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The_Return
01-22-2005, 01:48 PM
When something upsetting happens in your life, how do you deal with it? Be it something relativly minor, like getting dumped or something, or be it something major, like having loved ones die?

Just wondering.


Btw, I go into denial usually. Pretend it doesnt bother me. Hey, it works, I always stay friends with my ex's, so I guess it works...

I_Still_Know!
01-22-2005, 02:16 PM
I stop doing stuff.

I have had a loved one, who was very close to me die, and I was there when it happened.

For the next few years, I was on this earth, but was not living. Weekends would be spent at home alone when friends would be out having fun. I had no desire or energy to socialise with anyone. School became the least of my worries and then after that the same was true with work.

It was something like 5 years later that I realised that 'not living' was not helping anyone and started to make an effort with friends and going out etc.

When the minor things happen I do the same thing, just retreat from everything and everyone for a while - but for nowhere near as long. Just usually for a few days.

Hate_Breeder
01-22-2005, 02:45 PM
Marijuana.

Not a positive outlook.....but an effective one

IDrinkYourBlood
01-22-2005, 03:27 PM
I usually listen to music, play guitar, watch movies or play PS2......So really nothing changes for me.
My feelings are dead, I have no remorse......Its a terrible thing:)

Gren the cake
01-22-2005, 04:00 PM
deal with it for a bit, do somethign else. every so often gotta deal with it again (like, grieving) but its healthy that way. u oknw, instead of bottlin shit in or resorting to drugs/alcohol/murdering people

The STE
01-22-2005, 04:15 PM
I shrug it off while bottling up all emotion deep inside

massacre man
01-22-2005, 04:46 PM
Originally posted by The STE
I shrug it off while bottling up all emotion deep inside of course


i touch myself

Sedated_replica
01-22-2005, 05:22 PM
I used to smoke TONS of weed and pop pain killers like candy.

but after 5 years of wasting my life doing that, I missed feeling emotions that make you feel alive.

But I still pop valium from time to time, "Makes you feel good" :D

furballothrills
01-22-2005, 05:47 PM
*No comment*
Deal with it in the ways that you can, take your mind off of it and do something fun.

The_Return
01-22-2005, 05:56 PM
Originally posted by furballothrills
*No comment*



*Cue Music*

You're so vain, I bet you think this thread is about you...

furballothrills
01-22-2005, 06:00 PM
heh heh heh, you know me all too well, and I do mean too well.
You walked into the party, like you were walking onto a yacht...
sorry, I like the word yacht lol, I don't type it often enough. Yacht yacht yacht yacht...

The_Return
01-22-2005, 06:02 PM
Originally posted by furballothrills
heh heh heh, you know me all too well, and I do mean too well.

sorry, I like the word yacht lol, I don't type it often enough. Yacht yacht yacht yacht...

Funny, thats alot like listening to you talk....Yacht yacht yacht....yadda yadda yadda....same thing, wouldnt you say?

furballothrills
01-22-2005, 06:08 PM
Well sorry if I'm not up to your standard, Prince Charming. You're not exactly 100% coherent either.

The_Return
01-22-2005, 06:14 PM
Originally posted by furballothrills
Well sorry if I'm not up to your standard, Prince Charming. You're not exactly 100% coherent either.

Im not coherant??

What the fuck do you call your idiotic "random noises"? What kind of shit is that? Woolooloo? Oh ya, thats really funny:rolleyes:

And what about your little Secret Window obsession? Ive always hated that movie, Im glad you're dumb as a brick so you couldnt tell that I was only pretending to enjoy it when you forced me to sit through it. Dont believe me? Ask Jay, he was there the 1st time I saw it. I hated it.

Happy now, Princess?

furballothrills
01-22-2005, 06:17 PM
1) You make more random noises than me, I just make them at the best times, and for the record, I stopped about two weeks ago.
2) You had a choice whether you wanted to go or not, I didn't force you to do anything. Oh and don't bother trying to act as though you hated it. If you did, would there be so many insiders? I know when you're laughing at something funny and when you're laughing at something when you hate it.
3) Who the fuck do you think you're calling Princess? If I were you, I'd at least go for Bitch.

Good enough for your standards, Oh Mighty One?

The_Return
01-22-2005, 06:28 PM
Originally posted by furballothrills
1) You make more random noises than me, I just make them at the best times, and for the record, I stopped about two weeks ago.
2) You had a choice whether you wanted to go or not, I didn't force you to do anything. Oh and don't bother trying to act as though you hated it. If you did, would there be so many insiders? I know when you're laughing at something funny and when you're laughing at something when you hate it.
3) Who the fuck do you think you're calling Princess? If I were you, I'd at least go for Bitch.

Good enough for your standards, Oh Mighty One?

