Not old, but too old to be in the club

[feral cat]

I have been on horror,com a year today so as a treat heres a random thread. :cool:

… Is there an age at which you’re over the hill to be in a bar / club, or at least certain kinds of bars / clubs or is age just a state of mind?

[Gren the cake]

im not sure theres a certain age, but i know theres a certain look

if u look too old, dont go. no for real, too homely, too ugly, too trashy. just stay home

unles of course its a ugly, homely, trashy club. but what im sayin, is some 30 yr olds look 30, some look 20, then some look striaght up 40. so yeh, its more like what age you LOOK than what ur age really is

so maybe im superficial, whatever, but it just looks odd having some fogeys rockin with the youngins. i know i dont want to talk to them.

HAHAH, suck!

[feral cat]

Is it worse to see old men in the club or old women or do you get put off by both Gren?

[Gren the cake]

iono. its hard to say. im only 20 and most the clubs are 21+. i go down to TJ (i forget im one of the only ones in CA, TJ is Tijuana, Mexico) and yeh, no oldies there

but i think id hafto say the old women. why? cuz normally men dress properly, whereas women like to think they are young and will dress so, even though they got lotsa.......

ya know. gross stuff

:(.

[urgeok]

i think you'd first have to ask yourself why you're there ..

Personally i only ever go to see live bands - and thats never a problem ..

the other places .. i dont know what i'd be doing in them ..i'd be bored out of my skull

[Gren the cake]

mingle, dance, freak....

:)

[FairyKorpes]

For me 25 was when i started getting out of touch with what was current, i.e) music, clothes etc, social life in general...Ironically this was when i had my oldest daughter, lol.

[newb]

Like urgeok, I go to clubs for the live music. My brother's son plays drums in a local band and I'm always going to the shows. Its mostly a young crowd but I'm at an age where I really don't give a shit what anybody thinks about me. Besides I really like the music. Times are a bit different now.When I was in my 20s you would never see anybody our parents age at the clubs, but I grew up on rock & roll and I still like it.

I guess what I'm saying is it depends what your going to the clubs for. If I was a forty something year old looking to pick up hot young chicks........heehee...that made even me laugh...then maybe I would look a bit pathetic, but I'm a happily married forty something year old just there for the tunes.
Plus the fact that the wife is usually with me......the beeotch is cramping my style...how am I suppose to score.:cool:

Happy anniversary feral.

[bloodrayne]

This was a spiderweb for me...I had to answer...


Hmm...Let's see...

Kim is 54 years old:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v69/BloodRayne/Kim1.jpg


Christoph is 40 years old:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v69/BloodRayne/Christoph1.jpg


You all know Sergio, he is 33 years old...I am 36 years old...We all hang out at the same clubs...The people we hang out with are 19-54 (Kim is the oldest person I know), with the MAJORITY of people being between 30 and 40.....We all have a good time...Age is irrelevant....You don't have to be any certain age to hang out with friends and have fun...The main reason we go is just to get together, dance, see the bands, and laugh:)

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by newb
I guess what I'm saying is it depends what your going to the clubs for. If I was a forty something year old looking to pick up hot young chicks........heehee...that made even me laugh...then maybe I would look a bit pathetic HAHA...I had to comment on THIS, too..........Kim's girlfriend is 28...Christoph's girlfriend is 22...Sergio's girlfriend is 18...and my guy is 20...

We don't feel 'pathetic' AT ALL...In fact...We're all VERY happy ;) :p


Age is irrelevant

[bwind22]

'Going to the club' sucks ass!

Going to a bar, or going to a concert is different. Those are fun for all ages.

When I think of going to a 'club', I picture, the shallowest environment possible, a dance club. Loud (extremely gay) music, trendy nose-in-the-air Barbie doll sluts, muscle bound meatheads looking for their next daterape victim and of course some queer ass DJ talking about the drink specials every 5 minutes... All in an environment that is too loud to be able to hear the person next to you well enough to carry on a decent conversation.


Concerts and bars are essentially ageless to me and I will probably be going to both until I'm old and gray. Dance clubs, on the other hand, suck. They are just teenage-twentysomething meat markets (and because it's too damn loud to talk to each other,) everything gets based on looks. :rolleyes:

On any given night, there's about a million things I would rather be doing than going to a club.

