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Old 01-22-2005, 02:48 PM
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How do you guys cope with stuff?

When something upsetting happens in your life, how do you deal with it? Be it something relativly minor, like getting dumped or something, or be it something major, like having loved ones die?

Just wondering.


Btw, I go into denial usually. Pretend it doesnt bother me. Hey, it works, I always stay friends with my ex's, so I guess it works...
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Old 01-22-2005, 03:16 PM
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I stop doing stuff.

I have had a loved one, who was very close to me die, and I was there when it happened.

For the next few years, I was on this earth, but was not living. Weekends would be spent at home alone when friends would be out having fun. I had no desire or energy to socialise with anyone. School became the least of my worries and then after that the same was true with work.

It was something like 5 years later that I realised that 'not living' was not helping anyone and started to make an effort with friends and going out etc.

When the minor things happen I do the same thing, just retreat from everything and everyone for a while - but for nowhere near as long. Just usually for a few days.
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Old 01-22-2005, 03:45 PM
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Old 01-22-2005, 04:27 PM
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I usually listen to music, play guitar, watch movies or play PS2......So really nothing changes for me.
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Old 01-22-2005, 05:00 PM
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deal with it for a bit, do somethign else. every so often gotta deal with it again (like, grieving) but its healthy that way. u oknw, instead of bottlin shit in or resorting to drugs/alcohol/murdering people
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Old 01-22-2005, 05:15 PM
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I shrug it off while bottling up all emotion deep inside
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Old 01-22-2005, 05:46 PM
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I shrug it off while bottling up all emotion deep inside
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i touch myself
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Old 01-22-2005, 06:22 PM
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I used to smoke TONS of weed and pop pain killers like candy.

but after 5 years of wasting my life doing that, I missed feeling emotions that make you feel alive.

But I still pop valium from time to time, "Makes you feel good" :D
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Old 01-22-2005, 06:47 PM
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Deal with it in the ways that you can, take your mind off of it and do something fun.
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Old 01-22-2005, 06:56 PM
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