Not quite, you hypocritical bitch. So, you can call me Prince Charming, but no way, get all defensive when I call you the same only feminine. Not like there was any point fixing it, you're manly enough.

Oh ya, I had a choice to go. But you didnt tell me we were watching that fucking sad excuse for a movie. I would have thought of some reason to stay home if I knew, but no, course not. Not like you could be nice to anyone else or anything, treat everyone like shit, than expect to have them lick your shoes clean? Sorry to break it to ya, but it doesnt work that way.

Awww, little baby Furball finds out she was wrong? Suck it up, darlin

massacre man
01-22-2005, 06:33 PM
next horror.com fight poster below

furballothrills
01-22-2005, 06:33 PM
wow, you call that defensive? Hypocritical bitch seems a bit better, could use work though. Don't go about calling me manly, unless you want to be the woman in the relationship. Wouldn't take much. For your information, I told you like two days before the actual day that we were going to watch the movie, and you said you had been meaning to rent it *again*. Name one person I've manipulated, and if you say you, you've fucked yourself because you manipulated me into asking you to the cabaret and asking you out, unless you were just using me for your own personal gain? Maybe I was wrong, but the only reason I would be was picking you. Go to hell.

massacre man
01-22-2005, 06:36 PM
welcome back to horror.com deathmatch if you are just joining us furball has just struck back at the return

will the return make a comeback and kill furball or does furball already have this deathmatch wrapped up?


stay tuned for The STE vs Hate_Breeder as tonight's main event

The_Return
01-22-2005, 06:41 PM
Originally posted by furballothrills
wow, you call that defensive? Hypocritical bitch seems a bit better, could use work though. Don't go about calling me manly, unless you want to be the woman in the relationship. Wouldn't take much. For your information, I told you like two days before the actual day that we were going to watch the movie, and you said you had been meaning to rent it *again*. Name one person I've manipulated, and if you say you, you've fucked yourself because you manipulated me into asking you to the cabaret and asking you out, unless you were just using me for your own personal gain? Maybe I was wrong, but the only reason I would be was picking you. Go to hell.

Hey, I was your second choice for Cab anyway. I just did that to make you feel better about yourself, I pitied you. Come on, like anyone would ever ask YOU out? Ha!

With the Secret Window thing, I probably was only half listening to what you were saying anyway. Itz so reare that you ever say anything worthwhile, I usually just tune you out, with all that mindless blabbering. Believe me, if Id thought ahead, there would be absolutly no chance I would have gone to that party. Movie sucked, my arm fucking hurt, and you arent even a good kisser. What the hell are you good for? Nothing I can think of

friday13thfan
01-22-2005, 06:42 PM
Originally posted by massacre man
welcome back to horror.com deathmatch if you are just joining us furball has just struck back at the return

will the return make a comeback and kill furball or does furball already have this deathmatch wrapped up?


stay tuned for The STE vs Hate_Breeder as tonight's main event

Yes MM that will be a match to see.. all you members out there you better not miss this one cause its going to my a killer

furballothrills
01-22-2005, 06:47 PM
Ooh, are you referencing me to trash? You being my second choice for Cab isn't good on your behalf, because I was planning on not going, and I've had more boyfriends than you. You tuning me out? I'm usually the one doing that, but.. oh wait I can't! You talk too damn loud! If I'm such a bad girl friend and low and all that shit, 1) why were you so excited about going out with me? and 2) how you you know, because it's not very often that you get someone to hang out with like that. How the fuck do you tell if I'm a good kisser by a peck, and your first one, at that. Greener. If I'm good for nothing, what are you good for? An annoying cling on, perhaps?

massacre man
01-22-2005, 06:47 PM
Originally posted by friday13thfan
Yes MM that will be a match to see.. all you members out there you better not miss this one cause its going to my a killer your my co-host

The_Return
01-22-2005, 06:56 PM
Originally posted by furballothrills
Ooh, are you referencing me to trash? You being my second choice for Cab isn't good on your behalf, because I was planning on not going, and I've had more boyfriends than you. You tuning me out? I'm usually the one doing that, but.. oh wait I can't! You talk too damn loud! If I'm such a bad girl friend and low and all that shit, 1) why were you so excited about going out with me? and 2) how you you know, because it's not very often that you get someone to hang out with like that. How the fuck do you tell if I'm a good kisser by a peck, and your first one, at that. Greener. If I'm good for nothing, what are you good for? An annoying cling on, perhaps?

On the kissing subject, Ill only say two words : You missed.


how you you know, because it's not very often that you get someone to hang out with like that.