[Marroe]

Originally posted by bloodrayne
HAHA...I had to comment on THIS, too..........Kim's girlfriend is 28...Christoph's girlfriend is 22...Sergio's girlfriend is 18...and my guy is 20...

We don't feel 'pathetic' AT ALL...In fact...We're all VERY happy ;) :p


Age is irrelevant Good point...I'm 22 next month, and I don't really party at all, even though now is the time I should be. I'm saving it up for my forties

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by bwind22
'Going to the club' sucks ass!

Going to a bar, or going to a concert is different. Those are fun for all ages.

When I think of going to a 'club', I picture, the shallowest environment possible, a dance club. Loud (extremely gay) music, trendy nose-in-the-air Barbie doll sluts, muscle bound meatheads looking for their next daterape victim and of course some queer ass DJ talking about the drink specials every 5 minutes... All in an environment that is too loud to be able to hear the person next to you well enough to carry on a decent conversation.


WOW...You've been going to the WRONG clubs...lol...If I ever went to a club like you have described, I would hate it, TOO...We have NO "trendy nose-in-the-air Barbie doll sluts", NO snobs...NO "musclebound meatheads" most of our guys are very intelligent, talented, and creative in some way or another, SOO many musicians (male AND female)...The music rocks HARD...And our DJs never say a WORD...We just go up to their podiums when we want to request a song, and sometimes they come down and dance with us...

You should come to Cincinnati with your woman...We'll show you how to do it RIGHT ;) :D

[DraculaInDallas]

Originally posted by newb
If I was a forty something year old looking to pick up hot young chicks........heehee...that made even me laugh...then maybe I would look a bit pathetic, but I'm a happily married forty something year old just there for the tunes.
Plus the fact that the wife is usually with me......the beeotch is cramping my style...how am I suppose to score.:cool:
Happy Anniversary F.C.
LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!! come on newb, I'm 46 and I say age is irrelevant. I say you and urgeok lose the old ball & chain for the night and all three of us go out and represent the middle aged man. I bet we'll be pulling hot young chicks like dentists in Arkansas pull teeth :D I bet we'd score more tail than the young guns.....we'd be getting laid 30 minutes after we walked in the joint....come on man, get with it!!!!!!!!!!!!! of course there is the odd chance we might end up looking like these 3 guys.....:(

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by DraculaInDallas
Happy Anniversary F.C.
LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!! come on newb, I'm 46 and I say age is irrelevant. I say you and urge lose the old ball & chain for the night and all three of us go out and represent the middle aged man. I bet we'll be pulling hot young chicks like dentists in Arkansas pull teeth :D I bet we'd score more tail than the young guns.....we'd be getting laid 30 minutes after we walked in the joint....come on man, get with it!!!!!!!!!!!!!HAHA Drac...If you were at MY clubs, I could hook you up in a heartbeat...Hell, I already have some candidates in mind...heh


And, oh yeah...Happy Anniversary Feral Cat:cool:

[DraculaInDallas]

Originally posted by bloodrayne
HAHA Drac...If you were at MY clubs, I could hook you up in a heartbeat...Hell, I already have some candidates in mind...heh


And, oh yeah...Happy Anniversary Feral Cat:cool:

lmao...thanks sweetie....I know you'd hook me up REAL good!!! :p

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by DraculaInDallas
lmao...thanks sweetie....I know you'd hook me up REAL good!!! :p LOL...You could have Becca, she's 19...You could turn her attention away from ME :eek:....Dustin thinks the way she follows me around and hangs all over me, ALWAYS tries to get me to dance with her and shit is awesome...I disagree...It was fun when I was drunk...It's irritating when I'm sober...

And there are MANY other girls...Hmm...Morgana and Jonathan just broke up 2 weeks ago...Morgana is 34, and newly available...lol

This is Morgana:

[DraculaInDallas]

Originally posted by bloodrayne
LOL...You could have Becca, she's 19...You could turn her attention away from ME :eek:....Dustin thinks the way she follows me around and hangs all over me, ALWAYS tries to get me to dance with her and shit is awesome...I disagree...It was fun when I was drunk...It's irritating when I'm sober...

