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Originally posted by Angra
What makes you think that YOU have to change personality or watch what you´re saying?
I mean, you´ve never seemed offensive or like a bitchy troublemaker to me?
In which way do you feel you´ve been forced to change? Give me an example.
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I have gotten a few comments on my posts.
And they were taking what I said wayyyyy wrong.
Sometimes what I consider witty banter comes across as flirty.
I didn't realize that being nice was also being flirty in here.....but that about sums up what I mean,I have to edit myself because it sounds differently on the screen than in my mind.
I DO flirt in real life and there's a FINE FINE line you cannot dare cross:D
It is almost an art,because there is energy,body language,eye contact etc etc.,when to say what,how to give That Look,body postions,when to pull back energy because the FINE line starts coming up.....It can be complicated or simple.
And it is nice for someone as OLD as me to have that attention from time to time:D