What the fuck? That doesnt even make sence, no wonder you're worried about exams! Hell, Im surprised you can even read this post! Are you Sure you dont want me to type slower, I know you cant read very fast:rolleyes:

Oh, another thing on the kissing subject: My god dams STAGE KISS in Our Town was better than with you. But I guess that could have been my fault, I was trying to get away from that mangled mess you call a face as quick as I could.

massacre man
01-22-2005, 06:58 PM
Originally posted by The_Return
On the kissing subject, Ill only say two words : You missed.




What the fuck? That doesnt even make sence, no wonder you're worried about exams! Hell, Im surprised you can even read this post! Are you Sure you dont want me to type slower, I know you cant read very fast:rolleyes:

Oh, another thing on the kissing subject: My god dams STAGE KISS in Our Town was better than with you. But I guess that could have been my fault, I was trying to get away from that mangled mess you call a face as quick as I could. furball has ripped off the return's left arm but now the return has taken both of furball's legs and is beating her with them!

furballothrills
01-22-2005, 07:02 PM
Oh, but you're the one who calls me beautiful and all that sappy shit I've never wanted to hear. I'm not worried about exams, though you should, because I have a higher average than you in *every* subject. The stage kiss was forced, and you were too green to do it even in the rehearsals. You missed? What the fuck is that? Oh and how 'bout that handshake? You're too shy to kiss me at a public place, so you try to shake my hand? Who'd want to touch that, no one knows where it's been. You type slow enough as it is, I'd rather not be here all night.
*how do you know: how would you know if I'm a bad girl friend, you've hardly had any, let alone enough, or the quality to compare.

massacre man
01-22-2005, 07:07 PM
furball has somehow worked her own legs when they were not attached to her body and kicked vamp VAMP IS DOWN AND STILL BEING STOMPED ON BY FURBALL'S LEGS

massacre man
01-22-2005, 07:13 PM
Hate_Breeder is missing and so are our chainsaws

STE is still waiting to fight on the sidelines of this fight

The_Return
01-22-2005, 07:16 PM
Originally posted by furballothrills
Oh, but you're the one who calls me beautiful and all that sappy shit I've never wanted to hear. I'm not worried about exams, though you should, because I have a higher average than you in *every* subject. The stage kiss was forced, and you were too green to do it even in the rehearsals. You missed? What the fuck is that? Oh and how 'bout that handshake? You're too shy to kiss me at a public place, so you try to shake my hand? Who'd want to touch that, no one knows where it's been. You type slow enough as it is, I'd rather not be here all night.
*how do you know: how would you know if I'm a bad girl friend, you've hardly had any, let alone enough, or the quality to compare.

When have I called you beautiful? God, it must have been over MSN, I dont think I could keep a straight face trying to say that in person.

Not worried about exams? You never stop bitching about them! "Oh, I just studied for 5 hours straight, I still think Im gonna fail". Ya, you arent worried at all:rolleyes:

Stage Kiss : We rehersed that a quite a few rehersals, but not like you'd know that. You never showed up, 3 rehersals at the most, and those were at the start of the year!

Handshake : No shit Im not going to kiss you in public. You think I WANT people to know Id been that close to such a beast? Ya right. Plus my parents were there, you idiot. I wouldnt kiss anyone infront of my fucking parents!

And have you ever heared the saying Quality over Quantity? You were the shortest relationship Ive ever been in, and before me you'd lasted what? I think you said 2 weeks or something? If youve had so many boyfriends, and your longest relationship lasted 2 weeks, you're some kind of slut.

I_Still_Know!
01-22-2005, 07:16 PM
Originally posted by massacre man
next horror.com fight poster below

LOL!!!

The_Return
01-22-2005, 07:18 PM
And btw Massacreman, what the hell do you think you're doing? If I knew where you lived, Id hunt you down.

nine9
01-22-2005, 07:19 PM
I just lock it all out and become more introverted.....works for me :cool:

massacre man
01-22-2005, 07:20 PM
Originally posted by The_Return
When have I called you beautiful? God, it must have been over MSN, I dont think I could keep a straight face trying to say that in person.

Not worried about exams? You never stop bitching about them! "Oh, I just studied for 5 hours straight, I still think Im gonna fail". Ya, you arent worried at all:rolleyes:

Stage Kiss : We rehersed that a quite a few rehersals, but not like you'd know that. You never showed up, 3 rehersals at the most, and those were at the start of the year!

Handshake : No shit Im not going to kiss you in public. You think I WANT people to know Id been that close to such a beast? Ya right. Plus my parents were there, you idiot. I wouldnt kiss anyone infront of my fucking parents!