And there are MANY other girls...Hmm...Morgana and Jonathan just broke up 2 weeks ago...Morgana is 34, and newly available...lol

This is Morgana:

Morgana kinda looks like the Nanny :D I like it!!!!! :p :D
I might have to make a road trip to Cincy :D :D :D

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by DraculaInDallas
I might have to make a road trip to Cincy :D :D :D That's what I been TRYIN' to tell ya!


:D

[newb]

Originally posted by bloodrayne
HAHA...I had to comment on THIS, too..........Kim's girlfriend is 28...Christoph's girlfriend is 22...Sergio's girlfriend is 18...and my guy is 20...

We don't feel 'pathetic' AT ALL...In fact...We're all VERY happy ;) :p


Age is irrelevant

Of course to a point I agree age is irrelevent. I'm just talking about me in general. If I was to be out in the dating world [ after 26 years I would be totally lost ] I don't think I would be looking for anyone under ....ohh....30 anyway.
But again....thats just me.
But then again....ya never know.

I would thing if Drac, urgeok and myself were to hit the swinging club scenes.....look out....let me tell ya.....whoo yeah.

http://www.alsbar.com/bar_1/web_photo_albums_1/March2003_album/images/GrumpyOldMen_jpg.jpg

[newb]

Originally posted by DraculaInDallas
Morgana kinda looks like the Nanny :D I like it!!!!! :p :D
I might have to make a road trip to Cincy :D :D :D

As long as she don't sound like the Nanny.

[DraculaInDallas]

Originally posted by newb
As long as she don't sound like the Nanny.

I'll bring earplugs....or just make sure she's doing something with her mouth other than talking!!!!!!! :D I can handle mumbling :D

[Gren the cake]

Originally posted by newb
I would thing if Drac, urgeok and myself were to hit the swinging club scenes.....look out....let me tell ya.....whoo yeah.

http://www.alsbar.com/bar_1/web_photo_albums_1/March2003_album/images/GrumpyOldMen_jpg.jpg
LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLLLLL YUCK

^_^ too bad theres places where that actually happens. i like my young crowd where no ones face is falling

that and im pretty sure any pacemakers or hip implants would set off the metal detectors, right?

[IDrinkYourBlood]

Originally posted by Gren the cake
LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLLLLL YUCK

^_^ too bad theres places where that actually happens. i like my young crowd where no ones face is falling

that and im pretty sure any pacemakers or hip implants would set off the metal detectors, right? Are you making fun of me?

[Gren the cake]

what

[IDrinkYourBlood]

Originally posted by Gren the cake
what ah hem putter screwed up and posted a little early.

[Gren the cake]

woahhhhh weird!

anyway, no im not making fun of u. i mean maybe i am, but i dont really know who you are enough to make fun of you

[IDrinkYourBlood]

Originally posted by Gren the cake
woahhhhh weird!

anyway, no im not making fun of u. i mean maybe i am, but i dont really know who you are enough to make fun of you well thats me in the pick with my "face falling off" as you put it. :mad:

[Gren the cake]

is it really? LOL

actually, i only glanced at the pic, saw only that they were old

but yeh, looking at the face now, it is falling! ^_^. when i get old, im gonna do like all the hollywood stars do and get a face lift

then again, my mom is pretty old but hers isnt falling, i think partly is genes.

[IDrinkYourBlood]

Originally posted by Gren the cake
is it really? LOL

actually, i only glanced at the pic, saw only that they were old

but yeh, looking at the face now, it is falling! ^_^. when i get old, im gonna do like all the hollywood stars do and get a face lift

then again, my mom is pretty old but hers isnt falling, i think partly is genes. what if you face started sagging tomorrow....along with your ass and breasts. whould would you do?WHAT WOULD you do?

[Gren the cake]

thats a very hard question considering it wont happen for a long time..

hmmm, i dunno, if hitting the gym didnt work, id get some plastic done. not even gonna lie.

[IDrinkYourBlood]

You depend on your looks that much?

[Gren the cake]

hell yeh. i date some hot ass dudes and i wouldnt get em if i was all ugly pugly, pug ugly, or just plain ugly ugly.

got to be a liar to look at someone for only what is inside them and completely disregarding the outside. me, i want both.

