21-2005, 11:21 AM
Originally posted by filmmaker2
Is it just me, Barb, or has this guy affected you in some seriously profound way? Seems like your whole personality has changed since this fellow appeared.
You seemed a little...harder, darker, more cynical, etc., before, and now you seem like you're positively floating on a cloud. gental jesus not you too! you know, in like the past week Ive heard that about 6 times now. Its not everyday I can find someone who matches my humor or turns me on so much. I want to be in this persons life reguardless of the type of relationship. Thats kinda why Im "walking on egg shells". I could very easily screw up a friendship you know.
filmmaker2
05-21-2005, 11:33 AM
That's why I suggested you call, but not be too enthusiastic--you know, do the "testing the waters mode" thing. Goodness knows how many opportunities in life go by because a person is hesitant to take action.
I'm not recommending crazed, uncontrollable, throw-caution-to-the-wind type action--just some kind of action, to get things rolling, so to speak. A small gesture. Keep the emotions in check as much as possible, shield yourself from being hurt, but do a little something.
The whole thing about it's the guy's job to initiate everything is false and kind of sexist, anyway. Sure, you can call.
barbra
05-21-2005, 11:35 AM
Originally posted by filmmaker2
That's why I suggested you call, but not be too enthusiastic--you know, do the "testing the waters mode" thing. Goodness knows how many opportunities in life go by because a person is hesitant to take action.
I'm not recommending crazed, uncontrollable, throw-caution-to-the-wind type action--just some kind of action, to get things rolling, so to speak. A small gesture. Keep the emotions in check as much as possible, shield yourself from being hurt, but do a little something.
The whole thing about it's the guy's job to initiate everything is false and kind of sexist, anyway. Sure, you can call. its already in motion
Iniquity
05-21-2005, 11:44 AM
and if none of this advice works..... buy him a bunny
then KILL it ;)
Haunted
05-21-2005, 05:26 PM
My parents used to believe that it wasn't propper for a girl to call a guy. That's the stupidest notion they ever tried to raise me with besides Christianity. (No offense to any Xians. I'm just a small town militant Pagan. I know, militants suck, but my only alternative is stamp collecting)
Gren the cake
05-23-2005, 09:47 PM
just swallow.
diminisher
05-23-2005, 11:08 PM
Originally posted by Gren the cake
just swallow.
hahaha yea cause if you spit its a waste of kids!! lol jp.
i think if youre in a relationship it should go both ways ( one is not in control of the other ) so basically dont expect them to do something if you wont do the same to them, and the same goes for, if they will, will you... and you should cause they love you that much to. so saying would he call you if you were away for awhile? if he would then you should too.
and just to add im doing pretty well with that cause im in a very happy relationship, and will be getting married pretty soon too!
Gren the cake
05-23-2005, 11:21 PM
just call him ya dumb broad.
barbra
05-23-2005, 11:22 PM
Originally posted by Gren the cake
just call him ya dumb broad. eh, Im like a middle schooler. If he wants to talk to me, he'll call.
Gren the cake
05-23-2005, 11:25 PM
yeh. i think thats a better one. anyway, part of liking someone is being all questionabel about it. then if he likes u, cool. and if he ends up never calling, u'll get over it pretty fukin quick
and please, never say anyting like 'ive never had anyone turn me on so much' ever again
:(
barbra
05-23-2005, 11:27 PM
Originally posted by Gren the cake
and please, never say anyting like 'ive never had anyone turn me on so much' ever again
:( huh? did that gross you out?
diminisher
05-23-2005, 11:32 PM
im not even going to ask!!
The STE
05-24-2005, 12:48 PM
my last g/f said I wasn't allowed to call her 'cause of her parents, so if anything she HAD to call me. There was always e-mail, but she rarely ever checked it.
mothermold
05-24-2005, 11:29 PM
Originally posted by barbra
thats how I make a lot of desicions. You know,like what to wear, where to go, what to eat, get drunk or something
and have your instincts ever failed you? in the end you either make things happen or wait for things to happen,and that can take a long time.doing these little things like being the aggressor can make all the difference.