And have you ever heared the saying Quality over Quantity? You were the shortest relationship Ive ever been in, and before me you'd lasted what? I think you said 2 weeks or something? If youve had so many boyfriends, and your longest relationship lasted 2 weeks, you're some kind of slut. the return has just grabbed one of furball's legs and chopped off furball's head

the main event is cancelled

i'm Massacre Man GOOD FIGHT. GOOD NIGHT

massacre man
01-22-2005, 07:21 PM
Originally posted by The_Return
And btw Massacreman, what the hell do you think you're doing? If I knew where you lived, Id hunt you down. what did i do? you won

I_Still_Know!
01-22-2005, 07:22 PM
Originally posted by The_Return
And btw Massacreman, what the hell do you think you're doing? If I knew where you lived, Id hunt you down.

Dude, I think he is trying to lighten the thread...

I don't think it is working though!!

massacre man
01-22-2005, 07:26 PM
Originally posted by I_Still_Know!
Dude, I think he is trying to lighten the thread...

I don't think it is working though!! dude,i am trying to lighten the thread


i don't think it is working though!!

furballothrills
01-22-2005, 07:26 PM
You are the biggest fucker I've ever met in my life.
Beautiful: Hmm... why wouldn't you not let me smile? Was it because my face was too ugly without a smile? In that case, why would you go out with such an ugly person?
Exams: It's called stress. I have a lot of it, but you wouldn't know what that is. I worry about my marks, and my parents would flip if I didn't pass my exams. I'd rather not scrape by with a low C.
Stage Kiss: What? I went to every rehearsal but one that I was supposed to go to. You two only kissed like twice before the actual performance, and it looked so fake I had to stop myself from laughing at your discomfort.
Handshake: I dunno, you tell me. I'd rather punch you in the face then kiss you in public now, but then I wasn't really looking forward to it either.. plus you really don't know what to do. Your parents were not there! They left to go to the car for a very specific purpose, but no, you have to go ahead and give me a handshake!
Quality: What sort of quality do you see in three months of living away from eachother and talking to your girlfriend maybe twice a week? Since I was the -first girl friend- you hugged, that's really not saying much for your previous relationships!

furballothrills
01-22-2005, 07:28 PM
who said I was finished?

massacre man
01-22-2005, 07:28 PM
Originally posted by furballothrills
You are the biggest fucker I've ever met in my life.
Beautiful: Hmm... why wouldn't you not let me smile? Was it because my face was too ugly without a smile? In that case, why would you go out with such an ugly person?
Exams: It's called stress. I have a lot of it, but you wouldn't know what that is. I worry about my marks, and my parents would flip if I didn't pass my exams. I'd rather not scrape by with a low C.
Stage Kiss: What? I went to every rehearsal but one that I was supposed to go to. You two only kissed like twice before the actual performance, and it looked so fake I had to stop myself from laughing at your discomfort.
Handshake: I dunno, you tell me. I'd rather punch you in the face then kiss you in public now, but then I wasn't really looking forward to it either.. plus you really don't know what to do. Your parents were not there! They left to go to the car for a very specific purpose, but no, you have to go ahead and give me a handshake!
Quality: What sort of quality do you see in three months of living away from eachother and talking to your girlfriend maybe twice a week? Since I was the -first girl friend- you hugged, that's really not saying much for your previous relationships! but you're dead ZOMBA!!!! ZOMBA!!!! ZOMBAY!!!!

The_Return
01-22-2005, 07:33 PM
Ok, anyway, I think this was about time to give this up.

We were chatting over MSN, and I suggested that we have a huge arugument on here, staged and everything. But now, I think it may have gone overboard [Somethings that Ive said, aswell as some from Furball], so this is a good time to REVEAL THE HOAX:p :p

Hope you all enjoyed the show;)

furballothrills
01-22-2005, 07:34 PM
*bows* lol
heh heh gotta love the drama! we keep this forum alive and kickin'!

massacre man
01-22-2005, 07:39 PM
Originally posted by The_Return
Ok, anyway, I think this was about time to give this up.

We were chatting over MSN, and I suggested that we have a huge arugument on here, staged and everything. But now, I think it may have gone overboard [Somethings that Ive said, aswell as some from Furball], so this is a good time to REVEAL THE HOAX:p :p

Hope you all enjoyed the show;) you do realise you just killed furball right? ok that's it *jumps into ring,grabs vamp's head and slams it on floor of ring until he is dead* ok now i wonder if Stone COld found Hate_Breeder yet

furballothrills
01-22-2005, 07:41 PM
hey, decapitated and mutilated furballs can still work, however dead penguins wouldn't work too well.

Haphazard
01-22-2005, 07:44 PM
Originally posted by The_Return
When something upsetting happens in your life, how do you deal with it? Be it something relativly minor, like getting dumped or something, or be it something major, like having loved ones die?

Just wondering.


Btw, I go into denial usually. Pretend it doesnt bother me. Hey, it works, I always stay friends with my ex's, so I guess it works...