[IDrinkYourBlood]

Originally posted by Gren the cake
hell yeh. i date some hot ass dudes and i wouldnt get em if i was all ugly pugly, pug ugly, or just plain ugly ugly.

got to be a liar to look at someone for only what is inside them and completely disregarding the outside. me, i want both. Yeah I too also want both. Wait....nevermind I allready have both :D

[Gren the cake]

^_^ lucky you!!!

[Elvis_Christ]

Originally posted by Gren the cake
thats a very hard question considering it wont happen for a long time..

hmmm, i dunno, if hitting the gym didnt work, id get some plastic done. not even gonna lie.

Plastic surgery is gross.

[Gren the cake]

not if its done correctly! thats why it works so well in hollywood

well, for the mOST part...

www.awfulplasticsurgery.com

[Elvis_Christ]

Nah... fuck that shit people should just age gracefully.

[Gren the cake]

yeh, i feel ya. but some people dont age gracefully at all, and thats sad.

[Elvis_Christ]

Vanity is a weird thing. It can't be good for you having "alterations" done. It must fucking hurt like hell.

[urgeok]

Originally posted by Elvis_Christ
Vanity is a weird thing. It can't be good for you having "alterations" done. It must fucking hurt like hell.

for the most part people end up looking like plastic freaks anyway ..
the only thing that can be done and look natural is colouring your hair ...

[Elvis_Christ]

'till it falls out!

[urgeok]

back to the origional question ...

i NEVER liked the meat market clubs ever .. i love dancing so if there are dance clubs for all ages of people (the music is good and varied) then i'd still do that.

and if i'm with a bunch of friends and just want to sit and yak
then a pub style place is cool too..

but the other realities are ..i dont drink and drive ... and there are no decent bars close ... and i want to be up early the next day for my kid .. so being out all night is out of the question these days ..

the other thing is that i can barely stay up at night these days ..

i guess i'd still be into it if the conditions were right .. but never in a 'meat market' those places suck for anyone with more depth than a dinner plate.

[Sedated_replica]

Originally posted by Gren the cake
not if its done correctly! thats why it works so well in hollywood

well, for the mOST part...

www.awfulplasticsurgery.com

Back too the New statements

Plastic surgery is awful, its like cancer. Every girl thinks its okay too change the way they look.

Just because you look different, doesn't make you a better person. And just because more guys look at you, doesn't mean they like you for the right reasons.

All the girl look the same after plastic surgery, who the fuck would want that? there weird always "confused" striaght-up eye brows.

Vanity is a horrible,horrible thing. We focus too much on how we look.... and sadly nothing else

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by Sedated_replica
Back too the New statements

Plastic surgery is awful, its like cancer. Every girl thinks its okay too change the way they look.

Just because you look different, doesn't make you a better person. And just because more guys look at you, doesn't mean they like you for the right reasons.

All the girl look the same after plastic surgery, who the fuck would want that? there weird always "confused" striaght-up eye brows.

Vanity is a horrible,horrible thing. We focus too much on how we look.... and sadly nothing else Thank you...

I'll be happy with ME no matter what age I am, or how I look...That goes double for my guy....No matter what he looks like...Or how old he gets...He's still the greatest thing that ever happened to me....Age and looks won't make me forget THAT



And I would like to comment on something that Urge said....Whether you are going to a club, a bar, or just hanging out with friends ANYWHERE...If you drink alcohol...DO NOT DRIVE....Even if you don't kill YOURSELF...Would you be able to live with knowing that you killed someone else...Possibly even a child?...I have kids, and it pisses me off knowing that some people will put MY kids life at risk, due to their irresponsibility...

I have drank before...But...I do NOT drink and drive......If you have no one else to drive you home...There are ALWAYS cabs...

[bloodrayne]

Josh sent me a picture today...I thought of this thread...


Josh is another one of my friends at our clubs.....He's the 6'6" guy that I was dancing with at Jeckyll And Hyde's when I hit the floor and busted my ass (remember that huge, nasty bruise?)...And I didn't even break my hip!!!:eek: :p

Anyway...He's 30...And DEFINITELY not 'too old for the clubs'...He's an EXCELLENT dancer...