need sum input

[babygirl20]

to ne one who may want to help me solve this problem i have. How can you tell when a guy is playing you?

[AUSTIN316426808]

being a guy who doesn't ''play'' women the only thing I can come up with is maybe if he makes a bunch of excuses.

[babygirl20]

Originally posted by AUSTIN316426808
being a guy who doesn't ''play'' women the only thing I can come up with is maybe if he makes a bunch of excuses.

What exactly do you mean by excuses?

[AUSTIN316426808]

Originally posted by babygirl20
What exactly do you mean by excuses?


for example if he makes excuses often when he's suppose to see or call you.

If he actually likes you there shouldn't be that many excuses keeping him from you unless he's in the military or something like that.

[ShankS]

hire him, he'll tell you.

[babygirl20]

Originally posted by AUSTIN316426808
for example if he makes excuses often when he's suppose to see or call you.

If he actually likes you there shouldn't be that many excuses keeping him from you unless he's in the military or something like that.

Well, i've been w/ him for 6 years now. He all of the sudden has to always go somewhere else when he gets a phone call. He always picks his phone up real quick when it rings like he doesn't want me to see who is calling. B 4 we got together he did flirt alot but he calmed down. I think the answers right in my face but i don't want ot accept it.

[ShankS]

is he keen on mother-in-laws or future ones?

[AUSTIN316426808]

Originally posted by babygirl20
Well, i've been w/ him for 6 years now. He all of the sudden has to always go somewhere else when he gets a phone call. He always picks his phone up real quick when it rings like he doesn't want me to see who is calling. B 4 we got together he did flirt alot but he calmed down. I think the answers right in my face but i don't want ot accept it.


I'm not an expert or anything but if you've been with him for six years and he just started doing that right out of the blue then my guess would be he's either messin around or he's a covert ops agent. But that's just my opinion.

[AUSTIN316426808]

Originally posted by ShankS
hire him, he'll tell you.

If you've been with him that long then maybe you should actually try doing what shanks said cause I know you don't wanna just break up after all that time without being sure.

[babygirl20]

Originally posted by ShankS
is he keen on mother-in-laws or future ones?

Not sure what you are asking?:confused:

[AmarylandPsycho]

Just ask him, cut the Bs and tell him you both need the truth.

[Sedated_replica]

^ yeah that will work perfectly :rolleyes:

Have you ever heard of liars before?

[knee jerk]

Oh you poor kid...

Yeah....men.......we're a pretty sad lot.
We screw up all the time. But sometimes its for a reason. If he's cheating on you and you need to break it off and end up hating his guts forever then that's probably what would have eventually happened anyway.
You can't change that.
I'm only sorry that you've put in so much time. He'll probably hate himself for all of this and for wasting your time as well. Even when we screw things up beyond belief we usually aren't doing it just to be evil. You've been with him this long; you probably know him very well. If he's never been abusive in any way then this is just his heart changing.
We can be very apologetic. Don't allow this to cloud your judgement. Ask directly, then get the fuck outta there! If he's cheating now (he probably is) then you guys just weren't meant to be. I can't tell you how sorry I am for you.

Now go. Ask. Now.

[ShankS]

Originally posted by babygirl20
Not sure what you are asking?:confused:

you know... ;) fond of her ;) ;)

[babygirl20]

Originally posted by knee jerk
Oh you poor kid...

Yeah....men.......we're a pretty sad lot.
We screw up all the time. But sometimes its for a reason. If he's cheating on you and you need to break it off and end up hating his guts forever then that's probably what would have eventually happened anyway.
You can't change that.
I'm only sorry that you've put in so much time. He'll probably hate himself for all of this and for wasting your time as well. Even when we screw things up beyond belief we usually aren't doing it just to be evil. You've been with him this long; you probably know him very well. If he's never been abusive in any way then this is just his heart changing.
We can be very apologetic. Don't allow this to cloud your judgement. Ask directly, then get the fuck outta there! If he's cheating now (he probably is) then you guys just weren't meant to be. I can't tell you how sorry I am for you.

Now go. Ask. Now.

Thank you so much for your input. Well, for all ya'lls input really!

[The STE]

how long has it been going on?

[flabby_man22]

personally i think you should ask him whats up, and if you dont like the reply just slice his hand off and sell it on e-bay
just a suggestion

[babygirl20]

Originally posted by The STE
how long has it been going on?

about two months now

[Hate_Breeder]

If you happen to find a bed full of already-been-used condoms and a girls panties that arent yours.......you should be able to tell.

[babygirl20]

Originally posted by Hate_Breeder
If you happen to find a bed full of already-been-used condoms and a girls panties that arent yours.......you should be able to tell.

Well of course, I do give him credit, he ain't that stupid ..............I don't think???:confused:

[ShankS]

get him a chastity belt, and eat the key.

[The STE]

Originally posted by babygirl20
Well of course, I do give him credit, he ain't that stupid ..............I don't think???:confused:

Assuming he's cheating, he's stupid enough to still be getting the calls on his regular-type phone. Haven't you guys seen Phone Booth?