My biggest coping methods for troubling times is taking it head on, soaking in the misery, and just flat-out accepting it and understanding it. I have had way too many of these incidents within the last few years, the hardest being a divorce from my partner of 10 years.

The marriage itself only lasted about 2 years...but it was a tough time getting over that because we really didn't have too many problems compared to most married couples. But, everything happens for a reason and I just literally listened to every possible sad song, read old letters from her, looked at pictures...cried when I needed to, and then BAM...it is now all in the past.

So, anyway...I take the same approach with everything bad in my life. I take it on...and knock it the fuck out! I also have a thing I do called "Black Tuesday," partly because I hate Tuesdays. But, I sit in complete darkness in my room, turn on some mood-heavy music, and I draw whatever comes to mind...not being able to see exactly what I'm drawing until I have finished "coping" and turn the lights back on.

This accomplishes some much needed time alone, and some insight into my feelings. Then I assess my mood and try to change things in my life that may be causing some problems.

Damn...I didn't realize I was rambling so much, sorry.

But, good topic.

I_Still_Know!
01-22-2005, 09:18 PM
Not rambling. Very good way to deal with things.

I should take a leaf out of your book...

I am gonna try!! Tackle things head on instead of hiding from the world until it goes away.

DraculaInDallas
01-22-2005, 09:21 PM
Originally posted by The_Return
Im not coherant??

What the fuck do you call your idiotic "random noises"? What kind of shit is that? Woolooloo? Oh ya, thats really funny:rolleyes:

And what about your little Secret Window obsession? Ive always hated that movie, Im glad you're dumb as a brick so you couldnt tell that I was only pretending to enjoy it when you forced me to sit through it. Dont believe me? Ask Jay, he was there the 1st time I saw it. I hated it.

Happy now, Princess?

LMFAO!!!!!! :D

nine9
01-22-2005, 09:23 PM
Originally posted by Haphazard
My biggest coping methods for troubling times is taking it head on, soaking in the misery, and just flat-out accepting it and understanding it. I have had way too many of these incidents within the last few years, the hardest being a divorce from my partner of 10 years.

The marriage itself only lasted about 2 years...but it was a tough time getting over that because we really didn't have too many problems compared to most married couples. But, everything happens for a reason and I just literally listened to every possible sad song, read old letters from her, looked at pictures...cried when I needed to, and then BAM...it is now all in the past.

So, anyway...I take the same approach with everything bad in my life. I take it on...and knock it the fuck out! I also have a thing I do called "Black Tuesday," partly because I hate Tuesdays. But, I sit in complete darkness in my room, turn on some mood-heavy music, and I draw whatever comes to mind...not being able to see exactly what I'm drawing until I have finished "coping" and turn the lights back on.

This accomplishes some much needed time alone, and some insight into my feelings. Then I assess my mood and try to change things in my life that may be causing some problems.

Damn...I didn't realize I was rambling so much, sorry.

But, good topic.

Holy shit! you sound like my ex! Sure wish he would just get over it all . You seem to know yourself pretty well. :)

DraculaInDallas
01-22-2005, 09:23 PM
Originally posted by furballothrills
1) You make more random noises than me, I just make them at the best times, and for the record, I stopped about two weeks ago.
2) You had a choice whether you wanted to go or not, I didn't force you to do anything. Oh and don't bother trying to act as though you hated it. If you did, would there be so many insiders? I know when you're laughing at something funny and when you're laughing at something when you hate it.
3) Who the fuck do you think you're calling Princess? If I were you, I'd at least go for Bitch.

Good enough for your standards, Oh Mighty One?

still LMFAO!!!!!!! :D you young'ins are quite amusing at times. You would think you two have been married for 30 years!!!!!! :D

urgeok
01-22-2005, 09:30 PM
back to our regularly scheduled program ..

how do i cope ... i look at people more unfortunate then me with the understanding thet there are these people out there that would consider my worst day their best.

it puts a real perspective on things.

try it - it works...

no matter how bad it gets .. i'm not lying in a field somewhere coated in flies, dying because i havent eaten in a week.



and on that cheery note ..

i want you people to note that i actually brought a derailed thread back on track.

Thats a first !!

nine9
01-22-2005, 09:35 PM
Originally posted by urgeok
back to our regularly scheduled program ..

how do i cope ... i look at people more unfortunate then me with the understanding thet there are these people out there that would consider my worst day their best.

it puts a real perspective on things.

try it - it works...

no matter how bad it gets .. i'm not lying in a field somewhere coated in flies, dying because i havent eaten in a week.



and on that cheery note ..

i want you people to note that i actually brought a derailed thread back on track.

Thats a first !!

You must have completely lost your mind finally................ the only explanation...............:eek:

urgeok
01-22-2005, 09:43 PM
Originally posted by nine9
You must have completely lost your mind finally................ the only explanation...............:eek:


that m'lady, is a very real possibility !

