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I'm going to assume you really have no interest in him and you need to be more assertive. You're hurting both yourself and him by not setting boundaries. May I strongly suggest you take assertiveness training, which is very effective, or at least read the excellent training book, "Your Perfect Right". To your immediate situation: in each situation, or any future one, take him aside privately (if possible, like a stairwell) and tell him his hugging you without permission was unwelcome, inappropriate and to never do it again. Say it in a professional manner. You and he knows HR is on your side. But if you don't tell him you're not interested (and telling him it's inappropriate will do that), he'll likely continue to pursue you. |
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Well Sculpt, the only reason I pulled my mask down is really because I just wanted out of there. After he hugged me he took off & it just kinda happened fast. The next day he said he's nice to everyone & people often take it the wrong way, so I didn't know if I was just misunderstanding him or not. I didn't want to overreact. Unfortunately I've just transferred hospitals not too long ago, & I've been really depressed since then. I was having problems & nobody did anything about it. HR is a joke. They just acted like they wanted the problem over with immediately. Nobody would listen to me. I'm already under enough pressure as it is trying to get settled, I didn't want to create any problems for myself being new and all.
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Hit the man.
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Sure miss Dead Bad Things.
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Me too. I hope he's ok. I know he was struggling after his wife's death.
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Speaking of other members I haven't seen, is Michael Myers still around??
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Haven't seen him in a long time
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Rest in peace, fella.
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Besides the members mentioned above, I miss anglewitch, horcrux2007, Repo'd! and Elvis_Christ but he does pop in from time to time.
Always lovely to see SerialKiller posting again.
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