[babygirl20]

Originally posted by The STE
Assuming he's cheating, he's stupid enough to still be getting the calls on his regular-type phone. Haven't you guys seen Phone Booth?

Guess I'm the one that is stupid. Not really, I'm gone beat his ass when I get home. Bet That!:mad: ;) :D

[massacre man]

when he says "i'm playing you"

[_Leatha_Face_]

how old is he?

and you?

[massacre man]

Originally posted by _Leatha_Face_
how old is he?

and you? :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:

[babygirl20]

Originally posted by _Leatha_Face_
how old is he?

and you?

I'm 20 and he's 21.

[The STE]

maybe he's doing/dealing drugs, or selling underage asian women into S&M leather slavery. I mean, really, it's the 21st century, not EVERY sneaky-type thing means one is cheating on one's significant other anymore.

[immortalem]

I think you should ask your boyfriend what is going on. If he lies (and I think you will be able to tell) then I know how hard it will be but I think you should move on. There is obviously something going on and he is not talking to you about it. I'm not sure if he is cheating or not but whatever it is I'm pretty sure it is probaly not good. I had a boyfriend who started doing the same thing you are describing and I tried talking to him but he refused. Finally, I found out he was cheating and then he left me. I felt so betrayed and stupid. We were together for 7 years and I could not believe he did this to me. I am telling you this because I refused to see something was going on and I tried to hold on but that caused me more pain. You know there is something going on, just ask him and if he doesn't tell you, leave. You do not want to be a doormat for him to walk on. Refuse to let his behavior continue. I wish you luck in what ever you do and I hope that it turns out good.

[babygirl20]

Originally posted by immortalem
I think you should ask your boyfriend what is going on. If he lies (and I think you will be able to tell) then I know how hard it will be but I think you should move on. There is obviously something going on and he is not talking to you about it. I'm not sure if he is cheating or not but whatever it is I'm pretty sure it is probaly not good. I had a boyfriend who started doing the same thing you are describing and I tried talking to him but he refused. Finally, I found out he was cheating and then he left me. I felt so betrayed and stupid. We were together for 7 years and I could not believe he did this to me. I am telling you this because I refused to see something was going on and I tried to hold on but that caused me more pain. You know there is something going on, just ask him and if he doesn't tell you, leave. You do not want to be a doormat for him to walk on. Refuse to let his behavior continue. I wish you luck in what ever you do and I hope that it turns out good.

Thank you for taking the time to let me know what you really thinks going on. Maybe it will turn out all right. I know I want to beat the holy hell out of him!:D

[The STE]

Try slashing his tires. It worked wonders for me*























*-not really, didn't slash her tires (didn't have any)

[massacre man]

you should fart in his mouth until he confesses

[babygirl20]

Originally posted by massacre man
you should fart in his mouth until he confesses

*my eyes get really big* *i laugh to myself and call u an idiot*
*i then walk away shaking my head!*;)

[massacre man]

Originally posted by babygirl20
*my eyes get really big* *i laugh to myself and call u an idiot*
*i then walk away shaking my head!*;) you should hold it in for real long so it's extra stinky

[babygirl20]

Originally posted by massacre man
you should hold it in for real long so it's extra stinky

you.....disgust.....me.....dude!!!!!;) :D :eek:

[The STE]

and eat chili and white castle hamburgers and broccoli

[massacre man]

Originally posted by The STE
and eat chili and white castle hamburgers and broccoli and x-lax

[The STE]

Wouldn't work in relation to your idea. It's impolite to talk with your mouth full

[massacre man]

Originally posted by The STE
Wouldn't work in relation to your idea. It's impolite to talk with your mouth full that's what swallowing is for

[The STE]

I bet you'd know all about swallowing.



OMG WTF OWNED 2006~! FU†UR3 PWN4G3~!

[massacre man]

Originally posted by The STE
I bet you'd know all about swallowing.



OMG WTF OWNED 2006~! FU†UR3 PWN4G3~! ummm hmmmmm yeah uhhhhh i know you are but what am i?

[The STE]

Takes one to know one~! OMG R3\/3R53 P\/\/|\|4G3 3001~!!!

[massacre man]

Originally posted by The STE
Takes one to know one~! OMG R3\/3R53 P\/\/|\|4G3 3001~!!! well you can't have any french fries BURN!!!!!!

[The STE]

French ppl r ghey, and I like steak fries anyways OMG 3RD DEGREE BURN W/ LEMON JUICE

[X¤MurderDoll¤X]

Originally posted by The STE
French ppl r ghey, and I like steak fries anyways OMG 3RD DEGREE BURN W/ LEMON JUICE

lol

[massacre man]

Originally posted by The STE
French ppl r ghey, and I like steak fries anyways OMG 3RD DEGREE BURN W/ LEMON JUICE stupid head #13 hot lunch special HOT NAPKIN