IDrinkYourBlood
01-22-2005, 10:37 PM
To cheer myself up i go spit on the homeless.

Sedated_replica
01-22-2005, 10:45 PM
WHAT THE FUCK ARE SOME OF YOU IDIOTS TALKING ABOUT!

Did you read the fucking thread topic?

Hate_Breeder
01-22-2005, 11:04 PM
*Walks in*

What the fuck?

*Hits joint and stumbles outward*

Haphazard
01-23-2005, 05:55 AM
Originally posted by nine9
Holy shit! you sound like my ex! Sure wish he would just get over it all . You seem to know yourself pretty well. :)

Trust me...he WILL get over it.

No ONE person is that god damn important to waste your time/emotions on. (no offense).


Were you guys married?

Haphazard
01-23-2005, 05:56 AM
oops.

Didn't mean to double post. :mad:

urgeok
01-23-2005, 05:59 AM
Originally posted by Haphazard


No ONE person is that god damn important to waste your time/emotions on. (no offense).




not after it's over - anyway.

Haphazard
01-23-2005, 06:08 AM
Originally posted by urgeok
not after it's over - anyway.

'zactly.

And when you're together...you have to act like they are the most important thing. (well, I had to, at least).

Haphazard
01-23-2005, 06:13 AM
Originally posted by IDrinkYourBlood
To cheer myself up i go spit on the homeless.

HAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

Well, at least you are trying to clean them up a bit.

urgeok
01-23-2005, 06:23 AM
Originally posted by Haphazard
'zactly.

And when you're together...you have to act like they are the most important thing. (well, I had to, at least).


well, in all honesty if you are with the right person - that comes naturally ... until you have a kid .. then they become the focus :)

nine9
01-23-2005, 06:44 AM
Originally posted by Haphazard
Trust me...he WILL get over it.

No ONE person is that god damn important to waste your time/emotions on. (no offense).


Were you guys married?

Yes we were, and if I knew how much hassle it was to get out of a marriage would have never done it in the first place :rolleyes:

Haphazard
01-23-2005, 06:46 AM
Originally posted by urgeok
well, in all honesty if you are with the right person - that comes naturally ... until you have a kid .. then they become the focus :)

Agreed.

Well, I don't have any kids...but, I can see how the focus would shift.

But, it is truly all about being with the right person. Then nothing is forced.

Haphazard
01-23-2005, 06:49 AM
Originally posted by nine9
Yes we were, and if I knew how much hassle it was to get out of a marriage would have never done it in the first place :rolleyes:

But be glad that you did. There are so many people out there who remain unhappy just for the sake of not rocking the boat, or fear of uncertainty.

(or for the sake of kids, if they are involved).

nine9
01-23-2005, 06:52 AM
Originally posted by Haphazard
But be glad that you did. There are so many people out there who remain unhappy just for the sake of not rocking the boat, or fear of uncertainty.

(or for the sake of kids, if they are involved).

I am.
No kids involved just animals. That was hard enough. :(

urgeok
01-23-2005, 06:56 AM
Originally posted by nine9
I am.
No kids involved just animals. That was hard enough. :(


thats ok, you'll be getting a brand new animal soon !!!

:D

nine9
01-23-2005, 06:58 AM
Originally posted by urgeok
thats ok, you'll be getting a brand new animal soon !!!

:D

lol.........:p ;)

Spallalala
01-23-2005, 07:49 AM
Well I have never been dumped.. Only ever been with Cheeba.

I have only ever lost one person in my life and that was my dad, who died about 11 years ago. But I never really went through a sad stage with that, I just let it go. My brother helped me with it also, he took me ski-ing shortly after the funeral and because I was pretty young it didn't affect me that badly.

As for coping with things. Well music helps me heaps. I dont care what kinda music just anything. I also have a diary which I can let everything out. Just being on my own helps to. Having heaps of animals is a great thing too. They seem to know that something is up and wanna help ( I know that sounds stupid but I love my animals greatly).

allmykids
01-23-2005, 08:01 AM
Originally posted by The_Return
*Cue Music*

You're so vain, I bet you think this thread is about you...

^^^^^^^^^ That was funny!!

Angra
01-23-2005, 08:44 AM
Originally posted by IDrinkYourBlood
I usually listen to music, play guitar, watch movies or play PS2......So really nothing changes for me.



Sounds exactly like me. :)

Cool. :cool:

massacre man
01-23-2005, 08:56 AM
Originally posted by Hate_Breeder
*Walks in*

What the fuck?

*Hits joint and stumbles outward* get back here and fight STE

kpropain
01-23-2005, 09:03 AM
...

massacre man
01-23-2005, 09:07 AM
Originally posted by kpropain
... what's wrong with his arms?

kpropain
01-23-2005, 09:12 AM
Originally posted by massacre man
what's wrong with his arms?

I have no clue.

furballothrills
01-23-2005, 09:37 AM
that's a weird picture... we don't sound like we've been married for thirty years!

massacre man
01-23-2005, 09:41 AM
Originally posted by furballothrills
that's a weird picture... we don't sound like we've been married for thirty years! yes you do

furballothrills
01-23-2005, 09:47 AM
ahhh bite me

massacre man
01-23-2005, 09:50 AM
Originally posted by furballothrills
ahhh bite me see what we mean?

furballothrills
01-23-2005, 09:51 AM
In which way does that make me sound like I've been married for thirty years?

massacre man
01-23-2005, 09:52 AM
Originally posted by furballothrills
In which way does that make me sound like I've been married for thirty years? the arguing part

furballothrills
01-23-2005, 11:05 AM
I can't help that... I'm a pessimist.

Gren the cake
01-23-2005, 11:24 AM
too bad that hoax had already been done months ago

next time, try and be a little more original

BUT i will say, thankfully it was just fake, i was worried it was more chilluns arguin....

The_Return
01-23-2005, 11:35 AM
Originally posted by Gren the cake
too bad that hoax had already been done months ago

next time, try and be a little more original

BUT i will say, thankfully it was just fake, i was worried it was more chilluns arguin....

Ah, this was no rip off Fluff!

More of an hommage:p

Gren the cake
01-23-2005, 11:37 AM
ahhh i c. just... looked a bit too familiar!

shoulda done what kitty and friday13th did.. u know, all incoherent and childish and shit

but.. tou che ;)

meetthecreeper
01-23-2005, 12:18 PM
To bring the thread back to its origin of question, I used to drown my sorrows in alcohol and heavy sedating hallucinating narcotics. Now I use meditation........................................ ..or I kick the shit out of my dog, punch my woman in the head or take my 45 out and shoot someone. Mostly I just write down new and improved ways to take someones life.

massacre man
01-23-2005, 04:44 PM
Originally posted by furballothrills
I can't help that... I'm a pessimist. i don't care if you are from outer space

nine9
01-23-2005, 04:46 PM
Originally posted by massacre man
i don't care if you are from outer space

I'm sorry.................lolol..................LMAO I had to laugh at this. :p

Tat2
01-23-2005, 05:23 PM
If I don't go to the bar for several beers when something is bothering me to the point it pisses me off, then I will usually play a first person shooter (PC) like Doom III or Half-life. One of my favorite id Solider of Fortune because it has point of aim damage (ie, you shoot them in the shin w/ a shotgun, you blow their lower leg off). After killin' shit for a while...I feel better.

If it is a major thing or life changing, I'll get a Tattoo. By the time its finished, I feel much better!

Gren the cake
01-23-2005, 05:23 PM
i find that games arent enough and i have to beat living, breathing ass :)

furballothrills
01-23-2005, 05:50 PM
Originally posted by massacre man
i don't care if you are from outer space
Actually, if I were from outer space and showed up at your doorstep, you would most certainly care. Especially if I had a laser gun.

ItsAlive75
01-23-2005, 05:54 PM
When something's bothering me I usually play guitar really loudly and badly, so afterwards I can say "Well that sounded like shit" and then I can laugh at myself.

Although as of late I've been throwing candles at walls.

massacre man
01-23-2005, 05:55 PM
Originally posted by furballothrills
Actually, if I were from outer space and showed up at your doorstep, you would most certainly care. Especially if I had a laser gun. you won't i don't do drugs

furballothrills
01-24-2005, 05:21 AM
which would be why you would notice if an alien came to your door.

massacre man
01-24-2005, 08:26 AM
Originally posted by furballothrills
which would be why you would notice if an alien came to your door. if i was on drugs that would be the only way i would see an alien without sittin in a farm naked with a goat

The_Return
01-24-2005, 08:56 AM
Originally posted by massacre man
if i was on drugs that would be the only way i would see an alien without sittin in a farm naked with a goat

You meant that wasnt you I saw? Wow...

furballothrills
01-24-2005, 09:03 AM
Aw man, that's nasty!

massacre man
01-24-2005, 04:57 PM
Originally posted by The_Return
You meant that wasnt you I saw? Wow... yeah that was me that's how i know aliens come then

MisterSadistro
01-25-2005, 12:11 AM
Ah, this was no rip off Fluff!

More of an hommage
LOL ahhh you crazy kids
CK

LilMissScareAll
01-29-2005, 06:37 PM
In general, when something happens I'll cry alot, and get very depressed...actually...I'm always depressed.

As for death... I've lost one person close to me so far...my grandma...in late 2001. After she died I started having panic attacks in the night, and I couldn't sleep.

mothermold
01-29-2005, 11:02 PM
Originally posted by The_Return
When something upsetting happens in your life, how do you deal with it? Be it something relativly minor, like getting dumped or something, or be it something major, like having loved ones die?

Just wondering.


Btw, I go into denial usually. Pretend it doesnt bother me. Hey, it works, I always stay friends with my ex's, so I guess it works...

..to each his/her own.you deal with it,you get past it with whatever brings you contentment.i've had a two friends and an uncle die very recently and i've come to the conclusion...honor them,remember them and live your life.that's what they would want you to do.

EXTR3MIST
01-30-2005, 07:01 AM
Masturbation - nature's 5 minute pick-me-up.

orangestar
01-30-2005, 07:47 AM
With small things like getting dumped or a bad fight with a friend, I get really depressed about it, cry a lot, and stop eating for a few days. It's weird, being really really hungry makes me feel so much better. :confused:

Writing everything down helps me a lot too, but I dont do that often enough.

With bigger things, I act like it's no big deal. When my grandparents died, I never cried, I avoided seeing my dad because then he would cry, and I just went on with my life.

urgeok
01-30-2005, 07:59 AM
Originally posted by EXTR3MIST
Masturbation - nature's 5 minute pick-me-up.

thats twice you mentioned that ... you need a friend pal ! :D

besides .. arent you hit with post-manual manipulation blues after ?

EXTR3MIST
01-30-2005, 08:04 AM
I get over those by poking my bum.

My God you're right... I'm disgusting.

urgeok
01-30-2005, 08:08 AM
Originally posted by EXTR3MIST
I get over those by poking my bum.

My God you're right... I'm disgusting.


hey, who am i to judge a guy with a hobby !
at least you're not out beating seal pups to death ..


although with your developing arm muscles you'd be a bat weilding god on the ice floes !

Arioch
01-31-2005, 08:07 AM
I cope with music....work on my own and listen to others....bury myself in work.....ive never had to deal much with death however....except my dog.....and that sucked...

Gren the cake
01-31-2005, 11:15 AM
Originally posted by Arioch
ive never had to deal much with death however....except my dog.....and that sucked...
that it Does........................... really really does.....

furballothrills
01-31-2005, 03:38 PM
Originally posted by The_Return
Ok, anyway, I think this was about time to give this up.

We were chatting over MSN, and I suggested that we have a huge arugument on here, staged and everything. But now, I think it may have gone overboard [Somethings that Ive said, aswell as some from Furball], so this is a good time to REVEAL THE HOAX:p :p

Hope you all enjoyed the show;)
Damn that was fun... we didn't go overboard, we were making too personal stabs at each other. Massacre Man, your hosting sucked.

AUSTIN316426808
02-01-2005, 02:10 AM
I know this is childish as hell but if it's something minor I play a boxing or wrestling game on ps2 and just beat the living hell outta somebody online.

but if it's something serious like the time i was with my best friend on the planet of 12 years as he got the upper right portion of his body blown off by a 12 gauge I go into cleric mode and just don't feel a thing for however long it takes to get over the situation, I don't eat or sleep much, I don't go out, I don't talk to anybody. I just go about my everyday life like a monk.

massacre man
02-01-2005, 07:03 AM
Originally posted by furballothrills
Damn that was fun... we didn't go overboard, we were making too personal stabs at each other. Massacre Man, your hosting sucked. your just mad cuz you lost

furballothrills
02-01-2005, 07:47 AM
I didn't lose I won. You judged too quickly; neither of us were finished.

massacre man
02-01-2005, 04:59 PM
Originally posted by furballothrills
I didn't lose I won. You judged too quickly; neither of us were finished. i said you died now go away

furballothrills
02-01-2005, 05:00 PM
I'm not going away, I'm a zombie.

massacre man
02-01-2005, 05:03 PM
Originally posted by furballothrills
I'm not going away, I'm a zombie. hmmmm zombies read my sig STE vs Hate_Breeder

furballothrills
02-01-2005, 05:55 PM
lol, I want to fight again

Demonic Faces
02-01-2005, 06:21 PM
i play with my band, i hold free shows at the recreation place,

when i got dumped by my girlfriend sarah, i smashed an oil drum with a etal baseball bat,

when my tent got ripped apart by a grizzly last year, i shot it inthe head with a 12 gauge 6 times, i just bought that tent, and it had all my stuff in it

but usually when im not playin, i play x box, and practice with my bass guitar

bloodrayne
02-04-2005, 10:08 AM
I don't really have anything that I have to "cope" with...My life is pretty good...As long as my kids are healthy and happy, it's all good...If I ever DO need any sort of 'outlet', I just come here...Pretty simple...